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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

WakingLife93
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Hello everyone! I'm a Certified Substance Abuse Counselor, Qualified Mental Health Professional, and Social Work graduate student at the University of Kentucky. I have a diverse clinical background including work in crisis stability centers, mental health skill-building services, and outpatient medication-assisted treated (MAT) centers. A rural Appalachian upbringing in the wake of the Opioid Epidemic has shaped my often pragmatic and humanist approach to mental health and recovery services-- professional interests include the philosophy of liberation, peer-based support services, and collective healing through building communities. Feel free to send me a message about anything! I don't claim to know it all, but I'm one of the least judgmental people you're likely to meet =] 
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Anomalia
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Hi all, I'm glad you've found my profile here! I truly love to listen and help others, and am particularly versed in eating disorders, work stress, and sexual assault, though happy to discuss anything, including sexual issues / sexuality. If you feel like you could use some extra support or help working through a problem, please reach out! I am not taking live chats right now, but can message back and forth not live if useful. I'm a former ambassador and still happy to support listeners or offer a place to vent when needed even though I no longer hold any formal position beyond listener after stepping down from my leadership roles. If you see me in the forums, you'll know I have a few favorite quotes around recovery and strength that I throw around all the time, so I'll share them here, too. "You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think" "Never forget you are worth more than the value you place on yourself." "Every day might not be a good day but there is good in every day." Much love to all, Anomalia
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LiveLoveForgive
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।। विवेकख्यातिरविप्लवा हानोपायः ।। Not accepting new members, kindly browse listener's from the below link : https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/
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gracefulBelle
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Hi, there! I am gracefulBelle and it is my absolute pleasure to listen and support you!   So, congratulations for choosing to be here with us! Looking forward to chatting with you soon :)  (AVAILABLE WEEKDAYS: 14:00 - 16:00 (sast) / 16:00 - 18:00 (sast) / WEEKENDS AVAILABLE UPON APPOINTMENT) 
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MaddieTheCompassionateListener
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Hello, and welcome to 7cups. My name is Maddie, and I have a Bachelors Degree in psychology and am interested in pursuing a Master's degree in counseling psychology once I gain more experience within the mental health field through my volunteer work here on 7cups. Although I am not a licensed therapist just yet, I'm fascinated with exploring the psychoanalytic tradition of psychotherapy, which means that I'm very interested in the root causes and origins of current psychological symptoms, but by no means am I a professional psychotherapist. All chats that I engage in with members are strictly as a professional Listener on 7cups and I abide by the rules stipulated in the 7cups contract. To give a brief sketch of my interest in psychoanalysis, this theoretical orientation focuses on the power of the past and childhood in shaping who we grow to become as adults. Often, members seeking help are in pain; anguished and hurting, with profound struggles and issues and "talk therapy", (as psychoanalysis is colloquially known), aims to bring about greater self-awareness through understanding the role that the past plays in the present. Through active listening, being a trained listener on 7cups, and being present with members as they discuss their own stories, my long-term members are often able to achieve transformation and live a healthier and more fulfilling life. I look forward to chatting with anyone who is in need of my services. I AM NOT IN ANY WAY A SUBSTITUTE FOR  SPEAKING WITH A MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL AND I AM NOT A PROFESSIONAL THERAPIST. IF THIS IS AN EMERGENCY, PLEASE REACH OUT TO THIS LINK, WHERE INTERNATIONAL AS WELL AS UNITED STATES RESIDENTS CAN SEEK IMMEDIATE HELP IF IN A CRISIS: http://www.suicidestop.com/call_a_hotline.html">http://www.suicidestop.com/call_a_hotline.html  
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jennysunrise8
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Hi i am an adult/teen listener married with three children who are all adults now and you are welcome to message me anytime day or night 🙂 I really do enjoy talking to people of all ages dealing with a lot of different situations and i am fine with casual chats but you should take the lead and you can take all the time you need when it comes to saying whats on your mind i am ok with waiting and do not expect quick replies or every question i ask to be answered If i am in online mode (green) you can always expect an immediate response and chat and if i am in offline mode (red) i might not be able to have a live chat right away but just leave a message and i will get back to you however i usually do stay in offline mode even when i am on here so i might message back immediately I have many different interests and i am open to talking about almost anything however above all else i believe in communication and honesty between people and will let you know right away if its a topic that I cannot support you with i am very interested in and try to practice mindfulness every day and also clear communication If you are feeling stuck in your life right now I would love to help you work through it in whatever way you feel is best for you just let me know we can all choose to do something different at any time outside of the established habits and routines that we have created for ourselves you choose when and how but change is absolutely possible and it is never too late or if you just want to vent about something going on in your life you can do that too  😊 〰 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 〰 7cups crisis resources  https://7cups.com/crisis/ [https://7cups.com/crisis/]   free confidential support from a helpline/hotline near you - online chat text or phone (international just put in your country)   https://findahelpline.com/ [https://findahelpline.com/]   Tiny Habits free program here on 7cups to easily add new habits into your life  https://tinyhabits.com/program/ [https://tinyhabits.com/program/]   sign up for a tiny habits coach  https://bjfogg.typeform.com/to/QXc0WJ great articles and resources on this amazing website Lifehack  https://bit.ly/2J75bK2 [https://bit.ly/2J75bK2] free procrastination workbook and self help modules  https://bit.ly/2GOcU3e [https://bit.ly/2GOcU3e] ProgressiveMuscleRelaxation  https://youtu.be/f7I2Upk5jqI [https://youtu.be/f7I2Upk5jqI] * https://youtu.be/ihO02wUzgkc [https://youtu.be/ihO02wUzgkc] Systematic Desensitization to reduce triggers that cause panic attacks or phobias  http://bit.ly/2yUhPbg [http://bit.ly/2yUhPbg]         great website everything related to SD and free ebook  http://web.csulb.edu/~tstevens/Desensit.htm [http://web.csulb.edu/~tstevens/Desensit.htm] visuals that help with breathing during panic attacks  https://dailyburn.com/life/lifestyle/stressed-gifs-breathing-exercises/ [https://dailyburn.com/life/lifestyle/stressed-gifs-breathing-exercises/] 7cups discussion on dealing with panic attacks  https://bit.ly/2MomF97 [https://bit.ly/2MomF97] 7cups discussion on reframing negative thoughts  https://bit.ly [https://bit.ly/2OnBaxv]/2OnBaxv [https://bit.ly/2OnBaxv] 30 grounding techniques to quiet the mind  https://www.healthline.com/health/grounding-techniques [https://www.healthline.com/health/grounding-techniques] 7cups discussion on managing negative internal dialogue  htt [https://bit.ly/2HOwCLl]ps://bit.ly/2HOwCLl [https://bit.ly/2HOwCLl] 24/7 youtube livestreams of relaxing sounds  https://youtu.be/63GF7qbr34U [https://youtu.be/63GF7qbr34U] * https://youtu.be/4qtD8RmvWn0 In a language as idiomatically stressed as English, opportunities for misreadings are bound to arise. By a mere backward movement of stress, a verb can become a noun, an act a thing. To refuse, to insist on saying no to what you believe is wrong, becomes at a stroke refuse, an insurmountable pile of garbage. - Ian McEwan
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Makhmoud123
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.                          ################################ "A big house on fire ,inside the house a little girl , outside standing a firefighter" #The big house is your mind. #The fire is your thoughts. #The little girl is you. #The firefighter is your actions. #The water pipe is help you get from other. #The fire suite is the support people give you. " If the little girl stand's in a bad spot in the house, will be hard to rescue ( negative self-talk ) and if she stand's in a good spot ( positive self-talk ) then it gonna be easier to rescue." "The firefighter if he scared ( no actions  ) then the little girl gonna keep on staying there , if he willing to enter ( actions ) then the little girl gonna be saved , with water pipe and fire suite he has a bigger chance to succeeded."  So how is it going to be ############################### "i do not sugarcoat" ###############################  INTJ-A  personality  #################################       
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TheFantasticPengua
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༻✦༺༻✧༺༻✦༺ Hello, Ciao!  I'm Pengua, an active listener here on 7 Cups, and simply, someone you can always reach out to! ABOUT ME:  - The username Pengua stemmed from my fascination with penguins!  - My favorite Celsius flavor is sparking orange.  - I enjoy volunteering for historical sites.  - My favorite restaurant is HuHot.  - I love to complete paint by numbers.  MY FOCUS:  I am comfortable with providing support with... 『』Anxiety*                             『』Grief*  『』Depression* 『』Eating Disorders 『』General Mental Health* 『』Getting Unstuck 『』Grief* 『』Self-Esteem* 『』Managing Emotions 『』OCD 『』Panic Attacks* 『』PTSD 『』Social Anxiety* 『』Addiction 『』Alcohol/Drug Abuse 『』Cancer * Indicates personal experience.  MY STATUS:  🟢 Full send! Reach out to me via personal request, and I will get back to you as fast as possible! I will always be here for you.  🟠 Hey traveler, I'm busy right now, but I will get back to you as soon as possible! If I have an orange status, expect me to be working with other members or working towards my goals! As said earlier, I will get back to you.  🔴 Stop! I'm offline! Still leave me a message, but whether or not I'll get back to you within a reasonable time is questionable. My response time is 24-48 hours if online. If I am traveling, I will be unable to reach out to you until I'm back.  MORE INFORMATION:  - If you are in an active crisis, please contact your local center.  - I am an active listener. That means I can guide you, but I am not here to provide advice.  - I prefer 1-1 chats rather than group chats! - I normally do not take personal requests right away, but I will find a time that works for the both of us.  - I am excited to reach out to you and begin your journey. I understand how life can lead you through the thick of it, and I am here to help. Please note, if I am unskilled in the area you're searching help for, I may refer you to a different Listener. I always want to help, but I want you to have the best help possible. I will let you know right away if there is an issue, and how we can solve this.  CREDENTIALS:  - Smile Spreader  - Quality Listening Program 04/08/24-Present - Internship Alumni 04/01/2024 - Community Building Alumni 04/07/2024 - Active Listener 12/25/2020 NOMINATIONS:  Nominations on 7 Cups allow members and listeners to receive recognition for their hard work on this platform. Do you have a favorite member or listener? Here are two options you can take.  The Tulip Awards recognizes Listeners who go above and beyond. You can only submit one entry for a certain listener, and you must not have the newbie badge, and you need 100 1-1 chats to do this.  The Peer Appreciation Form allows you to recognize any member or Listener whom you show appreciation towards. After submitting the form, a post will be made thanking the certain individual.  If you have any questions regarding nominations, please reach out to me. Thank you for making 7 Cups a better home for all.  Are you ready for this wonderful journey through your mind, traveler? Reach out to me today!
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Yougotmyback
L Expert 10 892
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Not taking member chats and totally unavailable. I can come to forums at times. Currently seeking treatment for some health issues. Hope to see you soon. *Kitty Hugs* ✨Would you let me see beneath your beautiful? ❤️ (Note : Please type up the topic of your chat instead of just a 'hi' so that it helps me know if I would be the right listener for you or not.) I can't save you but I can be with you and support you while you save yourself. Some important links : Connect with some amazing listeners Here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners].You deserve to be seen and heard. Here's a Member Pack [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CL9Yu_6zixlapOjdrhCgKLy9JN5wY3HWdrGH7PIO2WI/edit] for you to navigate the site better. Here are some Forums [https://www.7cups.com/forum/] you can join to find support and positivity. Here's a Listener's [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1dJwbNslw0nzUKqts1caZ477H3p4tpKQnB6Fkgg1QR44/edit?pli=1] [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1dJwbNslw0nzUKqts1caZ477H3p4tpKQnB6Fkgg1QR44/edit?pli=1]Pack [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1dJwbNslw0nzUKqts1caZ477H3p4tpKQnB6Fkgg1QR44/edit?pli=1] for the new listeners. Two simple Steps to Submit a review - https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/FeatureUpdates_2525/TwoSimpleStepstoSubmittheListenerReview_315363/ ------------------------------------- Please don't substitute this with therapy or counseling. I ask for your forgiveness if I fail to help you. If you think someone else can help you better, you can browse for other amazing listeners from Here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners]. You can also try out Online Therapy with a caring, licensed therapist here [https://www.7cups.com/online-therapy/]. Click Here [https://www.7cups.com/therapists/search.php] to find the therapists nearby.There are certain issues that are personal, sensitive or need more attention and guidance and I don't want to disappoint you in any way due to my lack of knowledge or experience. And, some issues can be triggering for me. (I don't take chats about sexual issues, parenting, financial issues, religion, disabilities, chronic health issues, extramarital affairs, cheating & LGBTQ+). We can still talk if you just need a listening ear and I'll be here for you, with you. - 7cups is not a crisis resource. If you are in crisis (having thoughts/intentions of suicide or are currently harming yourself), please contact crisis resources here [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis] or contact emergency services if you are in an immediate medical emergency. _____________________________________ Sign that you're meant to be here (1) [https://www.youtube.com/shorts/GjziAsA6vmk] Sign that you're meant to be here (2) [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3KrCmBNiJRI&ab_channel=Source] Do find your own! (: ✨❤️ Zendagi migzara. "When life gets you down do you know what you've gotta do?...Just keep swimming. Just keep swimming, swimming, swimming." Availablility: You can leave me a text anytime. If I'm offline, I will get back to you as soon as possible. Chats are limited to 30 minutes. However, you can send texts in between. Thank you for understanding. Disrespect will not be tolerated. It's always nice to appreciate the beautiful people around you! Click Here [https://tinyurl.com/Peer-Appreciation-Form] for the Peer Appreciation form. Interested in music? Here's 7 cups Spotify Playlist [https://spotify.link/KkzvsAII1Db] for you! Trying to fill your cup with hopes and smiles. Sending positive vibes your way! 🫶🏻
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chasingchaos
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Hi, I'm glad you found me on 7 cups of tea. I have endured many life tragedies and hardships that have molded me into the person I am today. I have learned many life lessons, knowledge, and skills that have allowed me to continue to persevere, to build my resiliency, and a desire to help others in their times of difficulty. I am a two-time breast cancer survivor, 2003 & 2009. I am a Crisis Counselor, and an advocate for victims of crime, crisis, and trauma. I believe that I was born and continue to live to fulfill a purpose and that is to help others get through their time of need. I have a great deal of personal experience with enduring horrifying emotions that one goes through when dealing with anxiety, helplessness, hopelessness, depression, chronic pain, PTSD, and grief. If I'm online, please feel free to start to chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can setup a time to connect.
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Writersworld
L Intermediate 188
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I am a Christian but I welcome anyone🙂 If you have ADHD like myself, I understand if you don't want to read further. Just message me I am a teacher and I have a degree in Pastoral psychology. I love helping people. I also report inappropriate conversations. I love poetry. I love art. I love music. I love history. I love reading. I love psychology. I love animals. I love nature. I love life.  I believe in Jesus. I believe God is 3 in one.  This is one of my favourite worship songs:  https://youtu.be/xb1bx3hYfzg?feature=shared 
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Hereforyouall144
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I am open to talk about all topics even anything related to Porn, addiction, Social deprivation, Obsessions and Spirituality.
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