ONLY TAKING CHATS WITHIN MY TOPICS. IF POSSIBLE PLEASE READ MY PROFILE BEFORE SENDING A PERSONAL REQUEST. If you're in a too bad condition at least make sure you want to talk about something within my areas of expertise.
Urgency first: If you are facing an acute situation like panic attack, flare up or urgent urge you don't need to read the rest of the text and can just drop me a request. I'll take care of you asap. If you're not in a situation like that please read on to see if I am the right Listener for you. If yes you're very welcome to contact me but you may have to wait a bit in case I am occupied with an urgent case, especially if my status is set to busy (orange).Hello and welcome to 7cups. I'm a 22 years old female from Germany and glad you read this. I had and still have to struggle with the things I offer support with and that's why I think I can help you with it. I understand you well and maybe I have suggestions, techniques or skills to help you. I'm familiar with living with chronic pain or disability, self-harm and panic attacks. I also have non-epileptic (dissociative/conversion) seizures and I'd like to exchange experience about this anytime.
I volunteered in a home for teenagers with emotional disability, psychological disease and behavioral issues for one year. Now I am on university of applied science for therapeutic and inclusive educations where i learn work with people with any kind of disability or chronic disease. In the following I will describe myself as a Listener and explain in what case I am the right one for you. It does not mean that I don't welcome other people. I just don't want to waste your time and want to make it easy for you to find a suitable Listener. If you select me as your Listener and I think there is a chance that I might be able to help then I will surely try my best to do so. Yet I do not take chats with any kind of sexual content, not from Members and Guests, nor from Listeners. If you message me with that I will tell you to leave and if you don't do so I might not have another option than blocking you.If I was to describe myself as a listener I would say I'm mostly supportive, reassuring and encouraging. But despite all my empathy and understanding I still tend to be somewhat challenging. If you are looking for someone to pity you or just an empty space to vent to you might be better off with another listener. I am the right one if you are ready to fight in order to make a change for yourself. I can assure that you have my greatest support if you are willing to work with me and I will be here to guide you through whatever struggle you may face. So let us unite our strengths and try to pull you out of your misery. Please understand that it may take a lot of effort, time and patience before there will be any significant change for you but I can assure you that it will be all worth it in the end. However my favourite saying that I took from the saw movies which I really enjoy (don't worry ,I'm not a creep) is "CHERISH YOUR LIFE" and I hope i can help you to do that too along the way.Send me a personal request by chatting to me or leaving me a message if:
- you want to learn to live better with chronic pain, especially such that gets worse in flare ups, for example CRPS (1)
- you want to manage daily life better with a disability (2)
- you want to stop self-harm (3)
- you want to cope better with panic attacks and possibly get rid of them (4)
- you want to talk about non-epileptic (dissociative/conversion /PNES ) seizures and eventually defeat them (5)- you want to talk about any kind of dissociation, including DID which occurred in response to a trauma (6)
- you are recovering from an injury, a physical or mental disease but things still get tough sometimes/ the progress is not the way you wish/ you still get relapses. In this case please name that the chat is supposed to focus on recovery (7)If you send a personal request please start the chat with a code number from 1 to 7 (that you see on the list next to the thing you want to talk about) to show you have read this. I only take requests about these topics, thanks for understanding.I do provide long term support as well! Let me know straight away if you wish that.
If I am offline you can drop me a message still and I will get in touch when I see it.
If you actually read everything: Thanks for your patience and attention, you're extra special :-pIch spreche auch deutsch Themen: chronische Schmerzen, Behinderung, selbstverletzendes Verhalten, Panikattacken, dissoziative Identitätsstörung und Phänomene infolge eines Traumas, Genesung/Erholung/Rehablilitation von einer Verletzung oder körperlichen oder psychischen ErkrankungIk spreek ook nederlands thema's: chronische pijn, handicap, zelf pijniging, paniekaanvallen, dissociatieve stoornissen in reactie op een trauma, beterschap van een schade of lichamelijke of mentaal ziekteJeg snakker litt norsk (Bokmål) emner: kronisk smerte, funksjonshemming, selvskading, panikkanfall, dissosiative lidelser som svar på et traume, bedring/rehabilitering etter en skade eller fysisk eller psykisk sykdomHablo un poco de español temas: dolor crónico, discapacidad, autolesiones, ataques de pánico, trastorno y fenómenos disociativo en respuesta a un trauma, mejoría/rehabilitación de una herida o enfermedad física o mental
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