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alansam123
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Number of ratings679 Number of reviews204 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceFeb 4, 2016 Last activein last week GenderMale PathStep 1,694 People helped2,009 Chats15,460 Group support chats25 Forum posts16 Forum upvotes13
Bio

I think i am Bipolar!

Am a Shadow! I walk with you, watch over you, watch you sleep and watch you awake to new dawn and disappear once you find your self and your soul! i will walk till you find the real self :)

LIfe is like a  staircase...you look up and imagine yourself to be there at the 'summit'',you aim for great heights. But you forget that climbing heights require endurance,requires breathing,requires the willpower to take it step by step,foot by foot,the more you climb you wana look down and see how much you have done and yet how much more you need to be there where you want. You decide you got to be at the summit! you decide you got to be in control!


But most times you forget that you have to keep the lamp burning...the flame has to be fuelled by warm air! the bellows have to keep the furnace running!!!


There is no easy way! There are no escape routes! There is no excuse! FAith! Belief! THE will will take you there! You got to look into yourself and find inspiration. you got to pass that one moment when fear is totally on you and believe me you will feel bliss,once you have overcome that one second of extreme fear! Dont believe me? Try diving from the sky or diving into the sea! the moment of fear when you are about to leap out is when fear totally makes you numb! Once you jump its over! Fear doesnt make any sense anymore! there is the unknown before you! trust me the thrill of exploring the unknown takes over and dismantles any fear whatso ever! :) Make the choice my friend! Life is to be lived on! Make the choice! :)

Have a listen > https://youtu.be/M7GkL--nb5M
Treat the ones who are close to you and care for them, you miss them when they leave...
we remember them..Waiting for someone is perhaps the most beautiful thing in this world...you are ever hopeful, so am i! https://youtu.be/3bY0XO0vuZA


Thank you for allowing me to hear you out! i hope you do well and remain happy, you deserve it. I am long gone! Take care!


Feedback & Reviews
Very kind and thoughtful
Kind and warm truly
Amazing, warm and kind listener
Excellent listener. Very caring.
I felt he really listened and cared when I was talking. Mads me feel heard in a time I wasn't feeling heard
thank you so much
Warm, caring, wise and a good guide to have in storm. Recommended.
thank you for listening
Stays and listened to me. I appreciate it
Thoughtful person
i loved how i could tell everything about what was on my mind and heart...and i got a good response...which helps me to get that situation off my mind or think differently about it
responsive, helpful
wonderful listener! caring and patient
Great listener and really related to me and was understanding
Very helpful conversation. :)
A great listener, who will try and reach you at your level.
They were a great help and listened very well
Very good listener and very helpful
Good conversation. It worked well for me. And I learnt some stuff. Recommend !!! Thank you
so very kind, compassionate, and has an optimistic fighter spirit that's contagious!
Is a really good listener, I liked that he asked me questions and gave suggestions
Good listener, supportive too.
totally understood where i was coming from and shed a lot of light on my situation
Gave me good insight and was a good listener!
Such an amazing listener, really enjoyed my chat with him and I felt a lot better ❤
Loved it! Awesome chat!
Really good listener shows genuine interest
alansam is an awesome listener and great person. And very respectful. If you are debating whether to text alansam, you definitely should, they are great to speak to, thank you again.
love it thnx thnx
its nice to talk to someone who knows ur problems
Awesome conversation! Very engaging! Thanks!
he helped me really..
he actually engages in the conv and ask questions about what im feeling and what is happening
Good listener 👌
he’s a good listener
Very compassionate listener I feel new born.
Alansam123 is a great listener.
Helped me work around anxiety and relationship problems
Great at listening and genuinely tries to help resolve your issues and make you feel better.
Great chat, thank you
Understanding, kind and humorous! Very helpful. 😊
Helped me out a lot, had some good points :x
Thank you for listening
Good listener, good feedback
Lovely to talk to
Alan Is an amazing Litener , really patient and best on 7 of cups . Thank you for listening to me :)
Fantastic listener. Kind, understanding, amazing, and an open-minded listener. Thank you!!!
Truly a wise and good listener. Understanding and not judgemental. Thanks for your valuable time
Its really nice to talk
Good chat and a good listener
Vey polite and open
Alan is very, very nice. He is faithful as a listener when he has the time to be there.
Thank you for sharing with me my story
Nice.....,..............
Wonderful human being. Very compassionate. Good chatting with him.
He is quite a good listener and compassionate
Is nice to have people out there that care about random people
Very patient. Answer so quick.^^
It was a very good and helping chat. You easily find a connection and the user has a good way to talk with you.
Great person for listening and really helpful
alan was a very nice and understanding person! he was able to help me with some problems of mine and talked to me for a while when i needed it a lot/
thank you for talking
Great listener and always available if needed!
An old soul on 7cups! I couldn't be any luckier and more grateful ❤
Great lisnter he is very nice man
really nice and kind
Overall genuine conversations. I enjoyed being able to talk to this listener.
Fantastic chat. Easy to communicate with.
He is kind and interesting
Kind helpful responds fast
it helps sort your mind and helps with useful everyday help
Wonderful chat. Would talk to him again in a minute. :)
He was very nice and willing to listen
really helpful thanks
Good listening skills
he really listens
great talk! 💯👍
a really good chat. lovely distraction and good ideas for coping with my bad brain! thanks!
AlanSam123 was so kind and helpful and spent a lot of time talking to me and listening to me. They really helped me out when I was having a bad time. Thanks so much for your generosity in sharing your time with me. Much appreciated.
Seems he is engaging and really interested about my problem
Good advice.. even though small chat....
An outstanding chat with amazing listening skills! This person listened and understood my problems. Great work and resolved my loneliness
great responses. open ended questions and realistic comments. helped to slow down my thoughts and have more clairty
Very insightful! I really needed someone to talk to. Glad I am.
Very good at finding commonality, patient, and willing to listen.
Good listener thank you
Thank you so much for listening! Helped alot and helped me think clearer!! From your irish friend! Take care
A great listener, was empathetic and responded quickly and kept the conversation on point.
It feels wonderful to experience the presence and comfort of a kind soul, literally feels like a warm and safe cuddle
friendly and helpful
he really listens and its much needed
Awesome listener! Really thoughtful and good responses and questions. Loved our chat and would go back any time!!
Really great bot thanks so much
Great first chat
A good and very patient listener!
very good listener
Very good listener
they are nice to talk to feel slightly better
Chill dude with the right words. If you need someone to talk to, it is this guy. Thanks my man.
super kind and sweet, Took the time to listen and provide feedback. Thanks so much :)
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