💙About Me💙Hey there everyone! I am LavenderFlower, but you can call me Lavender or Lav I like video games, writing, acting, music, and art. I’m super interested in Psychology and Forensics as well. I listen to those with Personality Disorders and Dissociative Disorders on top of the categories I have listed. I also take chats about attention seeking and lying. I am an empathetic listener who will do their best to support you. If you want to schedule a chat with me personally, you will have to do so using my Booking Button, which can be found at the bottom of my page. Please only take 1 slot.
Support Session Leader
Verified Listener + Verified Listener Team
Intern Mentor + Intern Graduate with Honours
Community Mentor Leader
🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂Haluu! I'm Miera and I'm a Verified Listener, Listeners Peer Supporter,Listeners Chat Supporter, Quality Mentor, 7Cups Intern Graduate, Room Supporter
(Depression Support Community and
Positivity & Gratitude Community)and Feed Team
(Family & Caregivers Support Community and
Bipolar Support Community)
🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂Before you click on Chat Now, please note that I Do Not Take:Sexual issues,
loneliness chat. I Appreciate:Anxiety chats,
PTSD (Sexual Abuse & Domestic Abuse only),
General Mental Health
🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂To Fellow Listeners, please don't feel weird or hesitate at all to switch to your member account and reach out to me if you need to 🌼🌹 It's important to switch roles at time of needs. I will treat you as how I treat other members, with respect and no judgement! 💖
🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂Please Note I Only Take New Chats on Saturday, Sunday and Monday and in GMT +8 Timezone
🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂My Online Time 📳10 AM to 10 PM GMT +8🌹 (Updates Chats) At this time, I would take updates chats from Regular Members/Guests for 15 minutes each session. Between this time I might take some breaks so excuse me if my response time takes longer than usual. 8 PM to 10 PM GMT +8 💐 (New Chat Requests) If you're a Member/Guest who wants to schedule for chat, I'll be online at this time for 1 hour each session. I recommend Regular Members/Guests who have texted me before regarding their issues to contact me at this time of they need immediate response.
🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂My Off Day 🍵Every Thursday & Friday
🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂 If it seems that I'm not available, browse other listeners here to get the support you deserve! 🌱7cups.com/BrowseListeners
🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂If you want to have casual chat or having issues I do not take, I might not be the best listener for you. With that being said, I'm here genuinely to listen and support you emotionally and provide safe space for you to express yourself. Let's see if you feel better than when you first came, shall we? 💖
🌺🌺🌺 Regards, MieraCurie 🌺🌺🌺
Also, my prayers to all these special people I met here,@IsraNMSL,@ConnorSmith, @YoursTrulyBen, @ItsHayden,@idkme3 and@SpaceStation2 . Be strong and always be the best version of yourselves. Much luff 💖 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺
-Currently Not Taking Chats- Please try www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ to find an available listener
My strengths as a listener are BPD (Borderline) and mental health. I am not so strong on parenting or relationship topics.
Self care is something am very aware of and feel is something needed for everyone at some time. Am an active part of the Listener Events Team to promote self care in community. 'You can't pour from an empty cup'
Support teams am involved in Forum Supporter in General Support and Listener Community Center
Feed Team for Help Wanted community
Nice to meet you! I am Painting, a trained active listener.I am here to listen to what is on your mind and do my best to help you.I have been dealing with depression for a long time, so I can relate to depressed people and can understand how much depression can affect one or more aspects of our lives.Other subjects I can relate to are: anxiety, social anxiety, bullying, self harm and domestic violence, but my chats are not limited to these topics.
Trained Active Listener
Verified Active Listener
Safety Patrol Team
Safety and Knowledge Team Member
SPOT (Safety Patrol Outreach Team) Member
"If you want to see the true measure of a man, watch how he treats his inferiors, not his equals" J.K. Rowling
"Do It Anyway" Mother Teresa (author unknown, but coined by her)
"One hand in my pocket and the other is throwing a peace sign" Alanis Morissette
"I believe in Love" U2
"Weeeeee-weeeee-weeeee" Maxwell the pig-from the Geico commericial
"Funny trumps all" Phoenix Arisen
I imagine this is my opportunity to tell you a wee bit about me.
I have a sincere decidication to volunteering my non-structured time to 7 cups.
I have a strong educational background on which to draw from (2 advanced degrees in Psychology and 1 in Business) as well as a life full of rich experiences.
I'm happy to listen and happy to help. All that I ask is that you come willing to invest in yourself, as much as I am willing to invest in you.
Please allow Victorias Secret to remain a secret - NO SEX CHATS, discussions of the male or female genitalia or human reproduction. Please consult your primary care physician.
MESSAGES FROM THE BIRD HOUSE
(This is just OUR fun spot and may change often...either something that was on the mind of Phoenix or an idea from one of my lovely baby birds ((aka my guests, and members)). Yes, YOU! You are my 7 cups family! Swoop on in, we all learn from one another. If you have a quote, a thought, or a song you would like listed here, let me know)!
Try to sing a little, play a little, and dance a little every day! Remember to love your inner child.
Everything you ever needed to know, you learned in the sandbox
ROCK ON BIRDIES, ROCK ON!
Gym theme song for the day: Grandmaster Flash "White Lines"
Oh my, you probably haven't heard old school, untill you've heard this little diddy!
Amusing yes, but...it does have a great beat and could end up beeing an "ear worm"
Due to own mental health I am CURRENTLY UNAVAILABLE to give emotional support. Please connect to one of our other amazing listeners you can use the search functions to find a listener for your own needs. using https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners
Welcome to 7 Cups!!!
I am a verified listener who listens to both Adults (18+) and Teens (13-17)
I'm glad you have taken the step to reach out for support and Cups is a great place to receive it, with so many amazing people here ready to offer you a listening ear.
Although i have more experience and knowledge of these topics:....
- Self Harm
....I am happy to take chats about any topic.
Adult - Teen Listener
Forum Supporter for ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder)
Social Soldier on Twitter
Moderator for Disability and Self Harm Recovery
I know what it's like to not have someone around to listen, so let me be there for you! Anyone can feel free to message me any time and I will always lend a friendly ear (and shoulder). Need to vent - be my guest! I promise not to judge and to keep everything we talk about confidential. I do deal with anxiety, so I might be of help to anyone who also has it - talking about it can sometimes help. If I'm not online when messaged, I promise I will get back to you as soon as I can.
As for a bit about me, I'm a 33 year old female, but often feel older than my age. Age is not an issue though if you want to talk. I can have a weird sense of humor for those who need a laugh, but I have no problems keeping a conversation on the serious side if needed.
Don't be fearful of the badges - I took some in things that even don't apply to me to help others, especially people I know in my day-to-day life. I am curious by nature as well, and love to learn new things. It's a weird obsession of mine to learn as much as possible.
⊗⊗⊗ Above all else, I'd like to specify that I am unable to help those with problems relating to self-esteem (i.e. negative body image) and those who are struggling with self-harm. This should be noted by those who have not personally requested me, therefore I'm sorry for any inconvenience. ⊗⊗⊗(TL;DR : ☑ Depression ☑ Trauma Support ☑ Sexual Issues ☒ Social Anxiety ☒ Relationship Issues and Breakups ☒ Work Stress ☒ Sexting ☒ Transgender Issues)I might not be the best listener for the following topics:
Breakups (as I'm unable to help those looking to move on) and other relationship issues; eating disorders, body image, and self-esteem issues; exercise motivation; financial and work stress; grief; self-harm; social anxiety; and transgender issues.I do not accept personal requests that pertain to these problems. Please seek another listener that will better compliment your needs.My name's Katariina; I'm very easy-going, open-minded, and can understand the majority of situations. I'm a very honest person, therefore what I tell you might not be what you want to hear, but be assured that I always have the best intentions. If you find that I am being too insensitive, you'd be able to inform me of your opinion and I'll be able to change my behaviour accordingly. Yet, I'm a stereotypical Canadian most of the time: kind and polite, not to mention maple syrup loving.I am familiar with a variety of mental disorders including: Anxiety, autism (and Asperger's syndrome), bipolar disorder, borderline personality disorder (BPD), depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), dissociative identity disorder (DID/MPD) and other psychosis-related disorders.I accept all requests dealing with the mentioned, sometimes even when I'm marked as busy. If you request me with a different issue, I may turn you away.I do take chats on loneliness, although I am not very talkative and might struggle to carry a light conversation.I'm comfortable taking chats that are sexual in nature if I am being respected during the chat (i.e., I will not continue a chat with someone who has made a pass at me).Those interested to know more about me: I am more logical than I am emotional, I possess many extensive philosophical views and I am of Jewish belief, however, I practice Buddhism. Also, I have obsessive compulsive personality disorder (OCPD).Be warned that I do have a "suck it up attitude" and might not be the right listener for some struggling with depression, and I do not chat with those who would like to talk about self-harm and having low self-esteem.If you see that I'm online, don't hesitate in sending me a request.
Hello. May the stars shine upon our meeting. I hope if we talk that we will have some fortune in helping, even though that may be just me listening. I'm sorry if I am of little support, many things are beyond my experience so I have whittled it down to those few topics I feel comfortably knowledgeable on. That said I'd very much like to try and help if we talk. However if you feel the need to just chat round a table in an English cottage with some delightful tea, well, then we can do that instead. :)
No matter what you are going through at the moment you don't have to face it alone . I'm thankful that I'm given the opportunity to listen and through my good and bad experiences in life I hope that I can help you to know someone cares about you and is here to listen .I have listed the matters that I feel I can help with best . So please leave me a message and I will reply asap.