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GoldenFlames |
Listener - Exemplar 8

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating

Hi, and welcome to my profile! You can call me GoldenFlames, Goldy or Flamo.

Nothing to see here, keep scrolling! 😋

Just kidding 😅

A few things about me:

⚡️ Here since 2017 🔥

⚡️ Passionate about complexity 🔥

⚡️ I like to think I'm a critical spirit (whatever that means) 🔥

⚡️ I tend to complicate what is easy and simplify what is complicated 🔥

⚡️ I love writing, chess, sports, music, and more 🔥

⚡️ My family & friends, as well as my identity and core values are just about everything to me, my whole world 🔥

⚡️ I 100% believe and try to see the best version of every single human being 🔥

⚡️ My sense of humor is a bit weird 🔥

Yeah, that’s about it (or is it?).

I warned out about my sense of humour, didn't I? 🤡

More to uncover, just message, and hopefully we can chat soon.. 


(Read carefully, please, I took my time writing all this after all, right?)

Please note that I receive a TON of messages here on 7 Cups!

I have missed a lot of old messages from dear members lately, plus trying to keep up with current long-time members and all life is about.. not easy.

As much as I want to help you all (which I do), - and I do the best that I can at it -, my FOCUS here is mainly on listening at the moment, so I expect to get back to the ones I can soon enough.

Try me, as just a "Hi" probably won't be enough, sorry. Don't be so shy (who am I to judge?), but don't write me a "testament" either, please, or I'll be too overwhelmed.

I'm here for 4+ years already (gosh, how time flies...!), and I DO believe in the best version of every single person. I always have been like that.

I am here to help, above all, and maybe even become a confident/friend/listening buddy of yours, if we chat for a while.

You are not alone, we'll get through this, together, one step, 1 chat, and 30 minutes at a time, if need be!

As you probably have guessed it already... here comes (anyway):

As of present time, I struggle pretty badly to reply in a timely manner. Thanks for understanding and for your patience! I will eventually get back to you.


"My life is nothing but a small drop in the ocean. But, without it, the ocean would be a little smaller." (also known as Saint Teresa of Calcutta)

"Good things come to those who wait and don’t give up."

"Be the light you wish to see in the world." 🕯🙏🏻💡

"Get out of the building at just do it!" (pun intended)

"NOW... go get it, YOU beautiful soul!"

Thank you for reading until the end! 🤗💪🏻

#peace ✌🏻☮️🕊

~ ❤️🍀

Number of Ratings: 176
Number of Reviews: 116
Listens to Teens & Over 18
Languages English, Portuguese
Listener Since Nov 2, 2017
Last Active in last week
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 54,017
Cheers 404,197
People Helped 253
Chats 2,864
Group Support Chats 57
Listener Group Chats 264
Forum Posts 486
Forum Upvotes 501
Feedback & Reviews
He is so nice to me
That was great :)
Really good listener :) really help me
Helpful. Pateint and kind. Thanks 😇
A really nice listener. He made me feel much better.
A wonderful listener. He listened and took into consideration all factors mentioned . He emphatised .
very kind and listens well 😊
very kind and listens well 😊
Pedro is so nice he makes me feel so much better about my self I highly recommend
It's was really a nice experience. Really a humble and generous person
They lessen to you really good and don’t make fun of you🏳️‍⚧️
This person right here is the epitomy of active listening to say the least. They are the best listener I've had the chance to chat with ever since I joined this platform. They make you feel heard, understood, and valid. As corny as it may sound, it feels like they're a really nice and kind person in general and not only when listening. Chatted for 10 minutes; started feeling better already. 10/10.
he is a nice person
It was a good conversation, I am feeling better now and I know how to move on. Very nice listener, I was welcomed all the way through.
Best listener ever. Really helped make me feel better!
Comforting, calm and polite.
He listened to me when I needed it the most. Thanks!
Very supportive and he's like a friend more than a listener to me. He makes sure to check up on me everyday and when im not online he still makes sure to give me the best wishes. Your awesome keep helping people out Pablo, on here and in real life!
really understanding
Such a nice listener. 😊 I really enjoyed chatting with him. And it’s nice to find a listener who actually listens. 1000000% recommend talking to him 😀
Very positive and I appreciated her listening to me.💕
Pedro is absolutely AMAZING!!!! Pedro is an AMAZING person to talk to 100000000% recommend this listener! Pedro has great empathy and he shows so much kindness, I felt super comfortable with him and he never judged me. He makes a safe space so you can vent and he will make you feel better. He knows what he is doing. He’s not just a listener but he is also a friend! Thanks for talking to me ❤️❤️
Great and nice to talk to
they are very nice and helpful and its nice talking to them
Great listener! Would defo recommend! Helped me alot
Excellent listener, caring.
He's really kind and sweet. Talking with him made me calm😊
Lovely listener, checked on me almost everyday even tho When I stopped talking to them due to occurences. Really helpful and understanding, fast-typing, friendly and funny! If you reach out to them, theyll make your Day 100% better, trust me!
He could help people and a good listener
It was helpful to talk to them, patient and understanding.
Awesome sympathetic listener ❤️
Gentle and supportive
Good and understanding
Watchingoveryou is an amazing listener who is very empathetic and understanding. It felt so nice to be able to relax and be myself, talking about my worries and the things going on. Amazing listener, thank you!!
Is a very good people
Extremely friendly and interacted with me extremely well. They let me vent and everything! :)
it was a good expereince and i really free out mind after talking with him. i felt motivated he can really understand my thoughts as i was starting to get such people in life
Perfect for all the chatterboxes out there😉
Such a nice person! I love to talk to him. Also, he speaks Portuguese❤️🇵🇹🇧🇷
Is very kind and will listen
He is nice and easy to talk to.
Very friendly and calm listener
really helpful and friendly guy
Right off the bat he was nice and made me feel welcome. He makes feel like I was talking to an old friend. He listens and is sweet. Defiantly would recommend him!
Great person and SUPER nice, please reach out to them, they respond quickly! 11/10
Really good listener, makes you comfortable
Excellent to talk to. Very empathetic
an amazing listener who will not forget you overtime
Long term partner. Very helpful and supporting. Its been 1.5 Years being with him. He is just best.
Thanks for being there.💜
Such a nice person. I feel like everything comes from the heart! Thanks for talking to me ♥️
He's a very good listener. He got back to me even when he knew that the crisis might be over. That shows how much he cares about members here. 7 Cups is lucky to have a listener like him. Please take care, stay kind and happy because we, members, need you! Deus abençoe.
He genuinely showed that he cared about me and still didn't loose interest in chatting with me. When he wasn't feeling comfortable with the topic, he made sure he informed me about it and still checked on me.
He gave me a sense of calm.
very understanding,helpful as a friend
He/ She is really kind
very nice and gentle 💕🧡very understanding and caring
veryy helpful! so comfortable to talk to about my issues!! we need more people like him!!😊😊
He knows what he’s doing
this person is a really nice and lovely guy, was very positive and helped me a lot.
They are so understanding and helpful I feel better already
He is very caring and kind! Highly recommend!
Very caring, related very well with me. =) a lovely person. Thanks.
WatchingOverYou is an incredibly kind and understanding listener. he really helps you feel heard & cared for by offering support and helping you find solutions to your issues, no matter how big or how small.
Pedro is really amazing; he's caring, understanding, friendly and so supportive! I'm very happy I met him and I really recommend him! Pedro is really the best Listener I've found on here! Thank you so much for being there for me, Pedro!
He is super kind!!! So glad I have him as a listener. Also respond quite fast* :P
He is very friendly, related very well with me. Very recommended!
Very pleasant and polite lostener. A true verified listener that can be an example for others. Members who meet them are lucky😊🤗 thank you😊
Absolutely amazing! Great help with everything and helps so much. She’s a wonderful listener, and replies all the time, always hears me out and I live talking to her. Always makes me reflect which helps me a lot 🥰
Amazing person to talk to, 100% recommend this listener. They helped me so much with understanding and helping cope and manage my emotions and feelings. They also checked in on me so much making sure that I was alright. Would recommend this listener. Thank you soooo much 😊😘🤗
Pedro is such an awesome listener he has a great empathy and he shows so much kindness, I felt super comfortable with him and he never judged me. He makes a safe space so you can vent and he will make you feel better
Very kind. So sweet. Writes heartfelt messages
one of the best listeners on this site
I really loved how this member is positive and cheering up with his words. I would like to come back here and contact him if I need a listener. Thank you very much.
Honestly a great listener! Made me smile and feel better about myself.
Very good listener, nice person. Do you need a friend or just talk to someone, do you need support? Contact him!
My experience with WatchingOverYou was a positive experience. I came in feeling sad and overwhelmed now I feel so much better. I enjoyed the conversation.
Really good listener, one of the best I’ve chatted with on this platform.
Very understanding and responds quickly
Really helpful and kind listener!
Loved it! Great chat
Best listener... So caring and friendly.. Really happy to meet him.. All the best dude
Thoughtful and helpful listener ! They check in regularly which i really appreciate :) A genuinely nice person who always has relevant answers :)
It was an awesome chat. He really created a safe place where I could talk and he listened to me with a lot of compassion and no judgement. He made me feel a little better and little less alone. It is nice to know that there are still kind compassionate and empathetic people in this world.
Very supportive.
Pedro was a lovely listener and made me feel better - chatting with him was a great experience ❤️ He didn't judge me or make me feel bad about my situation, I really appreciate that!
He was very patient and understanding which I appreciate him trying to help me and gave a similar encounter that relates to my situation. I appreciate his efforts ❤️
Pedro is very thoughtful and patient. I love speaking with him
Pedro is a great listener. Very supportive and nonjudgmental.
Very nice person, easy to talk to
Great caring listener Happy New Year
he's really a good guy. He is very determined to help. it's rare to see this kind of person. when i say good i really mean it coz there are not many people that i like in this world
Pedro is a wonderful listener. Makes you feel comfortable and supported. He is very kind and easy to talk to. He brightened my day when I was feeling down. Thank you for being here!
Excelente! Ouve o que temos para dizer sem qualquer tipo de julgamento e responde de forma dedicada/atenciosa. Importa-se realmente com a pessoa com quem está a falar. Estou muito grato.
Really supportive , gives great advice and checks in . Very sweet amazing listener :)
Great listener, help a lot!!
Really kind, friendly, encouraging and showed a genuine interest to help. I needed a listener like him and feel very grateful for his continuous support.
Good listener. I'll be back!
Great listener. Very empathetic and understanding.
Awsome listener with whom I enjoyed chatting.
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Questions Answered
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October 25th, 2019 3:34pm
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January 4th, 2018 5:57pm
Why do I need medication to calm my emotions when others can do it without?
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Why do I feel bad when someone does something nice for me, specially if they buy me gifts?
November 16th, 2017 7:21pm
what does it mean when you think your crazy?
January 8th, 2018 12:31pm
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What's the point of happiness if I don't want it?
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January 29th, 2018 5:00pm
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January 15th, 2018 7:48pm
Why does society make it hard to be accepted?
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How to get my parents to stand up for me against bullies instead of apologizing to avoid any confrontation?
November 17th, 2017 6:46pm
How do I know if I'm a bully?
November 16th, 2017 7:25pm
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January 5th, 2018 2:17pm
What are the main symptoms of panic attacks?
January 4th, 2018 4:56pm
Are there natural methods to cope with anxiety?
January 29th, 2018 4:54pm
Will my anxiety ever go away?
September 10th, 2018 8:59pm
Why am I anxious at night before bed?
September 9th, 2018 5:44pm
what are some good and healthy distractions from my anxiety when it gets really bad?
January 4th, 2018 4:53pm
Is it normal to feel scared to go to college?
November 15th, 2017 9:18am
Are there any exercises or things I can do to calm my anxiety?
November 7th, 2017 7:36am
Why do I always fail even when I try my hardest?
November 12th, 2017 8:56am
How can I stop my hands shaking
November 15th, 2017 5:35pm
can my anxiety be manageable without medication?
November 7th, 2017 7:37am
Why can't I talk easily in front of my class?
January 4th, 2018 5:00pm
Why do I always feel like people are laughing at me when I don't hear it?
November 15th, 2017 10:34am
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November 15th, 2017 10:40am
What should I do if people think I am lying?
November 19th, 2017 4:18pm
How to stop thinking about someone who hurt you?
January 8th, 2018 6:46pm
Why am I so nervous around my girlfriend?
November 19th, 2017 4:16pm
Is it hard to think critically about something you love?
November 17th, 2017 6:45pm
How can I overcome anxiety if I can't talk to a therapist or my own doctor?
November 15th, 2017 7:38pm
One of my closest friends harms herself. She believes that she isn't very pretty and that the self harm shuts up the little voices telling her that. Is there a better coping mechanism that self harm?
September 11th, 2018 7:43am
I sleep for plenty of time but am exhausted in the morning, what can I do about that?
January 29th, 2018 7:36pm
What could it mean if I am sleeping too much?
December 22nd, 2017 5:16pm
How can you sleep when there is no background noise?
January 29th, 2018 4:59pm
How do I stop over thinking at night?
November 14th, 2017 5:52pm
How much sleep should I get daily?
November 15th, 2017 6:27pm
What do I do if my ex keeps contacting me?
January 8th, 2018 12:28am
How do I know I should break up with my boyfriend or girlfriend?
January 29th, 2018 4:57pm
How do you deal with the temptation to contact your ex?
January 4th, 2018 4:59pm
How can I stop thinking about him/her? Why my heart hurts so much?
January 4th, 2018 5:06pm
Why can't I learn to open up to people?
November 15th, 2017 9:31am
Should I tell my boyfriend that I cheated?
November 17th, 2017 6:47pm
I'm dating someone who has cheated in the past. What should I do?
January 4th, 2018 4:58pm
How to forgive someone who cheated on you?
November 12th, 2017 8:55am
What to do if a guy cheats on his girlfriend with you?
December 22nd, 2017 5:21pm
He cheated on his girlfriend with me. Why is he ignoring me?
January 4th, 2018 5:54pm
How can I feel happy about being single?
November 15th, 2017 9:36am
I want to see a therapist. How do I tell my parents?
November 17th, 2017 6:39pm
Why don't they understand me?
September 14th, 2018 4:41am
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January 29th, 2018 7:38pm
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January 8th, 2018 6:49pm
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November 15th, 2017 5:30pm
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November 15th, 2017 10:38am
Why don’t my parents trust me alone?
September 11th, 2018 7:18am
How do I independently motivate myself?
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Why is exercise important for me?
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How do we forgive people that mislead us maybe intentionally or by accident?
January 29th, 2018 4:58pm
How not to sound weird when talking to authority?
November 15th, 2017 7:40pm
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What is the difference between isolation and loneliness?
November 16th, 2017 7:52pm
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January 4th, 2018 4:55pm
How do I cope with failure?
October 25th, 2019 3:41pm
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January 8th, 2018 6:44pm
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