Please do not send me cupsiversary or Birthday forms, thank you
Members & Guests
I’m not currently taking new members. If we have talked before feel free to leave a message and I’ll get back to you as soon as possible.
Projects I’m involved in:Project Agent Project Leader - Find out more about this role here
Doorkeeper - PM me if you need a room opened/closed
Teen and Adult Quality Mentor
Global Forum Mentor - Needs reply
Global Group Mod
Adult & Teen Chatroom Mentor
Teen Transitioning Mentor
New job at work has me traveling more, plus life events mean that I'll be away a bit more over time. I'll still try to respond to messages if possible, but will be unavailable for live chats and more delayed in responses from:
- October 23-28
Otherwise, my normal availability will stand - I can schedule one hour live chat appointments Monday-Thursday during the day (10am-6pm Eastern) and will try to respond to messages within 24-48 hours, with slightly slower times on weekends as I do not typically log in here Friday-Sunday much.
Hi all, I'm glad you've found my profile here! I truly love to listen and help others, and am particularly versed in eating disorders, work stress, and sexual assault, though happy to discuss anything, including sexual issues / sexuality. If you feel like you could use some extra support or help working through a problem, please reach out!
You can start a chat with me if I'm online or to message me if I'm not and we can set up a time. I'm in the US in Central Time and somewhat flexible during the day Monday-Thursday. I'm hard to catch sometimes, so plan to set up an appointment with me. I'm also open to messaging back and forth not live, but more frequently, if that's preferable for you.
If you see me in the forums, you'll know I have a few favorite quotes around recovery and strength that I throw around all the time, so I'll share them here, too.
"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think"
"Never forget you are worth more than the value you place on yourself."
"Every day might not be a good day but there is good in every day."
Much love to all,
✨✨✨ Currently not accepting member chats✨✨✨I am part of the Verified Listening Team :Want to become verified??
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Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea.I like to help people as I know how it feels to be in that position. I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, send me message and I'll answer it later. Glad you are here! :)
1) My response times are slow. Even when I am working on making them faster, if you talk with me please note there will be delays. Thank you for your patience and understanding.
2) I help myself when I help you.3) Some issues with my Username:(3.1) 08/Auguest/2019: On this day, I found out that "ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp" should be instead ThankYouForLettingMeTryToHelp. It seems first one is grammarly incorrect in English. I am sorry for my mistake. Thank you for pointing it out, @Nada and @DestroyingAngel .(3.2) 18/October/2019: On this day, a 7Cups Member told me this: "Your name is still incorrect. ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp. We all know that if you are "trying" you are not doing. A man should not try his best, a man should do his best. Your name subconsciously sends a message that you will "try" which implies failure is the most likely outcome. ThankYouForLettingMeHelp would be much more appropriate and will send a positive message that you will help."(3.3) 14/November/2019: On this day, a 7Cups Member told me this: "Saying "trying to help" means you will do your best expecting nothing from those you encounter. The way your username is written seems perfect. To me it seems humble and that you know that not everyone can be helped."
4) Apart from being a Verified Listener, an Intern Graduate and a Peer Supporter, these are my other roles on 7Cups:
4.1) Safety Patrol (flagging of inappropiate Listener profiles).
4.2) Member of the DJ Team (leaded by @Caringbrit).
4.3) Community Leader: Room Supporter -> Healthy Living Support Community; 35 & Over Community Community; Positivity & Gratitude Community
5) My 7Cups Diary:https://www.7cups.com/forum/GeneralSupport_28/DiaryEntriesConnections_1597/Mydiary_209578/
6) Accepting Long Term Members!!7) Some useful Links:7.1) Inside 7Cups:
7.1.01) 7 Cups is actually Rivendell ------> As true as it is important to read
7.1.02) Listener Topic Library -----> Manuals on how to handle all types of chats, written by listeners
7.1.03) Listener Suggestion Box -----> Suggest ways to help improve the site, or how to address any problems you see (For any bugs or glitches, use this separate form)
7.1.04) Everything I need to know I learned from my bunny ------> If you ever get disheartened, refresh yourself with some leporine wisdom
7.1.05) Kane’s FAQ -----> Everything you could possibly ask for in a guide to this site
7.1.06) Farheen’s Guide -----> The best active listening guide there is. Fact.
7.1.07) Pink’s Distractions -----> All different types of self harm distraction websites and techniques
7.1.08) International Suicide Hotlines -----> Handy to have close by you when you listen7.2) Outside 7Cups:
7.2.01) World Time Buddy ----> We are a global community, and we work in a lot of different time zones. Most things are organised in EST (New York’s time zone), and it can be useful to have some help working out what time it is for the people you are talking to, or when events are happening.
7.2.02) Copypastecharacter.com -----> It helps to cheer up drab forum posts ✌7.2.03) thankyouforlettingmetryingtohelp.youcanbook.me -----> To book an appointment with me. Please PM after booking the appointment, for confirmation.[Q: Some users report that when accessing the link to my calendar, they do not get it: they get insted the whole site. Why?A:What URL are they accessing? If it is embedded on your website there is an option to break out of the frame on mobile. You will want to turn that off. It is under styles and appearance footer/header or if you're on the new version, under styles and appearance.]
*UNABLE TO TAKE MEMBER CHATS*Hi, I'm Rebecca! I'm here to listen to any issues you have. As the saying goes, a burden shared is a burden halved. I'm here to take the other half. :)
Unfortunately, I am unable to take new member chats at the moment. My Self-Harm Recovery discussion for adults is on every Monday 6pm EST!
I DO NOT take sexual or inappropriate chats.
*** I am really sorry but I am not taking new long term member chats at the moment***When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn.
-Harriet Beecher StoweHello everyone! *Waves* Its me, River. Welcome to my bio <3 For members: I am here to listen about anything you want to talk about and be there for you. I might not be able to lessen your pain but I will try to share your pain and understand the situation you might be at the moment. I am also totally okay to talk randomly if you are feeling alone and ask icebreaker questions to eachother. I am usually good at chat related to depression, anxiety, relationship issues, BPD, forgiveness, grief, trauma and abuse. I. however am not taking sexual chats, sorry about it! <3 For Listeners:I have been around 7cups from more than 2 years, so if you need any help about anything related to 7cups, please dont hesitate to leave a pm.My involvement in 7cups: Forum Mentor Leader: I work on logistic and organization side of forum team and help with trainings and onboarding of forum team members. I am around if you ever have any questions regarding forums and leadership positions related to it in general.Forum Mentor: I am a global forum mentor and specifically involved in Positivity & Gratitude Sc <3 Peer Support: Did you have a hard chat and need someone to talk to? I am all ears for you.Chat support: Did you have a particularly hard chat that you could use some resources and support with? I am there to support you.Global group mod: I help in group rooms to keep them safe place for everyone. <3 My special twins: @Love8890 (She is mah soul sistah <3 We also confuse people all around due to same pfp hahahaha! I love ya Sel sel <3 )@HeyItsRoo (Caught chu :p I miss catchiing youu <3 )*passes out cookies for reaching till the end of mah bio*
*Not taking any member chats*
Hello! I'm so glad you have found me on 7 cups of tea. I'm a verified and trained adult-teen listener and I'm here to listen to you and support you in the best way I can.MembersYou are free to message me and I will try to respond as soon as possible.How I do chats?
I'm doing 1 hour for live (scheduled) chats. ListenersFeel free to message me for any questions you might have Projects and roles I'm involved🔸 Group Moderator🔸 Peer Support🔸 Verified Listener🔸 Safety Patrol Team🔸Support Session Leader🔸SPOT Team
🔸 Quality Mentor