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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

DreamTouch
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Hello there! Thank you for checking out my profile. I'm Dream, a listener here since January 2020. I'm here to provide a safe and non judgmental place for you to share your thoughts or feelings.  Unfortunately I'm not able to take 1-1 support chats currently. Please click here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] to view other available listeners. Some topics I'm more suited to provide support includes depression, anxiety, panic attacks, self-harm, student life and a few other I've mentioned in the 'categories' session below. Please note that I do not take any chats on sexual health or related topics. Thank you for understanding! I believe that personal development and self-improvement is a life long journey of trial and error. We are all work in progress and we all deserve respect and understanding in the process of self-discovery. ------------------------- What I do on 7cups: Adult-Teen Listener Academy Ambassador (LDP) ------------------------- My listener twins: @positivePumpkin22 and @lueurspace
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juhirashOA
L Paragon 14 6646
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Hiatus
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calmingPerspective87
L Apprentice 7 117
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Life is hard so love harder.  
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TogetherForeverAlways
L Pinnacle 13 4617
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enlightenedDew4105
L Helper 6 16
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I won’t be able to be online as frequently due to school. Hello I’m Quinn my pronouns are he/it. I’m trans(ftm), greyromantic, and asexual, I love movies, animals especially ferrets, and music, I’m a recovering self harmer also I’m recovering from a ED I’m here to support peoples feelings, big or small  I’m available Monday-Friday  my time zone is MDT ( Mountain Daylight Time)  Stuff I’m not comfortable with: - Addiction  - Alcohol/drug abuse  -Bipolar -Cancer -Sexual health or anything sexual due it lack of experience  -womens issues or mens issues  - weight management  - break ups due to lack of experience 
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Valorous
L Marvel 12 5212
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"Pain is real but so is hope" All we do here is support each other so do not hesitate to reach out. Remember "A conversation is where it begins". I've been on this platform for a while now and it's a wonderful place to support and learn. I'm not gonna say much about my skills as a listener since my reviews would do it more. Let's converse and get to know each other better 😊. Help is just one click away.
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Soulfulbeing75
L Marvel 4 5140
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Please read before requesting me  Hi there! I'm a compassionate and understanding listener, but I'm also direct and I will not sugar coat your situation. I'm here to chat with you about what's on your mind and/or troubling you. I'm very easy to talk with, and nothing you tell me will shock me. I will listen without judgment and help you the best way that I can. However, I prefer not to take chats related to gender, religion, relationship or sexual related issues. If you are a listener, and want to chat personally, please contact me on your member account. I've been trolled quite a bit on here. Please don't be selfish and waste my time. There are members here who are reaching out for genuine help. I'm not here to stimulate your sexual interests... you will be blocked.  Rest assured that our chat will be a safe place to express yourself, as confidentiality is extremely important to me. Honesty is just as important. So, please be honest with me at all times. Lying to me will only decrease my passion for helping you.  I've been through plenty myself... You're not alone. Come say hello ;) Also, please keep in mind that I'm not a professional, and I do this voluntarily. Thank you! 💗  
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CarpeNoctem22
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"If the highest aim of a captain were to preserve his ship, he would keep it in port forever." St. Thomas Aquinas ------------------------- "I asked my dog what's two minus two. He said nothing." Wait wait wait, got another one. Why do they put fences around the cemetery? Because people are dying to get in. Eh, got a chuckle? Anyways I'm Mateo, guy in his 20s that is experienced to talk about the issues that are listed below and is sorry for the bad dad jokes. What to expect when talking with me? I will not judge, it will be your space to share anything you are comfortable to share. I won't be a robot repeating some cliche phrases (It'll all be okay, you're gonna be fine etc.) without at least backing it up with good points. We'll talk through things, you don't have to be alone in it and I'll try my best together with you to assist you in finding the solutions to your issues. Talking itself may not solve some issues, but it can be a big first step in solving them.  ------------------------- NOTE: I will NOT talk with members that have suicidal thoughts or intentions. 
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KatRebane
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I am unable to assist with self-esteem and related problems, self-harm or with emotion management (e.g. grief, anger). Thank you for understanding.   My name's Katariina, I've joined 7 Cups in hopes of guiding those experiencing emotional and/or mental distress by providing a safe environment without prejudice to talk and insight through sharing knowledge of psychiatry and philosophy. Please be mindful that although I never have the intention of being rude, my stern professionalism may come across as insensitive. If you're uncomfortable with my listening style for any reason, please inform me so that I can better accommodate you.   Topics I can best help with:  Mental illness (disorders) (specifically dissociative identity disorder/multiple personality disorder (DID/MPD) and other dissociative (and conversion) disorders; also behavioural and social deficits, like those present in autism spectrum disorders/Asperger's syndrome (ASD) and other developmental disorders; bipolar disorder and mania; delirium and other psychogenic illnesses (neurosis); antisocial/dissocial (ASPD), avoidant, dependent (DPD), sadistic, schizoid (SzPD) personality disorders; and psychosis-related disorders, including schizophrenia); LGBTQ+ issues; and trauma.   These are not all the topics I am comfortable with, although I accept all requests dealing with any of the above, even when marked as busy. If I'm online, don't hesitate in sending me a request! If you see that I'm offline, please leave me a message and I'll respond asap. I accept casual/loneliness chats, but am not skilled at leading conversation, therefore without a topic the chat might not gain momentum.   I might not be the best listener for those looking to move on, or find acceptance, (breakups, loss/grief, diabetes and disability); and situational/life stresses (bullying, financial, school, work, parenting, etc.).   I am not comfortable discussing self-esteem (i.e. negative body image and eating disorders, shame, feelings of worthlessness and social anxiety) or feelings such as anger and envy. Please seek another listener that can better complement you.  If you are still wondering if I'm the right listener for you please feel free to request or message me with any questions that you might have.
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EvelyneRose
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Hello! I chose the picture of an apple because it represents to me growth and potential. The apple can grow to become the best apple it can be. I think we all have potential, and I also believe that most people are not solely good or bad- we are a combination of light and dark. That's just human nature. I've been here since 2013, and I am now in my 30s. I have always been told I'm a good listener and person to come to. People have come to me years after talking to them because they remembered I was someone to confide in. I like to think of myself as open minded, non judgmental, and compassionate. I try to be honest, but tactfully so. I find the best people in my life are those that tell me what I need to hear, not what I want to hear, and that is something I practice with others. I hope to be here for you, and I will cheerlead you on. I cannot give advice, but I will be a support for you. I take casual chats, so even if you're just bored or need someone to talk to and don't have a pressing issue, I am happy to talk to you.  My strengths lie in the subjects I have listed on my profile, so I will not be the best fit for everyone (and that is okay!). I hope everyone can get the help they need from whoever it is, even if it's not me. If I cannot help you, I will let you know and try to connect you with someone that can. I do the best with chats that can be asynchronous, as my schedule varies and I don't want to promise I can sit down for a real time chat if I cannot. That is unfair to both of us time wise, and time is a precious thing. Updated March 23, 2023 I have joined the admin team as a Quality Specialist for the volunteer community. I am still involved in all the things below, but as I am now involved widely across the site in different ways, if you need to know who to talk to regarding any of the below activities, please PM me and I will direct you to who you should talk to, whether it be me or someone else. If you have questions about anything Quality related, please PM me!
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grimsmark8
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Hi, I'm Grim! aka Rocky(Summer), Grimmo(Fristo), Grimsby (Beecake) "MEOWDY? what sort of cowboy kitty is that? 😮 is that McFluffy Marky Meowzers?" - @WhiteJenny I'm grateful to be on this amazing platform that has helped me in myriad ways, and so I'd decided to give back to the community as a verified listener. I believe that due to some reasons or the other, we tie ourselves into emotional knots that are hard to undo, especially when we don't find a comfortable place to work on it. We tend to wound ourselves up more and more in the helplessness. As a listener, I aim to provide a non-judgmental and comfy space to ground so that you could be gentle with yourself. Then, bit by bit, you could do what's needed for you, and free your heart!   Qn by @KartikListener: "If you had 1 big wish, what would you wish for (only selfish wishes allowed)?" Ans:"I wish to have a big farm with a nice cottage with flowers, where I would grow a lot of vegetables, where I would bake my own bread, make pasta and wine, where I would have books, cats, wild birds and animals, and would just do what my partner finds cute (she's amazing, and I trust her completely). We would host good people from all around the world as our guests and volunteers to help around our big farm, and we can learn from each other's life experiences, and sing and dance. I hope it's not too much, and you asked for a big wish so....😊" #ByeByeCliques Preferred Topics: - Bipolar - Anxiety - Depression  - General Mental Health - Grief - Getting Unstuck - Exercise Motivation - Managing Emotions - Self-esteem and self-harm - Relationship Stress - Racial and Cultural Identity - Spirituality P.S. : Please do reach out to me in case you want to talk over other related issues that overlap with the aforementioned topics, except: Issues I Don't Want to Discuss: - Marital topics - Financial Stress - Cancer/Diabetes Some more stuff: Green means 'online and taking personal requests'. Orange means 'online but busy conversing with another member'. Red is 'offline'.  Please do leave messages even when it's orange/red, I'll see them and reach out to you as soon as I can, even the next day!  Looking forward to connecting with you! Regards,   --- 7 Cups is built on collaboration, and a little appreciation goes a long way! It takes just a second to make someone's whole day right now: Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]
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HeavenlyMagic
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𝒶 𝓃𝑜𝓉𝑒 𝒻𝓇𝑜𝓂 𝓂𝑒 𝓉𝑜 𝓎𝑜𝓊 ˗ˏˋ ♡ ˎˊ˗ your feelings are absolutely valid, i am so proud of you and i love you so much. no matter what, i'm here for you. 𓍢ִ໋🌷͙֒ you are not alone in this. i am with you. let's go through it together. ♡ i will never judge u for anything. ⟡ i'm more than happy to talk. 。 ₊°༺❤︎༻°₊ 。 𝒶𝒷𝑜𝓊𝓉 𝓂𝑒 ༄ i'm in love with kindness, compassion, and empathy. i just love the love itself.  i believe the world be a beautiful place when everyone is compassionate and kind to each other. 🌸 ⋆。˚ there is nothing more beautiful to me than filling the heart with love and love only.  i love doing selfless deeds. ♡ i love prayers for others. i love this very existence. i believe in magic. ⭒ •─────────•-ˋˏ ༻❁༺ ˎˊ-•─────────• i love you so much and so many people do. you just have not met them yet. ∞ -`♡´-
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