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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

EmotionsListener
L Epitome 12 10667
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***Please note: I am not currently available for 1-on-1 support chats. With my roles as a community mentor leader, group support mentor, and chatroom moderator I will be focusing my efforts primarily on community teams, forums and group support activities.*** It's not a community without 'u'! About me: Others have described me as an empathetic individual who strives to be objective, motivational, and empowering. I do firmly believe that if you challenge yourself to look at a situation from a different angle you will see options you have overlooked, and that sometimes even unpalatable solutions need to be seen for what they are, possible solutions. I aim to offer a respectful and non-judgmental ear, keeping in mind that my personal values and beliefs are just that: Mine and need only apply to me/my life.  I am a member of the LGBTQ+ community, some of the labels I use, or have used, to describe(not define) myself include but are not limited to, lesbian, homoromantic asexual and demiromantic. While I am open to and accepting of all members of the LGBTQ+ community, I feel my personal experience makes me most suited to supporting those who relate to or don similar labels. Now entering my 40's I have had experiences with a variety of issues from early childhood to present. I have found this can enhance my natural ability to empathize while still offering alternate perspectives. I primarily provide support for and am most comfortable with topics I have indicated in my profile. There are certain topics that I do not take chats involving, namely drugs, alcohol, detailed discussion of sexual topics, or any which contravene the rules of 7 Cups. "No matter what we have come through, or how many perils we have safely passed, or how imperfect and jagged our life has been, we cannot in our heart of hearts imagine how it could have been different. As we look back on it, it slips in behind us in orderly disarray, and, with all its mistakes, acquires a sort of eternal fitness, and even, at times, a poetic glamour." – Randolph Silliman Bourne
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Ahlex
L Pinnacle 15 10479
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Please read at least first paragraph before messaging me! Welcome, I'm glad you're here!  Topics I DON'T take: career & financial stress, politics, religion, spirituality, cheating, polygamy, labels (sexuality and gender), chronic pain, disability issues. I am also happy with casual conversations or to keep you company!  Or if you want some funny/cute YouTube videos. Things I have experience in: relationships/people, depression, alcohol and drug addiction, apathy, violence, managing emotions, narcissism, guilt, kinks, incest (consensual), night terrors, parenting, anger issues. Things I DON'T have experience in: break ups, dating, anxiety, lack of motivation, dwelling on things, LGBT issues, being sensitive, financial issues, strict parents, seeking validation/approval, insecurities. My chat style: I'm very patient, down to earth, I try my best to understand everything and prefer a friendlier instead of a robotic approach, but am mostly practical and logical. I don't give fake validation or tell you what you want to hear. I never disappear mid chat and reply as fast as possible. I am also quite talkative, so you can feel free to ask me anything! ✰ I'm very direct and don't like to beat around the bush, so please keep that in mind if you are very sensitive. I prefer a tough love approach to life, if you get triggered easily then I'm not the listener for you. And don't be afraid to message me anytime even offline, I am very open and friendly!  About me: My name is Alexis but you can call me Lex or Alex! I'm not a female. I'm 23, a student. I'm very extroverted and active with a lot of hobbies and obligations! I train gymnastics, play the violin, design clothes, paint, run workshops and I'm a big fan of horror movies and have a lot of pets. I love to travel and learn new things, meet new people. I've been through a lot in the past so I have quite the experience with many issues and people. I'm happily married to my husband and am a proud parent. ✰I am fine with sexual, taboo and embarrassing issues as well, and won't judge you. But please don't make any advances towards me, ask me for my social media or demand a solution from me. I'm just a regular student doing their best, and not a licesened therapist. Thank you for reading, and I hope I can be of some help!  FAQ What's your gender really? - I get asked this so much. I'm male biologically but I just look like a woman. I didn't take any hormones and I'm happy this way. What's your pronouns? - It makes no difference to me, I do not care about such things. What's your sexuality? - I don't have one. I've only felt something for one person my whole life. Anyone else never interested me or will. And I don't see the point of labels. Why don't you take chats related to studies and career? - It's not something I'm really interested in or that knowledgeable. So it wouldn't be a good time for either of us. When can I message you? - You can message me whenever, and I'll respond when I can. But if you'd like a chat please ask me if I'm available first. Why don't you tell me what to do/give advice? - I'm not a professional therapist, I'm not the expert on you or your situation and it is against the site rules. So please don't demand answers or solutions from me. Can I ask you personal questions? - Yes you can, as long as you don't ask me information that could be traced back to me or reveal my full identity. Especially not social media.  
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alex428
L Paragon 7 282
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hi! my name is alex. i use they/he pronouns. i’ve been a listener on 7 cups since 2020, providing a safe space, validation, empathy, and an open mind to those who need it. here’s some more information about me: i have personal experience (either through myself or someone i know) in the following topics: * dissociative identity disorder (DID) / OSDD-1 / other dissociative disorders * posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD) * complex posttraumatic stress disorder (C-PTSD) * addiction / recovery  * family stress / school stress / work stress  * depression / depressive disorders * general anxiety * LGBTQ+ issues  * disabilities * social anxiety  * chronic illness topics in which i am not comfortable / not experienced with providing support in are: * men’s issues * eating disorders / disordered eating  * sexual health * spirituality * suicidal thoughts/ideation * non-suicidal self injury (self harm) * breakups * grief * exercise motivation  * weight management * personality disorders if my status says i am online (a green circle), feel free to send me a message! i will get back to you shortly. if my status says i am busy (an orange circle) that means that i am currently working with other members and am not available to answer you at this time. if my status says i am offline (a red circle), this means that i am either not on the site at all at this time or i am working on trainings, and i cannot answer your message at this time. feel free to leave an offline message if you’d like, and i’ll get back to you as soon as possible!
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pamharley003
L Marvel 14 1143
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***** Not taking any 1-1 chats right now please use https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ to find a Listener. ***** Will not take any chats with sex of any nature  I am sorry ***** *****twins with @Thedoctorno12 *****                   Adult and Teen Listener I am  a long term listener and a verfied listener on 7 cups. I also have the door keeper badge. Chat's I do take: Anxiety BipolarBorderline (BPD) BreakupsBullying Chronic Pain Depression Diabetes Disabilities Domestic Violence Eating Disorders Exercise MotivationFamily Stress Financial Stress Forgiveness General Mental Health Getting Unstuck Grief LonelinessManaging Emotions Panic AttacksParenting PTSD/Trauma Relationship Stress Self-Esteem Sleeping Social Anxiety Spirituality Student Life Weight Management Work Stress *** I will repsond back to Your PM'S when I return online ****
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Leebas2019
L Genius 12 3626
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Improving my listening skills as I progress. Motivational speaker.. talk to me about anything... Whatever is in ur mind.. u would find me helpful.. try me 😇 Languages Known : English, Tamil, Hindi :D
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Bunnylovesyou
L Proficient 11 1940
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🪻My profile picture is made by @yourcaringconfidant, as a little thing to show that it's jeffy (my bunnys) birth month!!!! He will be 8! 🪻 ❤️ Due to health issues and not being in a good situation, I am not taking any new chats. Im going to focus on my roles and my old members❤️ 🪻Please read entire bio before messaging🪻 🪻Hi lovely, Im so proud of you for taking this step in your listener journey. Let me introduce myself, Im Bunny! Im 15 years old! I love reading and writing and playing my instruments and drawing. I do indeed have a bunny, his name is Jeffery, he is almost 8. If you want a picture, he's adorable, feel free to just pm me "jeffy picture" I have plenty!! I am a sophomore in highschool, but I am home-schooled, and have been since the end of 5th grade. Im genderfluid, I use he/they pronouns! I understand some members don't want listeners of a certain gender, so i am comfortable with saying i am female at birth.🪻 🪻 I am open for support chats, casual chats (note : I prioritize support chats!!), and book ramble chats. You ever want recommendations or to vent, hunny i get it, I'm all ears 🪻 🪻a little about my mental health and my journey : I grew up in an abusive household. I was sexually abused by an adult for 8 months. I have anorexia, bullemia, adhd, depression, anxiety, a panic disorder (chronic panic attacks), and I'm disabled! I have issues with my feet and the tendons and i don't walk real well. I have dealt with bullying, and lgbtq issues. 🪻 🪻chats i take: (the 🫧/blue words means i have lived experience)🪻  abuse 🫧, addiction, adhd 🫧, adoption/ foster care, alcohol and drug abuse, anxiety 🫧, austism, bipolar, BPD, breakups 🫧, bullying, chronic pain 🫧, depression 🫧, diabetes, disabilities 🫧, dissociative disorders 🫧, domestic violence, dysphoria 🫧, eating disorders 🫧, exercise motivation, family stress 🫧, financial stress 🫧, forgiveness 🫧, getting unstuck🫧, grief 🫧, LGBTQ+ issues 🫧, Loneliness 🫧, managing emotions 🫧, men's issues, OCD, panic attacks 🫧, parenting, perinatal mood disorder, ptsd 🫧,racial and cultural identity, recovery 🫧, relationship stress 🫧, schizophrenia, self esteem 🫧, self harm 🫧, sexual health, sleeping well 🫧, social anxiety 🫧, spirituality 🫧, student life 🫧, work stress 🪻 a few notes : 🪻 🪻sometimes i get triggered by eating disorders, self harm, and sexual abuse, if i get triggered it is *not* your fault, I have ptsd, and I will refer you to another listener 🪻 🪻 while i take chats on sexual health, i do *not* engage in sexual activities, and please please PLEASE don't ask me for help with self pleasure. This is not something i am comfortable with 🪻 🪻i take spirituality chats, but i am an atheist, i have dealt with switching from baptist. I will offer support, please don't try and convert me 🪻  🪻I tend to call my members "love", "sweetheart", "sweetie", and "hunny". These make me seem more caring, and often times it's so I can use a name to make it more personal. If this bothers you let me know  🪻 💚 green means I'm online and free to chat!  🧡 orange means I am online but busy, usually in pms or in a room, please feel free to message but replies may be delayed  ❤ im offline, but I'm still here, please reach out and I'll reply within 24 hours  🪻chats i do NOT take (because i am uncomfortable or uneducated)🪻 Cancer, Mens issues, weight management, women issues  🪻rules for chats (IF I SAID LOOK FOR THE BIG ORANGE LETTERS, HERE THEY ARE)🪻 🪻please don't just say 'hey', please send what you would like to discuss 🪻 🪻chats last 30minutes give or take, if you leave for more than 10 minutes, i will move on, I'm still here though ❤️🪻 🪻 please no sexual or flirting chats pertaining to me🪻 🪻unless i asked you to pm me a link in a chat, i will not open links 🪻 🪻7cups is not a crisis resource so i cannot help you if you are currently self harming🪻 🪻I do not give advice🪻 🪻if you are breaking my rules or the site rules, or making me uncomfortable (such as screaming or aggressive swearing) i will send you here or to the site rules. after that, i will give three warnings, worded like so. "please stop *said behavior* thank you" the last warning will say final warning, then i will block you 🪻 🪻Roles🪻 🏳️‍🌈LGBTQ mod🏳️‍🌈 🌈 LGBTQ forum supporter 🌈 🐢Trauma support Mod 🐢 🐈‍⬛Trauma Support Forum Supporter🐈‍⬛ 🐇Smile spreader 🐇 🐮 Listener Chatroom support 🐮 🐁 newbie hub mod 🐁 🦘peer support 🦘 🦒safety patrol🦒 🦕Listener Room Supporter🦕 🦛Doorkeeper🦛 🪻wow! You are so awesome! i just wanted to remind you that you are beautiful and amazing!!!! 🪻 🪻 shout out to @KateDoskocilova , my boss aha 🪻
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sunlightspirit
L Maven 2 1746
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❤️ It takes great courage to reach out and I would honor the opportunity to be a part of your journey by supporting you through your healing process so that you can experience life's greatest moments more often or if your needs are just to be heard and understood, reach out to me for a chat.   I look forward to chatting with you. You may want to book a chat session with me at a specific date and time using my online calendar: If there are no available dates/times on the calendar, drop me a message in a chat with your schedule request and I will do my best to find time that works for us both.... Click to book: https://sunlight.youcanbook.me/ [https://sunlight.youcanbook.me/] Specialize in: SEXUAL CONCERNS; SEXUAL ISSUES; SEXUAL HEALTH; SEXUALITY; BREAKUPS; RELATIONSHIP STRESS; ADHD; PTSD;  EATING DISORDERS; DEPRESSION, ADDICTIONS, ANXIETY, GETTING UNSTUCK, COPING SKILLS, GENERAL MENTAL HEALTH CONCERNS, MOTIVATION I WORK WITH ANYONE REGARDLESS OF AGE, RACE, RELIGION, GENDER, SEXUAL PREFERENCES ABSOLUTELY WITHOUT JUDGEMENT OR PREJUDICE After receiving a BA in Psychology and Family Studies and a Master's in Education I knew my love for making a difference in other peoples lives was where I needed to be. With over 8 years of experience in life Coaching helping others become empowered to help themselves be the successful and happy person they desire and deserve.  Sunlight  
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grimsmark8
L Master 9 847
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Hi, I'm Grim! aka Rocky(Summer), Grimmo(Fristo), Grimsby (Beecake) "MEOWDY? what sort of cowboy kitty is that? 😮 is that McFluffy Marky Meowzers?" - @WhiteJenny I'm grateful to be on this amazing platform that has helped me in myriad ways, and so I'd decided to give back to the community as a verified listener. I believe that due to some reasons or the other, we tie ourselves into emotional knots that are hard to undo, especially when we don't find a comfortable place to work on it. We tend to wound ourselves up more and more in the helplessness. As a listener, I aim to provide a non-judgmental and comfy space to ground so that you could be gentle with yourself. Then, bit by bit, you could do what's needed for you, and free your heart!   Qn by @KartikListener: "If you had 1 big wish, what would you wish for (only selfish wishes allowed)?" Ans:"I wish to have a big farm with a nice cottage with flowers, where I would grow a lot of vegetables, where I would bake my own bread, make pasta and wine, where I would have books, cats, wild birds and animals, and would just do what my partner finds cute (she's amazing, and I trust her completely). We would host good people from all around the world as our guests and volunteers to help around our big farm, and we can learn from each other's life experiences, and sing and dance. I hope it's not too much, and you asked for a big wish so....😊" #ByeByeCliques Preferred Topics: - Bipolar - Anxiety - Depression  - General Mental Health - Grief - Getting Unstuck - Exercise Motivation - Managing Emotions - Self-esteem and self-harm - Relationship Stress - Racial and Cultural Identity - Spirituality P.S. : Please do reach out to me in case you want to talk over other related issues that overlap with the aforementioned topics, except: Issues I Don't Want to Discuss: - Marital topics - Financial Stress - Cancer/Diabetes Some more stuff: Green means 'online and taking personal requests'. Orange means 'online but busy conversing with another member'. Red is 'offline'.  Please do leave messages even when it's orange/red, I'll see them and reach out to you as soon as I can, even the next day!  Looking forward to connecting with you! Regards,   --- 7 Cups is built on collaboration, and a little appreciation goes a long way! It takes just a second to make someone's whole day right now: Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]
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chyni
L Expert 1 609
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“success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” —winston churchill 🦋🦋🦋 IMPORTANT NOTICE 📣  please DO NOT send me a message saying "hi" or "hey" as i normally overlook these messages as spam/nothing serious, and rarely reply or never. i also ask users to do this as it helps me to understand better about the topic we’d be speaking on, as i’m not comfortable discussing certain things. if you have an issue that you'd like to speak on, please send me a brief message stating your issue/s and I'll get back to you ASAP when I'm available, thank you. also, my chats are normally 30-60 mins, depending on you 😊  hello there, my name is chyni. welcome to my profile and to the 7 cups of tea site. there are a range of issues that i’m comfortable offering compassionate support for. these include:  anxiety •• breakups •• bullying •• chronic pain •• depression •• domestic violence •• loneliness •• managing emotions •• relationship stress •• social anxiety •• student life •• exercise motivation •• family stress •• forgiveness •• financial stress •• getting unstuck •• grief •• obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) •• panic attacks •• self-esteem •• spirituality •• work stress i am a trained and verified listener, my goal here while serving my time on the 7 cups of Tea site is to, change or help change patterns of your thinking or behavior that are behind your difficulties, and so, change the way you feel.  🦋🦋🦋 my leadership roles: peer support verified listener room supporter — depression support  forum supporter — motivation & accountability community  forum supporter — 7 cups academy community  🦋🦋🦋 i don’t have a specific time for my availability, it’s whenever my status indicates that i’m available. if the status color is green, it means that i’m online, yellow– busy, and red– offline.  i look forward to chatting with you and understanding how best I can help you.  best wishes, chyni 🤍
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chandramoulieswar
L Specialist 4 805
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Hi I'm Eswar from India, I really love a lot to listen to every single word you speak to me and, I'm glad you have found me to speak to. I just give importance to each & every small emotion of you without judging you. I will speak more like a best friend rather than some stranger. So, you never feel uncomfortable in speaking to me. I'm here because of my passion towards a happy world with smiles everywhere. Also, because of my interest in psychology. And, I'm a verified active listener. I'm really passionate in helping mentally and provide a motivational support to those who are dealing with hard phases of life. I'll really try my best to help you out in any manner, even if it is so small.
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Tamy4210
L Advanced 9 515
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You are safe here with me and you are welcome here always.  I do not take chats on sexual health, financial complications and exercise motivation as other listeners would be more suited to support you on those areas. I am currently on a self care break. Take care of yourself.  
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RainbowGhosty
L Advanced 6 504
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Hello I’m Max! A little bit about me: I use He/Him pronouns. I love listening to music, binge watching shows, reading, and writing. I joined 7 cups because I like to help people the best I can, that’s probably because I believe no one should be alone dealing with something. What is important for you to know: I am typically available after 7:00 P.M. (MST). So if you message me I’ll be able to get back to you then :) Topics I’m best at helping with: -Anxiety -Breakups -Stress (Family, Relationships, School, the Future, etc.) -Depression -Self Esteem -Finding Motivation -Getting Unstuck -Recovering From Eating Disorders -Parenting (any kind) -Panic/Anxiety attacks -LGBTQIA+ / SAGA/ MOGII (This includes if you are questioning and trying to figure that out) -Trauma (Living with the past and/or currently) -Finding Self Worth Other topics that were not mentioned I can try my best help with (with the exception of grief if that is the main reason you are on 7 Cups today). However, I may not be the best with certain topics and may suggest for you to try another listener who would be of more help to you! In case you were wondering: I accept long term members! If you would like to be a long term member or are curious about what that would involve, feel free to message me!
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sereneMirage8103
L Discoverer 10 544
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Verified Listener  Member of Safety Patrol Team (You can report any profiles to me which seem to violate the terms and conditions) *Not taking sexual and casual chit chats* Just like a how serene mirage, a gentle oasis in the desert of thoughts, offers a momentary escape from the tumultuous currents of the mind, 7 cups listeners have the potential to soothe your wounds momentarily as well, so that you can actually feel hopeful to treat them by yourself!  Greetings! I extend a warm welcome to you. I understand that life's path can be filled with various challenges and obstacles. However, I am here to provide you with the support you need during the difficult moments in your journey. Having someone who genuinely listens and empathizes with you can make a significant difference. Throughout my own life, I have personally encountered and overcome numerous challenges, including bullying, anxiety, depression, exercise motivation, weight management, breakups, and relationship issues. Drawing from these experiences, I aim to connect with you on a deeper level and provide compassionate support. If you find resonance with my profile and feel that I may be able to assist you on your journey, please don't hesitate to send a personal request. Rest assured, I will make every effort to respond to your request as promptly as possible. Remember, you are not alone, and together, we can navigate the darkness and work towards a brighter future.
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ThoughtfulBlossom
L Explorer 5 380
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<< Please browse for another listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] if you are looking for immediate support. >>  ––– ✧.* Hello! My name is Blossom, and I'm glad that you came across my bio. ✧.* ༶•┈┈┈┈┈୨♡୧┈┈┈┈┈•༶ *ੈ✩‧₊˚ About Me as a Listener  *ੈ✩‧₊˚ Everyone needs a space where they can feel safe and understood, and that is very valid. We all have our challenges and struggles that we need to work through, and we don't want to be invalidated or disrespected for our acts of the present and past. I know how difficult it is to trust others, as well as reach out for support, and coming on here already shows how much courage you have in your heart. I am someone who you can reach out to if you need a safe and empathetic space to share any challenges you are facing. I am not allowed to give advice under any circumstances, but I will provide the encouragement and compassion that I know a lot of us need in this world. I would love to chat with you, not just as a listener, but as a friend. You are not alone in this world, and I hope to show that you can share whatever you are going through or get your heavy feelings off your chest. You are special and wonderful, and I will be here to listen and stand by you all the way. *ੈ✩‧₊˚ Status Key *ੈ✩‧₊˚ ❋ Available ➩ This means that I am available to take any personal requests for a 1-1 chat. I will respond to any private messages very promptly.  ❋ Busy ➩ This means that I am on the site, but I am busy taking another chat or with other matters on here. I will respond to any private messages as soon as possible. ❋ Offline ➩ This means that I am not on the site right now. I will respond to any private messages within 24 hours. Until then, please browse for another listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. *ੈ✩‧₊˚ Chatting Options *ੈ✩‧₊˚ You can request any of the following chatting options: Live Chats: All live chats will last 30 minutes to an hour depending on my availability. These chats would be most common for short-term members who I only meet a few times. For long-term members who would like to have live chats with me, we would need discuss possible time-frames when we can meet each week (even though offline chats would be recommended). When we schedule a chat, please be sure to let me know ahead of time if you need to cancel (ideally at least 10-20 minutes before our session). My days are usually pretty busy, so I will not stay on for more than 10 minutes into our session if you do not come online. Offline Chats: These are more flexible chats where we can respond to one another at any time (ideally up to 24 hours since the last message). Otherwise, the chat will be laid out just like a live 1-1 chat. I will usually request this kind of chat for long-term members, since we are acquainted with one another already. When we go through an offline chat, please understand that my responses may vary from time to time, and I would appreciate your patience, just as I am patient with you. *ੈ✩‧₊˚ Availability *ੈ✩‧₊˚ As of now, I am slowly taking 1-1 chats with members. For immediate chats, please browse for another listener. Thank you for understanding! Additionally, my status will remain as offline for the time being, at least until I fall into routine again with regard to 1-1 chats. Feel free to message me any time and I will respond to you as soon as possible. *ੈ✩‧₊˚ My Chat Boundaries *ੈ✩‧₊˚ ╰┈➤ Please be respectful to me just as I am respectful and compassionate to you. I am here to support you and empathize with any challenges you are facing, but I will not tolerate disrespect. ╰┈➤ The maximum chat length that I take is 30 minutes to an hour, depending on my availability. At the beginning of every live chat, I will be sure to mention how long we can chat. ╰┈➤ Please do not ask me to call you terms of endearment, such as "sweetheart" or "honey," unless I know you extremely well, as that makes me feel uncomfortable and goes beyond my personal boundaries. ╰┈➤ I do not take sexual health chats or sexual chats of any kind. If you request a sexual health chat, I will ask that you browse for another listener. However, if you intend to misuse private messages to make sexual advances toward me, the connection will be blocked immediately and you will be reported. ╰┈➤ I can take offline chats in addition to live chats, but please understand that I may not respond immediately, even if my status is orange (ie. busy). If my status is orange, that means I may be chatting with another member, and I do not take multiple chats at a time so that I can have my full attention on each member. ╰┈➤ I will be able to support the topics that I mention below to the fullest of my ability, so please be respectful of that. If I feel that I am not able to support you to the greatest extent possible with the topic of your choice, then I will recommend that your browse for another listener. ╰┈➤ If you see that I am participating in the group chatrooms or creating posts in forums, that does not mean that I am prepared to take 1-1 chats or reply to any private messages. Please understand that I have other responsibilities on this site as a listener, and I will respond to any private messages when I can. *ੈ✩‧₊˚ Chat Topics that I Take *ੈ✩‧₊˚ I can take chats on the following topics (starred topics indicate that I have direct experience). Please note that this list may change over time. ✰  Anxiety (including Social Anxiety) —  Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) ✰  Breakups ✰  Bullying —  Chronic Pain ✰  Diabetes —  Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) ✰  Depression ✰  Exercise Motivation ✰  Family Stress ✰  General Mental Health ✰  Getting Unstuck ✰  Grief ✰  LGBTQ+ Issues ✰  Loneliness ✰  Managing Emotions ✰  Panic Attacks ✰  Self-Esteem ✰  Sleeping Well ✰  Student Life ✰  Women's Issues ✰  Work Stress *ੈ✩‧₊˚ Roles *ੈ✩‧₊˚ ❀ Verified Active Listener: This means that I took a mock chat with a mentor, and then was verified as a qualified and committed active listener here at 7 Cups. My hope is that with this verification from the community, members will feel more comfortable reaching out, knowing that they will receive the support and empathy that they deserve. Due to offline commitments, I had to discontinue the roles that I was previously in. However, the following is a list of my past roles, which I hope to reapply for in the near future: ❀ Forum Supporter (Self-Harm Recovery and Healthy Living Support Sub-Community): I dedicated my time in building a supportive, empathetic, and safe environment in our forums. In my respective sub-communities, my goal was to reply to members who gathered the courage to share their stories, come up with forum discussions and ice-breakers, check-in with our members weekly, and share information that members of the sub-communities may be interested in hearing. ❀ Peer Appreciation Check-in Host: The purpose of these check-ins is to expression our appreciation for our peers, ourselves, and the good things in our lives. We hope that these sessions will put a smile on your face, and show you that there are so many things we can appreciate in this world. *ੈ✩‧₊˚ Special Listener Shout-Out *ੈ✩‧₊˚ *ೃ༄ @Daf8 [https://www.7cups.com/@Daf8] *ೃ༄ — A special mentor-figure and an amazing person! Every time we meet in the Teen Listener room, she is super supportive and compassionate. She is the one who motivated me on my first day as a listener to be the very best I can be, and I'll never forget that day. She gave me amazing resources and encouragement that I still use to this day to remind myself that my support is meaningful and will make a difference to a person's life. I am honored to consider her a good friend, and I feel so fortunate to have met her. Keep being your wonderful self! ♡ *ೃ༄ @BlueRiver5968 *ೃ༄ — [Paragraph coming soon . . .] *ੈ✩‧₊˚ A Special Listener to Remember *ੈ✩‧₊˚ *ೃ༄ @AGuardianAngel *ೃ༄ — My dear bestie and lovely little sister of mine! She's such a beautiful and wonderful angel who never failed to amaze me with her resilient, compassionate, and understanding personality. Her kindness was so infectious, and she was an amazing listener too! She has been there for me during my good and bad days, and I can't thank her enough for just being her lovely self. Never change, my dear! You're a rock star! Wishing you the very best with everything. ♡ ⋆——————✧◦♚◦✧——————⋆ Thanks for reading my bio, and I hope you have a good day/night! ♡  ʕっ• ᴥ • ʔっ [ Last updated: March 23, 2024 ]
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Hello there! I'm Otter, here for *most of* your listening needs! 🤎🦦 I am unable to take chat requests as I cannot respond in a timely manner, nor am I in the headspace to support. To find a listener click the Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. Feel free to message me about anything *except* sexual health, self harm, and eating disorders. I am experienced in breakups, friend/relationship stress, and loneliness. 🤎 I do not reply to casual chats such as "hey," "hello," etc. For your best interest, address what you'd like to discuss and I will get back to you as soon as possible 🤎🦦 🧡 Quotes to Consider 🧡 "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.” -Dr Seuss 💙🤍🖤 "Promise me you'll always remember that you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think". -Christopher Robin to Winnie the Pooh 🤍💚🤎 You are enough. You are strong, you are valuable, and you are worth it.  💟 ------------------------- Here are some resources! Suicide and self harm support: https://www.adolescentselfinjuryfoundation.com/things-to-do-besides-self-harm http://suicide.org [http://suicide.org/]/ Abuse support and help: https://www.rainn.org [https://www.rainn.org/]/ Positive body affirmations: https://blog.gratefulness.me/body-positive-affirmations/ [https://blog.gratefulness.me/body-positive-affirmations/] Self-love support: https://tinyurl.com/bbr-foundation [https://tinyurl.com/bbr-foundation] https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-savvy-psychologist/202107/5-ways-develop-self-love-and-why-you-need  Inspirational Quotes: https://www.region10.org/r10website/assets/File/100%20Motivational%20Quotes%20That%20WillInspire%20You%20to%20Succeed.pdf  Tone Tags List:  https://tonetags.carrd.co/#masterlist    A quote from America's former First Lady, Eleanor Roosevelt, and a reminder to never let others control you: “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” 🤎🤍💖 ------------------------- Thank you Remus, for this beautiful creation, the Saxy Woerm.  🎷🐛
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