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1980friend
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Number of ratings89 Number of reviews15 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Cantonese, Chinese, Malay Listener sinceJan 10, 2015 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 704 People helped259 Chats829 Forum posts1
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I believe we all have dual personality ... a part of us wants to be kind and helpful, but the other part is struggling when we do mean things. I am no different than you.

Life is conditioned and ever changing. Nothing stays and nothing belongs to us and yet, when we try to grasp tightly, like sand it will fell to the ground.

I am divorced with two boys, had another relationship and yet fell into a deeper hole, had to send my twins for adoption and my dad passed away from depression. I feel that I had that in me too.

But something makes me stronger, that is by listening or sharing some advices to others when they needed it.

Feel free to drop me a message, and I shall try to be there for you.

FIGHTING!

Here's a common story that is my all time fav

"One day a father and his rich family took his son to a trip to the country with the firm purpose to show him how poor people can be. They spent a day and a night in the farm of a very poor family. When they got back from their trip the father asked his son, “How was the trip?”

“Very good Dad!” replied his son.

“Did you see how poor people can be?” the father asked.

“Yeah!”

“And what did you learn”

The son answered, “I saw that we have a dog at home, and they have four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of the garden; they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lamps in the garden; they have the stars. Our patio reaches to the front yard, they have a whole horizon.”

When the little boy was finishing, his father was speechless. His son added, “Thanks Dad for showing me how poor we are!”

Our outlook on life depends on the way you look at things. What others may think as riches, others may want. The most important things in life are your friends, family, health, good humor and a positive attitude towards life. If you have these then you have everything!"

Feedback & Reviews
Great Listener
kind, honest, and helpful; gives great suggestions and her opinions and perspectives are realistic and well thought out :)
A very good listener. Knows what to ask so that i wouldn’t stray off.
great listener
She does not judge and is very supportive. Feels good to talk to her! :)
She helped me chose, a great choice.
Nice guy
Its great, nice an easy, no hassle, no fuzz
really devoted listener
Greatt help
I just started having a convo..feels hood
This listener was amazing
I have only jist started using this but 1980friend seems to understand and is great at listening :)
Helpful.
Supportive.
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