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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

WendyBird15
L Genius 11 3509
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Not accepting New Chats at this time! Please feel free to reach out to another one of our great Listeners for support. YOU ARE IMPORTANT!!! *Please Note that I have limited availability at this time but please feel free to reach out and I will be happy to set up a time a time for us to chat. "No Act of KINDNESS, no matter how small is ever wasted" Hello, I am so glad that you have found me and I want to be here and help you with whatever struggle you are going through. I can't solve your problems, but I can offer a safe place for you to open up and talk about what is going on. I don't have set available days or times when I am online but most likely to be found in the evening est. If you want to chat and I am not online please feel free to leave me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can. I would greatly appreciate it if you would leave a review after a chat as it helps me as a listener learn and grow.  If you are looking for other listeners you can also reach out to My very awesome Listener Twins: musicalMagic [/@musicalMagic], and TsukinoTheHag . Without them I wouldn't have gotten this far in my journey.
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Anomalia
L Pinnacle 9 7237
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Hi all, I'm glad you've found my profile here! I truly love to listen and help others, and am particularly versed in eating disorders, work stress, and sexual assault, though happy to discuss anything, including sexual issues / sexuality. If you feel like you could use some extra support or help working through a problem, please reach out! I am not taking live chats right now, but can message back and forth not live if useful. I'm a former ambassador and still happy to support listeners or offer a place to vent when needed even though I no longer hold any formal position beyond listener after stepping down from my leadership roles. If you see me in the forums, you'll know I have a few favorite quotes around recovery and strength that I throw around all the time, so I'll share them here, too. "You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think" "Never forget you are worth more than the value you place on yourself." "Every day might not be a good day but there is good in every day." Much love to all, Anomalia
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River
L Paragon 6 2611
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*** I am really sorry but I am giving up all my site roles as of November due to my health issues and personal life taking over. So I probably wont be responding to messages. *** When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn.  -Harriet Beecher Stowe Hello everyone! *Waves* Its me, River. Welcome to my bio <3  For members:  I am here to listen about anything you want to talk about and be there for you. I might not be able to lessen your pain but I will try to share your pain and understand the situation you might be at the moment. I am also totally okay to talk randomly if you are feeling alone and ask icebreaker questions to eachother. I am usually good at chat related to depression, anxiety, relationship issues, BPD, forgiveness, grief, trauma and abuse. I. however am not taking sexual chats, sorry about it! <3  For Listeners: I have been around 7cups from more than 2 years, so if you need any help about anything related to 7cups, please dont hesitate to leave a pm. My involvement in 7cups:  Forum Mentor Leader: I work on logistic and organization side of forum team and help with trainings and onboarding of forum team members. I am around if you ever have any questions regarding forums and leadership positions related to it in general. Forum Mentor: I am a global forum mentor <3  Global group mod: I help in group rooms to keep them safe place for everyone. <3  My special twins:  @Love8890 (She is mah soul sistah <3 We also confuse people all around due to same pfp hahahaha! I love ya Sel sel <3 ) @HeyItsRoo (Caught chu :p I miss catchiing youu <3 ) *passes out cookies for reaching till the end of mah bio*  
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PhoenixAsh
L Veteran 9 1098
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About Me Hey there! Thanks for checking out my profile ^-^ My name is Karina, and I’ve been an active listener on 7 Cups since March 2016. My main topics are LGBTQ+ and anxiety, but I’m open to chat about mostly anything! Check out the list of topics at the bottom of my bio for more info. A few extra facts about me… I’m 18 My dog’s name is Rusty! Gryffindor INFP-T Pronouns: she/they My Roles Chat Support I can provide support for other listeners who are stuck on chats. Feel free to pm anytime, or you can see when I’m generally online here [http://phoenixash.youcanbook.me]! Forum Mentor I moderate and create content for the forums - you can reach out if you need a post edited, or if you have any questions about the forums. I spend most of my time in the LGBTQ+/MOGII Subcommunity [/home/lgbtq]! Support Team Mentor I manage the LGBTQ+/MOGII Support Rooms and their Support Teams. You can pm me if you have any questions about the room or would like to join the team! Adult-Teen Listener Though I’m an adult, I spend most of my time on the teen side of the site and can also take teen member chats! My Listener Twins TsukinoTheHag [/@TsukinoTheHag] [inactive]: My very first listener twinnie, who showed me what it means to be a humble leader and to always prioritise the people on the site. silverSun14 [/@silverSun14] [inactive]: My Project Blossom buddy, who learnt by my side and always supported my goals. CranberryPineapples [/@CranberryPineapples] [inactive]: My menteeberry, to whom I could always bounce off my ideas for the teen community, and who always strove to make the site more enjoyable for everyone. Karrot [/@Karrot]: My twinnokid, who accepts that I’m still not an oldie despite what my age may say.
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Kanga
L Sage 13 2746
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"​To love means loving the unlovable. To forgive means pardoning the unpardonable. Faith means believing the unbelievable. Hope means hoping when everything seems hopeless." ​-Gilbert K. Chesterton Hi there! My name is Roo, and welcome to my profile! For members:  I am so glad that you've decided to reach out and talk about whatever it is that is on your mind! I know how scary and intimidating it can seem sometimes, but just know that I am here to provide a safe, positive, and nonjudgmental space for you to talk ❤ The topics I specialize in are LGBTQ+ related issues, and anxiety, but I promise to do my best to help you no matter what you may be struggling with! I also am willing to talk about issues regarding sexuality, or issues regarding sex. This does NOT mean I am willing to engage in a sexual chat WHATSOEVER. Some topics I'm not so good at are eating disorders and trauma. Sometimes there is a better suited listener, and I just want to make sure you are receiving the best support possible! If you feel we might not make a good fit, you can click >here [/notes/7cups.com/BrowseListeners]< to browse for other listeners. I DO NOT take chats on self-harm, as these are triggering topics for me. Thank you for understanding! For Listeners: I am also a member of the verifiers team, so I can conduct a mock chat with you to help you earn the verified listeners badge. To learn about this and apply for a mock chat, click >here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerProjectsampTeams_148/VerifiedListenersProjectVLProjectQualityProject_685/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/]< I am a former Quality Teen Star, Support Team Leader, Feed Team Leader, and Chat Supporter/Peer Supporter. If you have any questions regarding to this, don't hesitate to ask! ​​​​  About me My name is Roo and my pronouns are she/her. I live in the USA with my 4 chicken children (and my family of course). I love to dance, read, listen to music, and to paint. I am a self-proclaimed literature JUNKIE and quote enthusiast. I consider myself to be an advocate for mental illness and equality. I believe everyone deserves to feel loved and respected 💕 I am a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, and I support people of all sexual/gender/romantic identities.🌈 I joined 7 cups in May of 2017 while seeking support during a difficult time in my life. In October of 2017 I signed up to be a listener, in hopes of making a positive impact on other's lives, and surrounding myself with love and compassion. I am very passionate about the 7 cups community, and I am always looking for someplace to improve myself :) Lovely person reading my bio, here are some things I want you to know: You are strong. Stronger than you could ever know. You are alive, right now, at this very moment! Do you know how much strength it takes to just be alive? ⭐ You are beautiful. As the saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Often times we lack the ability to see the beauty in ourselves that others see in us. Regardless of how you look, you are beautiful, inside and out.  ⭐ You are worth it. Your self worth can not be measured by anything anyone says, or what your brain tells you either! You deserve love, happiness, and respect. You deserve to get better. ⭐ I believe in you. I think that everyone has the ability to heal, to pursue their goals, and to have good mental health. You are no different! No matter what is going on in your life, or how difficult your struggles might be, I am rooting for you! ⭐ I am here for you. We all come from different walks of life, and I will never judge you because of yours. I am here to support you and offer kindness, sympathy, and compassion. I hope that we can be friends! ⚠This account is a SAFE SPACE for ALL. Anyone who tries to invade that safe space WILL be blocked & reported IMMEDIATELY.⚠
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Raspberrycheesecake
L Maven 1 596
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Currently not taking member chats, please go to Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] to reach out to another listener! ★ Welcome to my profile - I am Rasp. I love cats, reading and listening to music. I know what it feels like to be alone and needing a non-judgemental ear to listen to you. I know that sometimes it is hard to take that step. But it's good that you decided to reach out! ★ Verified Adult-Teen Listener • Support Session Leader • Intern Graduate (with Honors) • Peer Support • Verified Listener Team • Global Mod • Internship Mentor • Adult/Teen Quality Mentor • Support Team Leader For Eating Disorders • Community Mentor Leader For Eating Disorders • Q and A Team • Doorkeeper • Teen Transiting Mentor ★ Self-Harm Recovery (Adults) - Monday's at 3:15PM EDT • Eating Disorders (Adults) - Friday at 6PM EDT ★ Listeners - Find me in the LSR. Members - Feel free to message me when I am offline, my messages are a safe place for you!
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elishevacares
L Specialist 715
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Hello! I'm glad we find each other here. I don't know what you are going through, but hey, you are not alone and I am willing to understand you. So please feel free to leave a message when you need someone to listen to you and/or to support you. - Elishevacares
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MxSkeleton
L Master 9 1367
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IMPORTANT NOTICES: My bio, roles and other important information are located below. This section is just for recent developments and notices :) I am currently NOT taking new long term chats. Schedule: Want to schedule a chat with me? Click on this cute little face to use doodle to schedule a weekday chat with me! [https://doodle.com/poll/whp959ykhsyuhwhi]\(^▽^)/ [https://doodle.com/poll/whp959ykhsyuhwhi] My weekends are free. My Best Topics: Anxiety/Panic Attacks Depression LGBTQ+ Imposter Syndrome related feelings. Intimacy support* General Support no sex chats please, that's against the ToS and guidelines of 7cupsoftea.com* My Roles (〃・ω・〃) Verified Listener 7cups Supporter 7cups Welcoming Committee Safety Patrol Team Former Involvement: Appreciation Team Member Former Discussion Writer for the Anxiety Sub Community Former Anxiety Forum Supporter Positivity and Gratitude Anxiety Forum Supporter Former Social Soldiers Team Member Hey there, my name is MxSkeleton, but you may call me Skelly, Mx Skelly, Skele or just plain old Mx (Mx is pronounced like mix) I was formerly known as MissSkeleton, but that no longer best reflects my gender. I'm a Verified Listener that has been a part of this community for a few years. I have completed several bouts of training both on 7cups and have done suicide hotline training, (all crisis chats on 7Cups will be referred as per the terms and guidelines of 7Cups.com). I am still accepting short term member chats. I am non-binary, and my pronouns are they/them. I love travelling, photography, art, videogames, cyber security and aiding others. I also enjoy cooking. I speak Dutch comfortably though not perfectly, and English natively. Feel free to drop in and just say hello, talk about your day, I would enjoy your company very much. I am sending you all positive vibes and I hope you feel fantastic.  Li [http://7cups.com/@Siavash]stene [http://7cups.com/@Siavash]r [http://7cups.com/@Siavash] [http://7cups.com/@Siavash]Twin [http://7cups.com/@Siavash]
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VinylFly
L Proficient 4 1055
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Proud triplet of the terrific trio @InternalAcceptance and @Chassymom    Former leader of the addiction support team and have since passed the torch on to @InternalAcceptance. So proud of my amazing tripply <3 Hi there, I'm AJ but you can call me vinyl, viny or fly. Welcome to my listener profile. Glad you're here with us on 7 cups.    I'm a verified active listener. I'm happy to support you on your journey and help you navigate the bumps in the road you may come across. I've driven over many myself and have acquired much wisdom and compassion along the way. Message me if you're looking for a caring, wise and open-minded set of ears. I'm passionate about helping people in need and am currently pursuing a Bachelor's degree with a major in Psychology and minor in Sociology. I've spent most of my career working with youth with special needs and have recently been spending much of my time volunteering with a local peer-based harm reduction group. I'm happy to chat about whatever's on your mind but I have the most knowledge in the areas of anxiety and panic attacks, drug/alcohol use and harm reduction, autism, ADHD, chronic illnesses and disabilities, coping with strong emotions, sexual orientation and gender identity, and post-traumatic stress.   Please note that I take 1-1 chats in 1 hour time blocks. I do this to make sure that everyone has a chance to be listened to. I'll let you know when there are 10 minutes remaining in your chat so it's easier to start wrapping things up. Looking forward to hearing from all you lovely people. It takes a lot of courage to reach out for help when you need it. Through our struggles, we can learn how to harness our strengths         
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7CupsCommunity
L Intermediate 4 8
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Hello! I am an official 7 Cups Community account. You may see me around in the forums answering questions. Learn more about my role here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/CommunityInformation_742/Reintroducingthe7CupsCommunityAccount_229879/1/] **If I have missed a tag from you and it's been a few days, please feel free to retag. I only receive one notification per thread I am tagged in, which makes it easy to accidentally overlook something.** Please note: You may email community@7cups.com for questions about accounts or reports. You may use the Browse Listeners [http://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]link to find a listener for 1-on-1 support or our support rooms [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php] or forums [http://7cups.com/forum] for group support. Thank you for understanding.   Below are some important links that may be useful: 7 Cups Community Account FAQ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/CommunityInformation_742/7CupsCommunityAccountFAQ_275323/?post=2925956] 7 Cups Open Research Platform [https://www.7cups.com/about/research.php] Account Review Request [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScqva6u9GVllcKFBro2ZOg2tugEknrU8cMoi__JJClisFZzJw/viewform] Apply for Special Listener Badges [https://www.7cups.com/listener/myImpact.php] Apply to be an Adult-Teen Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerResources_61/ApplytobeanAdultTeenListenerHereUpdated_214321/1/] Bugs Report Form  [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/requests/new] W [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SubComLeaderBubble_183/SubcomWisdomandSharingfromyoursubcomtooursCheckins_1402/GotAQuestionTiedtoSubCommunitiesAskhere_199622/]hat are Subcommunities? [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238853-What-are-subcommunities-] Behavior Reporting Process & Tracking [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/BehavioralRatingSystem_2108/2020s7CupsBehaviorReportingProcessTrackingUpdatedVersion_226446/] Censor Updates Feedback Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScOYDIsgeWmqr4e5hKpTFZ_TC7CnG7OB1DV6mhocHx1kWYWzQ/viewform] Crisis Policy and Crisis Page [https://7cups.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis] How to end a crisis chat [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis] Information on Research Projects [https://www.7cups.com/forum/KitchenTable_133/7CResearchandInsightsLab_973/Informationonresearchprojectsdoneon7Cups_47537/] Listener Chatroom Review Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScjcUhcOyBSS8szMwR1I7Gi9lgCmYuul_DJn_rmoy28pxg12w/viewform?usp=sf_link] Listener-Listener Conflict Resolution [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/CommunityGuidelinesMissionCoreValues_141/HowtodealwithLLconflict_200684/1/] Listener-Listener Report Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSco9sGAiqevQR4wBqEiy0uyC6p7fg_lVsK6LarWfloGEBqo7Q/formResponse] Member-Member/Listener Report Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSffQk1RhknozmquuEYiE_fZDp2ynNz-VB4XXBbRrrKmV57V5w/viewform] Moderator & Listener Review Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScmfpQqScgcFxOSHveQfbP52m-XNu-DBC6oK7ieTHrGQ4hJ3w/viewform] Mute Lift Request [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc28h8BUSmhjTjOgursWHoU2BKF1Shcah6ygpXgK04g0f5d_w/viewform] Quality Coaching - Reach out to a Quality Mentor [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1oeZA5FmCGw4UeV6Yjmv0ZCurow72WzqpbaRd1F0klkA/viewform] Resources & Hotlines for Various Topics [https://www.7cups.com/wiki/crisis-lines-nonsuicide-related/] Safety at 7 Cups (information, protocol, and resources) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/Guidesonhowtomanagesituationson7cups_1059/Safetyat7Cupsinformationprotocolandresources_202422/] Safety Protocols and Policies [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/Guidesonhowtomanagesituationson7cups_1059/SafetyProtocolsPoliciesInformationReview_201226/1/] Special Events on 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/Current7CupsSpecialEvents_736/SpecialEventsTeamRelaunchHowdoEventsWorkon7cups_199705/] Support Desk & FAQ [https://7cups.zendesk.com/hc/en-us] Teen Safety Policy [https://www.7cups.com/Documents/TeenSafety/] Username Change Request [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc-3nMPpTXQZ6JkI33U8kyXvk3uE4TtEk1ERLP-aiEnZXNqcQ/viewform] Where did the group support rooms go? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/GlensNookCommunity_547/RoomAnnouncement_211731/1/] Who to contact [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/7CupsSafetyToolsReportFormsMore_1371/Reminderswhotocontact_166954/]
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Ahmed
L Pinnacle 4 7687
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Currently Not Taking New Chats ( Self Care Break ) I realised that my happiness lies where I can make others happy or feel a bit better So I joined here trying to support people and find my own way in life        
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AutumnBreeze92
L Proficient 11 1439
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Hi, You are welcome to my 7 cups profile. I am AutumnBreeze92, a verified active listener in 7 cups of tea and my old user name was kindPoetry91. I'm proud of your decision to share your matter with an active listener and I believe you have the strength to recover soon. I would love to help you with my best as an active listener. Thank You ❤️
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