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yes​​​​​Hello! My name is VIOLA and I am not a robot.cheeky
yes I am an active verified listener here who has completed her internship with honors.
yesHere is the link of my internship project 
https://www.7cups.com/forum/DepressionSupport_52/DepressionResources_214/MyhonorsprojectonDEPRESSION_157207/


yesAnd since i know about psychology too i understand people's emotions better.smiley According to me half of the problems of people nowadays can be solved by just a random talk with someoneangel. I understand that no one is wrong and it is okay to have perceptions different from anyone else. Here you can talk with me freely about anything you want to. I will try to help you.


yesRemember
IT IS PERFECTLY OKAY TO NOT BE OKAY AND IT IS ABSOLUTELY FINE TO ASK FOR HELP.heart

 

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enlightenedLove is one thing we are capable of perceiving that transcends time and space - Interstellar
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My honors project on ''DEPRESSION''
Depression Support / by viola05
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November 16th, 2021
...See more DEPRESSION- A MOOD DISORDER- There are two poles of mood in all human beings. One is depression and one is euphoria.Depressed people float more towards the left side and maniac people float more towards right side. When it becomes a cycle to float only in extremes ( extreme depression for some time then extreme euphoria for some time) it is called bipolar disorder. In my project we will focus on depression only. One should keep in mind its totally normal to be towards depressed pole for a day or two. To be called as a depression it needs to be persistent for a certain number of weeks which we will discuss below. INTRODUCTION TO DEPRESION- Depression is also known as ‘common cold of psychology. It is said so because it is the foremost reason for which people visit a psychologist. But this term has both good and bad points in itself. The good point being that this term tells how pervasive this disorder is experienced worldwide. It has been observed that 13% males and 22% females suffer with this disorder once in lifetime atleast. And 31% of college students have experienced it once in their lives. The bad point being that this term ignores the seriousness of this disorder. Even though its common and known by almost everyone we cant say its something small because it takes away many lives too and also it causes a lot of distress to the surrounding people and obviously to the person suffering. Depression is a common but serious mood disorder. It causes severe symptoms that affect how you feel, think, and handle daily activities, such as sleeping, eating, or working. To be diagnosed with depression, the symptoms must be present for at least two weeks. SYMPTOMS OF DEPRESSION THREE CORE SYMPTOMS ARE 1. Loss of interest and enjoyment 2. Reduced energy leading to increased fatigue 3. Depressed mood OTHER SYMPTOMS ARE- 1. Reduced concentration and attention 2. Reduced self esteem and self confidence 3. Ideas of guilt and unworthiness 4. Disturbed sleep 5. Diminished appetite 6. Ideas or acts of self harm 7. Bleak and pessimistic views of the future Not everyone who is depressed experiences every symptom. Some people experience only a few symptoms while others may experience many. Several persistent symptoms in addition to low mood are required for a diagnosis of major depression, but people with only a few – but distressing – symptoms may benefit from treatment of their depression. The severity and frequency of symptoms and how long they last will vary depending on the individual and his or her particular illness. Symptoms may also vary depending on the stage of the illness. TYPES OF DEPRESSION 1. PERSISTENT DEPRESSIVE DISORDER (DYSTHYMIA) 2. MAJOR DEPRESSIVE DISORDER (MDD) 3. RECURRENT DEPRESSION 4. SEASONAL AFFECTIVE DISORDER (SAD) 5. POST PARTUM DEPRESSION Persistent depressive disorder (also called dysthymia) is a depressed mood that lasts for at least two years. A person diagnosed with persistent depressive disorder may have episodes of major depression along with periods of less severe symptoms, but symptoms must last for two years to be considered persistent depressive disorder. Major depressive disorder is a depressed mood that lasts for minimum of two weeks. The person suffers some periods of intense depression which is unrelated to whats happening around them. Other times they will not be perfectly in normal mood but it cannot be said as extreme depression too. [MonBon edited at author's request] Recurrent depression is a type of depressive disorder in which there are cycles of depressive episodes. The person feels completely normal after having a phase of depressive episode. Its like depression goes for sometime and then comes back to the person. It can be disheartening to realize that your depression will likely come back. Postpartum depression is much more serious than the baby blues (relatively mild depressive and anxiety symptoms that typically clear within two weeks after delivery) that many women experience after giving birth. Women with postpartum depression experience full-blown major depression during pregnancy or after delivery (postpartum depression). The feelings of extreme sadness, anxiety, and exhaustion that accompany postpartum depression may make it difficult for these new mothers to complete daily care activities for themselves and/or for their babies Seasonal affective disorder is characterized by the onset of depression during the winter months, when there is less natural sunlight. This depression generally lifts during spring and summer. Winter depression, typically accompanied by social withdrawal, increased sleep, and weight gain, predictably returns every year in seasonal affective disorder. FACTORS CAUSING DEPRESSON- BIOLOGICAL FACTORS 1.Genetic reasons (transferred from parents) 2.Decreased neurotransmitter(serotonin, dopamine and nor epinephrine) 3.Decreased activity of pre-frontal cortex area of brain 4.Decreased activity in reward circuit area of brain PSYCHOLOGICAL FACTORS 1. Cognitive distortions (eg black and white thinking) 2. Learned helplessness (not trying to get out of a negative situation because past has taught that you are helpless) 3. Pessimistic attribution style SOCIOCULTURAL FACTORS 1. Social isolation 2. Physical abuse as a child or adult 3. Low socioeconomic status/poverty(eg – loss of a job) 4. internalised prejudice Every depressed person has this cognitive negative triad of view 1. Negative view of self 2.Negative view of world 3.Negative view of future What is pessimistic attribution style? This makes person vulnerable to depression. It includes three things- Internal- The person blames himself for every negative thing happening. (eg if someone didnt call them back since they are busy the person will think that i am unlovable) Stable- The person thinks it will continue to happen in future too. ( eg he will never pick my call now and i have to suffer) Global- The person generalises one event globally.(eg one friend not calling back means no friend likes me and no one will call me). ## In case of serious deaths of a closed one or some serious traumas,accidents,abuses, the person is given two months time to get normal but if the depression still persists then it should be considered serious. Yes, chronic depression might not be the ideal topic for a conversation. But people think it is perfectly alright to discuss swine flu or dengue in public. One could argue its because they could be deadly and we can actually see people suffering from them. What we dont realise is that depression can be deadly too and we can see people suffering if we choose to look. Going to see a doctor for depression should ideally be as normal as visiting a physician for diabetes. But our society does not consider it normal because there is a stigma attached to mental health issues. THESE ARE SOME THOUGHTS OF DEPRESSED PEOPLE- Depression... it just eats you up from the inside out. Its like a monster inside your head that takes over. The worst thing is to know that my family and friends were doing all they could yet I still felt so lonely. Anything that was said to me, I managed to turn into a bad thing. I was literally my own worst enemy. I didnt want to wake up because living was a nightmare. I would get so frustrated because it seemed impossible to sleep, as if insomnia and depression go hand in hand. With major depression, it was like being in another world. I would see others around me smiling, and enjoying things that they were doing, but I couldn't be the same way. There was always a part of me that was missing. I lost interest - not only with my friends, family, but also with my husband and children. Different things would make it worse at times, like being under a lot of stress. I became suicidal and had feelings of being a burden to everyone who cared about me; and this is the part that would over take my world the most. I didn't have any ambition, or any interest in finding my way. Being drunk and sad and alone was my job — and you know what? I didn't hate it. Being lost at sea was a comfort. I found myself starting to feel really empty and genuinely numb to the outside world. I was crying nearly every day and just felt a hopelessness that wouldn't go away. It was a strange feeling that I had never experienced before. During class, the only thing I could think about was getting back in my bed. TREATMENT- Just as no two people are affected the exact same way by depression, there is no one size fits all treatment that cures depression. What works for one person might not work for another. The best way to treat depression is to become as informed as possible about the treatment options, and then tailor them to meet your needs. Exercise- Regular exercise can be as effective at treating depression as medication. Not only does exercise boost serotonin, endorphins, and other feel-good brain chemicals, it triggers the growth of new brain cells and connections, just like antidepressants do. Best of all, you dont have to train for a marathon in order to reap the benefits. Even a half-hour daily walk can make a big difference. For maximum results, aim for 30 to 60 minutes of aerobic activity on most days. Social support- Strong social networks reduce isolation, a key risk factor for depression. Keep in regular contact with friends and family, or consider joining a class or group. Volunteering is a wonderful way to get social support and help others while also helping yourself. Nutrition- Eating well is important for both your physical and mental health. Eating small, well-balanced meals throughout the day will help you keep your energy up and minimize mood swings. While you may be drawn to sugary foods for the quick boost they provide, complex carbohydrates are a better choice. They'll get you going without the all-too-soon sugar crash. Sleep- Sleep has a strong effect on mood. When you don't get enough sleep, your depression symptoms will be worse. Sleep deprivation exacerbates irritability, moodiness, sadness, and fatigue. Make sure you are getting enough sleep each night. Very few people do well on less than seven hours a night. Aim for somewhere between seven to nine hours each night. Stress reduction-Make changes in your life to help manage and reduce stress. Too much stress exacerbates depression and puts you at risk for future depression. Take the aspects of your life that stress you out, such as work overload or unsupportive relationships, and find ways to minimize their impact. If there is no underlying medical cause for your symptoms of depression, talk therapy can be an extremely effective treatment. What you learn in therapy gives you skills and insight to feel better and help prevent depression from coming back. There are many types of therapy available. Three of the more common methods used in depression treatment include cognitive behavioral therapy, interpersonal therapy, and psychodynamic therapy. Often, a blended approach is used. Some types of therapy teach you practical techniques on how to reframe negative thinking and employ behavioral skills in combating depression. Therapy can also help you work through the root of your depression, helping you understand why you feel a certain way, what your triggers are for depression, and what you can do to stay healthy. One of the hallmarks of depression is feeling overwhelmed and having trouble focusing. Therapy helps you step back and see what might be contributing to your depression and how you can make changes. Here are some of the big picture themes that therapy can help with: Relationships- Understanding the patterns of your relationship. building better relationships, and improving current relationships will help reduce isolation and build social support, important in preventing depression. Setting healthy boundaries- If you are stressed and overwhelmed, and feel like you just cant say no, you are more at risk for depression. Setting healthy boundaries in relationships and at work can help relieve stress, and therapy can help you identify and validate the boundaries that are right for you. Handling lifes problems- Talking with a trusted therapist can provide good feedback on more positive ways to handle lifes challenges and problems. Depression medication- may be the most advertised treatment for depression, but that doesnt mean it is the most effective. Depression is not just about a chemical imbalance in the brain. Medication may help relieve some of the symptoms of moderate and severe depression, but it doesnt cure the underlying problem, and its usually not a long-term solution. Antidepressant medications also come with side effects and safety concerns, and withdrawal can be very difficult. If you are taking medication for depression, dont ignore other treatments. Lifestyle changes and therapy not only help speed recovery from depression, but also provide skills to help prevent a recurrence Relaxation techniques- As well as helping to relieve symptoms of depression, relaxation may also reduce stress and boost feelings of joy and well-being. Try yoga, deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, or meditation. Acupuncture- Acupuncture, the technique of using fine needles on specific points on the body for therapeutic purposes, is increasingly being investigated as a treatment for depression, with some research studies showing promising results. If you decide to try acupuncture, make sure that you find a licensed qualified professional. CONCLUSION- When youre depressed, it can feel like youll never get out from under a dark shadow. However, even the most severe depression is treatable. So, if your depression is keeping you from living the life you want to, dont hesitate to seek help. Learning about your depression treatment options will help you decide which approach is right for you. From therapy to medication to healthy lifestyle changes, there are many effective treatments that can help you overcome depression, feel happy and hopeful again, and reclaim your life. REFERENCES- 1. https://www.helpguide.org/articles/depression/depression-treatment.htm 2.https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/depression/index.shtml 3.https://www.webmd.com/depression/guide/causes-depression 4.https://www.bustle.com/articles/153869-7-utterly-bizarre-thoughts-most-depressed-people-have-had 5. https://www.beyondblue.org.au/the-facts/depression/treatments-for-depression 6. https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/depression/symptoms-causes/syc-20356007 QUESTIONS- 1.What according to you are the emotions of a caregiver of depressed patient? 2.What are the other factors that help the depressed person to get out of this negative cycle? 3.How will you talk to a person who is diagonesd with depression? 4.How can we increase awareness that person suffering is not faking the symptoms and the disorder is not under his control as thought by many people? 5.Tell a relatable story or a poem or an incident you want to share.How can we help people suffering from depression being a listener on 7cups?
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