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Number of ratings191 Number of reviews63 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceMar 11, 2015 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 502 People helped258 Chats1,015 Group support chats640 Listener group chats183 Forum posts576 Forum upvotes526
Bio

I do NOT take sexual chats of any kind. Please do not request me if it is sexual in any kind of nature

Hiya everyone! My name is Kayla. 😊 

I would like to start out by saying that I am super excited to be here as a listener! I have been through a lot in my life. Without all of the trauma and challenges, I wouldn't be who I am today and I wouldn't change anything given the chance. 🥰 I have personal experience with many different  areas of Addiction and I’m also 2.5 years sober as well! I am very passionate about listening and helping others. Everything listed as chats that I take, are issues that I have personal experience with. 💕

HOURS I AM AVAILABLE ***(Hours are subject to change dependent upon my personal life)***

Monday through Friday:
6pm - 11pm EST time
Saturdays:
9pm - 12:00am EST time
Sundays:
Self-Care Day, Not available for chats, May take a few but it truly depends on the circumstances of the day for me

***If I am offline when you message me, I will respond as soon as I can!***
CHATS I TAKE✅:
Work Stress
Panic Attacks
Alcohol/Drug Abuse
Chronic Pain
Family Stress
Forgiveness
Parenting
PTSD
Relationship Stress
Women's Issues
Self Esteem
Spirituality

CHATS I DO NOT TAKE❌:
Anxiety
Depression
Sexual Health (I will not take any chats that are sexual in any nature. Whether that be fantasies, roleplays, or in general sexual health.)
Domestic Violence
Grief
Loneliness
Men's Issues 
Personality Disorders
Self-Harm
Schizophrenia 
Everything that is said between me and you will remain between me and you. 💕 

Remember: YOU ARE ENOUGH! AND YOU ARE LOVED! ♥️

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Mentors: @Kristynsmama🌸 & @Sunisshiningandsoareyou🌸


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Recent forum posts
Be Kind💕✨
Religion & Spirituality / by Bella20
Last post
March 12th
...See more Tagging a few peeps who might love this (I hope) 💕: @Kristynsmama @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @Heather225
Every Kind Thing
Positivity & Gratitude / by Bella20
Last post
March 18th
...See more I really love this little reminder!! 🩵🦋✨
Story of my Rape (May trigger some)
Trauma Support / by Bella20
Last post
April 13th, 2016
...See more Hey there everyone! I dont know how to really say this so I am just going to put it out there. I was raped, it started at age 6. My adoptive father started molesting me at 6 years of age and then it quickly progressed into rape. I was so young I didnt know what to do. It was as if my mind was just a bunch of cotton balls. I was confused. It started getting brutal around age 7 and a half. I wondered "What did I do?". I thought it was myfault. There was always a look on his face before and I learned to recognize it and it filled me with dread. This continued until age 14 getting worse and worse each year. At age 14 I was so fed up and thought I could never escape his grasp so I tried to commit suicide and failed. A few months later I became pregnant by him. I kept it a secret from him for 3 months but he found out and threw me across the room causing a miscarriage. That was the last straw for me and I told. I was afraid to tell before because he threatened to kill me. But after that I didnt care I just wanted it over so I told my mom. Now I am safe The point of me sharing this is this: You are not alone. There are others out there who know what you are going through, all you have to do is reach out to them. You WILL survive this. It IS possible and it is so worth it. Therapy helps too. Just talking to someone and letting it out can help. And telling someone is the best thing because you can bet your bottom that whoever you tell will take the steps to keep you safe. :) edited by dancingRainbow45 on 03/05/2017 Removed identifiable personal information
Feedback & Reviews
She is the absolute best! She is such a great listener and always has some of the best advice and insi
She is very kind and thoughtful.
Listens and gives encouraging words
Amazing and sweet. Very caring. Will definitely talk to again
amazing life saving kind and sweet
Good at giving advice
Best ever listener
Great chatter, fast replies and willing to listen to difficult issues.
She was absolutely amazing. Super helpful and so compassionate.
She's really sweet and a great listener
Okay, Bella20 is hands-down one of the most amazing, supportive and caring listeners I've had the pleasure of meeting on here. This is no exaggeration. Even though I've only known her for a short while, she's taught me so so much. She's incredibly kind and compassionate, and just has such a large and amazing heart. *hugs* You are amazing -- never doubt that. Thank you for everything. 💕
she is absolutely awesome! she's helped me get through so much and doesn't give up on trying to help. i know i have someone i can talk to without feeling judged or anything like that. all around a wonderful person
Love her! She always makes me feel better and has great advice when I ask her for help. Very kind and thoughtful. Couldn't tell her how grateful I am for everything she's done. 5 billion stars
Stay beautiful love. You are braver than you feel, smarter than you think, and more
Saved my life!!!! Thx Kayla ❤❤
very supportive always helps whenever i need
She is literally the best!
the most amazing listener!!!!! always supportive and never judges me. i love talking with her because she always makes me feel better! i give a million stars
All around great person, love talking with her. Has always helped me with my problems
I love her! She is incredibly helpful and is never judgmental. She is the best listener and has great advice.
she is very professional and a great listener, would give ten stars if i could
Kayla is amazing and so helpful!!!!
She is the best and I appreciate her so much. I love her as a human being, shes special and unique. 5 stars! - Jake
She's sweet and kind, despite me being a difficult person to talk to
Thank you
Shes great
She is such an amazing, kind, and very nice person. I am so glad that I found her, she was great at understanding me and listening, and just being there really. I felt like I was speaking to someone I could relate to as well, she listened really well and made me feel important and gave great advice. I would definitely recommend her as a listener for anyone out there who need someone to talk to, she's your girl. Stay awesome !! You're doing a great job.
❤️
Thank you!
Very nice
She's amazing! Very empathetic and I couldn't ask for a better person to talk to!
She's awesome I could never see me getting through wihout her
She stayed. She was determined to help me feel okay again. She was authentic in her reasons and I appreciate her so much.
Calmed me down ! Make me realize that my problem is just a little thing .
Very caring person
Very nice and genuine listener who really cares c:
This listener is very friendly and she is easy to trust. I will probably be back.
Very good
Awsome
Thanks Kayla for helping me feel understood and normal. And promising to keep what I say between us.
If ever in need she is the one to go to! Very helpful, full of motivation to help you become a better person, and also builds you as a person. Very thankful to have talked to her and gotten her help(:
She's a great listener and she looks fine aswell xD
She's a amazing, inspirational, fanstatic listener, Shes my favorite listener. she never fails to make me feel better. Thank you for helping me. She's so supportive and kind.
She was really nice! She has a baby to take care of but she still helps people at the same time! Kayla was helpful and I'm glad I could talk to her :)
thank you so much.
Very helpful and cheered me up when I was at my worst
Very helpful, kind, and understanding. Gave me hope.
This person is amazing and insperational, deserves 100 stars, thank you so much, by far the best listener i have ever had, thank you soooo much xxx
kayla is so amazing
I really liked her, she helped my loads.
Thank you. :)
Good person! She talked to me about her problems and allowed me to help her brilliantly! She was very open and trusting. I'm sure she can help people just as much.
Gave me good advice really helpful person
She was amazing and so helpful she didn't judge and was very understanding and helpful
She helped me through a lot and gave the best advice. I'll never forget her.
Good listener wish we could be friends 😄😊
thank you for being so lovely :)
Most helping girl on the plant
I had an amazing experience with her! She's mature, helpful and answers very quickly.
you are=very helfful
great help
Very sweet charming helpful girl
Very helpful and understanding listener :) I felt so much better after I talked to her, and she even offered to check in on me from time to time to see how I'm doing :)
She is a sweet young thing.
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