My goal is to listen and not assume, understand and not judge,
because the most important things to know is empathy and kindness.
A little about me: I'm 22 years old currently, but an old soul in-depth,
I'm a fond writer & reader of poetry, I love spending time with family.
Also putting together a book of poems based on past, present, future.
I'm not a perfect listener, but I have my own fair share of life experiences-
that have definitely shaped me into the person I am today.
I listen to as many as I can, so replies may vary. I try and keep the balance.
Online = I'm not too occupied by requests and I am free to a few more at one time.
Busy = I am taking at least 3 requests+ and it's not recommended to take on too much.
Offline = I'm probably asleep, tired or I need a little break from the site.
I like to have 30-45 minute conversations, but of course, I'm open to scheduling longer talks with people.
if I don't answer your request, it's because I don't want to take on too much at any one time, like many on here.
taking on too many requests can lead to stress, and I want to be the best I can be in terms of listening skills.
Thank you for taking the time to read all of this. I hope to speak with you.
Heya! Glad you came across my profile! My name is Diandra and I’ve been a listener here for more than three years. I’m a mentor, verified listener, and someone you can reach out to anytime for support. While I’m not always available, I do respond as quickly as I can and I respond in a timely manner if you message me while my status is set to online. If my status is set to offline, I may take a bit longer to respond! If you’re in need of immediate help, feel free to go to Chat → Browse Listeners or put in a general request.
Best of luck on your journey to recovery!Guests and Members
If you need support for anything outside the categories below I will do my best to give you the best you deserve or find someone who can (I cannot offer support in community guideline exceptions, including but not limited to suicidal thoughts, homicidal thoughts, or if you are currently abusing humans/animals).
My availability is scatteredListeners
I spend the majority of my onsite time in the Teen Listener Room (TL) or in my PM's. I am a Quality and Support Room Mentor. Because I am in school, I may not always offer immediate chat help. This is because I do not want to begin helping you and then have to leave for reasons out of my control, but I will typically tell you if this is the case.Not Accepting New Mentees
This is a test, a test to see if you are a human. Please note if something applies to you:Have you ever eaten a booger long past your childhood?Have you ever made a small, weird sound when you remembered something embarrassing?Have you ever purposely lower-cased the first letter of a text in order to come across as sad or disappointed?Have you ever ended a text with a period as a sign of aggression?Have you ever laughed or smiled when someone said something unpleasant to you, and you wondered the rest of the day why you reacted that way?Have you ever put on a pair of pants, and then realized much later that there was a loose sock smushed up against your thigh?Have you ever tried to guess someone else's password so many times that it locked their account?Have you ever had a nagging feeling that one day you will be discovered as a fraud?Have you ever hoped that there was some ability you hadn't discovered yet that you were just naturally talented at?Have you ever broken something in real life, and then found yourself looking for an "undo" button in real life?Have you ever marveled at how someone you thought was so ordinary could suddenly become so beautiful?Have you ever stared at your phone smiling like an idiot while texting someone?Have you ever subsequently texted that person the phrase, "I'm staring at the phone, smiling like an idiot"?Have you ever been tempted to, and gave into that temptation, of looking through someone else's phone?Have you ever had a conversation with yourself, and then suddenly realized you're a terrible person to yourself?Has your phone ever run out of battery in the middle of an argument, and it sort of felt like the phone was breaking up with both of you?Have you ever thought that working on an issue between you and yourself was futile, because it should just be easier than this, or this is supposed to happen just naturally?Have you ever realized that very little, in the long run, just happens naturally?Have you ever woken up blissfully, and suddenly been flooded by the awful rememberence that someone had left you?Have you ever lost the ability to imagine a future without a person that no longer was in your life?Have you ever looked back on that event with the sad smile of autumn and the realization that futures will happen, regardless?Congratulations, you have now completed and passed the test. You are human.Want to know who has the best 7 Cups profile? Click here!
Hello! ~ I'm glad you found me (or that we were connected). I'm here to talk to you with whatever you're going through. Our conversation will be a safe place to share your feelings without being judged. I will always listen and try my best to be here for you and help you helping yourself. You're not alone!
Some things about myself: You can call me Tanja if you want to. I love to help others, and my friends say about me that I am calm, friendly and empathic.
In my free time I like reading, writing stories and poems, singing and daydreaming.
Just message me if you want to talk and I'll try to answer as soon as I can.
Hello! I like to support people struggling with seeing the good in themselves. I enjoy learning new things, hearing different points of view, and "finding the funny" in my life. I've overcome a lot of things (though I still have occasional struggles), and would like to help by listening to you. I am a 56-year-old female with kids and grandkids, and I can relate to just about anybody. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you are here!
MEMBERS: I do not take chats for emotional support. Browse Listeners here LISTENERS: I accept mentees wanting help with community growth on 7 Cups. 7 Cups Community Mentor LeaderOperations MentorWelcoming TeamChatroom Mentor DoorkeeperSocial Soldier Peer SupporterGroup ModeratorEvents Team LeaderAnonymous Evaluations Team
Hello! I am glad that you have found me at 7cups! I am currently not taking up chats.
SUPER SORRY about that! Please feel free to go the Browse Listeners page to connect to available listeners.
I am currently an intern!
Also Working on several projects like:
Country Leader Program
Gamers Outreach Program
Let's Talk. --- Hi there! My name is Maeve, I'm a 24-year-old amateur astronomer & aspiring writer, currently working in the medical field, with a background in emergency medicine. I have personal experience dealing with anxiety, depression, OCD, ADHD, alcohol/drug abuse, breakups, LGBTQ+ related subjects, and stressful college and family life.I also have experience in finding successful and reliable coping methods for these problems, using Dialectical Behavorial Therpay (DBT) and Cognitive Behavorial Therapy (CBT).---Feel free to send me a message at any time, I will always get back to you! --- Welcoming Committee Team Member, 2016-2018--- You will be brave today.---
i’m currently not taking member 1-1 chats, please browse another listener, sorry: browse listeners
^ mai twinsy, @bunnypants, leafies and i P: <3
B R I E F I N T R O D U C T I O N
hi! i'm marshmallows, nice to meet you. i've been through some stuff in life and here to hopefully help you through yours too by finding options for you to tackle ‘em ^-^’
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schedule a chat here
M Y R O L E S
peer supporter | peer support buddy
social soldier (twitter) | safety patrol team
appreciation team | welcoming team
listener verifier team (message me about getting verified)
group mod | adult listener events team
doorkeeper (message me if you need rooms opened/closed)
translation project - translator and proofreader
anxiety support • self-harm recovery - support session leader
depression support - support session leader + project agent
addiction support - support session leader + forum team
around the world - project agent
motivation & self-help - forum team
pregnancy and parenting - discussion writer got a question about these roles or projects? pm me!
S P E C I A L T H A N K S
@pandalistens, pandle is a wonderful listener who is cute and very different from other listeners.
@mintleaf, an amazingly inspirational teenie! She's a great listener and so positive.
@hope & @asilentobserver, my amazingly tolerant mentors P: