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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Espejo
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🌊 Hola, I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups 🌺 I'm a trained active listener and a believer of talking and reflecting on our thoughts, feelings, and actions as a form of therapy ☀️ Everyone needs someone to talk to and people come to 7 Cups because they want something to be different in their lives. They may want to change a personal situation, solve a particular problem, or simply bring a healthier balance to their lives 🐈 I'm here to listen, talk, and help you better understand yourself. If I'm online, reach out to chat. If not, send me a message and I'll respond as soon as I can. Talk to you soon 🐉 Healing energy is the energy of love. Learn to let it flow thru you. ✨
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ChaoticListener
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✨Updated Availability ~ I have no time and will respond to DMs when I see them in 1-5 business days✨ 📚Thank you for understanding as I am a public school educator📚 A chaotic listener. Vegan & Forest power! Chats will usually be ~30 minutes. Here are some free mental health apps  — * https://tinyurl.com/Big-List * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=is.vertical.ptsdcoach * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=id.com.WorryDolls&pli=1 * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.woebot * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bluepilltech.liberate.ocdapp * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.jacksontempra.apps.whatsup&gl=US ------------------------- The NAMI website where you can find a bunch of free mental health resources as on 7 cups - https://www.nami.org/Home NAMI and 7 cups as well as these free mental health apps have really helped me in my healing. No matter what you feel or what you have been told regarding the amount you need to do to "just not feel depressed (or insert any other mental illness here)" know that whatever you do for yourself is enough, mental illness can be debilitating, and the fact that you are here shows you are doing the healing work. I wish for you the world, I wish for you the power to change age old systems of oppression and to heal yourself in the process.
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gentleBeauty457
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Tyedyedbutterfly65
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        RETIRED FROM 7CUPS  AS OF 9-13-2023 . PLEASE BROWSE LISTENERS. I NO LONGER TAKE CHATS AND I HAVE DROPPED ALL MY BADGES.             ❤ "VOLUNTEERS ARE NOT PAID,NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE WORTHLESS ,BUT BECAUSE THEY ARE PRICELESS "❤             ❤️  I am a Christian- Married-Female ❤️                
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Kyoshi
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Open to new members (also long term) I'm planet hd 18977 3b ✧✧✧ 𝓐𝓵𝓵 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓷𝓮𝓮𝓭 𝓲𝓼 𝓯𝓪𝓲𝓽𝓱, 𝓽𝓻𝓾𝓼𝓽 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓪 𝓵𝓲𝓽𝓽𝓵𝓮 𝓫𝓲𝓽 𝓸𝓯 𝓹𝓲𝔁𝓲𝓮 𝓭𝓾𝓼𝓽 ✧✧✧ I don’t have to be an expert I just have to care -------------------------  About me: Hello there! I'm Kyoshi (Kyo), my pronouns are they/them. I'm 25 years old and passionate about mental health. I strongly believe in self reflecting and growth because there is always space for improvement. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────• Boundaries are an important aspect of listening, not just for me but also for you as member.  During our chats you will experience; - A safe space for you to vent and share; our chat is your safe space to talk about anything on your mind. What you share during our chats will stay in our chats. - A non judgemental enviourment; there wont be any judgement from me during our chats. Disclaimer: I'm not a professional, although I have knowledge on DID/OSDD and advocate for a better support system and safe place on cups for those with DID/OSDD(and questioning) I cannot provide a diagnosis, to be diagnosed with a Dissociative disorder you have to work with a professional that specializes in such cases. Thank you for understanding •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────•   Topics I’m comfortable with      -Dissociative Disorders  Dissociation  Dissociative Identity Disorder Other Specified Dissociative Disorder  -Trauma/PTSD Child abuse  Sexual abuse/assault Trafficking Ritual abuse Mind control Organized abuse Domestic violence Religious abuse -Family Stress  Parenting Foster care (also for parents who have children in the system) Also open to casual chat note: I only provide support on the topics mentioned above as I have personal experience in those and can relate to you. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────•  Status Green: I am currently online and accepting new personal requests, my response time will be within a few minutes. Orange: I am online but occupied with other tasks on cups, either I'm already in a chat with someone or I can be found in one of the rooms. My response time can vary (5-15min) Red: I'm currently offline and not available on cups, please leave me a message and I will come back to you in 48 hours. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────• Leadership roles -Chatroom Moderator (global) I help keep the rooms safe, supportive and inclusive! -Chatroom mentor  I help keep the listener rooms supportive and inclusive and I mentor listeners on their listener journey  -Chat support   I support listeners with difficult ongoing chats and answer listener journey related questions, if you need help with anything related to listening feel free to message me -Doorkeeper  I can open and close rooms, if you need to have a room open or closed please message me  -Safety Patrol I flag accounts that go against site guidelines, if you find an account that needs flagging please send me a message ------------------------- Helpful forum posts  everything below is clickable -Information on DID [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/DIDDissociativeIdentityDisorderexplainedandhowtohelp_254545/] -Differences between OSDD-1(a,b) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/OSDD1OSDD1aOSDD1bTheDifferences_263532/] -Different roles in a DID/OSDD system [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/TRIGGERWARNINGDIDOSDDAltertypesrolesexplained_263478/] -Information on religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiouschildAbuse_266210/] -How to support someone who experienced religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiousabuseandhowtosupportsomeone_266350/] -Fight and flight response [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/EventsDiscussionsResources_2334/FightorFlightResponseTriggerwarning_264481/]
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PeacefulOnes
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Greetings! I strive to provide support and guidance here because I'm someone who doesn't mind being there for anyone who's going through times of adversity. I also do it because I personally find it stimulating to engage in meaningful one-on-one conversations with others. As for my personal approach, I would say that what I bring to the table is a combination of a listening ear, empathetic understanding, and honesty. I pursue each and every dialogue with the understanding that a reciprocal attitude of basic seriousness and constructiveness will be upheld, so do bear that in mind for the sake of common courtesy. If you think that I could be a listener for you, then please do not hesitate to reach out to me.  Talk to each other soon, perhaps.
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Makhmoud123
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.                          ################################ "A big house on fire ,inside the house a little girl , outside standing a firefighter" #The big house is your mind. #The fire is your thoughts. #The little girl is you. #The firefighter is your actions. #The water pipe is help you get from other. #The fire suite is the support people give you. " If the little girl stand's in a bad spot in the house, will be hard to rescue ( negative self-talk ) and if she stand's in a good spot ( positive self-talk ) then it gonna be easier to rescue." "The firefighter if he scared ( no actions  ) then the little girl gonna keep on staying there , if he willing to enter ( actions ) then the little girl gonna be saved , with water pipe and fire suite he has a bigger chance to succeeded."  So how is it going to be ############################### "i do not sugarcoat" ###############################  INTJ-A  personality  #################################       
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Kapil110
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!!!ON A BREAK!!! Hello World!!! Often we are lost in the path we choose or the path that life has put us into and it can make us feel a mix of emotions traumas which cannot be put up into mere words, draining the very core of our life force. And if we just let all this happen to us it will keep happening over and over until we camouflage ourselves with this way of life. This unending chaos can only end if we from the very core of our heart decide and act to see through it conquer it and make our life out of it. It all starts from within us and only us. We have 2 lives and the second life begins when we realize that we only have 1.
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FreedomFrenzy123
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" 🙂Hey there!, I'm glad you have found me on 7 cups of Tea. I am looking forward to chat with you ☕️, feel free to say or discuss anything with me 💬, I am a very opened minded person and won't judge you 🫵🏼. Everyone needs a helping hand and no one should be left alone 🥀 , that's why am here to help you through your hard times 🫂" 
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Adam2342
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Hello there ! Glad that you found me . My favorite quote "Doing what you like is Freedom , Liking what you do is Happiness." I Like to offer my help to those who need it , I've been through a lot and I'm experienced enough to understand most of the topics. I am both Trained and Verified Listener by 7cups. I just wanted to say whether you pick me as your Listener or not. You're awesome , Stay Awesome. Have a good day ! P.S : I'm OFF the site for a couple of months , So I won't be taking any chats. You can browse for a fellow Listener right here : https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ OR Leave a Message and I'll get in touch as soon as I can. Have a great day !
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RoshanaShabanii
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Breathing creature.
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SoulfullyAButterfly
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Head of Content and Product Team Member  I am unfortunately unable to take member chats at this moment. I strongly believe in psychology - as a psychology student - I view our Psyches/psychology to be a key for all success in life. I believe that soulfully, we are all butterflies - we suffer from trials and misfortunes, and bit by bit, we are purified by our sufferings, until we are able to soar like a great butterfly. But the greatest thing amongst the chaos of this world, is that we can unite in the face of darkness in order to grasp the light. Conquer your life today, and reach out whenever needed! 🦋I am a verified, trained active listener with experience on several leadership teams here. I believe in the power of listening and motivating one another for success. Apart from my work here, I am a bookworm, poet, and lifelong learner. I enjoy advocating mental health and have leadership experience and training. 🦋 My journey at 7 Cups started as an intern. I graduated my internship here with honors, and put together a project on Social Media Depression (link found at the end of my bio). 🦋 My current roles include being the Programs Coordinator - I oversee the Content Volunteer Team and the Translations Project. I also enjoy being a Peer Supporter, Moderator/Room Supporter, as well as a forum-worm). 🦋 In the past, I have loved being the CML for the Veterans and Military Support Community and the Family and Caregivers Support Community as well. I have worked with great teams including the 35+ and 50+ subcommunities, and have been a discussion writer and feed team member as well. 🦋 I have not been raised or born in Pakistan and am only just recently adjusting to the culture/norms associated with the country. My first and primary language is English and I am not fluent enough in Urdu. Kindly respect that. 🦋If you are interested in learning more about the Community Projects and the Honors project, discussed above, please click the links below. Thank you! My Content Garden [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdatesInformationFortheCommunity_100/SoulfullyAButterflysContentGarden_2136/] Social Media Depression [https://tinyurl.com/y5ddog37/]
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