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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Sibafo
L Paragon 3 1034
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šŸ„€Hi!I am Siba šŸ˜œ .Welcome to my profile, I'll like to listen to you, I am aĀ  Verified listener .My hobbies are reading and writing.šŸ’– You can write to me about all that's spiritual,nightmares and hallucinations but also other topics.šŸ¤” I look forward to hearing from youšŸ˜.
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Lou73
L Marvel 1 3567
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--- Not accepting new member chats, March 2024 --- Hello I'm Lou (she/her) šŸ¦‹ Welcome to 7 Cups!Ā Please read my bio before sending a messageĀ šŸ’™ Part of theĀ LGBTQ+ communityĀ šŸŒˆ My Leadership Roles:Ā  Group Support Mentor Leader (GSML), Support Team Leader (STL) - Member Sharing Circles Chatroom Moderator: -Sharing Circle (and Newbie hub) -Personality Disorders Community -Global Mod Doorkeeper and Safety Patrol Team - Feel free to send a message if you need a room opened or closed or a profile flagging.Ā  Member Sharing Circle Host: Mon and Tues 6PM ET Proud recipient of the PersistenceĀ Badge šŸŒø Previous roles: Forum Supporter - Hobby Zone šŸŽØ Chatroom Supporter - Hobby Zone šŸ¦‰ Smile Spreader for Peer Appreciation Team ------------------------- For member chats: Please no chats for: - sexual health, abuse, men's issues, domestic violence, relationship issues, addiction - dissociative disorders,Ā pregnancy or bulimia - casual chats Accepting chats for: - borderline personality disorder (BPD or EUPD), managing emotions -Ā anxiety, depression, panic attacks, social anxiety, bullying, family stress - student life, work stress Usually online between 5pm and 8pm (Cups time) or leave me a message and I'll reply when I can šŸ˜Š -------------------------
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ReganL
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Hello my friends, you are looking at this currently, you are amazing for that šŸŒŸ You are taking the first steps to make you feel better šŸ’• I know it is scary and your probably have many things going on in your wonderful mind šŸ˜¶ā€šŸŒ«ļø That is okie my friend, you can share those thoughts with me without any judgment šŸš« We all have a story to tell šŸ“– and I am more then happy to hear yours šŸ¤ My listener Twin is MollySofia - Thank you for all you have taught me and helping me become the listener I am today I will miss you much.Ā  I would like to thank the oldies who have helped me become the listener I am today! Each one of them who has stepped up to guide me has a very special place and is the reason why I am who I am today. Little note: If you expect a Listener with good spelling I may not be the listener for youĀ  Talking to a random person is scary! Here are some things about me so it feels a little less scary. I am a 16 year old high school student, a sophomore. I go to college during the summer months. I have had many different battles myself, so please never fear that I will judge you for what you are going through, life can be mean, and things all affect us differently. I have some medical conditions, there may be times my response time is a little slower due to this, but you matter to me, and as soon as I can I will respondĀ  I am so glad you are looking at getting in touch with a listener today šŸ¤— It takes so much strength and courage to reach out for help when you are struggling šŸ’š I am here for you and to help you šŸ’› I will not judge you for who you are or what you are feeling. I will listen to what you have and offer you a supportive area.Ā  Green Circle: Means I am ready to chat Yellow Circle: Means I am busy, but you can send me a message and I will get to you when I can!! Red Circle: Means I am offline, but you can still send me a message and I will see it when I come back online!! Ā  Thank you so much for looking at my profile, I hope to hear from you soon! šŸŒˆĀ  My roles here at 7 cups:Ā  Verified listener šŸŽ Peer support šŸ“™ Teen Chatroom StaršŸŒ Mod - Student Support šŸ€ Mod-Ā Ā PositivityĀ cornerĀ šŸŒ± Host Listener Discussion TeamĀ šŸ’  Project Agent ~ Listener DiscussionĀ šŸŒ€ Chat Support šŸ—¾ Anonymous Evaluation Team šŸ‡ Teen QualityĀ StaršŸŒ· Care Team GuideĀ šŸ’– Door KeeperĀ šŸŒø
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HopieRemi
L Epitome 19 5313
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Due to the nature of my offline work, I do not take 1 on 1 Chats anymore. To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.Ā  I am a Listener Coach and Chat Support. To Members:Ā  I have been honored to be a listener since June 2016.Ā Ā Time boundaries and personal boundaries are important for me as I do not talk about myself or use this for support and I have limited time. I am able to support any topic outside ofĀ sext, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas.Ā If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpfulĀ resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].Ā  I have limited availability therefore I am not around for 1-1 chats. I support users in group chats and the forums. If you need immediate support, I recommend you browse [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] for a listener who is online. The only exception is chat referrals so If you have been specifically sent to me, feel free to PM me. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours?
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Tyedyedbutterfly65
L Pinnacle 14 3447
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Ā Ā Ā Ā  Ā Ā  RETIRED FROM 7CUPSĀ  AS OF 9-13-2023 . PLEASE BROWSE LISTENERS. I NO LONGER TAKE CHATS AND I HAVE DROPPED ALL MY BADGES.Ā  Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā  ā¤ "VOLUNTEERS ARE NOT PAID,NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE WORTHLESS ,BUT BECAUSE THEY ARE PRICELESS "ā¤ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā  ā¤ļøĀ  I am a Christian- Married-Female ā¤ļø Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā 
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Kyoshi
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Open to new members (also long term) I'm planet hd 18977 3b āœ§āœ§āœ§ š“š“µš“µ š”‚š“øš“¾ š“·š“®š“®š“­ š“²š“¼ š“Æš“Ŗš“²š“½š“±, š“½š“»š“¾š“¼š“½ š“Ŗš“·š“­ š“Ŗ š“µš“²š“½š“½š“µš“® š“«š“²š“½ š“øš“Æ š“¹š“²š”š“²š“® š“­š“¾š“¼š“½ āœ§āœ§āœ§ I donā€™t have to be an expert I just have to care ------------------------- Ā About me: Hello there! I'm Kyoshi (Kyo), my pronouns are they/them. I'm 25 years old and passionate about mental health. I strongly believe in self reflecting and growth because there is always space for improvement. ā€¢ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā€¢Ā°ā€¢Ź•ā€¢į“„ā€¢Ź”ā€¢Ā°ā€¢ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā€¢ Boundaries are an important aspect of listening, not just for me but also for you as member.Ā  During our chats you will experience; - A safe space for you to vent and share; our chat is your safe space to talk about anything on your mind. What you share during our chats will stay in our chats. - A non judgemental enviourment; there wont be any judgement from me during our chats. Disclaimer: I'm not a professional, although I have knowledge on DID/OSDD and advocate for a better support system and safe place on cups for those with DID/OSDD(and questioning) I cannot provide a diagnosis, to be diagnosed with a Dissociative disorder you have to work with a professional that specializes in such cases. Thank you for understanding ā€¢ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā€¢Ā°ā€¢Ź•ā€¢į“„ā€¢Ź”ā€¢Ā°ā€¢ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā€¢ Ā Ā Topics Iā€™m comfortable withĀ Ā Ā Ā  Ā -Dissociative DisordersĀ  DissociationĀ  Dissociative Identity Disorder Other Specified Dissociative DisorderĀ  -Trauma/PTSD Child abuseĀ  Sexual abuse/assault Trafficking Ritual abuse Mind control Organized abuse Domestic violence Religious abuse -Family StressĀ  Parenting Foster care (also for parents who have children in the system) Also open toĀ casual chat note: I only provide support on the topics mentioned above as I have personal experience in those and can relate to you. ā€¢ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā€¢Ā°ā€¢Ź•ā€¢į“„ā€¢Ź”ā€¢Ā°ā€¢ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā€¢ Ā Status Green: I am currently online and accepting new personal requests, my response time will be within a few minutes. Orange: I am online but occupied with other tasks on cups, either I'm already in a chat with someone or I can be found in one of the rooms. My response time can vary (5-15min) Red: I'm currently offline and not available on cups, please leave me a message and I will come back to you in 48 hours. ā€¢ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā€¢Ā°ā€¢Ź•ā€¢į“„ā€¢Ź”ā€¢Ā°ā€¢ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā”€ā€¢ Leadership roles -Chatroom Moderator (global) I help keep the rooms safe, supportive and inclusive! -Chatroom mentorĀ  I help keep the listener rooms supportive and inclusive and I mentor listeners on their listener journeyĀ  -Chat supportĀ Ā  I support listeners with difficult ongoing chats and answer listener journey related questions, if you need help with anything related to listening feel free to message me -DoorkeeperĀ  I can open and close rooms, if you need to have a room open or closed please message meĀ  -Safety Patrol I flag accounts that go against site guidelines, if you find an account that needs flagging please send me a message ------------------------- Helpful forum postsĀ  everything below is clickable -Information on DID [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/DIDDissociativeIdentityDisorderexplainedandhowtohelp_254545/] -Differences between OSDD-1(a,b) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/OSDD1OSDD1aOSDD1bTheDifferences_263532/] -Different roles in a DID/OSDD system [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/TRIGGERWARNINGDIDOSDDAltertypesrolesexplained_263478/] -Information on religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiouschildAbuse_266210/] -How to support someone who experienced religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiousabuseandhowtosupportsomeone_266350/] -Fight and flight response [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/EventsDiscussionsResources_2334/FightorFlightResponseTriggerwarning_264481/]
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kenzolena
L Guru 7 1215
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šŸ”“ Currently not fully active duo some personal reasons, I will do my best to respond in a timely manner <3Ā šŸ”“ Heyy I'm Lena and welcome to my listener bio ā™” Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]Ā  A little about me : ) We can talk about any topic, you can be honest with me, you never ever bother me. I always try making you feel comfortable and smile in our chats. You are enough and loved In case nobody told you today: am glad you're here todayšŸ˜Š I donā€™t judge, you can be you in our chat. If you just want to chat thatā€™s okay, if you wanna talk about something that's okay too. You can tell me what you're comfortable with. If you want to be my friend then lets be friends I absolutely love cats and dogsĀ šŸ¾, I have a dog which is named Blazer. My favorite color is purple and green My pronouns are she/they. Topics i dont take- I will listen to you and give you support as best as I can while using my active listening skills with almost most topics <3, but there are a few topics that Iā€™m not able or comfortable talking about.Ā  The topics that Iā€™m not able to talk about are, sexual health, sexual assault and abuse, I also donā€™t talk about certain topics in relationships or break-ups but I am able to take these chats and I will let you know if it triggers me. =-Roles-= šŸŒŒ Peer Supporter!šŸŒŒ šŸŒøĀ Listener chatroom supporterĀ šŸŒø šŸžĀ room supporter!Ā šŸž šŸŒŸ Listener Verifier šŸŒŸ Listener Verifying Team: Do you want to become a verified listener? You can learn more here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/VerifiedListenersProject_1839/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/]! šŸ¦• Verified Listener šŸ¦• šŸšŖDoorkeeperšŸšŖ šŸ¾I completed 8 weeks of the leadership program.šŸ¾ Links you may find helpful ... GuidelinesĀ  [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines] Community Calender [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] Community Forums [https://www.7cups.com/home/] Report A Member/Listener [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/requests/new] Quotes <3 Ā ā€œNo matter who you are, where you're from, your skin color, gender identity: speak yourself. "Find your name, find your voice by speaking yourself.ā€ Green status: Iā€™m online and taking requests/chat, please leave a message if you think I am a good fit for you, Iā€™m here for you and Iā€™m an active listener. Orange status: Iā€™m online but Iā€™m not actively taking requests or chat ( even though my status is orange I will still be take chats while this color is active, feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can) I am most likely in the chat rooms or online in another way. Red Status: There is a chance that Iā€™m online but not actively taking chats or personal requests. āœ¦ My response time is within 2 working days.
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CheeryMango
L Exemplar 1896
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Welcome to my bio!Ā  Please note that my response time is within 3 days.Ā  Hello, Bonjour, Hola, Guten Tag, Ciao, Ola, Ni Hao! I'm CheeryMango or commonly known as Mango here on 7cups. I'm currently the Subcommunities Coordinator which means I oversee all operations within the Subcommunity Domain.Ā Ā Please feel free to reach out for support connected to the site and Subcommunities! I am unable to take on chat requests right now.Ā Please connect to our listenersĀ here!Ā  [http://7cups.com/BrowseListeners]
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CommunityModLynn
L Maven 4 224
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Hello everyone! Welcome to my profile! I am Lynn. I am a Community Moderator. Unfortunately, I am not available for 1-1 chats so if you seeking support, please find and connect with a listener here!!
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CommunityModKay
L Marvel 11 1036
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Hello! My name is Kay and I am a Community Moderator. I'm unfortunately not available for 1-1 chats.
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comfortableNight4463
L Veteran 9 2053
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Hi! I'm Night. I am here to provide support by listening to you.Ā  I am available on; Tuesday (10PM to 12AM EST) Wednesday (8PM to 10PM EST) Thursday (6PM to 8PM EST) Friday (10 AM to 2PM and 8PM to 10PM EST)Ā  Saturday (8PM to 10PM EST) Sunday (10AM to 2PM EST) *All times are in EST (United States)
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CommunityModIris
L Genius 5 115
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Hi my name is Iris! I am a Community Moderator and I am unfortunately unable to take 1-1 chats.
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