freshMelon54 |
Listener - Master 10

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*Accepting long-term members now! Click here if you'd like to become a long-term member with me! I am unavailable Friday-Sunday.
**I do not take inappropriate/sexual chats. Please do not use 7 Cups of Tea for that, this is a place where people can listen to each other and help each other, let's keep it like that!

Hello! I am glad you found me on 7 Cups of Tea! I am a ready, active, and verified listener! I love helping others and look forward to talking to you! If I'm not online, feel free to send me a message and I'll get back to you as soon as possible! I am more than happy to help out wherever I can, do check the listed things I usually chat about though! I am active often, however, I do have work to complete and cannot always respond immediately. Follow me to see my feed and become a part of the small community in a safe space! I post somewhat regularly and will always respond to PMs! Hearing how everyone deals with certain things is always amazing to hear! If it is an emergency, call someone or talk to someone trusted. I am also actively learning Spanish, so if anyone wants to pop into my pms and teach me something new, I'd love to hear from you!

My 7Cups birthday: July 31, 2018

My twins: @calmseas65 @KarrotCake

My nickname (thanks @ilikecake22 :p ): Star - which just so happens to be based off my actual name!

I am online Monday - Thursday most of the time, but am available to be booked! Message me if you’d like to set up a specific time to talk! I am always here for you, so don’t hesitate to send me a message if the dot by my name is yellow, red, or green!

My roles in the 7Cups community: 
💕 I post a check-in to the Relationship and Friendship Community every Friday

💕 I post a check-in to the Anxiety Support Community every Wednesday-Thursday

💕 I am a forum supporter for the Anxiety Support and Relationship & Friendship Community

💕 I am a part of peer support (PS)

💕 I am a relationship and anxiety room supporter (RS)

Please understand that I do not take chats about most medically-diagnosed mental disorders, such as PTSD, ADHD, and BPD. I do not have enough experience or training to handle such chats. I also do not take drug-related chats. I can, however, help you find a listener who helps out with those topics!

Number of Ratings: 98
Number of Reviews: 46
Listens to Teens
Languages English
Listener Since Jul 31, 2018
Last Active in last week
Progress Path Step 267
Cheers 84,101
People Helped 258
Chats 913
Group Support Chats 133
Listener Group Chats 105
Forum Posts 560
Forum Upvotes 761
Feedback & Reviews
She is great listening to my guy problems. She id just an amazing person.
Very understanding and helpful.
Was really helpful💕 Felt great after talking to you🙂
very helpful ! melon was good at trying to get to the point of why I felt the way I did
really good listener and really good at connecting with the member
willing to listen and very considerate
Wow someone nice thanks for messaging me
Very helpful, kind and thoughtful
Good talk they help
Helped me a lot ,
Really good advice!! They helped me so much and gave me good tips on what to do with my situation. Thank you!!
They listen and try and evaluate a way to help cope with said issue
Very kind, responded quickly and professionally.
Sweetest person ever would give99999999999999999999 stars
All I can say for feedback is this listener completely understood what I was going through so it was really helpful!
❤️❤️caring and always there for help
Gave me a serious reality check that I really needed. They have really helped me realize I need to plan myself out, and it was overall just so nice talking with them.
she really help me think about myself and what not to worry about now.
this dude was awesome..helped me a lot
Amazing and supportive and personal!!!
Helped me with something :)
Awsome help and a great person to talk she really help me
I felt that this person really listen to me and actually cared
I liked the conversation and it helped a little bit
Super friendly!
so nice, kind, genuine, and helpful!
really helpful and it helps to calm me down
Super friendly Open to listening Really supportive
Great chat full of positivity
She was really lovely, gave great advice, was positive all along and had a verry good hear! She made sure that i was okay and that i had a new positive perspective on things after our chat ended. Would definitely recommend:) xx
Really helpful and accepting
Wonderful and helpful person :)
she was a great listener. thank you..
They actually helped me out a lot, and gave me great advice.
Helped me so much, overcome some relationship insecurities and anxiety i had! She is really likeable and understandable as well!
An amazing human being. Seriously, there are so many things this person has helped me with especially self confidence and stuff
Thank you X
awesomely good person and realy understanding and caring and want people to be safe
Was very helpful with my issues, even though it wasn’t her usual thing. Good responses
Very helpful to talk to and Ostend very well gives good advice
A great listener, really understanding and gives great advice:)
Very supportive and friendly, and got the time to know me and really understand my problems!
very kind and understanding
she’s amazing, thank you so much for your time and commitment
An amazing, feel-good listener who makes time for your problems and responds quickly! Cheered me up properly, boosted my confidence in myself and left me feeling like I could tackle my issues right now!
Very real and helpful. made me feel great
Badges & Awards
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Questions Answered
I work in a small laundromat and a coworker is somewhat harassing me because I'm the new girl. What should I do?
October 12th, 2018 7:29pm
How to overcome fear of failure?
March 10th, 2019 1:30am
How can you unlove someone?
September 28th, 2018 2:02am
How to get over someone you have to see everyday?
August 16th, 2018 12:59am
Can you forgive someone who left you for someone else ?
October 22nd, 2018 8:25pm
How do you keep up your will to recover? Recovery is hard and I don't know how to motivate myself to keep working towards recovery.
October 3rd, 2018 5:42pm
I am in debt are there ways to get out of it?
October 3rd, 2018 4:44am
How to forgive yourself for pushing everyone away?
October 3rd, 2018 5:29pm
i'm lonely and depressed & 18. i really want a boyfriend but i doubt i will ever get one. am i selfish for even having a bit of hope that one day I will?
October 29th, 2018 4:32am
Why is it that every time I am around my bf its like the world stops and im happy but then when i get home all i think about is my best guy friend and my bf like if i like them both.??
October 12th, 2018 7:13pm
My girlfriend is bi and even though we love each other so much, I kinda feel like I'm an experiment sometimes. What do I do?
December 11th, 2018 11:09pm
How do I deal with a passive-aggressive people? What are some skills or boundaries I can place in and practice?
October 3rd, 2018 5:00am
How do I stop dissociating while driving? I know this is very unsafe, and it just comes on. Is there any thing I can do to control this better?
October 3rd, 2018 5:34pm
Is it weird to miss the mental hospital?
October 12th, 2018 7:01pm