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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

coolvibes
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Welcome to my Igloo, Please, come sit by the fire and relax with me for a while.... Hello, thanks for finding me on 7cups. I promise to do my best to help you feel heard. I look forward to speaking with you so just leave a message.I have had an exciting adventure continuing to grow as a listener. I enjoy meeting new people and sharing moments of their day with them. I live with the philosophy that you're never too old to learn something new. Being open to learning is what keeps us young mentally, no matter how fragile our bodies get. I look forward to connecting with you. My Listener Twins @Jenna @Bobcatz @bouncyCandy4246
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Saifelhak74
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I'm a simple and nice person, all my friend like my personality, and like talk to me, because they found me the right person who keeps their secrets and listen to them, and sometimes my advises helped them. I wish I success and help other persons. My logo in the life is: YES I CAN, if you want, so you can get or do it. believe in yourself, never give up...   Those who defeat their desires are more courageous than those who defeat their enemies, because the most difficult victory is victory over self.   I'm a verified listener @Feelicity08 my Twin.. @calmPomegranate2721 my Best friend.     Red: I am most likely online, so shoot me a message! I'll answer when come online ! Orange: I am definitely online, just busy with members, and am answering PMs! Please send me a message, and I will try answer! Green: I am taking chats and doing support sessions! Listener and Members, feel free to send me a message for support, and listeners, feel free to contact me as well! Immediate responses!     I'm Saif... I'm here for you...Just stay safe, Feel Free and fly, PM me.......................      
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gentleemperor
L Veteran 1 949
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🔨 [under construction] 🔨 Hello there! 😊 I'm happy that you found this corner of Cups. 💕 In case that I'm away, feel free to leave me a message and step on in. My door is always open. Help yourself to snacks and beverages, or rest on the couch if you would prefer that. 🍪☕️ I work full time so it can take some time for me to get back to you. You're very welcome to browse for other listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] in the mean time. We're here for you! 💛 Twinnies @AmyMir6 [https://www.7cups.com/@AmyMir6] Amyyy Whaleee 🐳, Birthday twinno 🥳 @NovaGalaxy [https://www.7cups.com/@NovaGalaxy] 🌌 Nova Galaxy with a miraculous planet design only for 🐧 and 🐟 @Avaria Avariaaa wonderful friend 🌸
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MistyMagic
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. . .  if you just say hi, do you really just want a hi back? Something to think about perhaps when approaching a listener for the first time. It is much more helpful for everyone to actually say something that can lead to a good listening experience. I am unable to take on new chats from members right now. Please understand and choose another listener instead. Don't forget to use the filter/search function to find a more suitable listener https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/  "I am glad you have found me here at 7 Cups! I am happy to listen to you on many topics. I have experience in lots of different areas - anxiety, depression, and mental illness, families, and relationships, love, school, college, or work-related problems, financial stress, healthy living, food, and special diets, I can also offer support for chronic pain, illness, and disabilities. I am part of both the adult and the teen listening team, (and yes I can still remember being a teen lol) and I also offer long-term support to those that I can and who are in need. If I am not online then you are welcome to leave me a message -  but please tell me what you want to talk about so we can get off to a flying start. I will get back to you when I am next able, but please bear in mind that I get a lot of messages and I will reply to the most urgent first so if you just say hi, do you really just want a hi back? If you are a teen turning 18 soon then you can apply for one of the Teen Transitioning Team to reach out and support you through the transition from the teen side to the 18+ adult side.  The form is here ~~~> https://bit.ly/7CupsTTM [https://bit.ly/7CupsTTM] If you have any feedback or ideas for the Hobby Zone sub-community then please fill out this form ~~> https://bit.ly/7CupsHZform  At weekends my response will be slower as that is usually my time off from 7Cups, and I may not respond to any PMs or new requests till Monday. I  hope you understand that. We all need time for ourselves to recharge our batteries and relax.  ONE STEP AT A TIME "We all have different-sized footsteps that we leave behind on our journey through life. Sometimes we can change the size of our footsteps, the imprint, the impact, the direction. Sometimes our footsteps land on rock and they do not show, or they land on sand and stay for a while, Other times they get washed away by massive oceans or powerful waves. But each and every footstep is important in so many ways. Ways that we may not even know about. Watch your step, think about your steps, plan your next step, and the rest will follow."  Listening ... one step at a time Quote of Acceptance When we don't accept an undesired event, it becomes Anger, When we accept it, it becomes tolerance. When we don't accept uncertainty, it becomes fear, When we accept it, it becomes an adventure,  When we don't accept other's bad behavior toward us, it becomes hatred, When we accept it, it becomes forgiveness. When we don't accept other's success, it becomes jealousy When we accept it, it becomes an inspiration. Acceptance is the key to handling life well !! Butterflies are a symbol of hope that we can all change from a small brown grub into a beautiful amazing butterfly! One step at a time! "Those who never change their minds, never change anything!" (Winston S. Churchill) "Prepare for the worst, but hope for the best!"  (B. Disraeli) Pearls are a great symbol of the grace we create, for the oyster creates its greatest work of art from an irritant.
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BlueRivercares
L Proficient 10 224
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🌊🌊Inactive..friends can still message🌊🌊 pfp by @Aurewolf BROWSE LISTENER [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] CARE TEAM REQUEST [http://bit.ly/7cupsCTReferralForm] 🌷Dear Members🌷  💙I will listen to you without judging and i won't force you to do anything (it's not necessary to answer things you are uncomfortable with) 💙I will be your private and safe space where you can vent out your problems , anger, sadness and happiness on me :) ------------------------- 🌷Important note🌷  💙triggered by words like 'warning, hate'💙  💙also i don't take chats based on sexual topics💙  💙triggered with caps💙  💙triggered by calling me dear , sweetie, honey if I don't know you well💙  💙I don't tolerate pranks also even if it's friendly💙 💙I don't provide chat support on relationships, violence (any kind) and sexual topic💙 (new) ------------------------- 🌷Some general navigation if you are new to 7cups🌷 https://www.7cups.com [https://www.7cups.com/113046774] 💙 If you are unable to see any group support rooms, probably you would need to meet some requirements.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ASilentObserversOffice_2008/WeeklyGroupSupportLetterWeekofFeb10_217277/]check them here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/CommunityManagersOffice_2008/NewCriteriaUpdatesGroupChatsEasierToAccessNow_280544] 💙 💙link to all chatrooms active Chatrooms [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php]💙 💙feel free to pm me or all active users with a Safety Patrol badge [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=405]  (for inappropriate bios, names and pfp only )💙  💙Care request form to nominate listeners : form [http://bit.ly/7cupsCTReferralForm]💙 💙had a hard chat fellow listener? feel free to fill a peer support form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSczCTVNWvFp9e9EwyYNT5oTcoBdfRxROzPvcXhHk0cXLvwyQw/viewform]💙 💙If you are a listener and need some Chat Support, check this resource [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/view] 💙  💙or request for a chat support using this emergency form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc2yFIiL6az6UEOc5LNqOOERpM7D0g8F49x0qjbIq7QwhJOBQ/viewform]💙  💙comprehensive slide deck on all leadership roles [https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/10oh0pBR1rt9C6tMAhRvjF1TfgAEHbyDQyimizN4hdfU/edit?usp=drive_link]💙  💙Are you a member? You can nominate a listener for the tulip badge here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PositivityGratitude_170/AppreciationGratitude_1159/ProjectTulip_224864/1/].💙 ------------------------- My roles ✷ verified Adult-teen listener (ATL) ✷ Chatroom mentor (listener mod) ✷ Chat Support (if you need help with ongoing chats for adults and teens) ✷ Doorkeeper ✷ GSP Graduate with Honours ✷ LCT Project Agent (can reach out to me if interested to become a Listener coach) ✷ Community Mentor (Music & Dance [https://www.7cups.com/forum/music/]) click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/music/CommunitySpace_2579/HelpWantedMusicDancesubcommunity_315718/] if you are interested in joining the M&D Team ------------------------- 🌷People🌷   💕 twinning with amazing @aticuest , @confidentRabbit7311, @SilverSeastar and @Alexia000 💕 💜@cristlecares🌻📸 my charming Chatroom Mentor twin💜 💚@AuRewolf [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3427622] my appreciating twin💚 🧡@Suryansh my Smart twin🧡 💙@melodyoftheocean🌊 my cups sibling💙 ♥︎@Jenna my left-handed pal♥︎ ❤️miss you @fallenangel19😸 , i know you are here with me forever❤️ 💙 some other people close to my (appreciation link included) 💙 Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] @kindnessmater2020 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2892233] @Starlasky [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2924260] @artsysoul22 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2932261] @lueurspace [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2937203] @hopezzy [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2942797]  @lavender [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2954445] @mamtasha22 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2955549] @luvinvader [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2957969]  @swiftygirl13 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2994957] @Emmae [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2994952] @feelicity08 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2998215] @sparkygizmo [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2998215] @varyingcloud [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2998215]  @brightfuture82 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2998215] @brahmm [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2998215]  @FighterArpi [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2931091] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PositivityGratitude_170/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2931089] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2931089]@ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2931089]Estrellitaa [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2931089]  @Sparklingseashells [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2990114] @Sunisshiningandsoareyou [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3154524] @Kyoshi [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3148173] @confidentRabbit7311 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3146465]  @rose644 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3160540] @Rosshini [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2953707] @dTanushree [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3178851] @navyacai8433 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3179496] @LilacLeopard [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3186246] @Chetan [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3194076] @fristo [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3192533] @waterfallnature [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3196952] @fromthelandofhope [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3204546] @Jasmineishereforu [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3206611] @thoughtfulblossom [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3219770] @GentleEmperor [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3219424] @tabbycat97 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3230845] @shinequeen001 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3216528] @amiablebunny4016 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3214346] @Aurewolf [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3237343] @richuyulin [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3209341] @EvelyneRose [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3240541] @erica [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3246588] @hopedreamlove [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3256764] @sirenofserenity [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitud/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3254881] @beck [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3280606]  @yourcaringconfidant [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3324003]  @stargirltina [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3351751] @AnnaSilverberg [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3363364] @Jenna [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3366819] @Suryansh [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3390478] @KateDoskocilova [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3418939]  ( still need to finish) just an amazing link [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3198413] my self care interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AddictionSupport_131/PreventingandOvercoming7cupsAddiction_2339/ATalkOnSelfCareWithBlueRiver5968_277783/]  living with leaders interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/LivingwithLeaders_2290/SittingonthebankofCaringBlueRiver_297783/] some of the shoutouts i got which melted my heart :p @Pluviophile1802 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/CommunityAdministrationCultureandGuidelines_141/ListenerShoutOutsAppreciatefellowlisteners_227537/?post=3283951] @serenePineapple7180 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/CommunityAdministrationCultureandGuidelines_141/ListenerShoutOutsAppreciatefellowlisteners_227537/?post=3200971]
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Raspberrycheesecake
L Maven 1 596
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Currently not taking member chats, please go to Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] to reach out to another listener! ★ Welcome to my profile - I am Rasp. I love cats, reading and listening to music. I know what it feels like to be alone and needing a non-judgemental ear to listen to you. I know that sometimes it is hard to take that step. But it's good that you decided to reach out! ★ Verified Adult-Teen Listener • Support Session Leader • Intern Graduate (with Honors) • Peer Support • Verified Listener Team • Global Mod • Internship Mentor • Adult/Teen Quality Mentor • Support Team Leader For Eating Disorders • Community Mentor Leader For Eating Disorders • Q and A Team • Doorkeeper • Teen Transiting Mentor ★ Self-Harm Recovery (Adults) - Monday's at 3:15PM EDT • Eating Disorders (Adults) - Friday at 6PM EDT ★ Listeners - Find me in the LSR. Members - Feel free to message me when I am offline, my messages are a safe place for you!
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PetiteSouris
L Sage 11 1229
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✨Members✨ I am not accepting new member chats. Connect with available listeners here: Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/].  🐭 ✨About me✨  Hello!/Salut!/Hola!/Namaste!/Namaskaram I practice calligraphy for self-care. Bibliophile, Selenophile, Pluviophile. Solist. ☀︎ Thank you for stopping by my tiny patch of digital real estate.  ❤︎ -Souris ❀♡✿♡❀♡❀♡✿♡❀
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brilliantTurtle89
L Pinnacle 6 2787
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I'm glad you have found me on 7 cups. I'm here to listen to you. Feel free to tell me anything you want. My roles on 7 Cups are: Peer Support Chatroom Mentor  Quality Mentor Leader Forum Mentor Group Support  Mentor  Group moderator Listener Coach Care Team Guide Chat Support ATL Verifiers Team Teen Transition Mentor Group Support Ambassador I have some amazing friends here. My listener twins are: Asilentobserver sweetmango3 IzzyMay They are fantastic💜  
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tommy
L Veteran 8 540
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hi, i'm tommy. •────────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•────────────• a little bit about me   i'm an early 20s career driven, lowercase obsessed and 7 cups enthusiast from england. i am most passionate about creating a safe and inclusive space for people to express themselves. unfortunately, i am not taking on member chat requests right now. please connect with another listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] 🎈 •─────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•─────────• my roles @ 7 cups ambassador as communities/forum ambassador, i oversee leadership applications [https://www.7cups.com/forum/7cupsleadership/SubcommunitiesInformation_2314/UpdatedSubcommunityTrackLeadershipRolesMasterpost2023_289838/], engagement and moderation across the forums. do you need an update on your application or have you got a question about using the forums? drop me a message! safety patrol team leader i help co-lead the safety patrol and safety patrol outreach teams. let me know if you see an inappropriate profile or would like info on joining the team! misc i am also involved in several other projects across the site, so please do not hesitate to reach out if you have any questions! •─────────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•─────────•
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BlueSkies1021
L Maven 9 295
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NOTE: Members --- Feel free to leave messages even when my status bubble is orange (meaning busy) or red (meaning inactive)! I will respond when I can, as soon as possible! Please don't think I forgot about you or ignored you if I don't respond right away. I reply to every message that comes in my inbox whenever I have the chance to!!! :) But in case I am unable to get to you right away and you urgently need help, please Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] or use a Self Help Guide [https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php] with these blue links here! And as for my fellow listeners --- If you need resources or help with chatting, please see this link [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerSupportGuides_1850/ListenerSupportGuidesMasterList_228279/] for the master list of listener resources. *************************************************************************** I am a member of the VERIFIER'S TEAM [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/JointheListenerVerifiersTeam_46938/], so fellow listeners --- if you would like to request a mock chat to become Verified, please read this post [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/GetVerifiedon7Cups_290064/] thoroughly, check if you meet all the requirements, and message me to schedule a mock chat to try to get recognized for your high-quality active listening and get yourselves that blue Verified check bubble and badge! *************************************************************************** Hello everyone! I am a Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/GetVerifiedon7Cups_290064/] here at 7 Cups! My name is Blue, pronouns she/her! (I also like the name Sky; you guys can pick which one you call me.) :D I am a person with a deep compassion and understanding for people and I will not be judgmental towards you for any of your issues. I love listening to people and check in with this site every day, so I will do my best to respond to your messages as quickly as I can. During the weekdays I might be a bit slow to respond, though, because I'm still in school and get overloaded with work a lot. But really, don't feel guilty venting to me—I WANT to be here! :) I have a lot of experience with mental health and listening to people about their struggles, although if your problems are outside of my ability to help (suicide, self harm, sexual harassment/assault, substance abuse, drug addiction, domestic violence, trauma from war, injuries, diseases, etc.), please seek professional help [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/] or paid therapy [https://www.7cups.com/online-therapy/?ob=1] with the resources in these links, as I am not trained or equipped to handle these things as a 17-year-old kid. As much as I would really, truly love to be here for all you guys through anything, I really can't do anything about threats to your safety. Those things should be referred to the authorities or a specialist. But otherwise, I am here for everyone, regardless of race, gender, religion, sexuality, relationship status, familial situation, etc. and feel free to talk to me like you would close friend. You deserve help, love, appreciation, and validation; I will do everything in my power to provide you with support! :) *************************************************************************** A bit about me: My birthday is October 21st (yay Libras!), my personality type is INFJ, and I was born in the Year of the Dog (2006)! My favorite color is blue (you probably guessed, haha), my favorite seasons are fall and summer, and my favorite food is Hawaiian Poké bowl. I'm Chinese-American, proud to be so, and have a lot of experience with managing and appreciating cultural identity. I think I'm somewhere on the ace spectrum [https://asexuality.org/] (probably demisexual and demiromantic), but I don't really care about labels that much, so you can just call me "ace" or "queer" or whatever; I just want to be myself. :) Music is my favorite thing, like, ever; I play flute, viola, sing in a choir, am in a marching band, and love musical theater. I love reading books, particularly YA fantasy, sci-fi, realistic fiction, and LGBTQ+ stories. My top 4...well, technically 5...favorite books are "You've Reached Sam" [https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/53086843-you-ve-reached-sam] by Dustin Thao, "They Both Die At The End" [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/33385229-they-both-die-at-the-end?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=fst8Sn2mzF&rank=1] by Adam Silvera, "These Violent Delights" [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/50892212-these-violent-delights] (and its sequel, "Our Violent Ends" [https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/44084762]) by my literal queen Chloe Gong, and "Loveless" [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/42115981-loveless?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=2kKj6M3VXm&rank=1] by Alice Oseman, which I HIGHLY recommend to everyone because they are just so meaningful and explore human connections so deeply. I write my own stories and draw sometimes, although they really aren't that great at all, haha. When I graduate high school, I want to go to medical school (hopefully, haha) to become a reproductive endocrinologist so I can help families! :) I'm also a huge fan of Marvel, My Hero Academia, Lord of the Rings, Top Gun, Taylor Swift, The Piano Guys, Alan Walker, and '80s / '90s Chinese songs (I get that from my amazing mom, haha)! :D *************************************************************************** APPRECIATE A PERSON ON 7 CUPS WHO HAS GIVEN YOU A GOOD EXPERIENCE HERE [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/viewform]! <3 *************************************************************************** MY BEST FRIENDS ON 7 CUPS OF TEA WHO I LOVE AND APPRECIATE WITH ALL MY HEART: @kosikima -- truly a legit angel sent from heaven, so understanding and warm-hearted @mushro0m -- a friend that's such a joy to talk to, always accepting and there for me @amiableBunny4016 -- hardworking and selfless, overcomes obstacles like a warrior @inventiveMango9097 -- so strong and resilient, finds happiness even when it's dark @FaithfulZareia [https://www.7cups.com/@FaithfulZareia] -- the best, sweetest listener I know, always cheers me up when I'm down
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cristlecares
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When you can't look at the bright side, I will sit with you in the dark💜... (Did you know that you can't breath when you're smiling😮🌻?? Try it and see😮) ~~On a Self-care break for a month or more (from 29/12/2022)💜~~ (Expect late replies to your msgs🌻💜 Thank you so much for understanding 🌻) ------------------------- Heyloooo🌻 This is cris😄 Nice to meet ya Amazing hooman bean💙 My roles :  Smile spreader ( Peer Appreciation Team member)🌻💙 Listener sharing circle host❄️ Peer support🌻✨ Doorkeeper 🚪😇 Room supporter ( Newbie hub, Mindfulness center and 50+ community)😃 ATL ( Verified Adult & Teen listener)💙 Chatroom/Listener mentor🌻 Chat Support (CS)💜 ------------------------- I am not comfortable with issues related to sexual health/relationships/self harm/abuse/domestic violence/addiction/eating disorders. I hope you will understand🌸 ------------------------- Even if you don't sleep, Dawn will break as you gaze over it.. Things will change, Things will end, things will begin It's never "Until here" but always "From here"  Even if you lose your way, cry and scream, it'll all eventually stop.. That's why even if it is scary, you can keep on living... When the sun rises, you can start walking again... - Mafuyu (given)🌻 ------------------------- If you wanna appreciate your fellow listeners/members please use this form👇 Peer Appreciation Form [https://forms.gle/hfwDBA8dTaP6bhta9] If you want to become the part of peer appreciation team, apply here👇 Smile Spreader [https://forms.gle/rgPfNwytBgJRChp7A] ------------------------- Amazing Chat Support Twinnie : @Star001✨💙 Awesome Listener Twinnie : @Comphi🌼💚 Lovely Chatroom Mentor Twinnie : @BlueRivercares 💐💙 ------------------------- Take care of yourself🌸💙 Have a nice time in here😇🤗 Take some cookies too🍪🍪🍪🍪
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Sunisshiningandsoareyou
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(Updated, current month 2024) ❤️ *on a break* ❤️  ------------------------- Response Time/ PM-land access:  🌻 Members:  New Member Chats: I'm completely unavailable for new members. (Members I've never talked to before whether new or old on cups)  Regular/ Recurring/ Old Member Chats: People I've talked to/ supported over a committed time frame, I love to hear updates from you, and am happy to see your messages. But please know that I'm unavailable for LIVE chats and can only reply offline, when I'm able to. (Responses may be several days delayed) So whether you're a new member or someone I've talked to before, if you need Live/ Immediate/ Urgent/ Regular/ Long-term support chat, please reach out to another available listener in cups.  You deserve prompt support, which I cannot offer, for an unforeseeable time! ❤ 🌻 Listeners:  I'm available for Peer Support and Chat Support only when I've accepted your request either through Chat Support/ Peer Supporter request forms or in the LSR, so please before messaging me for any of it, ask me in the room, as otherwise I may not be available to respond timely! Mentees/ Coachees: I'm so proud of you for trying your best to improve as a listener, and happy to hear any updates from you!  I'm typically unavailable for Live chats, and offline responses may vary, feel free to drop your questions though, if not too urgent, and I'll respond as soon as possible!  If you need a live chat, let me know a little in advance, mentioning the topic for the chat/ kind of support needed, your time/ availability in ET pr cups-time and hopefully, we can schedule for a live chat sometime!  Not available for any personal chats/ PMs unless stated/ agreed to otherwise. (Due to a high influx of messages, I'm unable to prioritize replying to messages with just a "hey/hi/ greeting", thank you for greeting me, but please do share a bit about "what" you're reaching out for, whether as a listener or a member, as it helps me understand how to respond better and faster. Messages with only "hey/ hi/ greetings" are missed often.)  I'll be around, in the forums and chatrooms when I can though, feel welcome to tag me in your posts or replies, happy to see you! 🥰 I've sadly not been getting notifications for all the tags lately, apologies if missed your tag. Feel free to send another tag or a personal message, if needed.  (I know) Extremely slow response rate: I'm on a break from several activities/roles here, but have been catching up with PMs and tags as much as possible. Responses will be slow and delayed, your patience is appreciated. Send a follow-up, if I missed your important message or if you need an urgent reply. <3 Support shouldn't be delayed, so I highly recommend browsing for other listeners when you need some emotional support. Please remember you are awesome and not alone here. ❤ Stay great and take good care, everyone.   Response time for all my current (regular) members/ listeners (and mentees) would vary as I am not logging in here regularly as earlier, I apologize if messages are delayed.  Send a follow-up, if needed. Thank you for understanding, YOU do come first and there's plenty of support available at all times, please do find an amazing currently active listener  HERE [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/], and I hope you receive the best support available! 💖 ------------------------- Hello, Amazing Human, Welcoming hugs and high fives and cookies for you! (Take what you need hehe) I am Sun, Thank you for finding me here, I understand life isn't always smooth sailing, we all have our ups and downs. I know I won't be able to solve all your problems, but problems shared are problems halved, right? Or even if not halved, I do feel sharing can help reduce the burden of overwhelming thoughts and feelings in your mind ~ your mind is not a notepad, it shouldn't be a place to "store" thoughts and feelings ~ share away, your mind deserves to feel lighter and better and so do *you* ... Besides being a trained verified listener here, I can offer you a kind, empathetic and non-judgmental ear and help you guide through these dark times. Feel free to Talk/ Share/ Vent and I'll be more than happy to listen to you, provide you with a safe and comfortable space and help you feel better in any way I can. Please do keep in mind that I can't and won't advise you, I can help you guide through the roads, but the steering wheel will always be in your hand and the direction to choose will always be your decision solely since you know your journey and your destination, the best. Rest assured, you've got your passenger seat covered for any support and encouragement always!  I am a persun who believes in the power of sharing smiles, happiness, kindness, encouragement, hope and positivity And I would love to share these with you too if you allow me to (always at your pace and comfort of course).🌻 I am pretty respectful and polite to everyone and personally do not use any offensive language including any kind of passive-aggressive/ provoking remarks, so would certainly expect and appreciate the same from you. Everyone deserves basic respect and decency! 💛  People looking for inappropriate sexual chats and/ or interested in making any sexual advances towards me~ this is an emotional support platform ~ and we do *not* entertain such kinds of conversations here. Please refrain from sending any messages, if you're here for any reason other than seeking emotional support, thankyou. I don't take chats on topics such as chronic pain, panic attacks, sexual health and self-harm. Feel free to browse other amazing listeners for these topics and those not listed under "categories" HERE [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. ❤  💛If you are currently having crisis thoughts (active or passive, or actively harming yourself) *offers hugs*, I know how terrible it can be to be in this hopeless situation, please however respect our boundaries as a listener, our limits and that 7 cups is not a crisis platform, we do care and therefore ask you to reach out to relevant channels of support. You can find resources here:-  7cups.com/crisis, please do connect with a hotline. You may not believe it at the moment, but you are *not* unworthy of living, you are not taking space unnecessarily, you are not your current situation neither your current thoughts. Nobody exactly knows, but we gotta keep hanging on tightly, to see for ourselves when and how it gets better because it does, *someday* and you need to be here to experience it.  Brave it in this very moment, reach out for help. You owe it to *yourself*. 💛 The topics I am comfortable providing support for include general mental health struggles, getting unstuck, managing emotions, student life-related topics, friendship/ relationship/ family stress, social anxiety, self-esteem issues etc. and more are listed below, under categories! Feel free to send a message if you see me online (green status) and I will get back to you as soon as I can, we can then schedule a time and day for a chat or agree upon offline messaging, whichever is more comfortable and suitable for us. 🤗 At Last, remember that you are not alone, your mental health is important, you are a brave person to seek support,  you are here and I am proud of you for that.  If you give me a chance I'll try my best to be there for you, to be there with you and remind you that even if the clouds appear to be very dark at any point in time,  the Sun Is Shining And So Are Youuuu. 🌻🌞🌻 You are one Amazing human, you are important, you matter and You are deserving of kindness, happiness, support, love and all things amazing in life! It's cool to be kind, people!🤗 Have an amazing day/ night ahead! ------------------------- MY ROLES @7 CUPS- The most important and my favourite one is to provide everyone with a  friendly, supportive,  inclusive and cheerful environment along with sharing some cookies and hugs. 🥰 🍪🌻🤗 # Trained and Verified Listener to provide quality listening to members  # Safety Patrol  (profile flagging ) Team member to try and keep the community safe for all.  # Peer Supporter (for listeners needing support after a hard or triggering chat  or in general not feeling good about their listener role and needing a space to vent about "mild" site-related issues)  # Chat Support  (I can provide support with ongoing chats to listeners)  # Listener's Verifiers Team member  (I take mock chats for listeners under the verification process)  Want to get verified? Check here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/NewAdditionalCriteriaToBecomeVerifiedListenerGoingLive_230276/] or feel free to message me for more information.  #Quality Mentor  #Listener Coach  # Global community mentor and forum supporter ( Needs Reply Team ) #Listener Chatroom Supporter  #Doorkeeper (feel free to message me if you'd like to open / close rooms)  #Ocassional- Events, Pop up discussions, listener events and safety support sessions Host  # Advisor/ Helper for the Peer Appreciation Program. Click the button below to appreciate yourself or a peer In the community  Peer Appreciation Form [https://forms.gle/hfwDBA8dTaP6bhta9] Join our team by clicking the following button: Smile Spreader [https://forms.gle/rgPfNwytBgJRChp7A] #7 cups Internship,  Leadership Development Program, Group Leadership Dynamics,  Building Community Program and the Content Development and Marketing program's graduate. ~ proud 7 Cups Academy Alumni hehe!  ------------------------- THANK YOU FOR READING, FEEL FREE TO SEND A TEXT ANYTIME, I'D LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU  SOON!  STAY AWESOME, STAY HYDRATED  and TAKE CARE! 🌻❤ #ByeByeCliques, do check out this [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupModZone_168/CommunityManagersOffice_2008/WarmWelcomeEveryoneByeByeCliqueChallenge_238987/#] post for more information and to join the movement. We are a safe and inclusive place for all, and *you* do matter! 🤗
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