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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

IngeniousFriend590
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*I truly believe that every single person must go through something that absolutely destroys them so they can figure out who they really are. * "The worst part about having a mental illness is PEOPLE expect you to behave as if you  DONT"   -Joker Welcome to 7 Cups! Remember that you are brave for being receptive to help; as well as acknowledging that you can't figure everything out on your own. It is strong because it requires you to be honest with yourself, others and tends to make one more vulnerable.   Here for whatever you'd like to discuss ❤ I've been through a lot and learned a lot.  I can't discuss most Chronic Illness topics. If you have a topic to discuss, please tell me honestly so we can be on the same page. I'm here for you.   People in depression aren't lazy. people with anxiety aren't rude. People with suicidal thoughts aren't attention seekers. People with mental illness aren't crazy. Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character-building day." - Les Brown Have a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by!!!!!
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DrGHOST
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Here to help you.
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dancingJoy75
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Hello, I am a good listener, and would love to have a chat with you.  I am honest and I enjoy 7 cups as a safe place to talk        
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coolj9
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Life is not a problem to be solved, but a mystery to be lived...❤️
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BobbyX
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Hey it is Bobbie here!
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wishfulWillow6962
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Please note as of 17th April: I may need to take sometime offline given personal reasons coming up. This may not happen, but I will not be fully sure until it does. I also do not know if this happens when I will be back but I will update this as and when I can. ------------------------- Please read this before messaging If none of the below applies to you, please note that I am unlikely to be able to respond to your message. If any of the below does apply, please let me know within your message. If we have spoken before, you are welcome to message me. If you have been referred to me by another listener, feel free to still send me a message.  If we have spoken within the forums and I have let you know we can talk privately, of course feel free to send me a message as well ------------------------- Thank you so much to AnnaSilverberg [https://www.7cups.com/@AnnaSilverberg] for drawing my amazing profile picture. Thank you Anna ❤️  ------------------------- Note to members Due to my busy schedule, my preference for long term chats are that they are offline, where we both respond when we are able to do so. However, if necessary and convenient for both you and I, we can arrange a live chat. On the other hand, if I am online and/or accepted you request or you have been referred to me, this does not apply, I am happy to have a live chat with you at this moment in time. ------------------------- Topics I do not take I do not take chats on the following: relationships, self harm, eating disorders, sexual issues (including assault and relationships), grief and abuse (alcohol, drug, physical or any other kind). If you are looking to talk about those topics you are welcome to connect to another listener using this link [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. ------------------------- About me Hey, I’m Willow! We all have our own stories with our own challenges. I have been through a lot of things in the past myself, so I may be able to be able to relate more than you think I can.  I also often have bad pain in my hands from time to time meaning I may be slow to type to respond sometimes, however I will always respond as soon as I can, I hope you understand. If live chats are scheduled they are typically an hour long, unless we agree otherwise.  ------------------------- My own experiences and other chats I take I have had my own personal experiences in a lot of things, a few include: autism, anxiety, panic and anxiety attacks, PTSD. I am happy to take chats on all of them if you would like to talk to someone with personal experience. I also will take chats on the following: depression, disabilities, social anxiety, OCD and ADHD. I will listen and support you the best way I can using active listening with most topics. If they are not listed above, I will still listen to you the best I can, I just don't necessarily have a lot of knowledge in them. However there are a few exceptions, please find them above in "Topics I do not take".  ------------------------- My status meanings Regardless of my status, you are welcome to pm me, however my response times will vary though (see below). I am most commonly found online 4pm-7pm ET, but let me know if you would rather talk at a time outside of these and we can work something out.  Green - I am online and am free to chat, feel free to pm me, I will answer you quickly Orange - I am online, however I am busy at the moment, however I will reply ASAP Red - I am offline, but I will aim to reply to your message within the next 24-48 hours. ------------------------- My roles on 7Cups * Adult-Teen Listener (ATL) * Teen-Transition Mentor * Chatroom Moderator - Group Support Community  * Chat Support * Peer Support * Doorkeeper * A member of the Listener Discussions Team ------------------------- My amazing teen Listener twin - @Mahad2804 [https://www.7cups.com/@Mahad2804] -------------------------
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daydreammemories
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Hi ~Just a human being 🌿 (-Currently on a break from taking new personal chat requests, thanks for understanding ^^ . My current member buddies, feel free to message whenever you want 😄) ------------------------- I'll be there for you              When the rain starts to pour ; ) " There is still a joker roaming around the world. He will make sure that the world never rests. Whenever possible -and wherever possible - a little fool will jump out wearing long donkey ears and jingling bells. He will look deep into our eyes and ask, who are we? Where do we come from? " Jostein Gaarder, The Solitaire Mystery ♧ ------------------------- Dear fellow reader, how have you been? 😊 I’ve been meaning to write this for a while now, and I finally took the courage to do so. I appreciate your patience going through my profile. We are stuck in a world with tons of problems, each and every one of us carries their own. These problems can change, but from my own personal experience, there is never a time when we don’t have any. I can relate to that as well, I know you do too. BUT, the way we approach our problems matter. That’s what helps us grow. I know we might never recover from our pains, our bad memories are always going to be a part of us as well, although, the important part is that they get lost between the good ones. I’m not going to tell you what to do and what not to do, but to let you know that my main reason to be here is that I simply care. I want to be with you when making tough decisions, when dealing with something harsh which life threw at you. I’m not a saint or an agnel. I make mistakes and take some actions that I might end up regretting, I’m not going to judge you when you do as such. Pinky promise. ------------------------- Some things that I’ve come to learn during my life: (The list will be updated during time lol) ✨You can’t be the hero in everyone’s story. ✨You don’t need to keep everyone satisfied to feel happy. ✨Take your steps based on what feels right to you, not everyone else’s. ✨Space and time make some things better, if you’re not sure they apply to a situation, try them. ✨We all gain our initial deep motive to help us keep going in hard situations during time. Time certainly makes you a master. Take your time, and build that motive. This doesn’t mean that you will go through challenges happily, but to solely be able to get through them eventually. ✨I agree that even best friends can’t be hundred percent there for each other, I agree that us as listeners have our own issues going on as well. But I truly believe you might still find someone caring about you in silence. If you feel like troubles are there weighing on you, and it feels harsh to move on carrying those burdens, I’m here to help easing up that pain as much as I can. ------------------------- About me: 🕊️A fellow soul in my 20s, searching for the meaning of life and pursuing my passion in college. 🕊️I love learning new languages. 🕊️I’m passionate about reading, listening to music, and hiking. 🕊️I love reading mystery novels and watching movies in this genre.  🕊️Friends and Modern Family are my two comfort shows. 🕊️I'm a pretty good photographer 📷. 🕊️Green is my favorite color 💚.  🕊️I am here to at least make another fellow soul feel a bit better.  May all your days be blessed, Take care!😇 “Message in a bottle is all I can do Standing here hoping this gets to you” T.S. 😊 💕
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flowerrr8
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ChaoticListener
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✨Updated Availability ~ I have no time and will respond to DMs when I see them in 1-5 business days✨ 📚Thank you for understanding as I am a public school educator📚 A chaotic listener. Vegan & Forest power! Chats will usually be ~30 minutes. Here are some free mental health apps  — * https://tinyurl.com/Big-List * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=is.vertical.ptsdcoach * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=id.com.WorryDolls&pli=1 * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.woebot * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bluepilltech.liberate.ocdapp * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.jacksontempra.apps.whatsup&gl=US ------------------------- The NAMI website where you can find a bunch of free mental health resources as on 7 cups - https://www.nami.org/Home NAMI and 7 cups as well as these free mental health apps have really helped me in my healing. No matter what you feel or what you have been told regarding the amount you need to do to "just not feel depressed (or insert any other mental illness here)" know that whatever you do for yourself is enough, mental illness can be debilitating, and the fact that you are here shows you are doing the healing work. I wish for you the world, I wish for you the power to change age old systems of oppression and to heal yourself in the process.
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YourCaringConfidant
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❤️•🧡•💛•💚•💙•💜•💗 𝓗𝓮𝓵𝓵𝓸 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮, 𝓘'𝓶 𝓓𝓮𝓼𝓲𝓻𝓮𝓮! Hello there! I'm Desiree. I'm so glad you found me on 7 Cups and selected me as your listener. I honestly suffer from my own share of mental health issues. However, despite my diagnoses, it has taken me a long time to realize that I am not those labels nor do they define me. I would love to support you by lending a listening ear. If you see my status as available, you are welcome to send me a message so we can connect. If my status is set to offline, then please respect that I am not available to offer support at the moment. I do not support any one member for a long period of time, as I believe there needs to be established boundaries. I tend to frequent the forums as there is where I meet so many wonderful members and listeners. Don't ever hesitate to drop me a line and say hi if you see me about.  ── ⋆⋅☆⋅⋆ 7 Cups Academy Graduate ⋆⋅☆⋅⋆ ── Internship w/ Honors  Leadership Development Program Content Development & Marketing Inner Development Goals ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ 🅼🆈 🅰🅼🅰🆉🅸🅽🅶 🆃🆆🅸🅽🆂 🅰🆁🅴: ★·.·´¯`·.·★.· ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ @🅸🅿🅷🅾🅴🅽🅸🆇 ★·.·´¯`·.·★.· ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ @🅰🅽🅽🅰🆂🅸🅻🆅🅴🆁🅱🅴🆁🅶 ★·.·´¯`·.·★.· ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ @🅹🅰🆂🅼🅸🅽🅴🅸🆂🅷🅴🆁🅴4🆄 ★·.·´¯`·.·★.· 💜XOXO💜 ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ 🅼🆈 ♊ 🆃🆆🅸🅽 🅸🆂: ★·.·´¯`·.·★.· ·.★·.·´¯`·.·★ @🅱🅻🅸🆂🆂🅵🆄🅻🅱🆄🅴 ★·.·´¯`·.·★.·
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rubyjane00
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Hello Everyone, I am your typical introvert, so don't feel scared or nervous, I am here to help you! (●'◡'●) Unfortunately I'm not able to take 1-1 support chats currently.  Random facts about me: * a bookworm (especially crime thrillers) * I am vegetarian  * I am asian * winter >>> summer 100% * My favourite show is Love, Victor (please tell me you have seen it)  I apologise if I have not yet responded to you. In order to make this easier please message me with the following information: what you want to chat about , your availability (so as soon as I see your message I can let you know when we can chat) and anything else you feel is necessary. Topics I have personal experience/ expertise in and are therefore comfortable discussing are: * Eating Disorder * Panic attacks * Social Anxiety * Self-Harm Role(s) on 7cups : [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines/Safety-Reporting-c97e53621f924398b1db1088c9def307] * Smile spreader [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines/Safety-Reporting-c97e53621f924398b1db1088c9def307] * Safety Patrol  [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines/Safety-Reporting-c97e53621f924398b1db1088c9def307] * LDP Mentor [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines/Safety-Reporting-c97e53621f924398b1db1088c9def307] * CDM mentor [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines/Safety-Reporting-c97e53621f924398b1db1088c9def307]
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KatRebane
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I am unable to assist with self-esteem and related problems, self-harm or with emotion management (e.g. grief, anger). Thank you for understanding.   My name's Katariina, I've joined 7 Cups in hopes of guiding those experiencing emotional and/or mental distress by providing a safe environment without prejudice to talk and insight through sharing knowledge of psychiatry and philosophy. Please be mindful that although I never have the intention of being rude, my stern professionalism may come across as insensitive. If you're uncomfortable with my listening style for any reason, please inform me so that I can better accommodate you.   Topics I can best help with:  Mental illness (disorders) (specifically dissociative identity disorder/multiple personality disorder (DID/MPD) and other dissociative (and conversion) disorders; also behavioural and social deficits, like those present in autism spectrum disorders/Asperger's syndrome (ASD) and other developmental disorders; bipolar disorder and mania; delirium and other psychogenic illnesses (neurosis); antisocial/dissocial (ASPD), avoidant, dependent (DPD), sadistic, schizoid (SzPD) personality disorders; and psychosis-related disorders, including schizophrenia); LGBTQ+ issues; and trauma.   These are not all the topics I am comfortable with, although I accept all requests dealing with any of the above, even when marked as busy. If I'm online, don't hesitate in sending me a request! If you see that I'm offline, please leave me a message and I'll respond asap. I accept casual/loneliness chats, but am not skilled at leading conversation, therefore without a topic the chat might not gain momentum.   I might not be the best listener for those looking to move on, or find acceptance, (breakups, loss/grief, diabetes and disability); and situational/life stresses (bullying, financial, school, work, parenting, etc.).   I am not comfortable discussing self-esteem (i.e. negative body image and eating disorders, shame, feelings of worthlessness and social anxiety) or feelings such as anger and envy. Please seek another listener that can better complement you.  If you are still wondering if I'm the right listener for you please feel free to request or message me with any questions that you might have.
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