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Listener - Guru 9

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5.0 star rating
Hi there! My name is Kayla, I'm from Georgia in the US. I have been here for over 5 years now. Feel free to talk to me about anything! I am here for you. The chats I take and my discussion schedule are listed below 





******I take chats on ADHD, Breakups, Bullying, College Life, Disabilities, Exercise Motivation, Family Stress, Forgiveness, Grief, LGBTQ+, Parenting, Perinatal Mood Disorder, and PTSD/Trauma******

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Why I Joined As A Listener: 

I have been through a lot in my life and I used to be that person who just needed someone to talk to. I joined because I wanted to be the person there for those who need a listening ear and some compassion. We all come from different walks of life. We have different experiences. And I want to support everyone who comes to me. 

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I am most familiar with Traumatic Experiences as I have been through one in my life so I can relate to you. If you are in need to talk to someone about rape, feel free to message me because I know exactly where you have been. Please feel free to personal request me if you are here for a Traumatic Experience. I have both been through and had friends who went through suicide and bullying, and many other things so I can help you. I identify with people. I also listen and give advice if you want it. I want to make a difference in your life, and my goal is to either put a smile on your face or at least have you leaving the chat feeling better than when you came to me. 

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   I am available to talk normally around 9am EDT - 2pm EDT and 12am EDT - 4am EDT time. If you message me while I am not online, I will get back to you as soon as I can. :) <3 Remember that you are loved and appreciated. :D I am here for you.   

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Number of Ratings: 191
Number of Reviews: 63
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Mar 11, 2015
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 502
Cheers 125,827
People Helped 255
Chats 1,008
Group Support Chats 633
Listener Group Chats 170
Forum Posts 544
Forum Upvotes 474
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Feedback & Reviews
She is the absolute best! She is such a great listener and always has some of the best advice and insi
She is very kind and thoughtful.
Listens and gives encouraging words
Amazing and sweet. Very caring. Will definitely talk to again
amazing life saving kind and sweet
Good at giving advice
Best ever listener
Great chatter, fast replies and willing to listen to difficult issues.
She was absolutely amazing. Super helpful and so compassionate.
She's really sweet and a great listener
Okay, Bella20 is hands-down one of the most amazing, supportive and caring listeners I've had the pleasure of meeting on here. This is no exaggeration. Even though I've only known her for a short while, she's taught me so so much. She's incredibly kind and compassionate, and just has such a large and amazing heart. *hugs* You are amazing -- never doubt that. Thank you for everything. 💕
she is absolutely awesome! she's helped me get through so much and doesn't give up on trying to help. i know i have someone i can talk to without feeling judged or anything like that. all around a wonderful person
Love her! She always makes me feel better and has great advice when I ask her for help. Very kind and thoughtful. Couldn't tell her how grateful I am for everything she's done. 5 billion stars
Stay beautiful love. You are braver than you feel, smarter than you think, and more
Saved my life!!!! Thx Kayla ❤❤
very supportive always helps whenever i need
She is literally the best!
the most amazing listener!!!!! always supportive and never judges me. i love talking with her because she always makes me feel better! i give a million stars
All around great person, love talking with her. Has always helped me with my problems
I love her! She is incredibly helpful and is never judgmental. She is the best listener and has great advice.
she is very professional and a great listener, would give ten stars if i could
Kayla is amazing and so helpful!!!!
She is the best and I appreciate her so much. I love her as a human being, shes special and unique. 5 stars! - Jake
She's sweet and kind, despite me being a difficult person to talk to
Thank you
Shes great
She is such an amazing, kind, and very nice person. I am so glad that I found her, she was great at understanding me and listening, and just being there really. I felt like I was speaking to someone I could relate to as well, she listened really well and made me feel important and gave great advice. I would definitely recommend her as a listener for anyone out there who need someone to talk to, she's your girl. Stay awesome !! You're doing a great job.
Thank you!
Very nice
She's amazing! Very empathetic and I couldn't ask for a better person to talk to!
She's awesome I could never see me getting through wihout her
She stayed. She was determined to help me feel okay again. She was authentic in her reasons and I appreciate her so much.
Calmed me down ! Make me realize that my problem is just a little thing .
Very caring person
Very nice and genuine listener who really cares c:
This listener is very friendly and she is easy to trust. I will probably be back.
Very good
Thanks Kayla for helping me feel understood and normal. And promising to keep what I say between us.
If ever in need she is the one to go to! Very helpful, full of motivation to help you become a better person, and also builds you as a person. Very thankful to have talked to her and gotten her help(:
She's a great listener and she looks fine aswell xD
She's a amazing, inspirational, fanstatic listener, Shes my favorite listener. she never fails to make me feel better. Thank you for helping me. She's so supportive and kind.
She was really nice! She has a baby to take care of but she still helps people at the same time! Kayla was helpful and I'm glad I could talk to her :)
thank you so much.
Very helpful and cheered me up when I was at my worst
Very helpful, kind, and understanding. Gave me hope.
This person is amazing and insperational, deserves 100 stars, thank you so much, by far the best listener i have ever had, thank you soooo much xxx
kayla is so amazing
I really liked her, she helped my loads.
Thank you. :)
Good person! She talked to me about her problems and allowed me to help her brilliantly! She was very open and trusting. I'm sure she can help people just as much.
Gave me good advice really helpful person
She was amazing and so helpful she didn't judge and was very understanding and helpful
She helped me through a lot and gave the best advice. I'll never forget her.
Good listener wish we could be friends 😄😊
thank you for being so lovely :)
Most helping girl on the plant
I had an amazing experience with her! She's mature, helpful and answers very quickly.
you are=very helfful
great help
Very sweet charming helpful girl
Very helpful and understanding listener :) I felt so much better after I talked to her, and she even offered to check in on me from time to time to see how I'm doing :)
She is a sweet young thing.
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Questions Answered
How can I help people online in need?
August 19th, 2015 4:01pm
How can I help people with cancer?
August 19th, 2015 4:06pm
How can I help people in other countries?
August 19th, 2015 4:07pm
How can I volunteer and talk to elderly?
August 19th, 2015 3:57pm
How can I deal with feelings I can't find words to express?
August 14th, 2015 2:48pm
How can I stop someone from hurting me when they don't care about my feelings?
August 14th, 2015 2:50pm
Is it normal to feel so many emotions going through me all at once?
August 31st, 2015 3:03pm
I don't like my job anymore. Should I quit or continue doing it?
August 14th, 2015 2:53pm
What does a bully get out of bullying people?
August 31st, 2015 3:07pm
Is it my fault I am being bullied?
March 22nd, 2016 2:07pm
Is it my fault that others bully me?
March 22nd, 2016 2:12pm
Why can I stand up for others but not myself?
March 22nd, 2016 2:06pm
Why do the people bully me when I always helped them?
August 31st, 2015 3:01pm
Is it normal for people to be singled out just because they like different things?
August 31st, 2015 3:04pm
Is it my fault I get bullied?
June 13th, 2017 12:00am
How can I get rid of the bullies and why do they pick me exactly?
August 31st, 2015 3:00pm
How should I react to name-calling?
March 22nd, 2016 2:09pm
How do I cope with knowing that my old friends say bad things about me?
August 25th, 2015 4:25pm
Is there something wrong with me for being LGBTQ?
June 13th, 2017 12:02am
Should I delete all pictures of my ex?
June 12th, 2017 11:56pm
Why do realtionships and break ups always ruin friendships?
September 8th, 2015 3:05pm
Why do breakups become like a life or death situation sometimes?
April 4th, 2015 8:15pm
Why can't I be perfect for him?
March 17th, 2015 3:13pm
Why do my parents fight so much?
June 12th, 2017 11:57pm
Will the flashbacks ever stop?
April 4th, 2015 8:16pm
How can I stop being insecure in my relationship?
August 14th, 2015 2:54pm