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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

blissart
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Personal request - i dont take  LGBTQ issues .I will only chat for a maximum of 60 minutes at a time to make sure my focus is solely on you .  Please be aware I will not offer you any advice on your situation or tell you what you should do. Instead I will listen to you with understanding and support you to open up about how you are feeling in a safe and supportive environment. Pls dont substitute this with therapy or counselling
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HopieRemi
L Epitome 19 5314
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Due to the nature of my offline work, I do not take 1 on 1 Chats anymore. To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.  I am a Listener Coach and Chat Support. To Members:  I have been honored to be a listener since June 2016.  Time boundaries and personal boundaries are important for me as I do not talk about myself or use this for support and I have limited time. I am able to support any topic outside of sext, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpful resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].  I have limited availability therefore I am not around for 1-1 chats. I support users in group chats and the forums. If you need immediate support, I recommend you browse [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] for a listener who is online. The only exception is chat referrals so If you have been specifically sent to me, feel free to PM me. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours?
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Amy
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Hi! I'm Amy!  💭 It's not always easy to talk about ourselves, our problems, or our views, we never know how others might react to it. It's not easy to feel at ease when opening up to a stranger or finding someone you feel comfortable with. I can't promise to be the right listener for you, I can't promise a fix to your problems, feelings, and thoughts. I can't promise an answer to every question there is, but I can offer a friendly ear to talk to and share your story. We all have a story, we all express our feelings in different ways, and we all react to things differently. No problem is small, if it affects you, you have every right to talk about it and feel the way you feel. You have every right to share it with someone and it's what I am here for - to listen. I hope to be a safe space for you to open up and share your story. ☑️ Teen pregnancy/ Teen parenting friendly! Any related issues you can discuss with me, I won't judge and I might even understand it more than you think. 🕠 I'm online at least once a day, so if I'm offline, you can leave me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can. If I'm online, message me away and we can chat. If you would like to schedule a chat with me, you can simply message me and we will work out the best time that works for both of us! Thank you for reaching out to me! 💜
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soulsings
L Epitome 19 4702
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Sorry if you are a member or guest looking to chat, I am not currently accepting new personal requests for chats. You can browse for a listener. https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ . You may also find these helpful https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php     https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php Some people find that mindfulness helps them cope. The video Resource Library https://www.7cups.com/forum/mindfulness/ResourceLibrary_1062/2016presentMindfulnessVideos_72071/ If you might consider a paid text therapy on 7cups, then this may be of interest https://www.7cups.com/forum/therapy/General_2432/ExcitingNewFeaturefor7CupsOnlineTherapyandCoaching_319430/ The other resource is various therapy topics  https://www.7cups.com/experts/catalog/topics/ All the best to you. Again sorry I cannot help you but my personal workload does not allow openings for that at this time.  
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Tyedyedbutterfly65
L Pinnacle 14 3447
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        RETIRED FROM 7CUPS  AS OF 9-13-2023 . PLEASE BROWSE LISTENERS. I NO LONGER TAKE CHATS AND I HAVE DROPPED ALL MY BADGES.             ❤ "VOLUNTEERS ARE NOT PAID,NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE WORTHLESS ,BUT BECAUSE THEY ARE PRICELESS "❤             ❤️  I am a Christian- Married-Female ❤️                
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SparkyGizmo
L Paragon 10 745
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Unable to take member chats at this time.  "You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think". - Winnie The Pooh I believe that all people need something to do, something to aspire to and someone to love. I believe that angels walk among us, because God is a really busy person-solving lack of world peace, world hunger, etc.  He sends angels to us even in human form to help the cause.  Look for them...now, look harder. I believe what you seek, you shall find. I believe that we all have something to learn from anyone and everyone that we meet. I believe that happiness is a journey and not a destination. I believe that kindness matters, always. Oh well, that's just me.  I BELIEVE ❤️  Enough about me, how about if we talk about you?  Roles on 7 cups Trained Active Listener Verified Active Listener Safety Patrol Team  Peer Pro Peer Support Global Forum Supporter 7 Cups Welcome Committee Pop Up Room Co-host when needed Eyes to the ground. Head bowed. Love in my heart. If we could only just think....."Ideologies separate us. Dreams and anguish bring us together". - Eugene Ionesco . Please let us all be kind to ourselves and to one another.  "Don't be evil" Paul Buchheit "Love Always Comes Back" GlenM's grandmother "...and this is why we can't have nice things around here".  H 😊😁😊 "Keep it real or get the banana peel". Community Mod Anne Proud recipient of the:  Funny Bunny Badge, Biggest Heart Award, Love Award, Kindness Personified Award, Electrifying Energy Badge, "O.A." Original Appreciator Badge, Unofficial "The Receptionist", Spark Hug Badge, "Sing" Badge and Sparkiest Badge (Thank you teammates! I adore you all! ❤️)
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River
L Paragon 6 2611
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*** I am really sorry but I am giving up all my site roles as of November due to my health issues and personal life taking over. So I probably wont be responding to messages. *** When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn.  -Harriet Beecher Stowe Hello everyone! *Waves* Its me, River. Welcome to my bio <3  For members:  I am here to listen about anything you want to talk about and be there for you. I might not be able to lessen your pain but I will try to share your pain and understand the situation you might be at the moment. I am also totally okay to talk randomly if you are feeling alone and ask icebreaker questions to eachother. I am usually good at chat related to depression, anxiety, relationship issues, BPD, forgiveness, grief, trauma and abuse. I. however am not taking sexual chats, sorry about it! <3  For Listeners: I have been around 7cups from more than 2 years, so if you need any help about anything related to 7cups, please dont hesitate to leave a pm. My involvement in 7cups:  Forum Mentor Leader: I work on logistic and organization side of forum team and help with trainings and onboarding of forum team members. I am around if you ever have any questions regarding forums and leadership positions related to it in general. Forum Mentor: I am a global forum mentor <3  Global group mod: I help in group rooms to keep them safe place for everyone. <3  My special twins:  @Love8890 (She is mah soul sistah <3 We also confuse people all around due to same pfp hahahaha! I love ya Sel sel <3 ) @HeyItsRoo (Caught chu :p I miss catchiing youu <3 ) *passes out cookies for reaching till the end of mah bio*  
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Noasu
L Pinnacle 15 6762
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Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people struggling with mental health, relationships, addictions, grief and loss, lack of motivation, and trauma. If you just what to chit chat we can do that as well. I enjoy running, boxing, gadgets, and learning. I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you are here! "If you have come here to help me, you are wasting our time. But if you have come because your liberation is bound up with mine, then let us work together." ― Lilla Watson "Seize the day. Make your lives extraordinary." ― Robin Williams "Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” ― Mahatma Gandhi ''It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything.'' ― Fight Club "Attachment leads to jealousy, the shadow of greed, that is...Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose." ― Yoda "Respect their journey" ― Someone wiser than me “When people talk, listen completely. Most people never listen.” ― Ernest Hemingway "Empathy is about standing in someone else's shoes, feeling with his or her heart, seeing with his or her eyes.” ― Daniel Pink "Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power." ― Abraham Lincoln *How to be a better active listener* http://psychcentral.com/lib/become-a-better-listener-active-listening/0001299 *Noasu's Newbie and Mentee Survival Guide* https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/TipsampHelpfulHintsforListening_61/NoasusNewbieandMenteeSurvivalGuide_6287/1 *7 Cups of Tea Podcast Youtube Channel* https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqG3h8HeFClnxZgDKF7GH7g/videos *7 Cups of Tea Podcast Vimeo Channel* http://vimeo.com/user36337071/videos *7 Cups of Tea Podcast Apples iTunes Page* https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/7-cups-of-tea-podcast/id961345835?mt=2 *7 Cups of Tea RSS Feed* (Updates and downloads Podcast directly to your devices automatically) http://feeds.feedburner.com/7CupsOfTeaPodcast (audio only feed) http://feeds.feedburner.com/7CupsOfTeaPodcastYoutube (video feed) http://feeds.feedburner.com/7CupsOfTeaPodcastVimeo (video feed) *7 Cups of Tea Podcast Forum* https://www.7cups.com/forum/7CupsofTeaPodcast_75/ *Listener Guides : Library Forums* https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/LISTENERTOPICGUIDESLIBRARY_129/ListenerSupportGuidesListTheLibrary_7596/ * 7 Cups Movie Night Forum* http://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/7CupsofTeaMovieNight_337/
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Mercylistensalways
L Exemplar 13 5929
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I'm Mercy. I am here for you. It is my pleasure to support you.   
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YayyySphere
L Marvel 10 918
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*Not taking on new members at the moment due to time constraints and for personal reasons*  Hey I'm Sphere and I have finished my internship on 7 Cups. I'm a 19 year old who has just graduated from High School! :) I've been through a lot, and I specialize in Self-Harm chats, even though you're free to talk to me about anything else! :) I'll definitely try my best to help out. Feel free to start a chat with me if I'm online, or you can leave me a message if I'm offline or busy. I'll get back to you as soon as I'm available! :) Also feel free to drop me a message if you would just like a casual chat! ^.^   Main Involvements: ☞Quality Mentor Leader ☞Teen Quality Mentor ☞Group Support Quality Mentor ☞Support Room Mentor (Student Support) ☞Forum Mentor (Student Support Community)   Listening Strengths: ✦Anxiety ✦Depression ✦Managing Emotions ✦School Stress ✦Self-Harm ✦Social Anxiety   Shoutouts!ツ @221Skye [https://www.7cups.com/@221Skye]-The best messiest person ever who is really awesome at the same time! ◕‿◕ @BrilliantShoe [https://www.7cups.com/@brilliantshoe]-My fantastic friends whom I've known here on 7 Cups! :) Keep on being cool and awesome! ❤ @ [http://7cups.com/@arxxxh]ArwaS [http://7cups.com/@ArwaS]- Vulvy, thanks for being such an awesome friend, hehe I'm lucky to have such a friend like you! Stay amazing buddy ^_^
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Oziris
L Marvel 13 6426
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Hello and welcome to my page. I'm glad you found me. Even though my tender age(26) I lived through a lot of trauma and struggle in my life but i found the way out of the darkness. It taught me a lot about life and i would like to share this wisdom with everyone in need. I'm sure i can provide support for you :). If I'm online feel free to write to me if not send a message and I'll try to answer as quickly as possible. I tend to take every requests personally and I would like to help you in any way I can! I hope you will be satisfied with the little light I may bring into your life :) .  
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kindSoul10
L Pinnacle 15 4182
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🌸 [ I'm on a self-care break. My responses might be delayed. ] < Sorry, I can not take 1-1 chats for the moment. Feel free to message me but I do not promise to answer to chat requests. > You've got a heart as loud as lions So why let your voice be tamed? Maybe we're a little different There's no need to be ashamed There's no need to be afraid I will sing with you Hello! I'm glad you found me. I'm a trained active listener and a peer supporter. I'm happy to listen and help people who want me to. Feel free to contact me. == Listener / member created Accolades == [ high kick badge ] : created by SparkyGizmo. High five!
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