Hey! I'm Maluka, aka lovely listener. Heres a little bit about myself, I'm a Canadian aspiring singer/songwriter. I enjoy helping others so if you ever need anyone to talk to I'm here for you whether its something personal, out of boredom, or you just need someone to talk to, i've got you covered. If im online, feel free to chat with me. If im offline leave a message and i'll get back to you as soon as i can.
This is a test, a test to see if you are a human. Please note if something applies to you:Have you ever eaten a booger long past your childhood?Have you ever made a small, weird sound when you remembered something embarrassing?Have you ever purposely lower-cased the first letter of a text in order to come across as sad or disappointed?Have you ever ended a text with a period as a sign of aggression?Have you ever laughed or smiled when someone said something unpleasant to you, and you wondered the rest of the day why you reacted that way?Have you ever put on a pair of pants, and then realized much later that there was a loose sock smushed up against your thigh?Have you ever tried to guess someone else's password so many times that it locked their account?Have you ever had a nagging feeling that one day you will be discovered as a fraud?Have you ever hoped that there was some ability you hadn't discovered yet that you were just naturally talented at?Have you ever broken something in real life, and then found yourself looking for an "undo" button in real life?Have you ever marveled at how someone you thought was so ordinary could suddenly become so beautiful?Have you ever stared at your phone smiling like an idiot while texting someone?Have you ever subsequently texted that person the phrase, "I'm staring at the phone, smiling like an idiot"?Have you ever been tempted to, and gave into that temptation, of looking through someone else's phone?Have you ever had a conversation with yourself, and then suddenly realized you're a terrible person to yourself?Has your phone ever run out of battery in the middle of an argument, and it sort of felt like the phone was breaking up with both of you?Have you ever thought that working on an issue between you and yourself was futile, because it should just be easier than this, or this is supposed to happen just naturally?Have you ever realized that very little, in the long run, just happens naturally?Have you ever woken up blissfully, and suddenly been flooded by the awful rememberence that someone had left you?Have you ever lost the ability to imagine a future without a person that no longer was in your life?Have you ever looked back on that event with the sad smile of autumn and the realization that futures will happen, regardless?Congratulations, you have now completed and passed the test. You are human."Be as honest with yourself as you can possibly can. And it's not going to work for everybody, and I know you're going to be afraid of that, but please don't worry about being accepted by everybody. The people who like you and want to be around you, that's what matters, and that's what's healthiest for yourself." - Hasan MinhajMy lovely Listener twinnies are @allTheLove, @Bella20, @CelegnirCuthalion, and @MadilynRose! (No order, you guys are all so pawesome!)My personality type is INFP-T. Learn more about it here!Want to know who has the best 7 Cups profile? Click here!Rest in peace to a stellar fellow listener and human being, @MikeC18.
Hello, my name is Ana, and I'm an 18 year old transgender college student in Richmond, Virginia. I primarily work with ADHD, anxiety, autism, dissociative disorders, friendships, gender dysphoria, relationships, systems, and trauma. I'm open to listening for other issues; however, I may not be able to help as well as someone else. If I am Online, I will usually respond within 15 minutes. If I am Offline or Busy, my response time varies due to college—I will typically get back to you within 48 hours. Feel free to message me anytime!
Hello! I have overcome issues such as trichotillomania and worked through family stress, and hope to assist you in working through your worries too. Feel free to message me, and I'll get back to you when I can.
Hi! My name is Oliver and i am glad you are on my profile. If you scroll down you will be able to read a little bit about me and what i can help with.
What can i help with?
Autism, ADD, ADHD, Aspergers,
Physical and mentally abuse
So who am i? What´s my story?
So i was born in a small city in Sweden, I was raised with my Mom and Dad but when i was 1 years old they got a divorce. I lived with my Mom 1 week then i moved to my Dad for 1 Week and so on. When i was 7 years old i was tested for ADHD but i didn´t show any signs for that diagnosis but later i got tested for Autism and it showed. So when i was 8 i was officially diagnosed with Autism. I also have 2 bigger brothers and 1 little sister. My oldest brother is currently 24 years old but he has a different father, My second brother is currently 18 years old and we have the same father and mother and then my littlesister is currently 3 years old and has a different mother.
I had it rough in school until i got my own Assistant. Because the city i live in changed their priorities my assistant had to go, They fired her and until this day i have had atleast 10 different assistants. Anyways my dad have never really understood me only my mom so my dad got angry alot. When he got angry he also got aggressive, He hurt me so i got bruises and sometimes couldn´t breathe. I told my mom several times but my dad said a different story to her so she never saved me. After 12 years of violence my mom finally drove to me and ever since then i have lived with my mom and my dad has gradually become a acquaintance. My dad has changed and isn´t aggressive anymore so i sometimes visit him and my littlesister.
In my freetime i like to learn things, I really love Psychology, Law and Social Science. My dream since i was a little kid was to become a American Police Officer. I know soo much about the Amercan Police force and i know alot about FBI, CIA and every other goverment agency.
My hobbies is the thing above and also Airsoft, Programming and to help other kids with their struggles.
I am an open book and i answer with honesty and respect. If you ever feel like i have insulted you please don´t hesitate to tell me that. I have no and i will never have any intentions of insulting or hurting someone. I am neither racist or homophobic. I am infact Bisexual and eversince i found out that i have been happy and felt more complete!!
~on semi-hiatus! I cannot take on new members at this time~
I'm Charlie; I use they/them/theirs or he/him/his pronouns. I've been here on 7 cups for a while now, and am happy to listen or offer support to anybody who needs it! Feel free to reach out to me for anything you may be struggling with, including
LGBTQ+ related issues
dermotillomania and/or trichotillomania
or if you're just feeling lonely or would like to have a light-hearted chat!
Things you can expect from a chat with me: looooads of hugs, zero judgement, resources (if you'd like them), a safe space to talk, relevant personal experiences (I promise none of them start with "back in my day" ), and as much love and positivity as I can send you! Also possibly some unicorns.
Feel free to message me at any point in time, and stay strong! My status is usually set to a red dot, but if you leave a message, I will get back to you as soon as I am able You're also welcome to book me here! Please do know that I'm not always able to answer immediately, as things outside of the site can get chaotic, but that I will do my best!
I've been in some really dark places, and I know that sometimes it can be the most difficult thing in the world just to get up day after day, to keep fighting for a future you aren't even sure you want to reach anymore. There are some nights that feel like they go on forever, and some days when the exhaustion becomes too overwhelming to manage. But you aren't alone. Even when life seems like too much to handle, you aren't all by yourself. As a listener, I'm here to share your burden, to offer what I can, and to help you feel like things will be okay someday. I'll do my best to lift you up when things get rough and celebrate with you when things go well. I'm here to remind you how proud I am that you've made it this far, and how much you have overcome. Things can get tough, but you are worth fighting for, and you really can do this! Keep going, lovely!
A note to listeners:
Hi there, lovelies! You are all doing such incredible and positive work helping others! Sometimes, though, we need to not just support others but also be supported. If you've had a difficult chat or you just need somebody to lean on, don't hesitate to leave a message Take care of yourself, too!
My lovely listener twins are Nuria @blissfulWaterfall62, Alex @Peanat, and Julia @Juvia1; @Viana is my fantabulous mod twin! Loaf you all!!!
I'm involved in 7 cups in various ways, including as a
Welcoming Team Member
Appreciation Team Member
Feed Team Member
Just remember: you have mass and you take up space, so that means... you matter!!
I believe in you!
If you or somebody you know is suicidal:
Read this first
What happens when you call a hotline
If a friend is suicidal
Reasons to stay alive (made by @blossombreathe!)
Calming websites (I use these for anxiety):
Reveal a koala
Paint nails over and over
Make music with others
For eating disorders:
Resource Links (some are international or in different languages if you need)
Eating Disorder Hope
A list of helpful sites
Eating disorder hotlines
For self harm:
Alternatives listed by motivation
ADAA (also good for anxiety)
Depression and bipolar resources
For social anxiety:
Motivation when depressed
Self esteem and motivation