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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

RarelyCharlie
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5.0 star rating
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Not taking new chats. ------------------------- Coming, going, the waterbirds don't leave a trace, don't follow a path. I'm Charlie and I'm trained, verified and experienced as an active listener for both adults and teens. I like to support people who are struggling with something. Also people who aren't struggling with anything. And people who aren't sure whether they're struggling with anything or not. Please do not message me hoping to start a chat. I am not taking new chats. The poem is said to be by Eihei Dōgen, a Japanese poet who wrote it around eight hundred years ago. I don't know why I like it. I just do. My photo is the moon shining on the sea. There's some darkness and some clouds there but the light of the moon shines on everything. I like this too. Thank you for reading my profile. I'm glad you are here! ------------------------- In an emergency or a crisis: If you are in an emergency or a crisis—for example, if you are at immediate risk of suicide or other serious harm—7 Cups is not the right place, because we cannot deal with emergencies or provide crisis counselling. Click here for information about getting help: Get emergency or crisis support [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/howto/crisis] Listener support: I'm happy to support other listeners with issues related to listening, although I don't have any official role. Please do not message me from a listener account to chat about personal issues. Use a member account for that. To understand why, see: Listener and Member Roles [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/GlensThoughts_143/ListenerandMemberRoles_210/1/] Schedule: I don't have a fixed schedule. I'm online some weekdays between about 4:30 a.m. and 8:30 a.m. US Eastern Time. In the UK this is 9:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. On other days and at weekends I'm often online too, but at times that are not predictable. If you message me or tag me in a forum I'm usually able to respond within a day or two. Miscellaneous resources: For some other resources, mainly for listeners, see my unofficial companion site: The 8th Cup [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/]
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RainbowTrie
L Intermediate 6 186
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
If you are in a crisis situation, all 7cups listeners are required to make the following referrals:  Click here if you are having suicidal thoughts [http://www.suicide.org] or click here if you need help regarding sexual assault. [http://www.rainn.org] Please return to 7cups when you are safe. You matter and your safety is important.  Welcome to 7cups [http://www.7cups.com/13176797]  As someone who needs to talk through the things I'm going through to fully process them, but hasn’t always had access to therapy, 7-cups listeners have made a big impact on my journey. I hope I can be that supportive stepping stone for you as well.  I primarily take general chat requests in blocks of 30min - 1 hour, but I can not schedule chats at this time. If you message me, I will try my best to get back to you, but if I can't respond to you immediately, or if you need more consistent support, please search though our list of wonderful listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. What to Expect in Our Chats [http://www.7cups.com/13176797]  A confidential space to TA lk or vent about whatever is on your mind - Little to no advice or personal anecdotes -  Empathic listening and questioning - Attention, presence, and non-judgement - Professionalism and confidentiality - Occasional resources and referrals when needed - A request to give a star rating and feedback after one hour of listening -   More About Me [http://www.7cups.com/13176797] I'm a nonbinary, queer, autistic empath. I've overcome many obstacles in my life, and I'm still learning and growing here alongside you. My interests include: psychology, education, gender, yoga, consciousness, plant medicine, lgbt issues, music, and cartoons.  Thank you for being here and for having the courage to reach out.
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lucy2
L Sage 1757
5.0 star rating
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last month
Please note I listen to teens only at present. Hello my friends, I am pleased to say I am now available to take chats, you can also leave me a message and I will get back to you asap<3 I am so pleased you have found me on 7cups of Tea! My roles on 7cups I am the Community Mentor Leader for General Support. (Previously) Adult / Teen Listener Needs reply team (Previously) Door Keeper Global Moderator I'm a trained Teen and Adult Listener  and I look forward to supporting you. I hope you will feel comforted knowing there is someone here who understands your needs and worries and I look forward to chatting with you. If my status is shown as offline or busy, please message me and I will get back to you asap. Chat soon Lucy2 <3
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Miracle
L Virtuoso 12 2472
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last month
I am a female from England, although I was not born in this country. I have a experience with eating disorders, self harm, OCD and traumatic experiences. I also like to speak to people who have experienced a significant loss or are dealing with feelings of isolation, particularly if this is an ongoing issue. I am a Christian, and came to my faith at the age of 18. I try to treat everyone as individual and do not pass judgement. I am not perfect, but if you feel that you would like to speak to me or ask me any questions, then please send me a message and I'll get back to you as soon as I can.
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AnyaS
L Epitome 972
5.0 star rating
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last month
Hello! I am a retired 7 Cups Ambassador!
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