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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

ReeganB
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Greetings! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people struggling with depression, anxiety and anything that you might need to get off your chest. I enjoy camping, reading, traveling, scuba diving, video games and acting. I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. One thing to note is that I'm going to make you think in ways that you don't normally operate as I find it helps us grow when we're able to take a step outside of our own heads to view situations from another perspective. It's not always easy but rarely are the worthwhile things in life that way in the first place. Come with me on a journey to find the strength within yourself so you can live life to its fullest. "It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for - and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing. It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool - for love - for your dreams - for the adventure of being alive."
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CommunityModJennie
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Hi! My name is Jennie and I am a Community moderator. I'm unfortunately not available for 1-1 chats. 
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AdrienLovesYou23
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Heyyy My name is Adrien. Pronouns are She/Her. I am 16 and I am a proud listener here on cups. I'm proud of you for reaching out for help. I will be able to provide a place to just vent, depending on the circumstances I won't be the best at supporting, but I will try my hardest. Life is difficult, but you will get through it because you are strong. I will be here every step of the way. I was a teen mom of a 3 year old boy named Ezra. He unfortunately passed on. Feel free to message me about that and I will offer support. I don't judge nor discriminate. I love you and we are in this together Ezra my baby boy 💙 August 30th, 2020 - January 8th, 2024 Green: online and ready to talk so message away Orange/yellow: I am busy/I am currently helping a peep with a chat. Feel free to message and I will get back to you as soon as possible Red: I am offline but feel free to message and I will get back to you when i am on cups again  I cannot support with  Addiction, Adoption/Foster Care, Autism Spectrum, BPD, Cancer, Chronic Pain, Diabetes, Disabilities, Dissociative Disorders, Domestic Violence, Financial Stress, LGBTQ+ Issues, Men's Issues, Perinatal Mood Disorder, PTSD, Racial & Cultural Identity, Schizophrenia As I learn and grow as a listener, this list will hopefully get shorter.  Best Mods ever: KateDoskocilova CallumCares ComModIris ComModCharlie ComModFinn ReganL Peeps I would trust with my life: Eva Lenapaige (Lena) Rome (although i shouldn't /j) CatHanderOutNoah TheZodiacSystem TheBoyMoana Rio XxDustedSkiiesxX My nicknamesss Poolie (TheZodiacSystem Only) Claws (rome only) Stitch (ni only) mama (Lena only) ed/edward (rome only) Lactose (eva only) Ren-Ren (Callie [and system] only) I live in a place called "Pla-Ni-T" Rome and Ni rule the planet (I think) Life is like a puzzle. You figure it out by putting the pieces together, and sometimes you need help finding the pieces to the puzzle. Some puzzles have more pieces to find, some puzzles are harder than others, and other puzzles have unknown pieces to find. People have asked me why I love helping so much and why I work myself overboard to help peeps and that's because I've been through too much in my life to see someone get hurt because they didn't get the proper help or they felt like no one cared so I try my absolute hardest to make everyone feel like they matter. Even on days I feel like I have nothing left inside me, I do everything I can to put at least a little bit of help out there. People are already going through so much hurt, so why add on to it. I've experienced a lot and I don't want people to feel the way I felt for the longest time. And I want to break this thought that all "pretty" people are mean. I don't think I'm pretty but a lot of people do, and I hate that people are scared to come up to me because I'm "pretty" I am a die hard Christian, but will not discuss that in public spaces to ensure everybody's comfort. Dear God,  Today I lift up the girl who feels like she is not enough. She sees what other women are doing and feels like she comes short. But God, you see her. You made this precious woman on purpose. Remind her of her true worth in You. Remind her that where she is now is where she needs to be. Remind her that Your plan for her is perfect. Remind her to rest in your unfailing love.  Here are some grounding techniques: The 54321 technique involves looking around you and finding five things you can see, four things you can touch, three things you can hear, two things you can smell, and one thing you can taste The 4-7-8 breathing technique. You need to breathe in for 4 seconds, hold your breath for 7 seconds, and exhale for 8 seconds. (Exhale if you can't hold your breath that long) Or you can do something as simple as putting something sour or bitter in your mouth to distract your brain such as a lemon/lime or salt. Or holding ice, or putting your hands in cold water "everyone has a happy ending if you aren't happy, it's not the end" - Also me 2023 "If you are going through hell, keep going. Why would you wanna stop in hell?" - Steve Harvey
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soulsings
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Sorry if you are a member or guest looking to chat, I am not currently accepting new personal requests for chats. You can browse for a listener. https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ . You may also find these helpful https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php     https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php Some people find that mindfulness helps them cope. The video Resource Library https://www.7cups.com/forum/mindfulness/ResourceLibrary_1062/2016presentMindfulnessVideos_72071/ If you might consider a paid text therapy on 7cups, then this may be of interest https://www.7cups.com/forum/therapy/General_2432/ExcitingNewFeaturefor7CupsOnlineTherapyandCoaching_319430/ The other resource is various therapy topics  https://www.7cups.com/experts/catalog/topics/ All the best to you. Again sorry I cannot help you but my personal workload does not allow openings for that at this time.  
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Asher
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Hello, my name is Asher. I'm currently a student working on my Master of Business Administration/ Master of Public Health. Looking forward to working with you. I have also provided 5,000 hours of Peer Support for those in need, while focusing on a holistic approach for each member. I do take all issues and will support you on them to the best of my ability (except issues of suicide or active self-harm) 7 Cups Leadership Roles Project Lead, Being Asher Former Roles Community Ambassador  Executive Editor, 7 Cups Newsletter Community Admin Support, Group Support in Community Engagement Community Mentor Leader of 7 Cups Leadership Quality Mentor, Safety Patrol Outreach Team  Project Lead of International Resource Database Chatroom Support/ Teen Chatroom Support Safety Patrol Outreach Team  Peer Support / Teen Peer Support Forum Supporter, Need Replies "Cause I'll be there when you can finally make it home"                                                                 - Missing Piece, Vance Joy "We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly"                                             - Up, Disney            "Go big, get loud, or go home. You gotta check that bucket list before going to the crypt"                                                                                        - Chaz Cardigom                                                 
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AWordyHopeFiend
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*~Please see "When requesting me..." section below..."~* I am here to help others process their thoughts and feelings. Like on a complete level. ☆When requesting me please keep in mind that I may not able to respond right that very moment. There are times that I will speak to members immediately (for an hour or two) and continue to speak with with members about what it is the member is experiencing/ trying to discuss with me. I do love being a listener here and I try to do my best with requests. I would like to speak to those whom request me over time if not available at that moment. ☆Please continue on to read a little not about me☆ Hello, I am an individual with lived experience in physical, mental, drug abuse. I am in recovery and have 6 years (5/17/17) without using drugs or alcohol. Helping others is one of the greatests gifts I can give back for the Communication, Connection, and Compassion I was given. I have went through heartbreaks and breakups. I have lost several of my close friends to addiction. I am spiritual with my higher power though I do not fluant nor bombard others with my beliefs. I believe in attraction rather than promotion. I'm a real person whom will give participants my attention. I am not always able to reply directly so give me time to come back to the conversation. I am a boxer. 27-8-0 And a father.
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Bubbles2025
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👋 Hello! Welcome to my profile. You can call me Bubbles, and I am a verified listener on 7 cups. Please read below to see if I am a good fit for you  ✦•······················•✦•······················•✦ 💫 Availability 💫 🌸 I am pretty flexible on when I am available at the moment, but please bear with me for my first reply, as sometimes I don't get the notification.  🌸 As of right now, I only take personal requests/pms. Even if I am showing as offline, I am 99% of the time online, so just send me a message and I will respond when I can.  🌸 Chats are about 30-45 minutes usually, however, I do take long-term members and chats, I am very happy to share the time that is needed to help you all feel heard.  🌸 I am available on weekends but response times are slower. 🌸 If you feel like we had a good chat, don’t hesitate to give me a review and rating : ). i always enjoy feedback.  ⋅•⋅⊰∙∘☽༓☾∘∙⊱⋅•⋅ ✨ 7 cups roles/involvements ✨ 🌙 I am a verified listener  🌙 Peer Support  🌙ATL 🌙 Chat Support 🌙 Listener Chatroom Supporter  🌙 Chatroom Mentor  🌙 Community Leader  🌙 Listener Verifier  🌙 Teen Chatroom Mentor  🌙 Community Mod (Newbie Hub)  🌙 Smile Spreader  ₊˚ ‿︵‿︵‿︵୨୧ · · ♡ · · ୨୧‿︵‿︵‿︵ ˚₊ Chats I DO NOT take:  💬 Anything related to sex, sexual healthy, relationships ect.  💬 Relationships  💬 Financial Struggles  ⊹₊⋆☁︎⋆⁺₊⋆ ☀︎ ⋆⁺₊⋆☁︎⋆₊ ⊹ 🎧 My listening style 🎧 🌿 I will listen and validate your feelings. I will ask you questions to help push your thinking. I will not do the work for you, but I will be there to help you in any way I can. 🌿 I do not get triggered easily and am there to help you feel less alone. You can share as much or as little as you would like. I am here to be your outlet. 🌿 However please note that if I do not think I would be the best of help, I will refer you to someone who could help you more. I am gentle, friendly, and understanding. My pms are judgment-free. ⨯ . ⁺ ✦ ⊹ ꙳ ⁺ ‧ ⨯. ⁺ ✦ ⊹ . * ꙳ ✦ ⊹ 🌷About Me 🌷 🌟 I am a 20-year-old female who can most likely relate to how you are feeling. I have been on cups since early March. I enjoy watching Grey's Anatomy, playing sports and sleeping. After I graduate High School, I will be in college learning/getting my Psychology degree. 🌟 I enjoy helping those who need a safe space and reassurance that they are not alone. I am a bubbly person and super fun to talk to, however, I can be shy at first. I have just recently transitioned over to the adult side, so I apologize if you do not see me often at first. 🌟 However, if you would like to get a feel of how I listen, feel free to check out my reviews. I have been helping and listening on and off cups for about 3 years. I take topics such as Weight Management, Anxiety, Depression, Breakups, PTSD, Eating Disorders, self-esteem, Bullying, and Self-harm. 🌼 ʚ‎‏ ͜ ̩͙ ︵ ̩͙ ୨ ♡ ୧ ̩͙ ‏︵ ̩͙ ͜ ɞ 📖 Quotes 📖 🦋 "You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream" - C.S. Lewis  🦋 "No matter how hard today is, remember you will never have to do this day again" 🦋 "Some things break your heart but fix your vision"  🦋 "Be Somebody who makes everybody feel like a somebody"    
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weallthesame
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I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people struggling in thier life. I enjoy (hiking, reading ). I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you are here!     Listener Buddy: TheListener7867    
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reesesfoundpieces
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They/Them 💚 = Feel free to reach out to me! 💛 = I've got a few chats going right now. I'll get to you as soon as I can. ❤️ = Offline or AFK Hey, my name is Reese! I'm happy you've stopped by! I hope you've found my profile in good (mental) health. If not, feel free to send me a message and we can talk about it! :) ☆About Me☆ I'm nonbinary, and my pronouns are they/them. I'm an 18 year old TST satanist and I'm from Texas. My hobbies are doing makeup, painting, singing, and needlefelting! I've been a Listener on 7 Cups on-and-off since 2018. I'm pursuing a future career in psychology, and I have my eyes set on becoming a child/teen counselor. 7 Cups has been a great way for me to practice these skills! I specialize in... * Panic attacks * Trauma/PTSD from abuse, especially emotional abuse * LGBTQ+ * Grief * Anxiety * Depression * Self-Harm * Phobias and panic disorders, especially emetophobia * Eating Disorders * Childhood trauma I have personal experience with... * Death of a parent * Bullying * Emotional abuse * Emetophobia * Strained maternal relationship * Self-Harm * Sexuality * Gender Identity * Anxiety * Depression * Panic attacks * Questioning faith * Sexual Harassment I'm less experienced in these subjects, but I can still provide support: * Loneliness * Breakups * General stress * Spirituality I will NOT provide support for these subjects: * Parenting * Alcohol/Drug Abuse * Relationship and Marriage stress * Addictions of any kind My 1-on-1 chats are judgment-free, kind, open spaces with supporting you as my #1 priority! However! In certain cases, I may need to end the chat if I am not experienced enough in your situation, because I will not be able to provide adequate support to you. I may also need to end the chat in the (unlikely) scenario that the subject is triggering for me personally. One more thing. I can't even believe I have to add this, but please. Do not message me if your only intention is to troll. 7 Cups is a site for SUPPORT. Please, respect me and respect the people that need my help (that you're clogging time away from me) by not wasting my time.  Also, yes, my profile picture is me. No, I do not tolerate sexual harassment. Thank you!
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CommunityModLou
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My name is Lou and I am a Community moderator. I'm unfortunately not available for 1-1 chats.  
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Sibafo
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🥀Hi!I am Siba 😜 .Welcome to my profile, I'll like to listen to you, I am a  Verified listener .My hobbies are reading and writing.💖 You can write to me about all that's spiritual,nightmares and hallucinations but also other topics.🤔 I look forward to hearing from you😏.
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comfortableNight4463
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Hi! I'm Night. I am here to provide support by listening to you.  I am available on; Tuesday (10PM to 12AM EST) Wednesday (8PM to 10PM EST) Thursday (6PM to 8PM EST) Friday (10 AM to 2PM and 8PM to 10PM EST)  Saturday (8PM to 10PM EST) Sunday (10AM to 2PM EST) *All times are in EST (United States)
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