Hello!!! I am glad you found me on 7 cup. I am trained active listener and I like to support people struggling with anxiety, bullying, depression, eating disorder, family stress, general mental illness, loneliness, managing emotions, mens and womens issues, panic attacks, self esteem, self harm, sleeping well, social anxiety, and work stress. I enjoy swimming, camping, dancing, and karate. I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. if I am online please feel free to start a chat. if Im offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time connect. Glad you are here!!
I will be working and focusing on improving my listening skills and working as an new intern. I am also planning on becoming a part of the verified listening team. Thank you. If my light shows green let’s chat 💭
1) My response times are slow. Even when I am working on making them faster, please do not talk with me if you won't accept delays.
2) I help myself when I try to help you.
3) Today I found out that "ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp" should be instead "ThankYouForLettingMeTryToHelp". It seems first one is grammarly incorrect in English. I am sorry for my mistake. Thank you for pointing it out, @Nada and @DestroyingAngel (8/August/2019).
4) Accepting Long Term Members!!
Hi, I'm a good listener and have been through a lot of problems myself. I've dealt with social anxiety, depression and body image issues, so I know what it's like to struggle with life's difficulties and I would like to help you as best I can. I will talk to you, no matter your age, gender, sexuality or subject matter. If you want a one-off chat or long term support, that's fine by me. I am also here if you need a general chat. Not everyone has someone they can turn too. I'm non-judgemental and a friendly ear if you need it.
7 Cups is not equipped to support crisis situations.If you are experiencing suicidal ideation and want help you should talk to a licensed therapist.If you are in crisis please reach out to a crisis line for appropriate support.
Click here for the listHey there!It's me, your safe and helpful station to talkWhenever, wherever I'm here to listen to youWhy don't we start now? If my online status is green, that means I am free and available to have a chat with you! Don't doubt texting me! ♡If it's orange, that means I may be having a chat with someone else or working in community activities. But you can leave me a message! ♡If it's red, that means I am not online. You can leave me a message, though. And I'll text you back as soon as possible! ♡
My precious listener twins: @freshMelon54@ElodieGrace22
Trained Active Listener
Verified Active Listener
Safety Patrol Team
Safety and Knowledge Team Member
SPOT (Safety Patrol Outreach Team) Member
"If you want to see the true measure of a man, watch how he treats his inferiors, not his equals" J.K. Rowling
"Do It Anyway" Mother Teresa (author unknown, but coined by her)
"One hand in my pocket and the other is throwing a peace sign" Alanis Morissette
"I believe in Love" U2
"Weeeeee-weeeee-weeeee" Maxwell the pig-from the Geico commercial
"Funny trumps all" Phoenix Arisen
I imagine this is my opportunity to tell you a wee bit about me.
I have a sincere dedication to volunteering my non-structured time to 7 cups.
I have a strong educational background on which to draw from (2 advanced degrees in Psychology and 1 in Business) as well as a life full of rich experiences.
I'm happy to listen and happy to help. All that I ask is that you come willing to invest in yourself, as much as I am willing to invest in you.
Please allow Victorias Secret to remain a secret - NO SEX CHATS, discussions of the male or female genitalia or human reproduction. Please consult your primary care physician.
MESSAGES FROM THE BIRD HOUSE
(This is just OUR fun spot and may change often...either something that was on the mind of Phoenix or an idea from one of my lovely baby birds ((aka my guests, and members)). Yes, YOU! You are my 7 cups family! Swoop on in, we all learn from one another. If you have a quote, a thought, or a song you would like listed here, let me know)!
Try to sing a little, play a little, and dance a little every day! Remember to love your inner child.
Everything you ever needed to know, you learned in the sandbox
ROCK ON BIRDIES, ROCK ON!
Gym theme song for the day: Myley Cyrus "We Wont Stop"
It's me that bounce the light
The Sugary Knight Shift
------This is my Tribe-----
The best of friendships are born from respect. Over time, comes a deep sense of caring, trust, gratitude and love. Octopus Twinnie: @ ItsDev The true Octopus master of multi-tasking. The tried and true and even when the chips are down. They do it all along with a big heart, compassion and a smile. (gosh, that's a lot of arms Dev, how do you do it?) Magical Twinnie: @Alpacaking With wand in hand the Magical twinnie will transform any room and any interaction bringing joy to others. They sprinkle fairy dust as well with knowledge, help and huggles. (got that one right "blaby")Half Nerd Twinnie: @VickyP Never underestimate the power of the half nerd twinnie. Smart, funny, the quintessential onion with so many layers. Quick to rise to the occasion and help others in need. (you might be an onion, but you'll always be my "hi Sausage")
It's been a privilege to stand in the light of all three of you and bask in your glow! *hugs*
Hey you. Do you need someone who listens to you? Someone who cares?I'm a trained, verified active listener and here for you.
German and Swiss German are my native languages, but I can understand and support you in English too.If my status says online, I'm waiting to listen to you. If it says busy, I'm online but chatting to someone or doing a training. If it says offline I'm unfortunately not available at the moment.
Please leave me a message if I'm busy or offline. I'll write you as soon as possible.Roles on 7Cups:
Teen ListenerRoom Supporter (Depression Support, Anxiety Support, Teen Only Zone and Group Support Community)Peer SupporterProfile Safety PatrolIf I'm suddenly offline, it's because I lost my connection. In this case I'm sorry, I'll write back you as soon as possible.
Hey Yall, I’m Jaali! I love cherry sours and eating actual lemons. Lemonade form is acceptable too though. I’m in my late 20s and have overcome a lot adversity throughout my life. I would love to get to know you and hear your story. I’m a Senior Undergrad, studying a psychology-related field at my university. Still, I’m not certified by any means but I can definitely lend an ear and support you through your troubles. Feel welcome to leave me a message. I operate off EST and am on throughout the week. (: Thx!♡ If we speak and you appreciate our conversation, please let me know in a review! ♡ I really appreciate receiving them and I reflect on your words from time-to-time. Alternatively, I’m also open to constructive criticism! If you think there’s any way I can improve, please let me know. Because this is the path I am actively pursuing in life, I’d really love to know how I can be more helpful to you, and others.