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Fristo |
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Namaste. I am here to share and spread smiles.

If you want a listener without bothering about their name, gender, age, etc, I could be good fit for you. For age-specific or gender-specific issues, browse other listeners.

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Please note that I might not be a good fit for everyone, that I might get quiet sometimes, but I can assure this much that I am here with only the intention of spreading love and kindness. Regardless I am able to help you feel better or not, I wish you nothing but the best.


A helpful guide to create space between you and your pain.

This Mind Management Guide (ever under-construction) includes some of the insights needed to manage mind.


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A note about setting Healthy Boundaries-

Without Healthy Boundaries, good relations are not possible. They turn into attachment and over-dependency. You lose the ability to be independently happy. The peace of mind goes. So I encourage myself and everyone reading this that always stay within limits and not be too vulnerable too soon for something insane. Take your time and take breaks when necessary. Make it clear at the outset (to yourself and then to those who need to know it) what you are ready to share/listen, and what gets you triggered/uncomfortable, and at all costs, stay away from the danger zone!



An Appeal to All the Members-

The best way to help oneself is to help someone. However, even before that, it is necessary to self-care. If you are doing well enough in your days, consider to become a listener on the site. It has the potential to do wonders to raise your level of happiness in life.

The care in us for someone makes us be the best version of ourselves.


My View on Dating-

Dating does not make sense to me. I can explain why. When someone gives oneself to someone, they must give themselves fully - which includes their money/possessions, their body, their emotions, and thoughts. But the concept of dating requires one to give partially, so the partial part of oneself (usually limited to body and emotions) belongs to their dating-partner, while the rest of them is free to roam around in the world. This is exactly what opens the possibility of break-up, heart-break, loneliness in the future. Contrary to that, in marriage, in true marriage that is, there is complete surrender, and no possibility of future toxicity. Thus, only two kinds of relationships are truly fulfilling - of true friendship offering genuine and selfless care, and of true marriage.



On Spreading Happiness-
 
Being true in your own eyes, being true to the natural compassion and love in you for those around you, and doing/saying/writing things only to do justice with the love in you, and not to please them, not for expecting anything in return, this is called spreading happiness in true sense.


On Challenges

Those who have easy life, their life may be fun but it does not grow to become something better. But when there are challenges to face, we have an opportunity to grow as person.

Without the presence of challenges, and your spirited efforts to rise above them, no good change can happen.


 
On Life

Amidst all the games of life you take part in, the central purpose of life is self-improvement. Improvement towards a further peaceful state of mind.




About Me

I am a human, and a human I realise, has immense hidden potential in them. The potential comes out of me, as I surrender myself to the cause of humanity. I look to be no one else, but a person surrendered and devoted to this cause. So I am here, as a part of this objective.

My areas of interest- Teaching, Active Listening at 7cups, Learning Samskrit, English, and more.

Yours,
Fristo
Little is lot, when in good direction.
Be Focussed, to Be Good.
Number of Ratings: 401
Number of Reviews: 193
Listens to Teens & Over 18
Languages English, Hindi, Punjabi, Sanskrit
Listener Since Aug 7, 2016
Last Active in last week
Progress Path Step 1,369
Cheers 406,596
People Helped 1,412
Chats 5,356
Group Support Chats 328
Listener Group Chats 1,761
Forum Posts 955
Forum Upvotes 1,621
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Feedback & Reviews
Amazing listener
They let me vent n I’m super grateful for that (:
Wonderful talking to the listener!!Gave a very pleasant and friendly vibe...Thanks a lot:)
great listener professional
Really amazing person and a great listener
Best. Listener. Ever. Thanks, Fristo, I feel really, really good. I am so happy to talk to you. Thanks so much. Now I have a good mood. I love talking to you, it relieves me. You are the best listener!!
Listens like true friend !
Simple and straightforward. Great person
Patient and good listener
really good. nice to chat with
I loved the chat. Very patient and understanding listener♥️🤗 spoke to me like a true frnd would!! I feel lucky to talk to u.
he is such a kind listener and a good person overall, he made me feel better about myself and i truly appreciate him for that not all people have the patience or the time to listen to somebody and this person is one of the rare good people and i am very grateful i get to talk to him sending love and hugs to fristo! -maeve
great responses
They read texts very carefully, and ask thought provoking and very appropriate to the context questions. They gave me 100% of their time to express my mind to them with clarity, while they facilitated and guided me in such expression through deep, meaningful questions and statements showing that they have understood. I think they are doing such noble work on here and it was such a blessing to be able to talk to them today!
Really kind and helped me calm down alot
He/Him They/Them She/Her were very good they helped me so so much they are amazing at their job.
Very calm and patient listener, thanks a lot.
great listener
Great listener very understanding
Very sweet listener who is patient kind and pays attention to you. All the very best to you :)
Very great listener ❤️
Great listener and was very patient with me. Eternally grateful for her company.
So helpful. Really kind and very attentive throughout the conversation. I appreciate that a lot. Thank you so much for your precious time...12728/10 for sure.
I like this listener
the best person ever
Great listener. Responds quickly to messages
Really supportive, the best listener I had so far :)
Super sweet chat.
An amazing listener.!
Amazing♾️really gud listener and makes ur way easy
I'm comfortable with this person
Thanks a lot for listening to me and also for your valuable time. I would definitely recommend them.
Such a patient listener! He literally lifted my spirits up ❤️
I feel good. My mind feeling happy and relax and energetic.
She or he is very kind, and helpful. I recommend fristo for any person
Helpful. Problem solving. Inspiring.
So kind helpful amazing i totally recommend him her
Definitely a good listener, super interactive and helpful
I'm feeling blessed to have such a good chat. Was a good feeling.
they were very supportive and offered great listening. they made me feel comfortable and im glad i got to talk to them
She is good I like it
She’s been really helpful
Awesome good to talk to
Fristo is really thoughtful. They're non-judgmental at all. I love how they ask me deep questions about my situation that makes me think a lot. They seem really wise and kind. Thank you so much for being here, Fristo.
Super nice and helpful!
Really helped me a lot, wise words and so understanding, calm and kind. Thank you so much for talking :)
Great person to talk with. Really made me feel listened to!
They tried their best to solve my problems. Genuine helpfulness to others. Nice chat
Good listening
They were a good listener. They listened to my issues and allowed me to vent, offering occasional feedback.
High level, deserves....
Very kind listener. Helped me calm down and view things from a new perspective
So helpful, kind, and caring! Helped me to calm down and put things into perspective.
The vagueness of his responses was the perfect balance of avoidance and addressable, allowed me to delve into conversations without boundaries.
Very wise listener.
Amazing chat. Beautiful person
It was a real pleasure to meet this person and this person helped me alot
Really nice to talk to :)
Really great person, understood me well
Very helpful and nice
Was amazing and helped me with my problems!
Fristo so far has been a very good active listener, always quick with a response
it was good. the listener did listened with patience.
Great listener and helper
This listener is very positive and tries to help people see the best outcomes in life.
He was super understanding and comforting. I genuinely started feeling better after a few texts back and forth.
An amazing listener and problem solver
He has been helpful and understood what I am feeling
Loved it..He is very patient and empathetic.😊 Gave me good suggestions and helped me to figure out things..thank you!
You can talk to him about anything. No judgement. Very supportive. Amazing how someone way across the world made such a difference in my life! Thank you kind listener! Helped me a lot.
Wow. This listener truly helped me out in one of my lowest moments. I’ve walked away from the convo with the confidence to start a new👍🏾
Their specific questions have made me reflect more carefully about how I interpret what has happened and my feelings about it.
Pretty good listener, he listened, he gave feedback
I liked how a stranger like you at least takes an effort to make me feel better
Awesome listener, super nice!
Fristo was calm. Listened, and does a good job making a person feel better. He knows what to say!
Helpful, thanks for listening:)
Fristo is awesome! Very insightful, always knows exactly what to say, the best in helping me self-reflect, asks great and helpful questions, helps me see things from different perspectives, makes me feel appreciated, and has great response time. All the best I could ask for.
Good listener. Thanks for doing so
I actually feel better whenever I share parts of the things that bother me to him. Also understanding!
:D :p Fristo is a good listener. Never "forwards your case" to someone else. Never gives up. Never "tired" of explaining complications. :D :D
Helped me immensely. Thank you so much
Well its going good he is a helpful person as much as I've figured out until now
Very humanly feel
Is very attentive.
He is a very good listener
It was very helpful
The first really good listener I had in a really long time (8 months?!). They asked so many good questions which lead me to really think about the situation in such a different way and made me realize so much about my situation. They did not give advice (I know its not allowed), but rather they helped me find my own solutions. This was amazing. This was an life-changing experience.
Asks a lots of questions good so far.
Always knows exacly what to say and how to respond
Very nice to chat with, would respond like a normal person. Yet, managed to be caring while sharing about themselves too
Thank you for listening
Fristo listens very well and is great at helping to think through things.
Thank you.. it was nice to have someone to talk to
he really understand and suggests many solutions to the problems.
Very speedy and tuned into my replies!
Fristo knows just exactly what to say. Very professional and gives helpful suggestions. They helped me in making my own choices and get a better idea on what I can do for myself to improve and feel better
the nicest person ever! they really understand your problems
nice and supportive
Felt connected on so many levels. Words can't describe how I feel now
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