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Aubrynn
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PathStep 161 Compassion hearts735 Forum posts135 Forum upvotes219 Current upvotes219 Age GroupAdult Last activeDecember, 2020 Member sinceMarch 13, 2018
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hai there!
i’m aubrynn, nice to meet’oo, and i’m obsessed wiffs paintin mah nails black holo :3 glad’s yo’s comes ons 7 cuppies and bean strong, so *gives u snugs* i'ms so happies 2 be heers as det meens i can help maiselves and others! liek, yo'no, put sum bunnies and rainbows into yo braens :D if'oo wants to chat wiffs me, feels free to buts yo prolly can't cus i'm onliesa member. ^-^’ o’s ands i’m mostly in anxiety support room buts might sometimes pop up in other roomies. imma forum friendly pizza supportur for anxiety and around da wurld community <3 i wills never judgies wutsever yo’s gotsu say. okie? okie. ._.’ o’s. lubs niceys peoples.
take careos, aubrynn


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Icebreaker: If you could be a plant...
Around the World / by Aubrynn
Last post
 May 14th, 2018
...See more what plant would you be and why? where is this plant found? for me, it's a cactus - i really, really like cacti, they're so cute to me :3 you can find it in a desert. how about you? :D
Tips on Finding a Perfect Listener
Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by Aubrynn
Last post
 March 20th, 2018
...See more Excuse me if I put this in the wrong section. If I did, feel free to move it to another section or another forum. I noticed a huge problem the other day. It is really, really hard to find that perfect, understandable, lovely listener that the site promises to open gates to. That's when I realised... Aubrynn needs to find some way... To FINALLY end this. Introducing... Aubrynn Da Pizza's Ultimate Guide to Finding a Perfect Listener as a member! Below are some tips I use in order to find the perfect listener..! 1. Choose a category. As simple as this sounds, when we first came, we all clicked that CONNECT NOW button first. (At least, for those chats that weren't in 2013. The button probably didn't exist. Or something. Maybe we should ask @GlenM about that. But anyway, that's not something that matters.) When you choose a category (e.g. Addiction, ADHD, Bullying, Depression, Chronic Pain, Grief, etc) from the stack of choices from Noni, Listeners who are more adapted to taking chats on that topic and are more suitable and experienced on that topic will take your chat. Apart from that, if you don't put a category, it's a bit like biting in a piece of chocolate not knowing what the inside is. Or eating a sandwich that you don't know what is in there. Either way, by doing that, your chat may be accepted quicker or a preferred chat. Apart from that, a listener more suited to your situation and more helpful will be able to link up with you. Believe it or not, clicking on a category helped me change my waiting time from a full half an hour (until I gave up) to 30 seconds - I am NOT lying. 2. Use the Browse Listeners [http://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners] button. We were taught by our teachers that we are the ones that know ourselves best. We know what's good for us, what will make us cringe and what will not. We know ourselves because of experience. That's why you should Browse Listeners. Insert some keywords. If you're looking to chat in a specific language, filter that. Browse a specific topic. Find a listener that is perfect for you. Read their bios. Do their age and tone of their bio seem nice? What reviews have they got? You can see it like that. 3. Verified Listeners. Ooh. Who are they? There's around 6000-7000 verified listeners right now, and the number is growing as the Verifiers Team led by @PolarCat and other leaders are working to get more listeners verified! You may wonder what it takes to be verified. Ooh, let me tell you about that too! Verified listeners have to be professional, compassionate, resourceful, empathetic, helpful and respond within minutes if they're online. They usually are better listeners, as they have completed a mock chat with a verifier beforehand... meaning that they're probably a great listener! When finding a listener in Browse Listeners, check the Verified Listener button and you'll be able to find them. 4. Join in Group Support Chats. I've witnessed this several times - listeners who are for that specific topic usually hangs out there. If they seem to be nice and a perfect match, that's alright then! Ping them and see if they're available to chat or schedule a chat. Drop a message saying, 'Hey there, I saw you in the group support room and I was wondering if you could support me on the topic of ____ since you sound like a great listener.' or anything you want. Either way, don't fret. You will find that perfect listener. 5. Be Grateful and Patient. This is probably the biggest tip of all. Listeners are volunteers but unfortunately, loads of members are hateful and rude. It's important to remind ourselves to appreciate them and to care about them too. Be nice to them and tell them you're thankful. Drop a message and let them know they made your day! Be patient - it's hard to find that perfect listener. If this one doesn't reply soon, just wait for the reply. If not, ping a few others. Don't give up. Find that perfect listener eventually. And that wraps up Aubrynn's official guide in finding a perfect listener! Got any addition to my thoughts? Feel free to share below! Tagging random people I have never talked to because, why not... and some that I have talked to. @steadfaststatue @bunnypants @caringbrit @laura @kate @davemcgrath @irishcat @danamh @eccho @hope @power @asilentobserver @bouncyfriend13 @mintleaf @erato @ailurablaze @soundkind36 @kyliek @heatherfeatherc @kindstephen
Hi All, Vent here
Depression Support / by Aubrynn
Last post
 May 10th, 2018
...See more Place for everyone to vent
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