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ThisCrazyLife77 |
Listener - Scholar 3

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🌻I'm here to listen- and i adore it. My listening style is one of being quite direct and honest- tempered with non-judgemental empathy and BIG Love.
πŸŽ“i have some formal psychology training- but in my opinion there is no substitute for real life experience.🌻🌻
πŸ”₯some important things:Β 
βœ‹ i will not listen if you are abusing other people- including animals- or being abusive to me. Nothing wrong with venting & being angry- as long as it is not directed at me! i am not the right listener for eating disorders, weight management, current incest, or if you are simply bored. If i feel i am not the right listener for you please know that it's out of respect for you deserving the best listener for your needs. πŸ™πŸΌ
➑️If you judge people based on skin color, culture, gender, class, spirituality, sexuality etc. - then I'm not the right listener for you.
πŸ’ž i welcome ~sincere~ requests regarding sexual issues- especially from the queer communities and consensual adult bdsm, d/s and fetish communities.
πŸ“† i do not keep a regular schedule on 7 Cups. i am doing my best to respond to first time inquiries in a timely manner- while balancing my time with fabulous repeat members and everyday life.
βŒ›If i am not available and you need immediate assistance, please consider one of the many other listeners available.
πŸ•―οΈi only do one conversation at a time. This allows me to give my full and undivided attention to you.
πŸ‘“MeπŸ‘“
Since i was a child all different kinds of people- from family to stangers at the bus stop - have gravitated to me to share what's on their mind-- their stories, secrets, current struggles, their hurt and joy, tears and laughter.... their truth. It is a humbling and gratifying phenomenon in my life. So when i stumbled upon 7 Cups, i don't think it was a coincidence....
🌻i am very liberal. If it makes a difference to you, i am a pansexual girl (though i do view gender as a fluid spectrum- as i do sexuality). i have a healthy and unique sense of humor. i have been lucky enough to have lived amongst all sorts of cultures and subcultures, languages, countries and people. My synthesis is simple -  almost everyone just wants to be accepted and to belong, to be loved, not alone nor stigmatized, free, fed- and to feel good.
🌻i don't believe in assigning positive or negative values to emotions. Rather, i believe that all emotions are extremely important and that feeling them- no matter how difficult some may be- is a blessing. i can relate to wanting to feel numb or wanting to crawl out of your skin, to feeling alone, isolated and misunderstood, confused and betrayed, to feeling overwhelmed by life.... But as i traverse the spectrum of emotions and events in my life, the hurtful and the joyous and all else- i must admit that some of the most painful ordeals that i have survived have been the most influential learning experiences and chances for personal growth. It is truly amazing what We can accomplish if We just talk and listen to one another without judgement or stigma.
🌻i draw my strength from the plethora of experiences and maladies i have had- and have- survived, enjoyed, and deal with still.
πŸ‘‚Lay it on me....
-tcl
#biglove
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Number of Ratings: 60
Number of Reviews: 33
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Persian
Listener Since Apr 18, 2016
Last Active in last month
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 77
Cheers 44,482
People Helped 161
Chats 737
Group Support Chats 6
Listener Group Chats 23
Forum Posts 92
Forum Upvotes 101
Feedback & Reviews
She is such a beautiful person. She helped me so much and I'm extremely grateful
She was very patient and encouraging and very direct with her feedback. I left the chat knowing I had the strength to tackle my issue head on.
I can’t thank Uou enough for your support, empathy and guidance. You made it so easy for me to be myself and talk to you openly about my feelings and emotions, I can’t thank you enough!!!
An amazing listener, the best on this site!
Very helpful compassionate listener!
A willing and empathic ear, very warm and helpful!
An amazing listener! Applied their life experience to really empathize while keeping the discussion about me. Had a great understanding of why I feel as I do.
Phenomenal
Such a great listener, supportive, really made me feel better. Thanks!
A really wonderful listener. I can't recommend her enough.
Always offers her complete attention. I feel understood and cared for when we chat. Thank you for your time
so awesome
I felt so new after chatting. thank you :)
Listens and shows absolute interest. Refreshing, great listener. Thank you so much
A wonderful, compassionate listener. Couldn't ask for more!!! Thank you so much!!!!!!!
Very good listener and very king young woman.
I cannot thank You enough for Your support Ma'amπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™
every time we speak i always leave with a smile.
Friends never judge and TheCrazyLife understands how everything gets complicated.
great positive conversation before i was going off to bed. made me think i might have sweet dreams :)
Super empathetic. Great listener. And she uses loving pronouns like "love" and "doll" which just sort of hug your soul a little bit when you're feeling down.
She was very helpful and hope we talk again :)
She is the best listener ever. I like her so much.
So amazing and helpful!!
Wonderful
Very kind listener, thank you!
So kind and caring! Greatly appreciated their time and words of encouragement.
Lovely listener, recommended!
Wonderful listener and great advice giver. She was just absolutely amazing. Thank you very much!
A great ear for my voice.
Thank you so much!
She is amazing. Really understanding and straight forward. Also was really supportive and kind. made me feel really comfortable and she just made my day overall !!!
Great to talk to. She listened to me and gave me advise but not in a "I-know-more-than-you" way. So, great!
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