| Teen Quality Mentor | Teen Transition Mentor |Active Listening 1 (Grading & Feedback)You can call me Abhe!Greetings, I'm so glad that you've reached out for help. I know that life can seem like a complicated journey sometimes. During this time, it is not unusual to feel overwhelmed, confused or frustrated. My goal is to provide comfort and care for you as well as a safe and non-judgemental space to talk about everything and anything. Sometimes we just want someone to listen, and even that alone can be therapeutic. I am willing to listen to you and help you understand your thoughts and feelings better. You don't have to feel you are alone on the journey.
Hello my friend,
I'm so pleased you have found me on 7cups of Tea!
I'm a trained Teen and Adult Listener a
Teen Transitioning Mentor
Teen Quality Mentor
and I look forward to supporting you. I hope you will feel comforted knowing there is someone here who understands your needs and worries and I look forward to chatting with you. If my status is shown as offline or busy, please message me and I will get back to you asap.
Due to my busy schedule i’m unavailable to take 1-1 chats so if you are seeking support, please find and connect with a listener here!🔸Unfortunately I DO NOT take any kinds of sexual (orientation or topics), suicidal, or self harm chat requests.🔸🔻Read before clicking to chat with me!🔻"Life's like a cup of Tea, it's all in how you make it"📍 MY LISTENING STYLE 📍GMT+8 / UTC+8 / EST+12 timezoneMy chat lasts 30-45 minutes and I'm generally around during Monday - Thursday 5AM to 9AM ET with breaks in between. My status is rarely online now but you can still pm me. But please allow me to reply back within 3-7 days. If I'm already chatting with you please feel free to send me a message! If i don't reply you for over a week, please know that my chat logs are many so it may have been lost in it, feel free to pm me back if i missed you!My style is mostly messaging back and forth through out the day(s) since i have no set schedule. If we were to be online on the same time, in that time I’ll totally focus on you, to listen and support you, yet I can't provide you any advice. If we speak and you appreciate our conversation, I appreciate it if please let me know in a review!Chinese and Malay is my native language with English but I'm not as fluent as others. I'm sorry in advance if it sounds awkward or if i said wrong, please correct me on this if i do so as im willing to learn more. Feel free to message me if you would like to chat in these languages. I am Proficient in English, with Chinese and Malay as a secondary language and a minor in Japanese.New and Current members are encouraged to read the topics I take, If I do, you can make an appointment HERE
Booking an appointment ensures that I will be online and focused on You. If you prefer offline just pm me and I'll reply as soon as I can🔆 USEFUL RESOURCES 🔆If you are having suicial thoughts, Please click www.imalive.org or www.befrienders.org to seek for support.
If you are self-harming, or any crisis situation Please click www.imalive.org or www.suicide.org to seek for support.
If you are suffering abuse, Please click www.rainn.org or safehelpline.org to seek for support.
If you are seeking support on COVID-19, you can find 7Cups resource page here🔹ABOUT ME 🔹Hi! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm an active and verified listener and I love to listen to your story! I'll try my best to help you out in anything you want to talk to me with! For Listeners, I'm also here to hear you out as a peer supporter or casual chat! So don't hesistate to pm me 💖I'm Tea, and I'm in my 20s, she/her pronouns, single and i dont have much experience with relationships. Currently pursuing my bachelor degree in Architecture. I don't have many friend in my life and had conflicts over the years because I'm just different in whatever i try but I still stand strong until now. I had suffered from social anxiety, anxiety, overthinking, loneliness, slight depression, bullying and minor eating disorders throughout my life, though I've never been officially diagnosed. I would dwell on it too but i would just want to believe i can do it despite the odds. My family members has been a great support for me and I would love to be able to help others in the same way they have helped me. My listener twins: If I'm not on and you need urgent chat, you can find them as well. They're wonderful! : @HelloWorld29 and @meltingstonesFUN FACT: Im “The Mediator” (INFP-T) personality and a HUGE anime/manga fan. Read more on my Feed here🔺 MY ROLES HERE ON 7CUPS 🔺✿ Adult-Teen Listener (ATL)
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✿ Translator [Chinese & Malay] Last Edited on 2 June 2020
Hi! I’m sorry that I’m rarely here lately. 😌
There have been a number of unusual events. I had several bouts of extended bronchitis and pneumonia, which knocked me to bits. I had my first asthma attack, which was no picnic.
And I experienced two unexpected but deep loves that have been the most extraordinary of my life. A special baby->toddler I was caring for, and a lovely man who reawakened a part of me that I had buried long ago.
Also, after being one of the earliest listeners at 7 Cups (joining in August 2013), with many warm and wonderful times, I had two very bad experiences in late 2017 and early 2018. I pondered why it occurred, how it came about, and the extent of my own responsibility. Very difficult. I became uncertain. And afraid, and the joy drained out of being here.
Plus, I turned 66 years old in 2018. It feels unreal to keyboard that. Yet, from January through mid-April 2019, I worked more than 60 hours per week at my three part-time jobs. (Yes, one of my weaknesses is being unable to say Nowhen people express a need for my help.)
Anyway, in April 2019, I quit two of my jobs. Time for Annie to reach out for her dreams.
I’m going to live in France for three months starting in September 2019. I have signed up for four cultural exchanges that provide room and meals in exchange for volunteer work like teaching. I’m so excited, I keep grinning all day.
Access to internet will be sketchy. If you write to me, it could be weeks before I can reply, I’m so sorry!
Love and peace to all. ☀️🙏🏼❤️
(* Sometimes we can't talk with a friend or family member because it's too confidential. But we need to talk with someone, just to share what's going on with a friendly person. I'm here to listen. *)
Not taking new chats!!
Piney is not available as she is off living her life. Many apologies to all the people who I have talked to and since have stopped. I know how rude and selfish that is of me, but it's really for the best of everyone involved. As always, my love goes out to everyone.
Stand firm, and you will win life.
"You are always one decision away from a totally different life."Hello everyone, I'm known as Obs and I'm one of the members of the Community Management Team. Here are some resources in case you need them -
If you are unable to see any group support rooms, probably you would need to meet some requirements. Check them here!
Join us in various group discussions? check the community calendar for the schedule and details. Group Support Frequently Asked QuestionsWeekly CommunityMod & Rooms ScheduleA few steps of growth as a listener
If you are a listener and need some Chat Support, check this resource Please feel free to PM me with any questions or doubts regarding our community and roles. I am here with you to help with the best of my efforts while we keep building our community better each day with team efforts. I am unable to take chat requests right now as I am unable to respond timely. I request you to connect with other available listeners here- Browse Listeners. We all are here with you to listen and support. Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character-building day." - Les BrownHave a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by!!
Hey there :)
Welcome to 7 Cups!
I'm really excited to be here for anyone in need! If you want to talk about what's bothering you or you just want to chat to someone I'm here for you, as much as possible :)
I've been through some very hard times my self, especially with loss, so i understand daily highly difficult mental pain, please never hesitate to contact me. And speak your mind 100% without hesitation, or worry of judgement.
I will always be happy to listen and help you find the answers within your self!
Hope to speak to you soon :D
Have a lovely day everyone!!
No problems are too small or too big,
and you are not at all silly to find
someone to talk to about what you're feeling.I'm here to listenツ a daughter ★ a sister ★ a wife ★ a mother ★ a graphic designer
Heya! Glad you came across my profile! My name is Diandra and I’ve been a listener here for more than three years. I’m a mentor, verified listener, and someone you can reach out to anytime for support. While I’m not always available, I do respond as quickly as I can and I respond in a timely manner if you message me while my status is set to online. If my status is set to offline, I may take a bit longer to respond! If you’re in need of immediate help, feel free to go to Chat → Browse Listeners or put in a general request.
Best of luck on your journey to recovery!Guests and Members
If you need support for anything outside the categories below I will do my best to give you the best you deserve or find someone who can (I cannot offer support in community guideline exceptions, including but not limited to suicidal thoughts, homicidal thoughts, or if you are currently abusing humans/animals).
My availability is scatteredListeners
I spend the majority of my onsite time in the Teen Listener Room (TL) or in my PM's. I am a Quality and Support Room Mentor. Because I am in school, I may not always offer immediate chat help. This is because I do not want to begin helping you and then have to leave for reasons out of my control, but I will typically tell you if this is the case.Not Accepting New Mentees
This is a test, a test to see if you are a human. Please note if something applies to you:Have you ever eaten a booger long past your childhood?Have you ever made a small, weird sound when you remembered something embarrassing?Have you ever purposely lower-cased the first letter of a text in order to come across as sad or disappointed?Have you ever ended a text with a period as a sign of aggression?Have you ever laughed or smiled when someone said something unpleasant to you, and you wondered the rest of the day why you reacted that way?Have you ever put on a pair of pants, and then realized much later that there was a loose sock smushed up against your thigh?Have you ever tried to guess someone else's password so many times that it locked their account?Have you ever had a nagging feeling that one day you will be discovered as a fraud?Have you ever hoped that there was some ability you hadn't discovered yet that you were just naturally talented at?Have you ever broken something in real life, and then found yourself looking for an "undo" button in real life?Have you ever marveled at how someone you thought was so ordinary could suddenly become so beautiful?Have you ever stared at your phone smiling like an idiot while texting someone?Have you ever subsequently texted that person the phrase, "I'm staring at the phone, smiling like an idiot"?Have you ever been tempted to, and gave into that temptation, of looking through someone else's phone?Have you ever had a conversation with yourself, and then suddenly realized you're a terrible person to yourself?Has your phone ever run out of battery in the middle of an argument, and it sort of felt like the phone was breaking up with both of you?Have you ever thought that working on an issue between you and yourself was futile, because it should just be easier than this, or this is supposed to happen just naturally?Have you ever realized that very little, in the long run, just happens naturally?Have you ever woken up blissfully, and suddenly been flooded by the awful rememberence that someone had left you?Have you ever lost the ability to imagine a future without a person that no longer was in your life?Have you ever looked back on that event with the sad smile of autumn and the realization that futures will happen, regardless?Congratulations, you have now completed and passed the test. You are human.Want to know who has the best 7 Cups profile? Click here!
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Hi, glad you've found me. I'm a verified listener and I'd like to support people struggling with, or helping their loved ones coping with the problems listed below, plus psychosis, DID/OSDD and ASD. I love singing, taking photos, going on walks, learning clinical psychology and new languages. I use they/them pronouns.
I’m grateful for the hardships I’ve experienced and I'd like to lend an ear as you face yours. Seeking help is already a big step. Feel free to send me a message, I will reply as soon as I can. I'd really appreciate a rating or a review from you so that I can improve my listening skills. Looking forward to chatting with you!