"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think."- Winnie The Pooh
I believe that all people need something to do, something to aspire to, and someone to love.
I believe that angels walk among us, because God is a really busy person-solving lack of world peace, world hunger, etc. He sends angels to us even in human form to help the cause. Look for them...now, look harder.
I believe what you seek, you shall find.
I believe that we all have something to learn from anyone and everyone that we meet.
I believe that happiness is a journey and not a destination.
I believe that kindness matters, always.
Oh well, that's just me. I BELIEVE. Enough about me, how about if we talk about you? Roles on 7 cups
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Eyes to the ground. Head bowed. Love in my heart. If we could only just think....."Ideologies separate us. Dreams and anguish bring us together". - Eugene Ionesco . Please let us all be kind to ourselves and to one another.
Accpeting chats by Appointment Only.New and Current members are encouraged to make an appointment at https://peaceloveandpaws.youcanbook.me Booking an appointment ensures that I will be online and focused on YOU for that hour. Hello and Welcome!! I'm Paws (she/her pronouns, please). I'm a wife, mom, and lover of cats! I have a degree in English Lit but spent my career in Human Services. I enjoy reading, watching horror movies and television series, photography, and collecting vintage handbags. My greatest passion is orphaned/abandoned infant kittens rescue.My favorite movies of all time are 'City of Angels', 'The Color Purple', and 'Forest Gump'.The songs I feel inspired by are:'Bold as Love' by Jimi Hendrix https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UvMM3jIkDGk'Sara' by Fleetwood Mac' https://youtu.be/KOVyBhVsOV0
'I'm Still Standing' by Sir Elton John https://youtu.be/ZHwVBirqD2s
'Kyrie' by Mr. Mister https://youtu.be/9NDjt4FzFWY
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I believe in fairy tales..
And what exactly do you think fairy tales are? They are a reminder that our lives will get better if we just hold on to hope. Your happy ending may not be what you expect; but that is what will make it so special✨
I am so happy to have you here. I am Ellie, commonly known as Ell and I am passionate about helping people. Nothing is too big nor too small to talk about and I would be more than happy to listen or just chat!
Sorry not accepting member chats at this time other than regular members that I listen to. Please see here for a listener: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/I like to help others and like to be helped also. Created the following to help everyone please let me know if there is a web site that I should add as a resource:
- An Introduction to Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
CBT resources - How CBT can help- Anxiety Worksheets- Cognitive distortions
- Health anxiety
DBT resources - psychcentral.com/lib/an-overview-of-dialectical-behavior-therapy/
- Coping with Flashbacks
- Feelings wheel
- Turning the mind
Activity Scheduling Activities can be connected to the way you feel. If you track feelings of depression, you may discover that when you are depressed you are more passive and less active. Following the observation that depressed people tend to stop doing pleasurable activities, depression treatments often emphasize increasing the weekly number of pleasurable activities. Additional ways to improve mood:
Surround yourself with people who have a positive impact on you
Invest in friendships and have a “go to” person that you can trustBecome more forgiving - forgive yourself and forgive others
Build on areas of strength and note evidence for new beliefs that replace old negative beliefs (praise yourself for things you accomplish)Keep a gratitude journal
Coping skills - Alphabet of Stress Management and Coping Skills
- Adult Pleasant Activities
- Adult Pleasant Events
- 99 Coping Skills
Books - 5 love languages and then discuss it- Mindfulness for borderline personality disorder
Contacts - Cancer- Cahoots- Doctor Reviews- Doctor Specialists- Acupuncture- Chiropractor- Dermatologists- ENT – Ear, Nose, Throat- Find A Hospital- Find A Physician- Find top rated doctor in my area- GI - gastroenterology- Gynecologists- Doctor search- What to expect from visit- Hospital Reviews- How To Find A Doctor That Accepts My Insurance- How To Search For Doctors That Accept Medicaid- Massage- OBGYNs- Ophthalmologist and Optometrists: Similarities and Differences- Types of Doctors- Urgent Care- Find a Trusted Mental Health Treatment Center for You- Hourglass- Mission- NAMI- National Suicide Prevention Lifeline – 800-273-8255/Text 741741 (Text Start)- Pleasant activities list- Couples- Find a therapist- Open Source Counseling- Optometrist- Psychologytoday- Types of Therapists- List of suicide crisis lines- befrienders.org - helps you find helplines by country- imalive.org - an online crisis chat service, for anyone anywhere in the world.- Psych Central Common Hotline Phone Numbers- suicide.org - List of suicide helplines- suicidestop.com - helps you find online chat, emergency numbers and crisis hotlines for many different countries in the world- Warmline- White Bird- WomanSpace
Self-help guides - 7cups
Other Links - Abortion- Advice for Teens- Alcohol- Anger and Aggression- Anxiety- Bible Study- Breathing Exercises And Techniques
- Detox Local- Exercises for Relaxation- Problems- Problems: Causes, Tests, and Treatments- Coping with Depression- Crisis hotlines the recovery group- Depression - A majority of people experience depression at least once during their lifetime, but they may or may not be aware of it. Understanding what depression is begins the journey toward recovering from depression. You may not realize that depression symptoms are not just emotional. Depression is much more than a low mood, feeling sad, and being irritable. There are cognitive (e.g., self-criticism and hopeless thoughts), behavioral (e.g., isolating from others and having difficulty ’getting started’ with activities), and physical (e.g., sleep problems and change in appetite) symptoms as well. The mind and body are very much connected, and the way that depression affects someone demonstrates that strong connection. Learn more about what depression is by reading the Depression Guide on 7 Cups of Tea’s website. You can also talk to someone about your experience of depression by requesting to chat with one of our listeners.Millions of people suffer from depression everyday? How do I know if I'm depressed or if I'm just sad?- Forgiveness - How to Get Help- Key To a Happier Future- Letting go of grudges and bitterness- Minors Legal Questions and Answers
Panic Attacks - 10 Ways to Stop a Panic Attack- Psychology and its practice- Psychologytoday- What Does the Bible Say- Guide to Women's Self Defense and Self Protection- Healing Self-Hate- Healthy Relationships, Sexuality and Disability- Help with your sex life- How to help a friend who is being abused- Instant Self-Denfense- Self Help Resources- Womens Health- MentalHelp - Comprehensive Mental Health and Mental Illness information on topics like Depression, Bipolar, Suicide, Anxiety, Addiction, Schizophrenia, and more.- Mindfulness meditation- A Bad Dream Is More Than Just A Dream: The Science Of Nightmares- Adult nightmares- Causes and facts- How can you interpret dreams- Research and Treatments- Prevent nightmares- Psychologytoday- Sleep Disorders- Sleep Education- Parents & Teachers: Tips & Advice for Talking to Teens About Sex- PTSD: National Center for PTSD- Women and PTSD- Child sexual abuse- Dealing with Rape- How to Prevent a Potential Rape- Help after rape and sexual assault- If your child is raped- http://www.sarsas.org.uk/self-help-guides/- https://www.helpguide.org/articles/ptsd-trauma/recovering-from-rape-and-sexual-trauma.htm- Medical Examination of the Rape Victim- Raiin- Rape Victims Prone to Suicide- Sex, Sexuality, and Sexual Disorders- Sexual Assault Survivor's Guide- Sexual Misconduct Law and Legal Definition- Statutory Rape: A guide to state laws and reporting requirements- Survivors Chat- Things Not to Say to a Survivor of a Sexual Crime- What is Sexual Violence- Recovering Your Mental Health- How Can I Satisfy My Sexual Desire If I’m Destined For Singleness
Read the book5 love languagesand then discuss it- Setting boundaries- Understanding Ourselves and Our Relationships- https://www.rainn.org/articles/self-care-after-trauma- Self Growth- Self Injury outreach and support- Self-Soothing Techniques: Distraction- Sex Addicts Anonymous- Sex Therapy- Social Anxiety- Taking Care of YOU: Self-Care for Family Caregivers- Teaching kids consent ages 1-21- Teen Health- Therapy Worksheets and Handouts- Trauma Self-Help Books & Workbooks- Why do men rape women- Women self defense
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“It was my life – like all lives, mysterious and irrevocable and sacred. So very close, so very present, so very belonging to me. How wild it was, to let it be.”
– Cheryl Strayed
“Nothing in the world is ever completely wrong. Even a stopped clock is right twice a day.”
- Paulo Coelho
On Self-Care break until September. 15th, 2020 Read more Here.Response Time = 96 hours at most - 4 days
**Note: My time on Cups is very fluid and can't take any/many scheduled chats at this time, Sorry!**Hey, I'm Magic! Welcome to 7Cups, I'm so happy you found my Listener profile page!
You can always reach out to me whether you are in group chats or in 1-1 Chats or forums! Please feel free to contact me anytime, and I'll try to respond as soon as I can!Note: Sundays are my Self-Care days, but feel free to message me, and I'll get back ASAP!“To anyone out there who’s hurting it’s not a sign of weakness to ask for help. It’s a sign of strength.”COLORS OF AVAILABILITY:Green: I am available and currently wanting to take chats!!Orange: I am online but I may be focusing my attention on other things and so I would be busy, but alright with taking chats though replies may not be immediate.Red: I am offline but you may send me a message and I'll respond eventuallyOffline Chats:
This is when you and I both chat when we're both available. Also, when wanting an offline chat you must include the following: Brief description along with your normal message. If you send me a message that ONLY says "Hello" or "Hi" do you really want me to say "Hello" back to you?“Your illness is not your identity. Your chemistry is not your character.”Roles:Discussion Leader / Longterm Listener / 7Cups Translation Team / Safety Patrol Team / Welcoming Team Member / Peer Supporter / Forum SupporterKnowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people.”Topics Below:
Dissociative and Personality Disorders friendly!Note: I Do NOT take chats on spirituality, Cancer, Diabetes, Weight Management, or Perinatal Mood Disorder since I am unable to provide support on those topics feel free to browse listeners Here!However, I do offer support if you're trying to go on a FOOD DIET I can help with that!
"Every day may not be good, but there is something good in every day"MBTI: INTJ-A "Architect" | Enneagram: Type 6“It’s okay to not be okay – it means that your mind is trying to heal itself.”Discussions:Icebreakers - Monday 22:00 EDT/EST
Fun Session - Tuesday 06:00 EDT/EST
Bipolar Support Session - Tuesday 19:00 EDT/EST
Guided Open Chat - Tuesday 22:00 EDT/EST
Student Support Session - Thursday 19:00 EDT/EST
Self-Esteem Boost - Thursday 22:00 EDT/EST
Quiz/Games Night - Friday 22:00 EDT/ESTShoutouts To Friends and/or Twinnies!“A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.”Teen Twinnies:@Dinoprincess12@ZombieBoiATL Twinnies:@RumpleSteeleSkin@compassionateTree4567“A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.”Lastly, I hope you are enjoying a wonderful warm/hot/cold/lukewarm day/night/afternoon!
I DO NOT TAKE SEXUAL CHATS! I'm Ginevra and I would love to help anyone who needs it. I'm not a professional but I'm going through a difficult time so I think we might understand each other. I'd love to help you through your struggles or just chat about anything if you want. I'm Italian but I speak English quite well. Feel free to message me anytime, even if I'm not online. Remember you are not alone.
Hi, it is ok not to be fine and to struggle. I am willing to lend a listening ear and hopefully make this struggle less difficult. I am open to listen to relational and sexuality topics and help those who have experienced abuse, manipulation and been in toxic relationships. For other topics look at the list below. I have psychological training and experience in counseling and hotline work. Not able to commit to very long-time support due to my commitments. Looking forward to chatting with you! Thank you!
My twin buddies are : @Lilhelpy; @BurningEmber, @RideaRainbow, @PacificSunrise, @tellMemore1981 and @SmileFromWithin. They are amazing, so if I am not available, please get in touch with them.