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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

delicateMonkey
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Hello, it's nice to meet you! I have a B.S. in Psychological Sciences and have plans to become a psychiatrist. I am in the EST time zone and am typically available at night. If you personally request me and then my status changes to offline, I will be with you soon! I set my status to red so that I can focus of my current chats. I like to keep chats to ~1 hour, as that allows us to make progress. Reaching out is the hardest part, but you've already taken the first step! If we talk, please leave me a review! I strive to better myself as I go through my journey as a 7Cups listener! 💮 -Please be patient and kind to your listener. We are not professionals and need you to meet us halfway.- "You will succeed in whatever you choose to do, and light will shine on the road ahead of you." ------------------------- I currently do not have the capacity to take on more long-term members, but I will happily take one-off chats! For listeners: I do peer support - please PM me if you need! You will often catch me in the LSR 💘
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OceanWhisper92
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Hi I’m hoping to bring comfort in your time of need.For I understand the need of having that support and pray that I can be a help to you during this time.
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BlissfulBue
L Intermediate 3 230
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Currently recharging - on a self care break! Unavailable 😊 Hey! 🤗 I'm Bue💕✨ I'm here to provide support and understanding. I strongly believe in the power of active listening and offering a non-judgmental space for you to share your thoughts and feelings. Whether you need someone to vent to or simply want to feel heard, I am here to lend an ear and support you in any way I can. Times available It's been haphazard lately Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] Online Status Red: Offline but you can leave me a message and I will get back to you as soon as possible Orange: Online but not checking messages often  Green: Online and accepting new chats Credits for my profile picture go to my ♊ Twin!! , @YourCaringConfidant
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royalAngel87
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Trust yourself ,you have survived a lot you Will survive whatever is coming....  Love yourself ♥ first be thankful for closed ones and everything falls into line . You really have to believe yourself forget the past don't over think just do it.  Remember u can't move forward if you keep thinking about the past or future. Live in present future Will be good if you concentrate on present. Don't regret on past it's gone it won't be changed focus on present u can do several  amazing things.Just give your heart to your passion nothing Will stop u  Kick out toxic people from your life they don't have any room in your life.  Live Laugh Love 💕  Need time for myself self care break kindly look for other listeners ☺   
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ASilentObserver
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"You are always one decision away from a totally different life." Hello everyone, I'm known as Obs and I'm one of the members of the Community Management Team [https://www.7cups.com/about/communityGuidelines.php].  Here are some resources in case you need them -  If you are unable to see any group support rooms, probably you would need to meet some requirements. Check them here! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ASilentObserversOffice_2008/WeeklyGroupSupportLetterWeekofFeb10_217277/]  Join us in various group discussions. check the community calendar for the schedule and details.  [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] Group Support Frequently Asked Questions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ObsDesk_2008/FrequentlyAskedQuestionsGroupSupport_215692/] Weekly Communi. a listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/CommunityModeratorWeeklySchedule_1640/CommunityModScheduleWeekofJan06_214569/] If you are a listener and need some Chat Support, check this resource [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/edit?usp%3Dsharing&sa=D&ust=1581950130116000&usg=AFQjCNFZd4GUNuPdJ94r__2tXhDNc9oL5Q]  Please feel free to PM me with any questions or doubts regarding our community and roles. I am here with you to help with the best of my efforts while we keep building our community better each day with team efforts.  I am unable to take chat requests right now as I am unable to respond timely. I request you to connect with other available listeners here-  Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. We all are here with you to listen to and support you.  Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character-building day." - Les Brown Have a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by!!
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prismaticlotus
L Maven 2 1524
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please send a brief message about the topic you would like to chat about when reaching out, thank you 
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Yashoda108
L Advanced 6 533
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I am a person who is grateful to have gathered much experience helping others and who wants to assist you to overcome adversity and lead the happy and beautiful life that you deserve !   As a personal request, I don’t take casual chats, LGBTQ or sexual or chronic mental issues.  I will listen and not give you advice but will work with you towards finding solutions. This is not a substitute for professional therapy, counselling or medical support.
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livedexperiences
L Advanced 10 551
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I'm here as a listener and in my daily life outside of 7cups I work as a Counsellor. I have spent the last 4 years working in disability here in Australia. I have worked with clients starting at 3 years of age going well up to 65. Before that I worked with families for 16 years and gave a huge effort there. I have a lot of empathy and compassion coupled with real life skills and practicality. I know a lot of people can't afford counsellors and sometimes you might not get out of it what you want. I am not here to counsel you, just to be clear. So please don't expect that. However, I do have a few skills that might support you to move through whatever it is that you are moving through. If I can't support you or help you I'll move you on to another listener. Sometimes listeners without any quals can be immensely helpful. This can be a wonderful and amasing service for a lot of people and I am glad to be a part of it :) I'm also glad you're a part of 7cups :) Also, my opening line is always, "hello" but don't be deterred. I have ADHD, Dyslexia and potentially be on the spectrum, mildly. 
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Blueberris
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I am college student pursuing a Ph.D. in Psychology. I'm passionate about mental health and assisting those who are going through challenging times.
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ShadowFaerie
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Hi, I'm Faerie, & I'm glad you found me here on 7cups! I would like the opportunity to "hold your hand" through whatever subject you need help with, whether light or heavy. I will take the time to listen, without judgement. I'm a verified listener here, in the "35+" age group, & I have experience working with adolescents & adults, (including LGBTQIA+), professionally, & in volunteer positions. I have experience with a wide range of topics, including family issues, relationship issues, dv, rape, abuse, painful breakups, disabilities, homelessness, chronic pain, addictions & other speed-bumps/road-blocks that life throws us, often when least expected. I enjoy cooking, reading, painting (watercolors and sometimes acrylic), writing creatively, being independent, having picnics outside, music (of all different genres) & sci-fi, among many other things. Welcome! I look forward to meeting you! "Our sorrows and wounds are healed only when we touch them with compassion". Buddha
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Daf8
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Note: My mental health has been low and I'm trying to slowly get back to my normal Cupsing. If I didn't reply to you yet, please know that I will as soon as I can. *Sending hugs and love* <3 ❤️ ¡Hola! ❤️ ❤️ Me llamo Daf. ❤️ ❤️ Soy una chica que ama estar acá para vos. ❤️ ❤️ No puedo solucionar tu vida, pero prometo apoyarte tanto como pueda. ❤️ Sobre mí: ❤️ He pasado por muchas cosas, por lo que comprendo y valido que te sientas como te sentís. ❤️ ❤️ Entre otras cosas, padezco síntomas de depresión, ansiedad y estrés. ❤️ ❤️ Sé y entiendo que no es fácil, y no voy a intentar convencerte de lo contrario. ❤️ ❤️ Básicamente, soy la rara de la clase. La introvertida, la que canta cuando nadie la escucha, la que devora libros, la mejor amiga de los/as gatos/as, y la amiga que siempre te respeta y está para apoyarte. Si me lo permitís, seré esa amiga. ❤️ ❤️ Mis conversaciones tienen un único objetivo: apoyarte tanto y como pueda. ❤️ ❤️ Entiendo que estás pasando un momento realmente difícil, con todo lo que eso trae. ❤️ Estados: ❤️ Cuando mi estado se representa con el color rojo, significa que no estoy, y no voy a responder inmediatamente. Sin embargo, ¡podés enviarme mensajes! Me encantará recibirlos, y contestaré cuando pueda hacerlo. ❤️ ❤️ Cuando mi estado se representa con el color naranja, significa que estoy, aunque hay posibilidades de que no responda inmediatamente. ❤️ ❤️ Cuando mi estado se representa con el color verde, significa que estoy de forma total: ¡escribime! Me encantará leerte y responderte. ❤️ ¡¡¡¡ATENCIÓN!!!! IMPORTANTE: ❤️ Estoy para vos ❤️ ❤️ Hi! ❤️ ❤️ My name is Daf. ❤️ ❤️ I'm a girl who loves to be here for you. ❤️ ❤️ I can't solve your life, but I promise to support you as much as I can. ❤️ About me: ❤️ I have been through many things, so I understand and validate that you feel the way you feel. ❤️ ❤️ Among other things, I have symptoms of depression, anxiety and stress. ❤️ ❤️ I know and understand that it is not easy, and I will not try to convince you otherwise. ❤️ ❤️ Basically, I'm the weirdest in class. The introvert, the one who sings when nobody listens to her, the one who devours books, the best friend of cats, and the friend who is respectful and always there to support you. If you allow me, I will be that friend. ❤️ ❤️ My conversations have only one objective: to support you in any way and as much as I can. ❤️ ❤️ I understand that you are having a really difficult time, with all that that brings. ❤️ Status: ❤️ When my status is represented with red, it means that I am not here, and I will not respond immediately. However, you can send me messages! I will love to receive them, and I will reply whenever I can. ❤️ ❤️ When my status is represented with orange, it means that I am here, although there are chances that I will not respond immediately. ❤️ ❤️ When my status is represented with green, it means that I am totally here: message me! I will love to read and respond to you. ❤️ ATTENTION!!!! IMPORTANT: ❤️ I am here for you ❤️
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GentlestGiant
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Welcome to 7 Cups. My name is Robbie, and I would be honored if you would allow me to be your Listener for a while. I have done a lot of living in my somewhat short-ish existence; and a lot of that living involved some rather harsh and painful obstacles. I've managed to sort through quite a bit, and come out on the other end a better person (at least I hope so!!). At one time or another, I've faced: an alcoholic and drug-addicted sibling, traumatic breakup from someone, being bullied in middle school, stresses that come from having a family torn apart by tragedy, a supremely stressful work environment, along with the depression, anxiety (plus panic disorder), and problems sleeping that you'd expect would result from having survived all these things. I've also been doing my best to cope with PTSD.  Obviously I am no expert...what I am is someone softhearted, intelligent, compassionate, affectionate, and honest. I am always more than happy to listen to others, and will do my very best to help you. Together, we can figure it out...together, we can help one another and learn from the experience of having shared a brief moment in time as confidants and friends. I hope you'll give me a chance to do that. While I am happy to be here for whoever wishes to talk to me, please note that I am not currently accepting any new long-term Members.  A few chat sessions is fine, but I do not have the energy right now for anything long-term.  I will also not accept any chats about incest.  I've been lied to about that topic before and it just isn't worth it for me to risk.
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