Unfortunately, I am not available for 1-1 chats, at this point. I am unable to respond timely due to my leadership roles. I request you to connect with other available listeners here - https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/My Involvement on 7 Cups Verified Listener (Listeners who have been verified by the community based for their commitment to active listening skills and quality chatting) Peer Supporter (I am trained to help listeners after a difficult chat, as well as answer general questions about the site)
A member of the Profile Safety Patrol Team Group Moderator - Depression Support Community, 35 & Over Community, Anxiety Support CommunitySupport Session Leader (Anxiety Support Community) Team Member - Adult Listener Learning Discussion TeamDiscussion Leader ( I Co-Host the support sessions, guided discussions and fun sessions on different topics to support the community)Sundays - Sharing Circle - 8:00 AM ET & 12:00 PM ETMondays - Listener Discussion Session - 4:00 AM ET Tuesdays - Support Session/Fun Session - 9:00 AM ET Have a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by!!
Hey amazing people! If you wish to talk to somebody, feel free to message me! I'll try to reply as soon as possible.I love helping people! And I'd be glad if I could be of some help to you. I am here to provide you with emotional support, care and lots of love!I'll try my best to help you and show empathy and compassion without giving any kind of judgements!I would love to listen to you because you and your story matters!I believe that at times it just gets dark so that we come to know how bright we actually shine.I hope that you have a day as lovely as you are! Take care of yourself and keep sparkling!
**IMPORTANT PLEASE READ THE BELOW INFORMATION BEFORE MESSAGING IF YOUR A MEMBER for chats please see my catagories what topics i can cant do & Listener if wanting mentoring/mock chats to get verified/or mentoring mocks**
id prefer SCHEDULED chats only you can use the book now at bottom of bio if you cant see this pm me and ill give you the link for it .since im super busy with my other roles . Thankyou For understandingAbout me
Hey all my names Brit. I’ve been a listener for 4 years almost 5 .I'm a verified ATL too I'll only take chats for one hour slots at a time if you need regular we will set up a time and date after every chat i take Always accepting long term members .Teams I’m OnPeer supporter this is for the listeners who get rough chats we also can support the Mentors in answering any questions you may have Peer Supporter BuddyGroup ModeratorSupport teams : Disability Support , Self Harm and TraumaVL team- Project Agent for VL (1-1 trainings and member checkins )Chat Support i can give ongoing chat support if you are Stuck in a chat also able to give basic mentoring------ if you cant find a chat support in LSR you can use this link to fill a form in to request one Chat Support formQuality Mentor Leader for VL Track - Adult Coordinator -here are some VL Links you wish to become verified here's how - How to become a Verified Listener & Ask Me Anything about VL!DJ Of 7CupsQ&A approval team (Answers and editing answers)ATL (Adult Teen ListenerForum Mentor DisabilityForum Mentor for Trauma SubcomForum Supporter Self HarmSafety Patrol Team checking profiles follow guidelines
My Listener Twins are : MagicallySmiles50 , PalmTreesNRainbows, BeckyisHere ( bunny twinny) and RumpleSteeleSkin
Please click below on the book now if you wish to book a chat with meClick HERE to book me if you cant see the above button
Notes: NOT taking any relationship problem and sexual chatsThank you for reading my profileMy Online Schedule (ET)
Friday: 7pm to 12:00am
Saturday: 1:00am to 9am and 7:00pm to 9:00pm
You can use https://shirley7cups.youcanbook.me to schedule a time with meMy Online State
When I am online, I am available to take member chats.
When I am busy, I am on 7cups but I am doing other things. You can leave me a message, and I will respond to you as soon as possible.
When I am offline, I am not on 7cups. You can leave me a message, and I will respond to you when I come back to 7cups.Chatting Style
During an hour chat, I'm here to listen and support you, yet I can't provide you any advice. After the chat, we can set up a time to talk again.I only talk with a member at the same time, so when I'm talking with a member, other members have to wait me or set up a time to talk.
English isn't my first language, and I'm not really good at English, so I have some grammar mistakes and a little bit meaning mistakes. Maybe I delay responding to you because I need to check the dictionary if I don't know those words. My first language is Cantonese, and I also speak Mandarin, Taiwanese and English, and I type Chinese and English. If you are a Chinese speaker, feel free to message me.Chatting Topic
General Mental Health
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
Student LifeIf your topic that you want to talk with me is without this list, that means I do not have experiences about the topic. Please seek for other listeners' support. Thank you for understanding. Useful online resources(24/7)
1. If you are suicidal, having suicial thoughts, currently self-harming, or in any crisis situations, please click www.imalive.org to seek support.
2. If you are suffering abuse, please click www.rainn.org to seek support.
3. If you are suffering abuse in military, please click safehelpline.org to seek support
4. If you are 11-35 years old, in Hong Kong and in crisis, please click www.openup.hk to seek supportMy Role
1. Adult-Teen Listener - No matter who you are, feel free to message me when you need support.
2. Peer Supporter - After trigger chats, I am able to support you.
3. Verifier - If you want to get verified listener badge, feel free to message me, and I can help you to get the badge.
4. Translator and Chinese Team Leader - I am helping 7cups to translate Chinese and leading Chinese team.
5. Adult Listener Discussion Leader - I hold group discussions in adult listener room
6. Safety Patrol Team Member -- If you see any profile has to be flagged, feel free to pm me or use https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeGECC4E9NeQzQp2Skspwu6VQBJfMYB2Ag-Btm93DN5w0vh8A/viewform to flag themMy Favourite Songs
1. God Will Make A Way https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RsMAXhc0QTs
2. I Can Only Imagine https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZNDEyxEMNp0About Me
I am Shirley, an active listener in 7cups, a Christian, an 18 years old girl, who comes from Hong Kong.
I am diagnosed with Depression, Autism Spectrum Disorder and Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), so I have direct experiences about those situation. In fact, I'm not good at relationship, for I am diagnosed with ASD, so I have some communication barriers. I had self-harmed in 2016-2017, so I can help you with how to cope with this problem. Otherwise, I am suffering with depression, so I am finding some coping methods. Also, my mum is diagnosed with Schizophrenia and Bipolar, so I know a little bit knowledge about it. This is my personal experience and my coping methods about depression: https://www.7cups.com/forum/DepressionSupportCommunity_52/DepressionGeneralthreads_30/BECAREFULTOCLICKINLONGPOSTMyDepressionExperience_223473/1/
My electives at school are Biology, Chemistry, and Mathematics. My hobbies are shooting of air gun, travelling bus, watching birds, Biology and Mathematics. Feel free to talk with me those topics if you want!
In fact, I have a male tortoise who is called stupid(死蠢) at home, and it is a really crazy thing that he is my mum, so my mum is stupid haha(You can imagine what I look like haha). This is my tortoise: https://imgur.com/a/H45Aqnp
If you read to here, I am so appreciate your attention
Okurrrr! Heya there! I'm Lex. I know it can be daunting for you to talk about what you're going through to a total stranger like me but if you just want someone to listen to you or you just want to rant or you need help on certain issues or you just want to chat, I'm here for you. I'll support you to the best of my ability and you can feel safe talking to me.If you want to schedule a chat with me, do NOT put your email in the box that requests for it. Put an obviously fake email (eg. firstname.lastname@example.org) instead. If I receive a scheduled event with a possibly real email, I will cancel it and it will not be acknowledged. Thank you 😁Schedule a chat with meI am only comfortable with chats about:
✨ Depression ✨
✨ Bullying ✨
✨ Eating Disorders ✨
✨ Panic and Anxiety Attacks ✨
✨ Forgiveness ✨
✨ Anxiety and Social Anxiety ✨
✨ Loneliness ✨
✨ Self Esteem ✨
✨ General Mental Health ✨
✨ Managing Emotions ✨
✨ PTSD/Trauma ✨
✨ Weight Management ✨
✨ Exercise Motivation ✨
✨ Student Life ✨
If the topic you'd like to discuss is not listed here then feel free to click here to look for another listener to support you
🌟 Roles 🌟Peer Supporter - If you had a hard chat or a chat that left you feeling triggered or unsettled, I can help you feel better.Listener Verifier - If you're interested in being a verified listener, I can help you with that. Feel free to look at the requirements hereDiscussions Leader - I host weekly discussions on different topicsSafety Patrol Team - I keep 7 Cups safe for everyoneTranslator - I'm a member of the Translation Team and I help translate the site into French🌟 Listener Shoutouts 🌟
💜 @saltinecrackers22 is my close listener friend and my almost bday twin 💙 @Dababy9322 is another super awesome friend of mine
💚 @YaboiRogers is one of the chillest and funniest people I've met and they're super fun to talk to
🧡 @RiverHudson1 is one of the most supportive people I've met; can be super blunt as well xD
I am Misty.I am a trained and verified active adult and teen Listener, and I am very glad you found me on 7 cups of Tea. **** ~ ***** * ***** ~ *****I am happy to listen to you on many topics. I have experience of lots of different areas - anxiety, depression, bi-polar and mental illness, families and relationships, love, school, college or work related problems, financial stress, healthy living, food, diets, eating disorders, I can also offer support for chronic pain, illness and disabilities. I am part of both the adult and the teen listening team, (and yes I can still remember being a teen lol) and I also offer long term support to those that I can and who are in need.
I am happy to take chats on Coronavirus CoVid19 wuhan and 7 Cups has a whole category of forums devoted to the topic here:-https://www.7cups.com/forum/QuarantineSupportCoronaVirusCoVID19_201/If I am not online then you are welcome to leave me a message - but please tell me what you want to talk about so we can get off to a flying start. I will get back to you when I am next able, but please bear in mind that I get a lot of messages and I will reply to the most urgent first so if you just say hi, do you really just want a hi back?At weekends my response will be slower as that is usually my time off from 7Cups, and I may not respond to new requests till Monday.
I hope you understand that. We all need time for ourselves to recharge our batteries and relax. ONE STEP AT A TIME"We all have different size footsteps that we leave behind on our journey through life.
Sometimes we can change the size of our footsteps, the imprint, the impact, the direction.
Sometimes our footsteps land on rock and they do not show, or they land on sand and stay for a while,
Other times they get washed away by massive oceans or powerful waves.
But each and every footstep is important in so many ways.
Ways that we may not even know about.Watch your step, think about your steps, plan your next step, and the rest will follow." Listening ... one step at a time
Butterflies are a symbol of hope that we can all change from a small
brown grub into a beautiful amazing butterfly! One step at a time!
Hello,This is nothingisforever and you can call me sarang. i am from IndiaI have done internship in 7 cups with honors in march 2016 community mentor leader for internship
I am an internship mentor.
I am a Quality Mentor.
In Verifiers team.
You can message me regarding internship queries,for extensions or contraction of internship,for guidance in listening, to schedule a mock chat for verified listeners badge.I may not solve your problem but i can make sure that you can feel better by the end of the chat.
I think no problem is permanent in life..so never take a permanent decision based on the temporary situations.MORE ABOUT ME: I love music very much. Kpop is one of my favorite type of music. The song which i listen when i need motivation or when i feel like giving up is One Shot by B.A.P I listen to music in more than 5 languages and i love to learn new languages.I am learning guitar too I love making friends and i am fun loving person. If you want to talk with someone when you feel low you can surely message me. I am non judgemental person.my favorite persons: my Dad , my Brother. two beautiful persons in my life.
Nothing is forever.The most precious thing in this world is "Time" which we cannot buy with anything. so please do not waste it with negative thoughts or negative people. Forgive people and let it go. so that you will feel better for yourself. Never make your mind a dumpyard for negative thoughts.When thinking about life,remember: No amount of guilt can solve the past and no amount of anxiety can change the future.Favorite lines by my favorite singer
**Please note changes** I'M CURRENTLY TAKING A BREAK FROM CHATS AT THIS TIME..... I APOLOGIZE.. HOWEVER, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO BROWSE FOR ANOTHER ONE OF OUR MANY WONDERFUL, AVAILABLE LISTENERS. "BROWSE LISTENERS HERE" (However, my Pm's are always open if you are in need of help or assistance "outside" of chats.)~
Hello, Glad you found me here on 7cups of Tea. I am PoliteOcean~ (You can call me "OCEAN")~~ I'm a Spouse, a Parent, and also registered in the Healthcare Field.~ I am also a fitness instructor with a passion for Dance, ZUMBA, & POUND~.... I am here to listen,support and not judge and will be glad to talk with you! I cannot solve all problems but I've gone through many of my own personal issues so perhaps I can help! Please feel free to contact me. If I'm away, please leave me a message. My Pm's are always open.**LISTENING STRENGTHS**
*CURRENTLY ACTIVE IN***Community Ambassador* Community Mentor Leader* Adult Chatroom Mentor* Forum Mentor*Teen "Chatroom" & Teen "Quality" Mentor* Group Support Quality Mentor* Support Room Mentor* Healthy Living Team ~ (Team Leader)
* Group Moderator* Discussion Trainer* Welcome Committee* Verified Listening Team *** MY LISTENING TWINS***
Hello everyone! I'm Busranur. I know how being alone makes you feel. I experienced, and I want to help people who go through some difficulties because you are not alone, I don't want you to feel like that. Maybe, I can't solve your problem, but if you write to me, you will get my support.
Since I'm not a trained psychologist, there are some problems that I can't help. These are; sexual problems, self-harm. I don't think I can be helpful on these problems and I don't want to waste your time. There are plenty of other listeners who can be more useful in these subjects.
"I'll reach out my hand to you, I'll have faith in all you do, just call my name, and I'll be there." Thanks for reaching out! That is not easy to do and very brave. I am a trained Verified Listener, member of the Listener Verifier Team, and Peer Supporter. I will not judge you, as I have struggled with being judged. You are welcome to talk to me about real things you face, and I will do my best to ease what can be such great pain. I take most subjects, including specific ones such as airplane/flying anxiety, as I have a lot of experience with flying. One subject I am not great with right now is the fear of death of loved ones. My only requirement in any chat is that it remain unabusive and appropriate. And I like sharing music and lyrics, too! I like a wide variety of genres. :) Music is therapeutic and can help us articulate our own feelings!"In our darkest hour, in my deepest despair, will you still care? Will you be there? In my triumphs and my tribulations, through our doubts and frustrations, in my violence, in my turbulence, through my fear and my confessions, in my anguish, in my pain, through my joy and my sorrow, in the promise of another tomorrow? I'll never let you part. And you're always in my heart." That's one of my most favorite songs :)"Life's so dark when every day is a struggle / It's not your choice, there's no escaping it / Don't let your mindset become what controls you / Speak right now, and make the choice to grow / Everybody gets high, everybody gets low, life can be such overdose / Up on the mountain, I see down below, it's easy to lose yourself, I know / Can't hear what you're shouting, I'm deaf to your show / It's easy to lose your self-control in the in-between / Why go out and see the world on fire? I won't let pain get in my way, I can't have silence claiming me, we have strength in numbers to get us through the day / This is a war we're gonna win."I'm happy to share all these songs with you and more! Sometimes when we don't feel "seen" or "heard," hearing a song can do that for us. My spirit twins are Kristen Wiig, Kristen Bell, Melissa McCarthy, and Sheryl Underwood. If I could be friends with them, I would jump at the chance! :)
"Your emotions and feelings are there to be felt not to be pushed away. Talk to them, welcome them, but choose not to punish their existence."
Get to know a bit about me:-Formally known as "Blob" or "Mimi", I hit the "Become a listener" button, and I don't regret my decision to this day. You can often find me hanging around the Listener support room, or the sub-communities (Specifically the ED-sub community). Having lacked support in my own life, I have made it my vision, my goal in life to support others, I did this when I noticed a shift in myself, that shift of being able to approach myself with kindness instead of judgment. I can't promise that I'd be there to help you solve situations, but I can promise you a non-judgemental, caring and compassionate heart.
My listener strengths are topics such as Eating Disorders - Self-harm - Depression - Anxiety It's much easier for me to support and understand someone going through any of these disorders, but I don't limit myself to them alone.
Helpful Listener links:F.A.Q in the Listener Support Room (LSR)Every conversation is special to me! What I have accomplished:✒ Becoming a Verified listener✒ Becoming a Peer supporter
Acknowledging my Mentors:Generous with their time, Hard-workers behind the scenes in the community, supportive and thoughtful with their guidance, showing a positive attitude, commitment, and honesty my Mentors @EssenceOfHope and @Holly29 have inspired me. They use their unique qualities of being great leaders to their fullest potential for the benefit of the community, I am honoured to be their Mentee, and greatly appreciate their efforts in supporting me through my listening journey.
Frequently asked questions:✒ Are you a bot? Unfortunately, No. but you can call me MimiBot if you'd like. We have a friendly bot who you'll meet if you press on "Connect Now" as a member. Noni the friendly bot is kind, and understanding, it will take good care of you as you wait for a listener. Say "Hi" to it for me if you ever come across it. ✒ Is that you? In your display picture. No, but I'm glad you asked! Those are my close friends- Mimi blob, and Bliss blob. They enjoy sharing flowers, don't worry, they won't bother us during our conversation.✒ Do I need to have an issue to talk to you? Of course NOT! If you want to talk for fun, or when you're bored, feel free to send me a message! I would love to get to know you better, I have plenty of puns to share. Just know I may not be on for long though.✒ Need a little extra support? Check out "Kati Morton" on YouTube. She is the reason I am here today, Alive and ready to help break the stigma attached to mental illnesses.
"A process, not perfections- We are all working together towards a healthy mind, and a healthy body" ~ Kati Morton