I'm a normal human being in an abnormal world... I'm the most understanding and trusted person one will ever find. I really want to help people and their happiness will make me happy. That's all I want. People should be happy.
Okurrrr! Heya there! I'm Lex. I know it can be daunting for you to talk about what you're going through to a total stranger like me but if you just want someone to listen to you or you just want to rant or you need help on certain issues or you just want to chat, I'm here for you. I'll support you to the best of my ability and you can feel safe talking to me.If you want to schedule a chat with me, do NOT put your email in the box that requests for it. Put an obviously fake email (eg. email@example.com) instead. If I receive a scheduled event with a possibly real email, I will cancel it and it will not be acknowledged. Thank you 😁Schedule a chat with meI am only comfortable with chats about:
✨ Depression ✨
✨ Bullying ✨
✨ Eating Disorders ✨
✨ Panic and Anxiety Attacks ✨
✨ Forgiveness ✨
✨ Anxiety and Social Anxiety ✨
✨ Loneliness ✨
✨ Self Esteem ✨
✨ General Mental Health ✨
✨ Managing Emotions ✨
✨ PTSD/Trauma ✨
✨ Weight Management ✨
✨ Exercise Motivation ✨
✨ Student Life ✨
If the topic you'd like to discuss is not listed here then feel free to click here to look for another listener to support you
🌟 Roles 🌟Peer Supporter - If you had a hard chat or a chat that left you feeling triggered or unsettled, I can help you feel better.Listener Verifier - If you're interested in being a verified listener, I can help you with that. Feel free to look at the requirements hereDiscussions Leader - I host weekly discussions on different topicsSafety Patrol Team - I keep 7 Cups safe for everyoneTranslator - I'm a member of the Translation Team and I help translate the site into French🌟 Listener Shoutouts 🌟
💜 @saltinecrackers22 is my close listener friend and my almost bday twin 💙 @Dababy9322 is another super awesome friend of mine
💚 @YaboiRogers is one of the chillest and funniest people I've met and they're super fun to talk to
🧡 @RiverHudson1 is one of the most supportive people I've met; can be super blunt as well xD
i am Sabina here to help everyone i understand how it gose I have depression and problems and I love the job that I do here and I am glad to help anyone of you
Open-minded, safe and judgment-free place! I'm here to help the best I can! :) I greatly enjoy talking about lgbtq+ and relationship stress! (but we can talk about anything!) Everything's a secret, you’re secret
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I do not mind, nor intellect, nor ego, nor the reflections of the inner self. I am not the five senses. I am beyond that. I am not the ether, nor the earth, nor the fire, nor the wind (i.e. the five elements). I am true, That eternal knowing and bliss, love and pure consciousness.
Neither can I be termed as energy, nor five types of breath, nor the seven material essences (that), nor the five coverings. Neither am I the five instruments of elimination, procreation, motion, grasping, or speaking. I am true, That eternal knowing and bliss, Shiva, love and pure consciousness.
I have no hatred or dislike, nor affiliation or liking, nor greed, nor delusion, nor pride or haughtiness, nor feelings of envy or jealousy
I have been through many problems, many of them are devastating. They hurt and the leave a scar but main point of life is going through them and survive. I have been to many places so i have grasp of most of the worlds cultures. Feel free to enrich my time with your stories.
Notes: NOT taking any relationship problem and sexual chatsThank you for reading my profileMy Online Schedule (ET)
Friday: 7pm to 12:00am
Saturday: 1:00am to 9am and 7:00pm to 9:00pm
You can use https://shirley7cups.youcanbook.me to schedule a time with meMy Online State
When I am online, I am available to take member chats.
When I am busy, I am on 7cups but I am doing other things. You can leave me a message, and I will respond to you as soon as possible.
When I am offline, I am not on 7cups. You can leave me a message, and I will respond to you when I come back to 7cups.Chatting Style
During an hour chat, I'm here to listen and support you, yet I can't provide you any advice. After the chat, we can set up a time to talk again.I only talk with a member at the same time, so when I'm talking with a member, other members have to wait me or set up a time to talk.
English isn't my first language, and I'm not really good at English, so I have some grammar mistakes and a little bit meaning mistakes. Maybe I delay responding to you because I need to check the dictionary if I don't know those words. My first language is Cantonese, and I also speak Mandarin, Taiwanese and English, and I type Chinese and English. If you are a Chinese speaker, feel free to message me.Chatting Topic
General Mental Health
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
Student LifeIf your topic that you want to talk with me is without this list, that means I do not have experiences about the topic. Please seek for other listeners' support. Thank you for understanding. Useful online resources(24/7)
1. If you are suicidal, having suicial thoughts, currently self-harming, or in any crisis situations, please click www.imalive.org to seek support.
2. If you are suffering abuse, please click www.rainn.org to seek support.
3. If you are suffering abuse in military, please click safehelpline.org to seek support
4. If you are 11-35 years old, in Hong Kong and in crisis, please click www.openup.hk to seek supportMy Role
1. Adult-Teen Listener - No matter who you are, feel free to message me when you need support.
2. Peer Supporter - After trigger chats, I am able to support you.
3. Verifier - If you want to get verified listener badge, feel free to message me, and I can help you to get the badge.
4. Translator and Chinese Team Leader - I am helping 7cups to translate Chinese and leading Chinese team.
5. Adult Listener Discussion Leader - I hold group discussions in adult listener room
6. Safety Patrol Team Member -- If you see any profile has to be flagged, feel free to pm me or use https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeGECC4E9NeQzQp2Skspwu6VQBJfMYB2Ag-Btm93DN5w0vh8A/viewform to flag themMy Favourite Songs
1. God Will Make A Way https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RsMAXhc0QTs
2. I Can Only Imagine https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZNDEyxEMNp0About Me
I am Shirley, an active listener in 7cups, a Christian, an 18 years old girl, who comes from Hong Kong.
I am diagnosed with Depression, Autism Spectrum Disorder and Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), so I have direct experiences about those situation. In fact, I'm not good at relationship, for I am diagnosed with ASD, so I have some communication barriers. I had self-harmed in 2016-2017, so I can help you with how to cope with this problem. Otherwise, I am suffering with depression, so I am finding some coping methods. Also, my mum is diagnosed with Schizophrenia and Bipolar, so I know a little bit knowledge about it. This is my personal experience and my coping methods about depression: https://www.7cups.com/forum/DepressionSupportCommunity_52/DepressionGeneralthreads_30/BECAREFULTOCLICKINLONGPOSTMyDepressionExperience_223473/1/
My electives at school are Biology, Chemistry, and Mathematics. My hobbies are shooting of air gun, travelling bus, watching birds, Biology and Mathematics. Feel free to talk with me those topics if you want!
In fact, I have a male tortoise who is called stupid(死蠢) at home, and it is a really crazy thing that he is my mum, so my mum is stupid haha(You can imagine what I look like haha). This is my tortoise: https://imgur.com/a/H45Aqnp
If you read to here, I am so appreciate your attention
I am very interested in helping others mainly because it is the only way to live this life in a meaningful way. The alternative is only self absorption which is not only bad for mental health and bad for the body and the world as well.
I hope I can connect with others since I know that loneliness is a problem of our times.
Hello! I'm a teen Aries, with an open heart. Please feel free to share your tumultuous emotions with me, and I will try to understand.
- female, 17
- loves science, musical theatre, 'classical' books, Hozier
TOPICS I AM UNCOMFORTABLE WITH :-
- Domestic Violence
- Eating Disorders
I'm sorry if you're a member with one of these issues, please find a more suitable listener to accommodate you!