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Ar2018 |
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~ Please read my profile before you request a chat, to make sure we are a good fit~


I am an experienced listener - I am over 40 and  my experience is through a varity of trainings, life  and challenges. I am a more direct listener and like to get to the source of what brings you on....I do not engage in prewritten scripts~ I much rather prefer real conversations that are one on one and in present time. I do have long term members and am able to take on a couple more.

A few chats I am currently not able to take right now:
*Depression & loneliness
Thank you for understanding ( We have amazing listeners that can take these types of chats and are a much better fit for your needs )

NO sexting no

Thank you! 

"When words are both true and kind, they can change the world" Buddha

Mindful breathing exercise:




I do not have inappropriate chats/sexually explicit CLEAN CHATS ONLY






My online times are generally blocked for 15-60 min at a time. yes

Number of Ratings: 430
Number of Reviews: 141
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Jan 11, 2018
Last Active in last week
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 583
Cheers 114,630
People Helped 770
Chats 1,375
Group Support Chats 0
Listener Group Chats 0
Forum Posts 79
Forum Upvotes 140
Feedback & Reviews
I gained a different perspective about the issued that I had been facing.
Great listener! Told me about how my situation really was and made me think of it in a different perspective. Super nice and caring!
She's attentive.
She is asking in depth questions that make me think and seems to be taking time to think through my answers
Good listener and interactive with you! Thank you!
Kinda cool and she knows what she's doing :)
She was a good listener. I would give her 2 thumbs up.
Great listener glad someone is listening to me
Super authentic person to speak to, Wise :)
Wonderful to chat with, highly recommended
Loved it! Great listener. Thoughtful responses
loved it! awesome chat!
Pinpointed my troubles, and helped me out.
Good support. Fast answers. Thanks for listening.
She’s a good listener. She picks up her words so wisely and can send it to you very precisely.
Excellent listener. And gave good feedback! 10/10 would chat again.
Very helpful. Made me see things with a different perspective
Seems like a good listener
Very helpful, understanding, lots of good points and ideas, helped me gain a different view of what I am going through
Great listener and supporter! She is honest and goes straight to the point! Thank you for all your support! That means a lot!
Got right too it and offered some real solid advice
Great listener and great feedback
She is really good at what she does, left me speechless
Very kind, thanks!
She was so helpful! Was my first chat experience on 7 Cups and she was so warm and made me feel immediately better with her non judgemental words, really felt like a calm listening ear, just what I needed! And some great recommendations for talks / resources in line with my interests - thank you so much! x
Such a thoughtful and kind listener. I felt like I was truly understood as I was feeling so upset and worried. She was a very compassionate listener with a huge heart of kindness. Thank you for supporting me. ♥️
Very good listener.
The conversation really helped me
good to talk to
good listener, I like the conversation so far
right off the start, amazing and understanding listner
We got straight to the heart of the issue and worked it out. I feel so much better! Thank you so much for listening!
Good listener, made me feel heard
Such an amazing person and so helpful
I'm glad I chatted with Ar2018. I felt better after getting a few things off my chest. I feel like I can make it to the end of my work day.
Everything was great
at first i had trouble connecting to them but when we found something we related on, they helped me so much and provided me with advice, links, and resources to help me
Excellent responses, great advice.
very kind and helpful, gave honest advice
Super authentic and helpful listener who cares :)
Very good at understanding how I'm feeling
the support is great its good to talk to someone
I was a difficult case, and she handled things well. She put thought and effort in acknowledging and understanding a complex situation that left very little room for growth. She genuinely tried to underline what she felt was the right way to go, and validated my feelings in the process. I owe you many thanks, I needed to vent, and you helped me feel lighter and express my intimate, selfish feelings.
They are amazing :)
Great listener, very empathetic and understanding
Great help and willing to make me think outside my box
She helps "ground" me back to earth
Good listener.
Helped me get to my answers by myself
Very helpful and the best advice i received!
Extremely helpful, insightful and a great listener.
Great help and truley genuine and caring
The best one i've came across to. Very helpful!
Responded very quickly with kind words. Very professional.
I felt heard through our whole conversation. She let me just get out what was on my mind and helped me feel better. :)
Very helpful and gave great advice
She is a good listener, and asks good questions. She made me feel safe quickly, and I was able to share without feeling judged.
So supportive
Knowledge and supportive.
She is absolutely fantastic!!!
really good listener
They were great, thanks.
A pleasure
great listener
great person and listener
Great listener and gave practical feedback. Best listener that I've spoke with so far. Thanks!!
It has been invaluable just being able to speak to someone
Very helpful
Very kind
thank you for your responsiveness and for giving me good advice. I appreciate it
Thank you so much for your compassion
Very helpful, really helped me clear my confusion
The most lovely listener I've come across.
Really helped!
Good listener
Thank you for listening.. I ll accept what you said .. n behave my self
good advice
Great person
Awesome listener! Amazing feedback made me feel a lot better in how to approach my situation. Thank you!
Was very kind
She made me feel so much better, and that she made me realize so many things.
Shes a big help
Magic. I went through several listeners, about to give up... Ar2018 took me from hopeless to hopeful in under an hour. And I'm a commited grump.
She has a heart for everything.. Very helpful to my situation. Thank you
So helpful she was very very very good
Comforting and engaging and helpful
She really helps me when I needed answers for my problem. great listener!
Really good :)
Good advise
Best listener I've ever met on here.
She is so very nice kind and compassionate. Thank you so very very much Ar2018. You are very much appreciated..
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