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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

ShadowFaerie
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Hi, I'm Faerie, & I'm glad you found me here on 7cups! I would like the opportunity to "hold your hand" through whatever subject you need help with, whether light or heavy. I will take the time to listen, without judgement. I'm a verified listener here, in the "35+" age group, & I have experience working with adolescents & adults, (including LGBTQIA+), professionally, & in volunteer positions. I have experience with a wide range of topics, including family issues, relationship issues, dv, rape, abuse, painful breakups, disabilities, homelessness, chronic pain, addictions & other speed-bumps/road-blocks that life throws us, often when least expected. I enjoy cooking, reading, painting (watercolors and sometimes acrylic), writing creatively, being independent, having picnics outside, music (of all different genres) & sci-fi, among many other things. Welcome! I look forward to meeting you! "Our sorrows and wounds are healed only when we touch them with compassion". Buddha Special thanks and cheers to my bubbly, energetic listener twin from down under @bouncyCandy4246
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HopieRemi
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Due to the nature of my offline work, I do not take 1 on 1 Chats anymore. To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.  I am a Listener Coach and Chat Support. To Members:  I have been honored to be a listener since June 2016.  Time boundaries and personal boundaries are important for me as I do not talk about myself or use this for support and I have limited time. I am able to support any topic outside of sext, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpful resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].  I have limited availability therefore I am not around for 1-1 chats. I support users in group chats and the forums. If you need immediate support, I recommend you browse [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] for a listener who is online. The only exception is chat referrals so If you have been specifically sent to me, feel free to PM me. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours?
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EricaAnne
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Hi! Glad to see you on 7cups! Feel free to chat if you are feeling down and need someone to talk to. I might not personally relate to everything that you are going through, but I will do my best to empathise and put myself in your shoes. I would love to get to know more about you and hopefully our chat will help you feel a little better. ☺️ Disclaimer: I am not taking general conversational chats at this time. Respectfully, Please find another listener if you would like someone to have a casual chat with. The following are not appreciated:  Trolls   Insensitivity  Flirting or other types of inappropriate behaviour I hope to establish a comfortable listening environment and dedicate my time to those who genuinely need someone to lend a listening ear. Thank you for understanding, and I can't wait to chat with you!     
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wonderfulMagic99
L Scholar 5 513
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Currently on a self-care break for a few weeks. Will be back by the end of the month. My life has changed while dealing with some health issues. I have learned quite a bit about myself while spending time on doing what I can to keep my body, mind and spirit healthy. I hope some of the things I have gone through can help you out! My availability is fairly sporadic due to the nature of my illnesses. Feel free to message me though and we can likely work out a time. Topics that I focus on and have personal experience with: Invisible disability Chronic health problems Chronic disease Physical health problems Fear of needles
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amiablePeace77
L Epitome 19 6947
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I'm sorry but I'm not able to take any 1:1 chats/pm chats atm. If you are looking for a listener please browse here https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ Hello,  I’m  Ami,  a verified listener on 7cups. My support will be confidential, without any judgement. There are no topics which make me feel uncomfortable and I will do everything I can to make you feel welcome, safe and understood.  7 Cups is not equipped to support crisis situations. If you are in crisis please reach out to a crisis line for appropriate support. Here are some sourced crisis lines and resources to help you: * (U.S.) The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline [https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/] at 1-800-273-8255 * Crisis Text Lin [https://www.crisistextline.org/texting-in]e * (U.S.) Text HOME to 741741 * (Canada) Text HOME to 686868 * International Association for Suicide Prevention [https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/] * Canada call 1-833-456-4566or text 45645 Crisis Services Canada [http://www.crisisservicescanada.ca/]  * UK * Call Samaritans [https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/talk-us-phone/] 116 123 * Call Hopeline [https://papyrus-uk.org/hopelineuk/] 080020068204141 or text 0778620209697 * Australia Lifeline Crisis Support  [https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/topics/lifeline-services] call  13 11 14 * India click the link to find a local crisis line with Befrienders India [http://befriendersindia.net/helpline-details.php] My listening times are Monday to Friday  as per arrangement , usually my listening time will be 45 to 60 min. once a week or 2 x 30 min. twice a week. A few things about me: Some of my favorite activities are exercising,  yoga,  meditation,  nature walks and cooking. My approach to life is holistic, keeping the mind, body and spirits balanced. I consider living in harmony with nature  very important. I had many challenges in my life and learned to cope and overcome them and would be glad to support you to achieve the same.  Volunteering here on 7 cups  means a lot to be,   I am very passionate about helping others. I want to acknowledge the courage that it takes to reach out, this is not easy, but you made the first step. Please feel free to message me any time, I promise I will get back to you as soon as I can.
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soulsings
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Sorry if you are a member or guest looking to chat, I am not currently accepting new personal requests for chats. You can browse for a listener. https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ . You may also find these helpful https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php     https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php Some people find that mindfulness helps them cope. The video Resource Library https://www.7cups.com/forum/mindfulness/ResourceLibrary_1062/2016presentMindfulnessVideos_72071/ If you might consider a paid text therapy on 7cups, then this may be of interest https://www.7cups.com/forum/therapy/General_2432/ExcitingNewFeaturefor7CupsOnlineTherapyandCoaching_319430/ The other resource is various therapy topics  https://www.7cups.com/experts/catalog/topics/ All the best to you. Again sorry I cannot help you but my personal workload does not allow openings for that at this time.  
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SunShineAlwaysGrateful
L Sage 9 2335
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💕Retired, Married, & Loving It 💕  🚨 IMPORTANT 🚨  ♥️Until further notice♥️ 💚NO LONGER taking NEW CHATS 💚 ✅Housekeeping Rules ✅Must Completely Read  My Bio Before Chatting with Me  Conversations are limited to 30 minutes for each chat. You can leave me messages in between chats and I will check back with you.  All conversations are held in strictest confidence!    ⭐️ ⭐️Listener for members 35+ Preferred⭐️⭐️ 💕💕💕Accepting Long Term Members 💕💕💕 I reserve the right to NOT listen to RUDE or DISREPECTING members. I am just a volunteer verified listener. I may refer you to other listeners depending on TOPIC or AGE.  “Do not lose hope, please believe that there are a thousand beautiful things waiting for you. Sunshine comes to all who feel rain”  If you found our chat to be supportive and helpful, please leave a review! Thank you in advance! Please don’t reach out if you’re wanting an inappropriate chat!   💕There's no need to be perfect to inspire others. Let others get inspired by how you deal with your imperfections. 💕 ☕️☕️☕️☕️Love this analogy!☕️☕️☕️☕️ You are holding a cup of coffee when someone comes along and bumps into you or shakes your arm, causing you to spill your coffee everywhere. Why did you spill the coffee? ""Because someone bumped into me!!!" Nope. You spilled the coffee because there was coffee in your cup. Had there been tea in the cup, you would have spilled tea. Whatever is inside the cup will spill out. So...when life shakes you (and it WILL), whatever is inside you will come out. The big question is "'What's in MY cup?" When life gets tough, what spills over? Joy, appreciation, love, acceptance? Hostility, anger, judgement, harsh words and exhaustion? Life provides the cup, YOU choose how to fill it. Especially right now, it's so important to make sure we fill our cups with the good stuff - forgiveness, joy, words of affirmation; and kindness and love for others. 7Cups For the Searching Soul FREE Kindle https://www.amazon.com/7-Cups-Searching-Soul-7Cups-ebook/dp/B01BFWMCXY [https://www.amazon.com/7-Cups-Searching-Soul-7Cups-ebook/dp/B01BFWMCXY] ⁉️TAROT One Question One Card ⁉️ 🎆Informs a Question & Shows Another Perspective Through Your Eyes 👀 Only --My Status Information!-- Red: I am NOT likely online, so shoot me a message!  Orange: I am definitely online, and am answering PMs! Green: I am taking chats and doing support sessions! Members, feel free to send me a message for support, and listeners, feel free to contact me as well! Immediate responses. This is not a comprehensive list but some community sourced crisis lines and resources to help you: (U.S.) The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline [https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/] at 1-800-273-8255 [tel:18002738255] Crisis Text Line [https://www.crisistextline.org/texting-in] (U.S.) Text HOME to 741741 (Canada) Text HOME to 686868 International Association for Suicide Prevention  [https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/] Canada call 1-833-456-4566or text 45645 Crisis Services Canada [http://www.crisisservicescanada.ca/]  UK  Call Samaritans [https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/talk-us-phone/] 116 123  Call Hopeline [https://papyrus-uk.org/hopelineuk/] 080020068204141 [tel:080020068204141] or text 0778620209697 [tel:0778620209697] Australia Lifeline Crisis Support  [https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/topics/lifeline-services] call  13 11 14 India click the link to find a local crisis line with Befrienders India [http://befriendersindia.net/helpline-details.php] Love & Light ꧁.Cheri ꧂     
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EvelyneRose
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Hello! I chose the picture of an apple because it represents to me growth and potential. The apple can grow to become the best apple it can be. I think we all have potential, and I also believe that most people are not solely good or bad- we are a combination of light and dark. That's just human nature. I've been here since 2013, and I am now in my 30s. I have always been told I'm a good listener and person to come to. People have come to me years after talking to them because they remembered I was someone to confide in. I like to think of myself as open minded, non judgmental, and compassionate. I try to be honest, but tactfully so. I find the best people in my life are those that tell me what I need to hear, not what I want to hear, and that is something I practice with others. I hope to be here for you, and I will cheerlead you on. I cannot give advice, but I will be a support for you. I take casual chats, so even if you're just bored or need someone to talk to and don't have a pressing issue, I am happy to talk to you.  My strengths lie in the subjects I have listed on my profile, so I will not be the best fit for everyone (and that is okay!). I hope everyone can get the help they need from whoever it is, even if it's not me. If I cannot help you, I will let you know and try to connect you with someone that can. I do the best with chats that can be asynchronous, as my schedule varies and I don't want to promise I can sit down for a real time chat if I cannot. That is unfair to both of us time wise, and time is a precious thing. Updated March 23, 2023 I have joined the admin team as a Quality Specialist for the volunteer community. I am still involved in all the things below, but as I am now involved widely across the site in different ways, if you need to know who to talk to regarding any of the below activities, please PM me and I will direct you to who you should talk to, whether it be me or someone else. If you have questions about anything Quality related, please PM me!
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KristenHR
L Paragon 2 4262
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If you request a chat, you'll need to state your purpose.  I ONLY take chats from those working on recovery from eating disorders and trauma (with PTSD & Dissociation) and those making decision on college and careers.   I am not available to chat real-time any longer, but we can message back and forth.  I spend most of my support time in the Eating Disorder community due to my time limitations of committing to long-term chats.  https://www.7cups.com/forum/eds/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/eds/].  I love life.  I enjoy helping.  My focus is recovery from abuse and sexual trauma, eating disorders and dissociation.  I have interests in university internships and career development.  I am a Christian and that gives me strength. If you are wanting faith-based support, please let me know. I know that for some individuals, Christians have been very hurtful. If you are not a Christian, I'm not here to judge or impose my spiritual beliefs - I'm here to listen. I will not talk to you about God unless you ask to talk about faith.  I do not take theological chats. https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html?p1=179 - Time Zone Converter:  Eastern Time is New York time. IMy involvement with 7 Cups: Listener - Eating Disorders, Trauma, PTSD, Dissociation, Careers & College (Including internships) Project Agent - Safety Team Forum Mentor - Eating Disorder Community Group Mentor - Eating Disorder Community
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Ranaeil
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Hello, thank you for finding me on 7 cups! You can call me Rana, if that's easier! I'm a female in my mid 30s. I know how tough it can be to want to talk to someone about what you are feeling. I will try my best to listen to whatever problems you may be having, but my listening strengths are in general anxiety, social anxiety, grief, and disabilities. I've also dealt with self esteem issues. I can't guarantee solutions, only a shoulder to lean on when you need it and open ears to hear you out. Topics that I do not talk about: •Pregnancy •Childcare If my status is set to offline, please feel free to leave me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can.
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helpfulSoul64
L Intermediate 1 201
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Hi there! I'm here to offer a listening ear and support to you. With a blend of compassion, confidence, and optimism, I'm ready to help you navigate through whatever you're going through. Feel free to reach out anytime!
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BloomingSakura
L Advanced 8 437
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Hi, welcome to 7 Cups. You can call me Sakura or Saku I'm still learning and striving to be a better listener everyday, and I hope I can also help you. I will not tolerate any rudeness and will express to you my boundaries clearly I may not be able to give advice, however I hope I can be an accepting non-judgmental listener for you and help you get through your issues emotionally and explore your options together. I use the Timezone GMT +7 I am also open to casual chats so feel free to message me anytime and we can set a chat time together. I am usually off on the weekends so I apologize in advance if I took some time to reply.  
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