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Ar2018 |
Listener - Proficient 1

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Hello smileyWelcome!

I am an experienced listener that is a bit older then the majority on here. (I am over 40) My experience is through a varity of trainings and life experiences and challenges. I am a more direct listener and like to get to the source of what brings you on....I do not engage in prewritten scripts, I much rather prefer real conversations that are one on one and in present time. My sessions of time are between 15-60 minutes and are blocked out for my time online. The green light means I am on and available to means I am already engaging in a chat so unable to provide a one on one session for that moment. I do have long term members and am able to take on a couple more. 

Here is what I am unable to help you with:

I am not available for lonely or depressive challenges. I also will not engage in sexual conversations, there are other types of sites for that and 7 cups of Tea is not for that. Please be resepctful. 

Thank you! 

"When words are both true and kind, they can change the world" Buddha

Mindful breathing exercise:




I do not have inappropriate chats/sexually explicit CLEAN CHATS ONLY






My online times are generally blocked for 15-60 min at a time. yes

Number of Ratings: 264
Number of Reviews: 115
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Jan 11, 2018
Last Active in last month
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 485
Cheers 99,765
People Helped 646
Chats 1,214
Group Support Chats 0
Listener Group Chats 0
Forum Posts 79
Forum Upvotes 140
Feedback & Reviews
Very good listener.
The conversation really helped me
good to talk to
good listener, I like the conversation so far
right off the start, amazing and understanding listner
We got straight to the heart of the issue and worked it out. I feel so much better! Thank you so much for listening!
Good listener, made me feel heard
Such an amazing person and so helpful
I'm glad I chatted with Ar2018. I felt better after getting a few things off my chest. I feel like I can make it to the end of my work day.
Everything was great
at first i had trouble connecting to them but when we found something we related on, they helped me so much and provided me with advice, links, and resources to help me
Excellent responses, great advice.
very kind and helpful, gave honest advice
Super authentic and helpful listener who cares :)
Very good at understanding how I'm feeling
the support is great its good to talk to someone
I was a difficult case, and she handled things well. She put thought and effort in acknowledging and understanding a complex situation that left very little room for growth. She genuinely tried to underline what she felt was the right way to go, and validated my feelings in the process. I owe you many thanks, I needed to vent, and you helped me feel lighter and express my intimate, selfish feelings.
They are amazing :)
Great listener, very empathetic and understanding
Great help and willing to make me think outside my box
She helps "ground" me back to earth
Good listener.
Helped me get to my answers by myself
Very helpful and the best advice i received!
Extremely helpful, insightful and a great listener.
Great help and truley genuine and caring
The best one i've came across to. Very helpful!
Responded very quickly with kind words. Very professional.
I felt heard through our whole conversation. She let me just get out what was on my mind and helped me feel better. :)
Very helpful and gave great advice
She is a good listener, and asks good questions. She made me feel safe quickly, and I was able to share without feeling judged.
So supportive
Knowledge and supportive.
She is absolutely fantastic!!!
really good listener
They were great, thanks.
A pleasure
great listener
great person and listener
Great listener and gave practical feedback. Best listener that I've spoke with so far. Thanks!!
It has been invaluable just being able to speak to someone
Very helpful
Very kind
thank you for your responsiveness and for giving me good advice. I appreciate it
Thank you so much for your compassion
Very helpful, really helped me clear my confusion
The most lovely listener I've come across.
Really helped!
Good listener
Thank you for listening.. I ll accept what you said .. n behave my self
good advice
Great person
Awesome listener! Amazing feedback made me feel a lot better in how to approach my situation. Thank you!
Was very kind
She made me feel so much better, and that she made me realize so many things.
Shes a big help
Magic. I went through several listeners, about to give up... Ar2018 took me from hopeless to hopeful in under an hour. And I'm a commited grump.
She has a heart for everything.. Very helpful to my situation. Thank you
So helpful she was very very very good
Comforting and engaging and helpful
She really helps me when I needed answers for my problem. great listener!
Really good :)
Good advise
Best listener I've ever met on here.
She is so very nice kind and compassionate. Thank you so very very much Ar2018. You are very much appreciated..
wonderful listener and very kind, im so glad i found her.
very kind and helpful
She’s absolutely wonderful. Very kind and understanding. She genuinely helped me this evening.
Helpful as much as possible
A very helpful listener. Takes the time to listen to your concerns and offers a thoughtful response. Thanks again.. i really appreciate it Ar2018.
Very helpful.
Great Listener. Very Helpful
Fantastic. Very patient but also direct. Didn't handle me with kid gloves and hit me with realness but all in a positive manner.
She is an amazing person.
Best listener I've had thus far!
A very helpful person.
Great listener and caring
Thanks Ar, I am greatful
good listener, takes her time and tries to help you
The absolute best, a sweetheart
Very kind and thoughtful.
good one
Amazing listener - well-spoken, rational, helpful, and amazing in every way. Will definitely be back. Thank you!
Thanks for chatting. Good listener.
Thank you for understanding.
Fantastic and patient listener. Nothing but positive vibes and great words of wisdom.
Excellent listener
She is amazing, she calm you and help you to understand what is happening
Awesome listener who is really sincere in helping
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