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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Masterhealer
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Verified Listener. I have gone through Long Distance Relationship (LDR), breakup and loss of loved ones. മലയാളി. 
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GregB19
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Gregory; Fitness, Hockey, Outdoor enthusiast, Construction Engineering, Caffeine addict, Gamer, Tattoos, Good times & Stellar vibes 🤙🏼 Forever down for that casual talk. * Please use full words when communicating with me. No short forms or abbreviations. Let’s keep them back and forth replies at a steady pace. You get out exactly what you put in✌🏼   
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TogetherForeverAlways
L Pinnacle 14 4711
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walkalot
L Exemplar 7 8143
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*Not taking new members for now. I need to slow down. I will still support my current members. Thanks for your understanding.* I don't claim to be an expert, but I appreciate when people listen respectfully and attentively to me. I hope to provide the same for you.
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IagoParis
L Helper 7 89
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It makes me feels accomplished to help people to achieve the ability to help themselves. Currently, I am exploring compassion meditations.
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BlueSkies1021
L Maven 10 296
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NOTE: Members --- Feel free to leave messages even when my status bubble is orange (meaning busy) or red (meaning inactive)! I will respond when I can, as soon as possible! Please don't think I forgot about you or ignored you if I don't respond right away. I reply to every message that comes in my inbox whenever I have the chance to!!! :) But in case I am unable to get to you right away and you urgently need help, please Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] or use a Self Help Guide [https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php] with these blue links here! And as for my fellow listeners --- If you need resources or help with chatting, please see this link [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerSupportGuides_1850/ListenerSupportGuidesMasterList_228279/] for the master list of listener resources. *************************************************************************** I am a member of the VERIFIER'S TEAM [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/JointheListenerVerifiersTeam_46938/], so fellow listeners --- if you would like to request a mock chat to become Verified, please read this post [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/GetVerifiedon7Cups_290064/] thoroughly, check if you meet all the requirements, and message me to schedule a mock chat to try to get recognized for your high-quality active listening and get yourselves that blue Verified check bubble and badge! *************************************************************************** Hello everyone! I am a Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/GetVerifiedon7Cups_290064/] here at 7 Cups! My name is Blue, pronouns she/her! (I also like the name Sky; you guys can pick which one you call me.) :D I am a person with a deep compassion and understanding for people and I will not be judgmental towards you for any of your issues. I love listening to people and check in with this site every day, so I will do my best to respond to your messages as quickly as I can. During the weekdays I might be a bit slow to respond, though, because I'm still in school and get overloaded with work a lot. But really, don't feel guilty venting to me—I WANT to be here! :) I have a lot of experience with mental health and listening to people about their struggles, although if your problems are outside of my ability to help (suicide, self harm, sexual harassment/assault, substance abuse, drug addiction, domestic violence, trauma from war, injuries, diseases, etc.), please seek professional help [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/] or paid therapy [https://www.7cups.com/online-therapy/?ob=1] with the resources in these links, as I am not trained or equipped to handle these things as a 17-year-old kid. As much as I would really, truly love to be here for all you guys through anything, I really can't do anything about threats to your safety. Those things should be referred to the authorities or a specialist. But otherwise, I am here for everyone, regardless of race, gender, religion, sexuality, relationship status, familial situation, etc. and feel free to talk to me like you would close friend. You deserve help, love, appreciation, and validation; I will do everything in my power to provide you with support! :) *************************************************************************** A bit about me: My birthday is October 21st (yay Libras!), my personality type is INFJ, and I was born in the Year of the Dog (2006)! My favorite color is blue (you probably guessed, haha), my favorite seasons are fall and summer, and my favorite food is Hawaiian Poké bowl. I'm Chinese-American, proud to be so, and have a lot of experience with managing and appreciating cultural identity. I think I'm somewhere on the ace spectrum [https://asexuality.org/] (probably demisexual and demiromantic), but I don't really care about labels that much, so you can just call me "ace" or "queer" or whatever; I just want to be myself. :) Music is my favorite thing, like, ever; I play flute, viola, sing in a choir, am in a marching band, and love musical theater. I love reading books, particularly YA fantasy, sci-fi, realistic fiction, and LGBTQ+ stories. My top 4...well, technically 5...favorite books are "You've Reached Sam" [https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/53086843-you-ve-reached-sam] by Dustin Thao, "They Both Die At The End" [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/33385229-they-both-die-at-the-end?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=fst8Sn2mzF&rank=1] by Adam Silvera, "These Violent Delights" [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/50892212-these-violent-delights] (and its sequel, "Our Violent Ends" [https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/44084762]) by my literal queen Chloe Gong, and "Loveless" [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/42115981-loveless?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=2kKj6M3VXm&rank=1] by Alice Oseman, which I HIGHLY recommend to everyone because they are just so meaningful and explore human connections so deeply. I write my own stories and draw sometimes, although they really aren't that great at all, haha. When I graduate high school, I want to go to medical school (hopefully, haha) to become a reproductive endocrinologist so I can help families! :) I'm also a huge fan of Marvel, My Hero Academia, Lord of the Rings, Top Gun, Taylor Swift, The Piano Guys, Alan Walker, and '80s / '90s Chinese songs (I get that from my amazing mom, haha)! :D *************************************************************************** APPRECIATE A PERSON ON 7 CUPS WHO HAS GIVEN YOU A GOOD EXPERIENCE HERE [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/viewform]! <3 *************************************************************************** MY BEST FRIENDS ON 7 CUPS OF TEA WHO I LOVE AND APPRECIATE WITH ALL MY HEART: @kosikima -- truly a legit angel sent from heaven, so understanding and warm-hearted @mushro0m -- a friend that's such a joy to talk to, always accepting and there for me @amiableBunny4016 -- hardworking and selfless, overcomes obstacles like a warrior @inventiveMango9097 -- so strong and resilient, finds happiness even when it's dark @FaithfulZareia [https://www.7cups.com/@FaithfulZareia] -- the best, sweetest listener I know, always cheers me up when I'm down
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ReganL
L Master 2 321
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Hello my friends, you are looking at this currently, you are amazing for that 🌟 You are taking the first steps to make you feel better 💕 I know it is scary and your probably have many things going on in your wonderful mind 😶‍🌫️ That is okie my friend, you can share those thoughts with me without any judgment 🚫 We all have a story to tell 📖 and I am more then happy to hear yours 🤝 WishfulWillow6962 (Willow) - Willow you wonderful oldie! I thank you so much for your wonderful time, the four months of dedication and speaking to this teenie will never be forgot, let the memories live on my first! Best of luck on your next adventure  My listener Twin is MollySofia - Thank you for all you have taught me and helping me become the listener I am today I will miss you much.  I would like to thank the oldies who have helped me become the listener I am today! Each one of them who has stepped up to guide me has a very special place and is the reason why I am who I am today. Little note: If you expect a Listener with good spelling I may not be the listener for you  Talking to a random person is scary! Here are some things about me so it feels a little less scary. I am a 16 year old high school student, a sophomore. I go to college during the summer months. I have had many different battles myself, so please never fear that I will judge you for what you are going through, life can be mean, and things all affect us differently. I have some medical conditions, there may be times my response time is a little slower due to this, but you matter to me, and as soon as I can I will respond  I am so glad you are looking at getting in touch with a listener today 🤗 It takes so much strength and courage to reach out for help when you are struggling 💚 I am here for you and to help you 💛 I will not judge you for who you are or what you are feeling. I will listen to what you have and offer you a supportive area.  Green Circle: Means I am ready to chat Yellow Circle: Means I am busy, but you can send me a message and I will get to you when I can!! Red Circle: Means I am offline, but you can still send me a message and I will see it when I come back online!!   Thank you so much for looking at my profile, I hope to hear from you soon! 🌈  My roles here at 7 cups:  Verified listener 🍎 Peer support 📙 Teen Chatroom Star🍌 Mod - Student Support 🍀 Mod-  Positivity corner 🌱 Host Listener Discussion Team 💠 Project Agent ~ Listener Discussion 🌀 Chat Support 🗾 Anonymous Evaluation Team 🍇 Teen Quality Star🌷 Care Team Guide 💖 Door Keeper 🌸
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catlover58
L Master 10 1857
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Please don't hesitate to message me if you're lonely, have problems with a friend, struggle with self harm, an eating disorder, your sexual orientation, or handling student life <3 NO INTEREST IN SEXUAL CONVERSATIONS
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healingTouch9706
L Scholar 7 897
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I am just like your friend who will try to help in every situation
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CaringEzra
L Pinnacle 4 6888
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FriendlyAnju777
L Epitome 19 15615
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
 Hello ! Glad you found me on 7 Cups. I am a verified Trained Listener and a Quality Listener Graduate from 7cups. I love to help people. My strong points are very unjudgmental, honest and caring. Please reach out to me with all kinds of issue Relationships, Loneliness, Adults and serious issues. Expertise in spiritual wellness. Reach out to be positive. Only respond to personal requests. Reach if you are 30 plus. Everyone wants to be heard in today's world if you feel you need to be heard msg me am here for you!! My strong expertise is marriage relationships. If I am offline, please leave a message and I will get back to you soon to schedule a best time. My hours are from 6.00 am to 6.00pm est Mon,Wed and thur sometimes sat Sunday too. “Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.”― Leo Buscaglia
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Sentimentss
L Discoverer 3 452
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I like the 3.a.m version of people, vulnerable, honest & real
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