Be sure to check my feed for updates! If there is a post saying I'm gone, then I will be gone - if not, I will get back to you as soon as possible ^^I would like to warn you that I primarily support in the forums. This means I am not taking member chats at the moment. However, if you are interested in becoming a forum supporter, I am more than happy to discuss that ♥Hey, I go by Mon Bon. I'm here to listen/guide/whatever you need! I hope you get through whatever is bothering you :)My hugs are always free and only a request away~This is an LGBTQ+ friendly profile.If you are a listener, I am a peer support who is more than willing to listen to you after a difficult chat.If you're a listener who would like to reach out to a quality mentor on your behalf or someone else's, use this link: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1oeZA5FmCGw4UeV6Yjmv0ZCurow72WzqpbaRd1F0klkA/viewformNo amount of guilt can solve the past, and no amount of anxiety can change the future.Hoodies are comfortable and will protect you from the storms of life.Cupiversary - June 8th, 2014.Mentorversary - October 5th, 2014a) picture of twins; left, bunnypants; right, monbon
New job at work has me traveling more, plus life events mean that I'll be away a bit more over time. I'll still try to respond to messages if possible, but will be unavailable for live chats and more delayed in responses from:
- October 23-28
Otherwise, my normal availability will stand - I can schedule one hour live chat appointments Monday-Thursday during the day (10am-6pm Eastern) and will try to respond to messages within 24-48 hours, with slightly slower times on weekends as I do not typically log in here Friday-Sunday much.
Hi all, I'm glad you've found my profile here! I truly love to listen and help others, and am particularly versed in eating disorders, work stress, and sexual assault, though happy to discuss anything, including sexual issues / sexuality. If you feel like you could use some extra support or help working through a problem, please reach out!
You can start a chat with me if I'm online or to message me if I'm not and we can set up a time. I'm in the US in Central Time and somewhat flexible during the day Monday-Thursday. I'm hard to catch sometimes, so plan to set up an appointment with me. I'm also open to messaging back and forth not live, but more frequently, if that's preferable for you.
If you see me in the forums, you'll know I have a few favorite quotes around recovery and strength that I throw around all the time, so I'll share them here, too.
"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think"
"Never forget you are worth more than the value you place on yourself."
"Every day might not be a good day but there is good in every day."
Much love to all,
*Not taking new chats at the moment due to time constraints!**Life is a journey that everyone goes through. Think of it as a story told by you. There are many ups in life as well as many downs but it is up to the author of each story to determine the next chapter.* ~Anya Members/GuestMental health is important 365 days/year. Many people suffer from mental health struggles but they are too afraid to speak about it because of the stigma all around us. But what’s harder than dealing with mental health issues, is pretending that you aren’t struggling. You shouldn’t have to pretend like you are always okay, out of fear that others will judge you or talk about you or think any less of you. No matter what you are dealing with, you are still you. The only thing that matters is that you know your strength and your courage, and let me tell you, everything that you are is more than enough, no matter who you are or what you are going through. So don’t be ashamed of any part of it. Your battles are what shape you into the strong and amazing person you are. And no matter what anyone tells you, it’s okay not to feel that you are strong and amazing every day. It’s okay not to believe it for a while. It’s okay to struggle. I assure you, you are not alone. Every single one of us goes through that at some point or another.I will always be here to listen to your story, and I will not ever judge you, or make you feel ashamed of what you are going through, or see you as anything less than the wonderful person you are. Because I know that at the end of the day, the one who has the courage to speak about it, is the one who is the bravest of them all.ListenersI want you all to remember that you guys are truly amazing. Spending time on here to help others during your free time shows dedication, compassion, and kindness on your part. Thank you so much for doing this. I know that all of our fellow members truly appreciate it! Got a question for me? Feel free to send me a message at any time and I will get back to you as soon as I can!
My InvolvementChatroom Ambassador
Teen Listener Teams Leader
Listener Learning Support Team Co-Leader (Teens)
Trauma Open Chat Host (Teens)
"You are always one decision away from a totally different life."Hello Community, I am known as Obs. I am a 7Cups Ambassador and one of the Community Mentor Leaders of the Relationship and Friendship Support Subcommunity. I am also a ✨ Chatroom Mentor ✨ Quality Mentor ✨ Forum Mentor ✨ DoorkeeperPlease feel free to message me, if you have any questions or doubts regarding the community and roles. I am here with you to help with the best of my efforts. Note- I am unable to take chat requests as I am unable to respond timely. I request to connect with other available listeners here- Browse Listeners. We all are here with you to listen and support. Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character building day." - Les Brown
please read before messaging!hello over here!My name is Avery and i am a teenage girl from the beautiful germany and am glad to have you here on our site! I am still visiting school and my favorite subjects are german and english! In my free time I enjoy listening to music and making my own playlists, but also going out and seeing what the world offers me today. I also sing a lot! Anytime, anywhere.I am a person who gets really inspired and excited about the smallest things! It could be a sunset, a beautiful sentence in a book, the lyrics of a song. But I also get inspired by people. People´s stories, failures, successes - and I find people really fascinating.To members and guests:I am happy that you´ve found the courage to reach out to get support and i am happy to be of help anytime. My chats are judgement-free, kind and your safe space,where you are free to open up to me as much as you´d like to. I will always listen. The chat topics that I am taking are listed down below, please make sure that your chat topic matches them!
Also, I would please like to ask you to not share any graphic details when you are talking about self harm, domestic violence or traumatic experiences. These topics tend to be triggering for me if it is too detailed. Thanks!I am currently accepting members, however, I am a highschool student and in my free time i need to focus a lot on studies and personal life.
I am not the right listener if you want to schedule an online live chat. If you are comfortable with each other replying just back and forth throughout the day, you are welcome to message me and I am sure we can figure something out. I usually reply within 1-24 hours. I am accepting the chat topics listed below. If you would like me to become your listener, please send me a message where you say hello and explain your chat topic to me. I have joined 7cups in May 2017 and have been in love with my journey on here. i have learned so much as a listener, mentor, but also just as a human.I am qualified in the Quality, Listener Chatroom, Forums & Community areas and would be glad to help you out anytime. Never hestitate to message me if you have any questions about this site or listening in general! My Roles:
One of the Community Teen Star Leaders of our Relationship & Friendship Subcommunity. Quality Teen Star Leader: I am overall helping the teen side of the quality coaching program, mentor and recruit. Chatroom Teen Star: I mod the Teen Listener Chatroom and make sure it stays a safe place for all listeners! Global Forum Teen Star: I am able to mod the forums all around the site and make sure the forums stay a safe space.Verifiers Team: I currently am able to verify my mentees! Chat Support: I am able to provide you ongoing chat support.Peer Support: I can support you after you have had a difficult or triggering chat.Project Agent for Forum Events Team: I plan and organize the forum events!Group Moderator
Welcome to my profile!As you can probably tell, I'm Erica! Thank you for stopping by and checking out my profile.I have been through various things in life and have made many mistakes which have taught me many lessons. I myself struggle with Anxiety and Depression, which are the topics I can help best with.-What I can help with-I'm here to listen to you. You can vent, rant, get support from or simply talk to me when you don't know what else to do. I'm open to a lot of different things but please do know, I do not take sexual chats. Thank you for surviving and being stronger than the battle you're currently in.-Topics I'm good with-AnxietyBullyingDepressionLoneliness Self HarmHowever, I'll do my best to help with any other topic!Please note, I give an hour for 1-1 chats and they must be scheduled beforehand so message me to set up a time (I am in the EST timezone)!-Roles I'm Involved in-Doorkeeper (Message me if you need a room open!)Group Moderator Peer Supporter (Listeners, I'm here to support you after rough chats!)Chatroom Teen Star Quality Teen StarVerified Listener ProjectLastly, here are some resources and a few lines I loveIf you're brave enough to tie the knot, to take the jump, to take the pills, to harm yourself in any way... you're brave enough to live another day. Life is a battle and it's going to be tough but you'll become tougher and stronger than the battle will ever be. One day at a time, lovely, you'll get through it. Never forget that there is someone who cares, who sees those tears in your eyes; the sadness through the smile. I care about you, yes, you. You are amazing, beautiful, kind, brave, strong, awesome and worth it. Wipe those tears away and say, "I will survive.", go on, do it. You got this, I believe in you! -Resources-Butterfly Project Crisis ChatLive Through ThisProject Semicolon Runaway HotlineAdditional Resources
***PLEASE NOTE: Due to other commitments, I will not be able to respond to all messages at the moment. I try my best to keep up with you, but please don't be offended if it takes longer. I will be fully back starting end of May and then reply to all of your messages! :) ***
Hi! I'm Lukas from Germany and I really love talking and listening to people. I also had to struggle through life at some points. If you need someone to listen - either in English or German - you should start a chat with me and get to know me! :-)
“Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.”
― Dr. Seuss
I'm not taking new chats for personal reasons. If we've chatted before, you can send me a message, if not, you can connect with another Listener of your choice in the "Browse Listeners" page. Thanks for understanding!
No estoy tomando nuevos Chats por razones personales. Si ya hemos chateado podes mandarme un mensaje, si no, te podes conectar con otro Listener de habla hispana en la pagina "Browse Listeners". Gracias por entender !
Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people who is struggling. Glad you are here!
"Be the change you wish to see in the world"Time is the most valuable commodityI contribute to these Quality Projects★ Peer Support Project / Training★ Welcoming Team: I have personally provided resources and welcomed 6,680 New Listeners to the 7 Cups Community★ 7 Cups Ambassador ★ 7 Cups Internship Program★ Community Mentor Leader ★ Chatroom Mentor ★ Quality Mentor ★ Forum Mentor ★ Doorkeeper.