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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

ReeganB
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Greetings! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people struggling with depression, anxiety and anything that you might need to get off your chest. I enjoy camping, reading, traveling, scuba diving, video games and acting. I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. One thing to note is that I'm going to make you think in ways that you don't normally operate as I find it helps us grow when we're able to take a step outside of our own heads to view situations from another perspective. It's not always easy but rarely are the worthwhile things in life that way in the first place. Come with me on a journey to find the strength within yourself so you can live life to its fullest. "It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for - and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing. It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool - for love - for your dreams - for the adventure of being alive."
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Solivagant00
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There'll be a moment when you realise you're 27 when yesterday you were just 17; and you wouldn't be able to tell how a decade passed away and your life got divided into before and afters. The fury of youth will subdue and nothing will really change but everything will feel different when you look at old photographs and blurry videos taken on cheap mobile phones. Scents will remind you of childhood and certain friends you don't talk to anymore, hangouts will become reunions and mom's burnt pie will become the best food you ever had. And I know on some days you won't be able to show anything of those 10 years but I hope you remember to breathe, and let go of the knot in your chest. I hope you go out in the sun and live a little. 
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MeowDarkChocolate
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🇵🇸 Open to any and all spiritual/religious conversations no matter what your background is 💗 ◆◆◆     Happy Ramadan 🌙🕋 ◆◆◆ Enchanté! Je m'appelle O et je parle très peu Français mais je parle bien Anglais. Français musique est belle et je l'aime beaucoup! 💗💜💙 A little deed often goes a long way and might even change the motions of the cosmos. Music, love and humor; for they have the power to move hearts and heal souls. Some quotes I love: 💗 We belong to Allāh, and indeed to Him we will return - اِنَّا لِلّٰهِ وَاِنَّـآ اِلَيۡهِ رٰجِعُوۡنَ Quran(2:156) 💗 But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allāh knows, while you know not -                                           Quran(2:216) 💗 His command is only when He intends a thing that He says to it, "Be," and it is - اِنَّمَاۤ اَمۡرُهٗۤ اِذَاۤ اَرَادَ شَیْـًٔـا اَنۡ يَّقُوۡلَ لَهٗ كُنۡ فَيَكُوۡنُ ‏ Quran(36:82) 💗 Never regret being too kind. For your reward is only with Allah. ◆ (❁´◡`❁) Rumi (❁´◡`❁) ● You are the soul of the soul of the Universe, and your name is Love. ● Do not grieve. Anything you lose comes around in another form. ● Do not feel lonely, the entire universe is inside of you. ● The wound is the place where the Light enters you. ● My soul is from elsewhere, I’m sure of that, and I intend to end up there. ● Silence is the language of god, all else is poor translation. ● Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along. ● Stop acting so small. You are the universe in ecstatic motion. ● When the world pushes you to your knees, you’re in the perfect position to pray. ◆ (❁´◡`❁) Shams Tabrizi (❁´◡`❁) ● You can study God through everything and everyone in the universe, because God is not confined in a mosque, synagogue or church. But if you are still in need of knowing where exactly His abode is, there is only one place to look for Him: in the heart of a true lover. ● Whatever happens in your life, no matter how troubling things might seem, do not enter the neighborhood of despair. Even when all doors remain closed, God will open up a new path only for you. Be thankful! It is easy to be thankful when all is well. A Sufi is thankful not only for what he has been given but also for all that he has been denied. I prefer lighthearted conversations as I get emotionally overwhelmed quickly and I'm mindful of boundaries. I'm open and friendly for casual chats and anything related to the following topics: 💜 Exercise 💜 Spirituality and Religion I accept those topics cos' I have my own personal experience with them and I might not be as helpful in topics outside my scope. P.S: I don't have any experience with transgender and intersex topics. I'm also not comfortable with chats that are sexual or kinky in nature.
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tranquil3328
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trust me i understand ive been through it too, ill help, i wont judge, ill just be here for you, ill listen and understand
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Charlie40
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Active listening is like kindness and empathy, simple enough in principle. and a life time task to master fully. Because of my background I feel more naturally able to help people struggling with stressful emotional situations, toxic or difficult family situations, or with anxiety, PTSD, depression. Many times in the past I could overcome hardships and difficulties simply by having a chance to talk to someone who really listened. I'd like to "pay that kindness forward" now by listening to you on 7Cups. Don't be fooled by all the topic training badges on my profile page: that only means I got acquainted to the topic, not that I am an expert! But I will be happy to try and help you regardless, as a fellow human. If I am online, feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, you can send me a message so we can set up a time to chat. I look forward to it. I have work and life commitments, so I don't have as much free time as I would like, but I will do my best to be available several times a week to help out.
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Heartsandrosesandpaws
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I greatly love learning new things, nature, cats, and much more. The topics I do  not take at this time are 1 weight management  2 eating disorders 3  alcohol /  drug abuse 4 addiction chats 5 financial stress any other topic that is not listed here I am ok taking.
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Joe7cups
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Hello! Welcome to 7 Cups of tea. My name is Joe. if you would like someone to listen to you, someone to talk to, or some company , feel free to contact me. I enjoy the company of others and i will try to help you the best i can. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you are here!
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daydreammemories
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Hi ~Just a human being 🌿 (Currently on a break from taking new chat requests, thanks for understanding ^-^ . My current member buddies, feel free to message whenever you want 😄) ------------------------- I'll be there for you              When the rain starts to pour ; ) " There is still a joker roaming around the world. He will make sure that the world never rests. Whenever possible -and wherever possible - a little fool will jump out wearing long donkey ears and jingling bells. He will look deep into our eyes and ask, who are we? Where do we come from? " Jostein Gaarder, The Solitaire Mystery ♧ ------------------------- Dear fellow reader, how have you been? 😊 I’ve been meaning to write this for a while now, and I finally took the courage to do so. I appreciate your patience going through my profile. We are stuck in a world with tons of problems, each and every one of us carries their own. These problems can change, but from my own personal experience, there is never a time when we don’t have any. I can relate to that as well, I know you do too. BUT, the way we approach our problems matter. That’s what helps us grow. I know we might never recover from our pains, our bad memories are always going to be a part of us as well, although, the important part is that they get lost between the good ones. I’m not going to tell you what to do and what not to do, but to let you know that my main reason to be here is that I simply care. I want to be with you when making tough decisions, when dealing with something harsh which life threw at you. I’m not a saint or an agnel. I make mistakes and take some actions that I might end up regretting, I’m not going to judge you when you do as such. Pinky promise. ------------------------- Some things that I’ve come to learn during my life: (The list will be updated during time lol) ✨You can’t be the hero in everyone’s story. ✨You don’t need to keep everyone satisfied to feel happy. ✨Take your steps based on what feels right to you, not everyone else’s. ✨Space and time make some things better, if you’re not sure they apply to a situation, try them. ✨We all gain our initial deep motive to help us keep going in hard situations during time. Time certainly makes you a master. Take your time, and build that motive. This doesn’t mean that you will go through challenges happily, but to solely be able to get through them eventually. ✨I agree that even best friends can’t be hundred percent there for each other, I agree that us as listeners have our own issues going on as well. But I truly believe you might still find someone caring about you in silence. If you feel like troubles are there weighing on you, and it feels harsh to move on carrying those burdens, I’m here to help easing up that pain as much as I can. ------------------------- About me: 🕊️A fellow soul in my 20s, searching for the meaning of life and pursuing my passion in college. 🕊️I love learning new languages. 🕊️I’m passionate about reading, listening to music, and hiking. 🕊️I love reading mystery novels and watching movies in this genre.  🕊️Friends and Modern Family are my two comfort shows. 🕊️I'm a pretty good photographer 📷. 🕊️Green is my favorite color 💚.  🕊️I am here to at least make another fellow soul feel a bit better.  May all your days be blessed, Take care!😇 “Message in a bottle is all I can do Standing here hoping this gets to you” T.S. 😊 💕
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Sibafo
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🥀Hi!I am Siba 😜 .Welcome to my profile, I'll like to listen to you, I am a  Verified listener .My hobbies are reading and writing.💖 You can write to me about all that's spiritual,nightmares and hallucinations but also other topics.🤔 I look forward to hearing from you😏.
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Power14
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          Hey awesome people  I am Neal . I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea.                             For members :I'm glad you've taken a huge step.  it's really difficult to move a first step.  you've started looking for help. I'm here to listen whatever is in your mind. I believe every story is worth sharing and your all emotions are valid. We can discuss your issues may be i wont be able to help in issues but discussing issues can produce solutions. If you are going to text me then make sure you're in mood to take things in postive way. Anybody can help you only if when  you try to help yourself. Nobody is having magic wand which can heal your issue in no time.                                                  For listeners :                                                 I am a quality mentor you can always reach me if you need any help regarding this website or you need any guidance.                                                  Projects I'm supporting                                                  Quality mentor                                                  Peer support                                                  Welcoming team                                                 Translation project                                                  Listener verifier team                                                 If you need any assistance in these projects you can contact me.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     
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amazingNutella24
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Retired Ambassador Sorry, I'm currently not able to take any chat requests from members. Please feel free to connect to the other amazing listeners on this platform, please find one here! [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]   💜         Hey hey, everyone 💜 I'm Nutella (Or Nuts, Catella, Nute, Ella, Nutty, Amazing - Courtesy of our creative community, haha! And literally anything you'd like to call me). I'm a Chatroom Ambassador on 7Cups! Here are the Projects I'm involved with as a Chatroom Ambassador. Feel free to message me if you have any queries 💜   1. Listener Sharing Circle (LSC) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerSharingCircles_2133/HostsWantedForListenerSharingCircle_257571/] 2. Listener Check-In (LCI) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerCheckIns_1272/HostsWantedForListenerCheckins_250689/] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerCheckIns_1272/HostsWantedForListenerCheckins_250689/] 3. Listener Events Team (LET) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/ListenerEventsTeamComeJoinUs_260289/] 4. Listener Learning Discussions Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerLearningDiscussions_1896/ListenerLearningDiscussionsTeamRecruitment2021_222848/]  5. Listener Chatroom Supporter [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdS4uNP9soxCNNvOSAAQV4kz4mzaf5CPXqXT1yIgsNFyVdkDQ/viewform] 6. Chatroom Mentor [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc0BVb_I0BnjwfpKw0tOcB4_q7ST8x2ACGkfnQqgNEam34qxg/viewform] 7. Chatroom Mentor Leader [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfaX5Kxr13VYpbGtWbNItePUMt1nx9SAPC57J0szbhVG1naUg/viewform] 8. Chat Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ChatSupport_101/ChatSupporttrainingisnowCompulsoryforMentorsofAllTracks_268257/] 9. Listener Powered Discussions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/AllAbouttheListenerPoweredCommunityDiscussions_270095/] Here are a few more projects I'm a part of 💜 1. Quality Mentor 2. Safety Patrol Team 3. Safety Patrol Outreach Team 4. Peer Supporter 5. Doorkeeper 6. Forum Key 7. Listener Verifier Team A bit about me! I study medicine and I love reading and writing. Oh and I'm very passionate about genetics and genomics. Please note that I'm unable to provide any advice, medical or otherwise 💜         Due to the huge influx of private messages, I sometimes miss out on a few, my apologies. So please don’t hesitate to drop me another message if I haven't replied 💜           Just a quote I love and relate to - “In your books, I have flung myself into the bottomless pit, performed miracles, slain, burned towns, preached new religions, conquered whole kingdoms” ― Anton Chekhov, The Bet             I'm always a PM away for absolutely anything! Good day 💜
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vanguardlight
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Hello, I am a male in my 40s. I struggle with depression, loneliness, self esteem issues since forever. I have my ups and downs. I am here to lend an ear to those who need to and try to be helpful as much as I can.
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