Hello i am glad you have found me on 7 cups of tea. I am a good listener and i also volunteer for childline, so have experience of listening to people's problems. I have overcome alot in my life so i have first hand experience of some of the things life can throw at us. I have self harmed in the past, had really bad family problems, been sexually & physically abused. I have had a pretty tough time considering i am only 24. But talking to people about their problems, being there for someone really makes a difference. I never had anyone to talk to which made it worse. If i can make one person feel better or save one persons life, then that makes my day. I want to use my experiences to help other people. I do not expect you you to just blurt it all out. Even if you want to start a conversation talking about your favorite food, it is a start.