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Brand New LGBTQ+ SC Taglist
by Tazzie
Last post
 April 7th
...See more This thread controls an auto-updating taglist. To see the current list, go to Brand New LGBTQ+ SC Taglist [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/taglist?d17cde0a21c5d3b86fca178bd4197012]. To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words Please add me. To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words, Please remove me. 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LGBTQ+ Chatroom Weekly Discussions - Masterpost
by KateDoskocilova
Last post
 February 12th
...See more hello everyone :) this thread will be used by the community's leader(s) to share the week's upcoming discussions! subscribe to be one of the first to know about each week's discussions!
LGBTQ+ Chatroom Feedback - Masterpost
by KateDoskocilova
Last post
 June 1st, 2023
...See more hello hello everyone! today we're here to share some feedback from people participating in our chatroom discussions :) feedback for @Rubylistens22: warm and welcoming host, not too many questions/not too long feedback for @EmotionsListener: I didn't know the word 'gatekeeping' before, but I knew of its devastating effects on the LGBTQ+ community, how it separates us instead of uniting us. It was good to talk about what labels are meant to be for, not what they are often used for currently. feedback for @KateDoskocilova: Kind host, cool questions, informative and thoughtful  feedback for @Jefferythebunny319: We got a bunch of cookies and I also learned a lot thank you all for the wonderful feedback and for supporting the effort the team puts in holding events and discussions! wanna join the room? click here [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=mGlmdHydmeJO45maWVqV]! wanna keep up with the schedule of discussions? click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/CommunityCulture_2541/LGBTQChatroomWeeklyDiscussionsMasterpost_305197/]!
Where are enby’s? - lil rant story
by Marz222
Last post
 7 hours ago
...See more Hi guys I’m a non binary kid who has come out a little while ago and I’m look for some other non binary ppl that I could talk to or hear stories from. So I came out as non binary to my family maybe a month or more ago. My dad was the only one who wasn’t accepting. He thinks it’s a faze but anyways I’ll move on. Ive been feeling a lot of dysphoria, especially about my chest and I’ve never met anyone else who was non binary so I don’t really have anyone to teach me and look up too. So I’m calling on all enby people, young and old, who have stories, tips, or just want to chat with others like them.  So what ever you are feeling right now, feel free to reply and have a great day. Sending warm regards to all of you they friends :> -Marz
I think i'm aro/ace
by ShinyRock
Last post
 7 hours ago
...See more I currently identify as a lesbian, but im starting to think im not actually. like it feels like i'm forcing myself to be interested in people and relationships. I have always been someone who dislikes physical touch and is really bad at showing romantic feelings, but whenever i do do it, it feels like im just putting on a show for everyone. Like im trying to prove that i am capable of it. At first i thought it was just because i didnt like guys so i came out as bi and then eventually got enough courage to say lesbian, but i still feel the same way. I still feel like im just putting on an act and forcing myself to show romantic attraction to people. I have never had a celebrity crush either, it just felt weird.  All that make me think that i am aroace. HOWEVER, I really want a relationship and to do ykw but i dont think i would be able to do it comfortably. So the problem is that i dont really know if i am in fact aroace, or if im a lesbian or just a really anxious/awkward bisexual. So i was wondering if there are any aro/ace people who give me some advice, or someone who can help in anyway. Thank you <3
Am I a bad Christian?
by RUMBUM
Last post
 22 hours ago
...See more I am a 13-year-old transgender man who is also bisexual. I have been going to a catholic school since I was a toddler. I knew I was young since I was gay since I was a little kid and just recently found out I was trans. I have been faced with a lot of homophobia since I was little but always ignored it until recently. I have been told that being gay is a sin. That being trans will put me to *** and a bunch of other religious homophobic and transphobic stuff. Because of the stuff people tell me I have grown a slight hatred to the Christian religion. But I also don't want to go to ***. I have tried praying to God to be straight and cis but nothing works so can someone tell me if I'm being a bad person or not?
Potentially on the Asexual Spectrum????
by cresentrose2811
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more I have recently realized that I think I am on the asexual spectrum. I think I have known it for a long time now but I have always suppressed the idea of it because the definition of it I was finding only seemed half accurate plus a previous partner of mine very much helped convince me I wasn't because of how much we... Interacted... With each other in that way.  I have never had an issue with having sex in general. I even used to enjoy it more often than not. Granted I was younger and very hormonal at that time and age.  Now I am 21 and sex seems amazing and fun in theory and in thought but in application it is just annoying and rarely pleasureable.  I started researching this and found the term: Aegosexual which refers to people who. experience a disconnect between themselves and the topic of arousal.  I am still not 100% sure if this right for me but finding the term at least gave me what I needed to be able to explain how I have been feeling to my partner. 
Hi
by KranialAktivity92
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more Hi, I'm new on here. I identify as masc les. What about you guys?
Tell me one of your unique life experiences ✨️
by freshman12
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more
Last one to post in this thread wins!!!
by AlexFox800
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more You see the title. Anything goes in the comments, just try to be the last one standing!
Just venting
by KranialAktivity
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more Hi, I'm currently in a relationship. Going on 8yrs actually, and I love my partner. Lately I've been feeling very down because she would like to have children, and I being a woman myself cannot help her achieve that. Makes me feel *** and useless. 
How do I find someone to talk to about all this? Confused.
by confusedsubmark
Last post
 3 days ago
...See more I was born male and still am but I've been so confused lately. This has happened to me in the past but I've never had anyone to talk to about it. How do I find someone to talk to? I know this is a community forum. But I just want something private. Someone who I can talk to regularly and share what's on my mind. 
Help Finding Other Lesbians? :,(
by MikalaC234
Last post
 3 days ago
...See more Hi! I’m 18 and openly gay. However, now that I’m an adult and not at an arts school anymore (where there were plenty of LGBT+ peeps), I don’t know where to find other people like me. I wish I had more LGBT people to talk to, especially lesbians. I’m looking for a relationship, and I am having so much trouble finding lesbians (bisexuals, etc) in person. I don’t know which dating sites are safe and LGBT-affirming. Any suggestions? I’m also okay with online friends who are around my age, anyone want to be friends?
Trans poem again… kinda emo
by RUMBUM
Last post
 Monday
...See more I made another poem to post this might be a little emo bc I am an emo 13 year old but idc I am safe nowhere Can someone please care In my school Being transphobic is cool Wait! It’s not transphobic Its a joke don’t you get it  In the streets  I might get beat  If I say who I am Their guns take aim In my home I can be disowned  I will face torment I don’t want to be a statistic  No one to talk to about it Friends Teachers Parents Can’t talk to my friends If I do I might end Can’t talk to my teachers If I do they’re offenders Cant talk to my parents  If I do they will say get over it Nowhere is safe for us No one around to trust
poems i made about trans/transmasc struggles
by RUMBUM
Last post
 Sunday
...See more Idk if anyone cares or if these are even good but here 1 of my original poems. If you want more just ask. Why am I such a threat I thought I was something to protect You say that you can help But all you really want is wealth You are always lying You leave me crying Trying to kill my community Leave us with no opportunity Many want me to be killed in cold blood Even though I am still young Too many trying to take away our rights It is a never ending fight It may have been worse back then But life feels like Satan’s playpen Numerous die in the winless war But that won’t leave me ignored You say that I need saving I need saving from this crazy                                                                                               

LGBTQ+/MOGII Support

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Welcome to LGBTQ+/MOGII Support! We are so pleased that you have found our little rainbow here in the 7 cups forums. Our community is here to support you as an LGBTQ+/MOGII person, family member, friend and/or ally. Whether you are curious and questioning, or out and proud, and all the stages in between, this is a place where you can find support in being who you are and coping with the challenges that come with it. We strive to keep this a safe space for all. Here you can discuss anything and everything related to the LGBTQ+/MOGII community and being LGBTQ+/MOGII.


What are the different forum topics for LGBTQ+/MOGII Support?

Asexual Umbrella Support: Got a question or want to share more about asexuality? Explore more here!

Checking in and breaking the ice: A place for you to introduce yourself, take part in our community check-ins and get to know other community members by participating in fun games!

Community & Culture: Want to know more about the LGBTQ+/MOGII community and cultural contributions? This is the place to learn more!

Discussions and Resources: Want to participate in meaningful discussions and access additional resources? Join in here!

Gay Support: Got a question or want to share more about being gay? Uncover more here!

Gender Identity Support: Questioning your gender identity? Want to share your experiences? Discuss it here!

Intersex Support: Got a question or want to share more about being intersex? Learn more here!

LGBTQ+ General Support:  Struggling with other issues as an LGBTQ+/MOGII person? Working to cope with issues impacting the wider LGBTQ+/MOGII community? Find more support here! 

Lesbian Support: Got a question or want to share more about being a lesbian? Share your experiences here!

Multisexual Umbrella Support: Got a question or want to share more about multisexuality? Discuss more here!

Questioning & Coming Out: Are you questioning? Thinking about coming out? Maybe you already have? Share your struggles and stories here!


How can I heIp?

You can help us by simply responding to threads and sharing your story (if you're comfortable to). Alternatively, you may wish to join us as a Forum Leader. Check out this thread for more information. Even just participating in events, check-ins and group chats can be a great way to help build and support the community!


Helpful Threads

Taglist: Do you want to stay up to date with our community? Then join our taglist to be notified every time a new discussion or update is posted!


LGBTQ+/MOGII Suppoort Q&A

Are there any sub-community specific guidelines that we need to adhere to? All sub-community specific guidelines can be found below and should be followed in addition to the general forum guidelines.


Help… I still have a question!

You can ask your questions in this thread and someone will respond to you as soon as possible.
Community Guidelines

1) Be kind & open minded at all times!

2) Do not impose any beliefs onto another in any harmful way!

3) Please don't express judgments or attack anyone within the community!

4) Please respect each other's gender, pronouns, sexual orientation, identities in general!

 

Read the 7 Cups Guidelines
Community Leaders
Forum Supporter
@Bunnylovesyou
Group Support Mentor / Teen Star
@EmotionsListener
Chatroom Moderator
@CaringSub
@EmotionsListener
@niamh333
Room Supporter
@azuladragon34
On Self-Care Break
@Bunnylovesyou
Community Resources

1. Abuse, Violence, Discrimination & Safety

(Abuse guides and resources, violence prevention and staying safe, normativity, discrimination, privilege)

2. Allies, Families & Friends

(Resources for allies, caregivers, families, organisations, communities, schools...)

3. Asexual & Aromantic Spectrum

(Resources, guides and websites, finding your identity, gray-asexuality and demisexuality)

4. Coming Out

(Resources for you before, while and after coming out)

5. Emergency & Crisis Resources

(Helplines, hotlines, emergency numbers, crisis information)

6. Gender Expression

(Understanding gender expression, feminising, masculising & binding, names and pronouns)

7. Gender Identity

(Understanding and finding gender and gender identity, gender terminology and glossaries)

8. Health, Dysphoria & Transitioning

(Gender Dysphoria help, transitioning resources, LGBTQ+ health information)

9. Religion

(LGBTQ+ supportive religious resources by denomination)

10. Sex Diversity & Intersex

(Understanding sex diversity and intersex, resoruces)

11. Sexual & Romantic Orientations

(Understanding attraction and orientation, finding and accepting your identity, gay, lesbian, bi, pan resources)

12. Workplace & Education

(Being LGBTQ+, coming out at and seeking work, university or school)

13. Trans Resources

(Resourses for the Trans community)


Full LGBTQIA+ Resource Spreadsheet