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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

prismaticlotus
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please send a brief message about the topic you would like to chat about when reaching out, thank you 
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pamharley003
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***** Not taking any 1-1 chats right now please use https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ to find a Listener. ***** Will not take any chats with sex of any nature  I am sorry ***** *****twins with @Thedoctorno12 *****                   Adult and Teen Listener I am  a long term listener and a verfied listener on 7 cups. I also have the door keeper badge. Chat's I do take: Anxiety BipolarBorderline (BPD) BreakupsBullying Chronic Pain Depression Diabetes Disabilities Domestic Violence Eating Disorders Exercise MotivationFamily Stress Financial Stress Forgiveness General Mental Health Getting Unstuck Grief LonelinessManaging Emotions Panic AttacksParenting PTSD/Trauma Relationship Stress Self-Esteem Sleeping Social Anxiety Spirituality Student Life Weight Management Work Stress *** I will repsond back to Your PM'S when I return online ****
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radiantRose9728
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Hello 👋 Folks 👦👧👱👵👩👸👯👦🙋 I am here for you if you need someone who can attentively, and sympathetically,impart support and understanding by being a listener with active listening skill.However, I am not the right person to treat chronic health issues where professional help is the only appropriate option.So,kindly be mindful prior sending request for a listening session. I wish you get the courage to rise,recharge and rework every day to gain self-upliftment,self- motivation and self-love towards your healing journey of life.🌻💮💝✌ *Please only people who can show mutual respect and kindness can feel free to request listening session otherwise kindly refrain from sending requests. Wishing you hope,happiness and healing 💗✌👍🤗 ~RadiantRose ⚘🌷
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Alexandria616
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Hello! I'm Alexandria, and I want you to know that I'm here for you every step of the way. Whether you need to vent, share your joys, or your sorrows, don't hesitate to reach out and talk to me. Listening to you is my top priority, and I want you to feel understood and supported in your emotions. Together, we can face whatever you're going through. You can always count on my support and genuine friendship! 😌😌😌 ¡Hola! Soy Alexandria y quiero que sepas que estoy aquí para ti en cada paso del camino. Si necesitas desahogarte, compartir tus alegrías o tus penas, no dudes en venir a hablar conmigo. Escucharte es mi prioridad y quiero que te sientas comprendido/a y acompañado/a en tus emociones. Juntos, podemos enfrentar lo que sea que estés pasando. ¡Siempre contarás con mi apoyo y amistad sincera! 😌😌😌 Ciao! Sono Alexandria e voglio che tu sappia che sono qui per te ad ogni passo del cammino. Se hai bisogno di sfogarti, condividere le tue gioie o le tue tristezze, non esitare a venire a parlare con me. Ascoltarti è la mia priorità e desidero che tu ti senta compreso/a e accompagnato/a nelle tue emozioni. Insieme, possiamo affrontare qualsiasi cosa tu stia vivendo. Puoi sempre contare sul mio sostegno e sulla mia sincera amicizia! 😌😌😌 Bonjour ! Je suis Alexandria et je veux que tu saches que je suis là pour toi à chaque étape du chemin. Si tu as besoin de te confier, de partager tes joies ou tes peines, n'hésite pas à venir me parler. T'écouter est ma priorité et je veux que tu te sentes compris(e) et accompagné(e) dans tes émotions. Ensemble, nous pouvons affronter tout ce que tu traverses. Tu peux toujours compter sur mon soutien et mon amitié sincère ! 😌😌😌 Halo! Saya Alexandria, dan saya ingin kamu tahu bahwa saya di sini untukmu setiap langkah dari jalan. Apakah kamu butuh curhat, berbagi kegembiraan, atau kesedihan, jangan ragu untuk menghubungi dan berbicara dengan saya. Mendengarkan kamu adalah prioritas utama saya, dan saya ingin kamu merasa dipahami dan didukung dalam emosimu. Bersama, kita bisa menghadapi apa pun yang sedang kamu alami. Kamu selalu bisa mengandalkan dukungan dan persahabatan tulus dari saya! 😌😌😌
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VioletNotes
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Hello, I'm Violet. I am no longer available for support chats. ------------------------- But here's some information anyways! My listener twin is tuffattack ☆ I would like to study peace and conflict resolution at university ♡ ------------------------- Каждая пуля находит свою цель в сердце матери ------------------------- Happy to help with studies or homework ☆ I'm always here for a genuine, two-way conversation ♡ My cups role model is Mahad2804 ☆ ------------------------- And I hope that this finds you well. That's all!
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politeSun
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Dissolving Love [https://pothi.com/pothi/book/ebook-azra-sardar-ahmad-dissolving-love] Hello This is Sun. Looking forward to a conversation with you, so that we can feel better together.  (I dont take chats on LGBTQ+ and Sexual issues)
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delicateMonkey
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Hello, it's nice to meet you! I have a B.S. in Psychological Sciences and have plans to become a psychiatrist. I am in the EST time zone and am typically available at night. If you personally request me and then my status changes to offline, I will be with you soon! I set my status to red so that I can focus of my current chats. I like to keep chats to ~1 hour, as that allows us to make progress. Reaching out is the hardest part, but you've already taken the first step! If we talk, please leave me a review! I strive to better myself as I go through my journey as a 7Cups listener! 💮 -Please be patient and kind to your listener. We are not professionals and need you to meet us halfway.- "You will succeed in whatever you choose to do, and light will shine on the road ahead of you." ------------------------- I currently do not have the capacity to take on more long-term members, but I will happily take one-off chats! For listeners: I do peer support - please PM me if you need! You will often catch me in the LSR 💘
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KindForest2094
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Hi, I'm happy to talk about anything :)
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HermitHealer
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*I'm no longer taking on one-on-one chats as a long term Listener, as I'm currently at my maximum capacity of members.* I believe we all have the answers we are seeking inside ourselves. Sometimes we just need the right sounding board to give us clarity. My job will be to help you unlock these gems of insight for yourself. We can talk about whatever is on your mind. I've heard it all, and offer a non-judgmental and understanding ear. With me, you can be assured that you'll receive consistent, in-depth responses from someone who is dedicated to supporting you. It's a genuine joy and honor to be able to listen to you.      My specialties include:      Self-discovery/understanding      Relationships (romantic, family, friendships, etc.)      Spirituality (anything from the topic of death to reincarnation, dreams, spiritual awakenings, and everything in between). Note: This does not include astrology     readings as I'm not an expert in that field.   Think we'll be a good fit? Then let's explore together, so we can shine a light on whatever darkness you're facing on your journey! And if I don't sound like your cup of tea (pun intended), then I still wish you the best! *If you message me while I'm offline, there may be a short delay in my response time if I don't see it right away, but I'll always respond as soon as possible! As a side note, I'm generally more responsive on weekdays than on weekends.* _________________________________________________ A Little About Me: I’m a 36-year-old poet who loves to analyze and research things; I’m endlessly curious. I enjoy conversing with others and helping people whenever I can. In my spare time, I enjoy reading, learning, spending time with loved ones, and trying out new, healthy recipes.  If you want to classify me in MBTI terms, I'm an INFJ. If the Enneagram personality system is more your speed, I'm a 6w5, 1w2, 2w1 sx/sp.  My interests include: metaphysics, esoterica, psychology, philosophy, typology, astrology, tarot/oracle reading, nutrition, yoga, bouldering, music, movies/shows, gaming, animals, and nature. 
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RainbowRosie
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Hi there and welcome. I’m Rosie and I’m a verified listener here on 7 Cups for over three years now. I’ve  gone through some difficult times myself and know just how good it is to have someone you can talk to.  As I’m passionate about mental health I’m here to listen and be there for you. Please be reassured I'm non judgemental and want to help make you feel supported and heard. LGBTQ+ friendly 🌈  If I’m not online then please feel free to leave me a message and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can.       PLEASE NOTE:  I’m here to listen and chat…NO sex chat.  I'm not comfortable with sexual health related topics. Thank you so much for reaching out. Rosie 🌹 Graduate from the; Quality Listening Program Leadership Development Programme Inner Development Course 🌹 7 Things about me; I’m an animal lover, especially dogs and have two myself  I love dark chocolate I prefer baking to cooking  I’m a proud LGBT+ ally I work and am also a pt carer for my lovely mum who’s in her 80s I’m a coffee lover and could just drink one now  I like to laugh…so do it as much as I can 😀 ******* 🌹 One of my favourite quotes; When you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot in it and hold on. 🌹 A few things I remind myself of; ‘Staying positive doesn’t mean you have to be happy all the time. It means that even on hard days, you know that there are better days coming’. ’Everyone you meet is going through something that you have no idea of. If you can’t help then at least be kind’. ‘To get a rainbow you have to first deal with the rain’ 🌈 ******* 🌹 When away from 7 Cups I find the following helpful to relax;  Reading, swimming, walking my dogs or sitting out in the garden with a nice cuppa. Crisis Resources Please note that 7cups is not equipped to support crisis situations. If you are in crisis, it's important to reach out to a crisis line for appropriate support. Here are some sourced crisis lines and resources to help you:  Remember, it's okay to ask for help. Your well-being is important, and there are people and resources available to support you. Don't hesitate to reach out if you need someone to talk to. (U.S.) The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline [https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/] at 1-800-273-8255 [tel:18002738255] Crisis Text Line [https://www.crisistextline.org/texting-in] (U.S.) Text HOME to 741741 (Canada) Text HOME to 686868  International Association for Suicide Prevention  [https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/] Canada call 1-833-456-4566or text 45645 Crisis Services Canada [http://www.crisisservicescanada.ca/]  UK  Call Samaritans [https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/talk-us-phone/] 116 123  Call Hopeline [https://papyrus-uk.org/hopelineuk/] 080020068204141 [tel:080020068204141] or text 0778620209697 [tel:0778620209697] Australia Lifeline Crisis Support  [https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/topics/lifeline-services] call  13 11 14 India click the link to find a local crisis line with Befrienders India [http://befriendersindia.net/helpline-details.php] ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️  
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RarelyCharlie
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Not taking new chats. ------------------------- Coming, going, the waterbirds don't leave a trace, don't follow a path. I'm Charlie and I'm trained, verified and experienced as an active listener for both adults and teens. I like to support people who are struggling with something. Also people who aren't struggling with anything. And people who aren't sure whether they're struggling with anything or not. Please do not message me hoping to start a chat. I am not taking new chats. The poem is said to be by Eihei Dōgen, a Japanese poet who wrote it around eight hundred years ago. I don't know why I like it. I just do. My photo is the moon shining on the sea. There's some darkness and some clouds there but the light of the moon shines on everything. I like this too. Thank you for reading my profile. I'm glad you are here! ------------------------- In an emergency or a crisis: If you are in an emergency or a crisis—for example, if you are at immediate risk of suicide or other serious harm—7 Cups is not the right place, because we cannot deal with emergencies or provide crisis counselling. Click here for information about getting help: Get emergency or crisis support [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/howto/crisis] Listener support: I'm happy to support other listeners with issues related to listening, although I don't have any official role. Please do not message me from a listener account to chat about personal issues. Use a member account for that. To understand why, see: Listener and Member Roles [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/GlensThoughts_143/ListenerandMemberRoles_210/1/] Schedule: I don't have a fixed schedule. I'm online some weekdays between about 4:30 a.m. and 8:30 a.m. US Eastern Time. In the UK this is 9:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. On other days and at weekends I'm often online too, but at times that are not predictable. If you message me or tag me in a forum I'm usually able to respond within a day or two. Miscellaneous resources: For some other resources, mainly for listeners, see my unofficial companion site: The 8th Cup [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/]
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Kyoshi
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Open to new members (also long term) I'm planet hd 18977 3b ✧✧✧ 𝓐𝓵𝓵 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓷𝓮𝓮𝓭 𝓲𝓼 𝓯𝓪𝓲𝓽𝓱, 𝓽𝓻𝓾𝓼𝓽 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓪 𝓵𝓲𝓽𝓽𝓵𝓮 𝓫𝓲𝓽 𝓸𝓯 𝓹𝓲𝔁𝓲𝓮 𝓭𝓾𝓼𝓽 ✧✧✧ I don’t have to be an expert I just have to care -------------------------  About me: Hello there! I'm Kyoshi (Kyo), my pronouns are they/them. I'm 25 years old and passionate about mental health. I strongly believe in self reflecting and growth because there is always space for improvement. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────• Boundaries are an important aspect of listening, not just for me but also for you as member.  During our chats you will experience; - A safe space for you to vent and share; our chat is your safe space to talk about anything on your mind. What you share during our chats will stay in our chats. - A non judgemental enviourment; there wont be any judgement from me during our chats. Disclaimer: I'm not a professional, although I have knowledge on DID/OSDD and advocate for a better support system and safe place on cups for those with DID/OSDD(and questioning) I cannot provide a diagnosis, to be diagnosed with a Dissociative disorder you have to work with a professional that specializes in such cases. Thank you for understanding •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────•   Topics I’m comfortable with      -Dissociative Disorders  Dissociation  Dissociative Identity Disorder Other Specified Dissociative Disorder  -Trauma/PTSD Child abuse  Sexual abuse/assault Trafficking Ritual abuse Mind control Organized abuse Domestic violence Religious abuse -Family Stress  Parenting Foster care (also for parents who have children in the system) Also open to casual chat note: I only provide support on the topics mentioned above as I have personal experience in those and can relate to you. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────•  Status Green: I am currently online and accepting new personal requests, my response time will be within a few minutes. Orange: I am online but occupied with other tasks on cups, either I'm already in a chat with someone or I can be found in one of the rooms. My response time can vary (5-15min) Red: I'm currently offline and not available on cups, please leave me a message and I will come back to you in 48 hours. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────• Leadership roles -Chatroom Moderator (global) I help keep the rooms safe, supportive and inclusive! -Chatroom mentor  I help keep the listener rooms supportive and inclusive and I mentor listeners on their listener journey  -Chat support   I support listeners with difficult ongoing chats and answer listener journey related questions, if you need help with anything related to listening feel free to message me -Doorkeeper  I can open and close rooms, if you need to have a room open or closed please message me  -Safety Patrol I flag accounts that go against site guidelines, if you find an account that needs flagging please send me a message ------------------------- Helpful forum posts  everything below is clickable -Information on DID [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/DIDDissociativeIdentityDisorderexplainedandhowtohelp_254545/] -Differences between OSDD-1(a,b) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/OSDD1OSDD1aOSDD1bTheDifferences_263532/] -Different roles in a DID/OSDD system [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/TRIGGERWARNINGDIDOSDDAltertypesrolesexplained_263478/] -Information on religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiouschildAbuse_266210/] -How to support someone who experienced religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiousabuseandhowtosupportsomeone_266350/] -Fight and flight response [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/EventsDiscussionsResources_2334/FightorFlightResponseTriggerwarning_264481/]
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