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Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

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The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Sunisshiningandsoareyou
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(Updated, current month 2024) ❤️ *on a break* ❤️  ------------------------- Response Time/ PM-land access:  🌻 Members:  New Member Chats: I'm completely unavailable for new members. (Members I've never talked to before whether new or old on cups)  Regular/ Recurring/ Old Member Chats: People I've talked to/ supported over a committed time frame, I love to hear updates from you, and am happy to see your messages. But please know that I'm unavailable for LIVE chats and can only reply offline, when I'm able to. (Responses may be several days delayed) So whether you're a new member or someone I've talked to before, if you need Live/ Immediate/ Urgent/ Regular/ Long-term support chat, please reach out to another available listener in cups.  You deserve prompt support, which I cannot offer, for an unforeseeable time! ❤ 🌻 Listeners:  I'm available for Peer Support and Chat Support only when I've accepted your request either through Chat Support/ Peer Supporter request forms or in the LSR, so please before messaging me for any of it, ask me in the room, as otherwise I may not be available to respond timely! Mentees/ Coachees: I'm so proud of you for trying your best to improve as a listener, and happy to hear any updates from you!  I'm typically unavailable for Live chats, and offline responses may vary, feel free to drop your questions though, if not too urgent, and I'll respond as soon as possible!  If you need a live chat, let me know a little in advance, mentioning the topic for the chat/ kind of support needed, your time/ availability in ET pr cups-time and hopefully, we can schedule for a live chat sometime!  Not available for any personal chats/ PMs unless stated/ agreed to otherwise. (Due to a high influx of messages, I'm unable to prioritize replying to messages with just a "hey/hi/ greeting", thank you for greeting me, but please do share a bit about "what" you're reaching out for, whether as a listener or a member, as it helps me understand how to respond better and faster. Messages with only "hey/ hi/ greetings" are missed often.)  I'll be around, in the forums and chatrooms when I can though, feel welcome to tag me in your posts or replies, happy to see you! 🥰 I've sadly not been getting notifications for all the tags lately, apologies if missed your tag. Feel free to send another tag or a personal message, if needed.  (I know) Extremely slow response rate: I'm on a break from several activities/roles here, but have been catching up with PMs and tags as much as possible. Responses will be slow and delayed, your patience is appreciated. Send a follow-up, if I missed your important message or if you need an urgent reply. <3 Support shouldn't be delayed, so I highly recommend browsing for other listeners when you need some emotional support. Please remember you are awesome and not alone here. ❤ Stay great and take good care, everyone.   Response time for all my current (regular) members/ listeners (and mentees) would vary as I am not logging in here regularly as earlier, I apologize if messages are delayed.  Send a follow-up, if needed. Thank you for understanding, YOU do come first and there's plenty of support available at all times, please do find an amazing currently active listener  HERE [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/], and I hope you receive the best support available! 💖 ------------------------- Hello, Amazing Human, Welcoming hugs and high fives and cookies for you! (Take what you need hehe) I am Sun, Thank you for finding me here, I understand life isn't always smooth sailing, we all have our ups and downs. I know I won't be able to solve all your problems, but problems shared are problems halved, right? Or even if not halved, I do feel sharing can help reduce the burden of overwhelming thoughts and feelings in your mind ~ your mind is not a notepad, it shouldn't be a place to "store" thoughts and feelings ~ share away, your mind deserves to feel lighter and better and so do *you* ... Besides being a trained verified listener here, I can offer you a kind, empathetic and non-judgmental ear and help you guide through these dark times. Feel free to Talk/ Share/ Vent and I'll be more than happy to listen to you, provide you with a safe and comfortable space and help you feel better in any way I can. Please do keep in mind that I can't and won't advise you, I can help you guide through the roads, but the steering wheel will always be in your hand and the direction to choose will always be your decision solely since you know your journey and your destination, the best. Rest assured, you've got your passenger seat covered for any support and encouragement always!  I am a persun who believes in the power of sharing smiles, happiness, kindness, encouragement, hope and positivity And I would love to share these with you too if you allow me to (always at your pace and comfort of course).🌻 I am pretty respectful and polite to everyone and personally do not use any offensive language including any kind of passive-aggressive/ provoking remarks, so would certainly expect and appreciate the same from you. Everyone deserves basic respect and decency! 💛  People looking for inappropriate sexual chats and/ or interested in making any sexual advances towards me~ this is an emotional support platform ~ and we do *not* entertain such kinds of conversations here. Please refrain from sending any messages, if you're here for any reason other than seeking emotional support, thankyou. I don't take chats on topics such as chronic pain, panic attacks, sexual health and self-harm. Feel free to browse other amazing listeners for these topics and those not listed under "categories" HERE [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. ❤  💛If you are currently having crisis thoughts (active or passive, or actively harming yourself) *offers hugs*, I know how terrible it can be to be in this hopeless situation, please however respect our boundaries as a listener, our limits and that 7 cups is not a crisis platform, we do care and therefore ask you to reach out to relevant channels of support. You can find resources here:-  7cups.com/crisis, please do connect with a hotline. You may not believe it at the moment, but you are *not* unworthy of living, you are not taking space unnecessarily, you are not your current situation neither your current thoughts. Nobody exactly knows, but we gotta keep hanging on tightly, to see for ourselves when and how it gets better because it does, *someday* and you need to be here to experience it.  Brave it in this very moment, reach out for help. You owe it to *yourself*. 💛 The topics I am comfortable providing support for include general mental health struggles, getting unstuck, managing emotions, student life-related topics, friendship/ relationship/ family stress, social anxiety, self-esteem issues etc. and more are listed below, under categories! Feel free to send a message if you see me online (green status) and I will get back to you as soon as I can, we can then schedule a time and day for a chat or agree upon offline messaging, whichever is more comfortable and suitable for us. 🤗 At Last, remember that you are not alone, your mental health is important, you are a brave person to seek support,  you are here and I am proud of you for that.  If you give me a chance I'll try my best to be there for you, to be there with you and remind you that even if the clouds appear to be very dark at any point in time,  the Sun Is Shining And So Are Youuuu. 🌻🌞🌻 You are one Amazing human, you are important, you matter and You are deserving of kindness, happiness, support, love and all things amazing in life! It's cool to be kind, people!🤗 Have an amazing day/ night ahead! ------------------------- MY ROLES @7 CUPS- The most important and my favourite one is to provide everyone with a  friendly, supportive,  inclusive and cheerful environment along with sharing some cookies and hugs. 🥰 🍪🌻🤗 # Trained and Verified Listener to provide quality listening to members  # Safety Patrol  (profile flagging ) Team member to try and keep the community safe for all.  # Peer Supporter (for listeners needing support after a hard or triggering chat  or in general not feeling good about their listener role and needing a space to vent about "mild" site-related issues)  # Chat Support  (I can provide support with ongoing chats to listeners)  # Listener's Verifiers Team member  (I take mock chats for listeners under the verification process)  Want to get verified? Check here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/NewAdditionalCriteriaToBecomeVerifiedListenerGoingLive_230276/] or feel free to message me for more information.  #Quality Mentor  #Listener Coach  # Global community mentor and forum supporter ( Needs Reply Team ) #Listener Chatroom Supporter  #Doorkeeper (feel free to message me if you'd like to open / close rooms)  #Ocassional- Events, Pop up discussions, listener events and safety support sessions Host  # Advisor/ Helper for the Peer Appreciation Program. Click the button below to appreciate yourself or a peer In the community  Peer Appreciation Form [https://forms.gle/hfwDBA8dTaP6bhta9] Join our team by clicking the following button: Smile Spreader [https://forms.gle/rgPfNwytBgJRChp7A] #7 cups Internship,  Leadership Development Program, Group Leadership Dynamics,  Building Community Program and the Content Development and Marketing program's graduate. ~ proud 7 Cups Academy Alumni hehe!  ------------------------- THANK YOU FOR READING, FEEL FREE TO SEND A TEXT ANYTIME, I'D LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU  SOON!  STAY AWESOME, STAY HYDRATED  and TAKE CARE! 🌻❤ #ByeByeCliques, do check out this [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupModZone_168/CommunityManagersOffice_2008/WarmWelcomeEveryoneByeByeCliqueChallenge_238987/#] post for more information and to join the movement. We are a safe and inclusive place for all, and *you* do matter! 🤗
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LovetoGod
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Heya lovely people❤ ​​​​​​ I hope everyone that is reading this is having a really good day. And if you are not, just know that in every new minute that passes you have an opportunity to change that❤ I am LovetoGod or you can call me Love! I am here as a verified active listener. I will listen to you compassionately. I will try my best to support you as a friend. I don't know much about some specific topics or I don't have experience so please scroll down for looking at the topics which I mostly talk about. If you still want to talk about any other topic then I will try my best to listen and to help you except sexual health issues. Please don't send me personal request for sexual health issues, it's my humble request. Just keep remember that your problems are valid! It's okay to not be okay! You don't have to be happy all the time! Showing emotions is healthy and okay! You are amazing just the way you are❤ Life is not easy for anyone. Ups and downs always come in the life. But, with every up and down you learn lessons which makes you more stronger. We should try to enjoy the good times and to have the courage to go through the bad ones. It takes a lot of courage to push through hard times. But, never give up because good things are coming your way. Difficult roads often lead to beautiful destinations❤ And I understand some people are really alone in their life journey but I just want to tell you that you are strong enough to fight alone and the sun is alone too but it shines! I am always there to be part of their lives who are fighting alone because they deserve lots of love, support and care❤ Some facts about me :- I am an open minded person. I am really kind hearted. I love myself. I love reading deep quotes and facts about life. I love to imagine things because it gives me pleasure. I am serious but yeh kinda crazy too. I am mature enough but I love to act childish and silly all the time. I love and admire the beauty of nature. Nature is just lovely creation of God and I go for morning and night walks. I love to experience nature, it's so calming. I love watching stars and moon. I crazily love shopping, makeup and travelling but I don't do that much lol. I want to travel around this whole world. I would love to gain different experiences of different places of the world. I am kinda religious too. I really believe in God a lot. I am foodie. Food is just love xD. But yeah I try to avoid junk food as much as I can hehe. I am kinda lazy as well as sleep is the best way to comfort myself. I don't have really much stuff to do and my hobbies doesn't last long as I do get bored of things easily but yeah I try to learn different things. I am an animal lover and I would definitely love to have a pet. YouTube and Google are my true friends who are always there for me xD. I love winters and it's my dream to experience snow once hehe. I love so so so many things but that's another thing I can't remember while writing my bio lol. I try to stay positive. And I always try to learn and improve more and more to become better than before. I guess it's enough of my facts lol. And in the end, I don't want to give up ever, I want to be strong, happy and confident and I just wanna spread positivity, love and kindness everywhere❤ 🍭𝘎𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘝𝘪𝘣𝘦𝘴🍭 👀𝘋𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘉𝘢𝘤𝘬👀 🏖𝘌𝘯𝘫𝘰𝘺 𝘓𝘪𝘧𝘦 🏖 😃𝘓𝘪𝘷𝘦,𝘓𝘰𝘷𝘦, 𝘓𝘢𝘶𝘨𝘩😃 ✨𝘊𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘚𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘦✨ 🥰𝘚𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘦 𝘔𝘰𝘳𝘦🥰 🏆𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘉𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘺𝘦𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘊𝘰𝘮𝘦🏆 💖𝘉𝘦 𝘒𝘪𝘯𝘥💖 🌊𝘒𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘔𝘰𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘍𝘰𝘳𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘥🌊 🎊𝘊𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘣𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘛𝘰𝘥𝘢𝘺🎊 📷𝘊𝘰𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘤𝘵 𝘔𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴📷 💫𝘓𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘢𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘚𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘴, 𝘓𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘚𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘠𝘰𝘶💫 😁𝘉𝘦 𝘏𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘺😁 🌼𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘔𝘢𝘨𝘪𝘤🌼 💪𝘕𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘎𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘜𝘱💪 🌝𝘉𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘓𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵🌝 🌈𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘎𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵🌈 ❤𝘓𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧❤ 🤗𝘚𝘵𝘢𝘺 𝘚𝘵𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨🤗 😗𝘞𝘢𝘳𝘮 𝘔𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘴😗 😺𝘚𝘢𝘺 𝘊𝘩𝘦𝘦𝘴𝘦😺 💝𝘉𝘦 𝘠𝘰𝘶, 𝘋𝘰 𝘠𝘰𝘶, 𝘍𝘰𝘳 𝘠𝘰𝘶💝 🍔𝘍𝘰𝘭𝘭𝘰𝘸 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘋𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘮𝘴🍔 🌻𝘙𝘪𝘴𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘚𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘦🌻 🍂𝘉𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘉𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘝𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘰𝘧 𝘠𝘰𝘶🍂 🌺𝘞𝘰𝘳𝘳𝘺 𝘓𝘦𝘴𝘴🌺 🌸𝘉𝘦 𝘎𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘧𝘶𝘭🌸 🌏𝘚𝘦𝘦 𝘉𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘺 𝘪𝘯 𝘌𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨🌏 🍩𝘉𝘦 𝘗𝘰𝘴𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦🍩 🍡𝘕𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘚𝘵𝘰𝘱 𝘋𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨🍡 ✍️𝘞𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘺✍️ 🌞𝘏𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘎𝘰𝘳𝘨𝘦𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘰𝘯 𝘠𝘰𝘶🌞 💛𝘊𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘞𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥 𝘣𝘺 𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧💛 💞𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘓𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘭𝘺💞 *You* know who is the most beautiful person in the world? Read the first word! Never ever forget, even for one moment that you are amazing and unique in your own way. Just be yourself. By being yourself, you put something wonderful in the world that was not there before❤ Thankeww for reading my long bio, I guess I could write more xD but it seems enough hehe. *sending warmest huggieessss and pizzaaa to **you lovely human** along with a cupcake*🤗🍕🧁
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Endure777
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"I'm still standing better than I ever did, looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid. I'm still standing after all this time." - Elton John My name is Endure. I have both lived and caregiver experiences with many issues; mental health conditions, homelessness, cancer, family issues, addiction, and relationship issues to name a few. I am a recovering Alcohol and drug user as well as someone who struggles with Bipolar 1, Anxiety, and ADHD.  My Roles in 7 Cups:  GSP Trainee Listener Room Supporter Depression Room Supporter Safety Patrol  
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SweetDreamer69
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Hey there ❤ Dreamer here! 24 year old from India! Due to my busy schedule and various roles here on 7 cups, I'm unable to take member chats. My roles here on 7 Cups- Verifier Team Member - I help in getting listeners verified. If you're interested in becoming a verified listener, please go through the criteria here - https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerProjectsampTeams_148/VerifiedListenersProjectVLProjectQualityProject_685/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/ Verifiers Team Outreach Mentor Leader 💙 - Please feel free to message me in case you want to join the Verifiers Team! We'd be very happy to have you on board with us! Room Supporter - Relationship Support Room and Newbie hub Room. Safety Patrol Team Member Quality Mentor - I'm taking mentees currently! feel free to drop me a message if you'd like a Quality Mentor to assist you 💜 feel free to check out my Mentor profile for the same here before messaging AL1 Grader - want to know more about AL tests? please drop me a message and I'll provide you the details 💜 AL Outreach PA💜 ATL💜 LDP Graduate "You think you're alone but you're not. It's not about what you want, it's what you got! Reach deep into your soul and pull out that strength that's been hiding inside all this time and soon you'll find that your state of mind will change for the better. You'll soon realise that pain is just like the tide of the ocean. It comes and goes. Just take it slow and soon your heart will grow back to how it once was!" ❤️
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KindnessMatters2020
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Sometimes you just need someone to talk to about something difficult, sad, frustrating, or emotionally-charged. I am happy to just listen or to help brainstorm solutions.  Besides being a verified active listener, my other roles here include: -Quality Mentor -Listener Coaching Team -Safety Patrol Outreach Team -Verifier for Verified Listener Team
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bookworm274
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Not currently taking new member chats  Hi there! I'm bookworm274 but you can just call me bookworm, book or worm. My chat style: My chat times range from 20 minutes (typically a more casual chat) to 60 minutes. However, I am always happy to do longer chats as long as they have been scheduled. Please scroll down to the list that states the topics that I am comfortable taking before asking to chat with me, thank you. Status meanings: My status is typically on Red or Orange, I hardly ever have it on Green. So please feel free to send me a message no matter what colour my status is because I may be on the site! If I'm not on the site when you send me a message then I will get back to you in a minimum of 24 hours as I check 7 Cups at least once a day for messages!  My roles: Verified Listener - I have been verified for my active listening skills which means you can trust that I am a high quality listener! Project Agent - I am a Project Agent for the 7 Cups Leadership Community mainly focusing on the Needs Reply team as the team-lead and onboarding new Forum Supporters but also working on overall subcommunity areas. Listener Twins: @tami150 - my first 7Cups twin - if I'm unavailable check out her account. She's an amazing listener and person and super sweet and helpful!  @Azalea98  - my supportive twin - she's super amazing and is always there to support me!   
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audienta
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Bio in German/auf Deutsch [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YWfxu7AqLNtqkRbzt_u5kePsWKYc6s4jVEkxXFrFdrk/edit] ------------------------- Due to my health, I might be offline for some days without a warning from time to time. But don't worry, eventually I'll come back. ------------------------- About me Hey, I am audienta (they/them). I have been here on 7 Cups since 2017, so I have had the chance to gather a lot of experiences I am very grateful for. Sometimes life just does not work like we would like it to, but the conversations showed me again and again how resilient we as human beings are. My own mental and physical health have been challenging me for a while now. I have had to learn how to set boundaries and listen to my own needs. There are days when I can do that and there are others where it does not work. And that is okay. We all give our best to accept and live our life. I had the honour to be interviewed for the Living with Leaders series [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/LivingwithLeaders_2290/InnerWisdomandLight_280987/], so if you want to know more about me, that might be an option. ------------------------- Offers and Boundaries My Offers: Trained, verified active Listener: I take 1-1 member chats which take between 30 and 60 minutes and listen to you. I am a patient and non-judgemental listener. I cannot give you advice, but I can ask questions and am open to offer peer support and share my experiences if you wish that. Adult Teen Listener: I can take chats from adults as well as from teens. Chat Topics that I have experience with and am okay to talk about: * Anxiety * Autism Spectrum Disorder * Bullying * Chronic Illness * Dissociative Disorders * LGBTQ+ * Self-Care * Student Life Languages: I can listen to you in English, German and Swissgerman. My Boundaries:  Only offline chats: I'll respond to your messages within 1-3 days, but I'm currently not able to do live chats. Chat Topics that I am not able to provide support for because of a lack of experience or trigger risk: * Family Stress * Financial Stress * Parenting * Relationship Stress/Breakups * Self Harm * Sexual Health * Weight Management ------------------------- Projects Trauma Support Community Mentor Leader: I support the trauma support sub-community as a community mentor leader. If you have feedback, questions or ideas regarding this community, please leave me a pm or use this form:  Trauma Sub-Community Feedback Form [https://forms.gle/tvajKJmLKhqfxwrH9] Anonymous Evaluations Outreach Team Quality Mentor Leader: I make sure that people who had three good evaluations get a chance to be verified and listeners who need help get connected to the Listener Coaching Team. Sub-Community Leadership Team (PA): I'm helping with recruiting and onboarding new forum supporters. Quality Mentor: As a mentor, I can take you as a mentee. I can help you improve your listening skills, do mock chats with you, give you resources, provide emotional support, and answer your questions. Chat Supporter: If you struggle with an ongoing chat, I can provide tips and resources to you. I can do that either in the Listener Support Room, or, if you need to describe the chat with more than 5 words, in the pms.  Adult Teen Listener with the Peter Pan, Teen Chat Support, and Teen Quality Mentor badge: I can provide support to adult and teen listeners. Doorkeeper: You can pm me if you want a room opened or closed. ------------------------- Most Important Resources Suicidal ideation, self harm: On 7 Cups we cannot offer crisis support.  7 Cups Crisis [/www.7cups.com/crisis] Chat Support: If you are a listener and need help with an ongoing chat, take a look at the linked document. Chat Support [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/edit] New Listener Links: If you are a new listener, the following document with a bunch of links might be helpful to you. New Listener Links [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1LTMvBFOgWICNHLlfNvzeQf2vkF3PPRn_jQUxJxjASOk/edit] ------------------------- Smile and take care everyone! :) audienta ------------------------- PS: A big thank you to my great peers who showed me so much love, acceptance, and appreciation during the last couple of years! You really made my life a little brighter. Tagging my twinnie @MelodyoftheOcean.
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Asher
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Hello, my name is Asher. I'm currently a student working on my Master of Business Administration/ Master of Public Health. Looking forward to working with you. I have also provided 5,000 hours of Peer Support for those in need, while focusing on a holistic approach for each member. I do take all issues and will support you on them to the best of my ability (except issues of suicide or active self-harm) 7 Cups Leadership Roles Project Lead, Being Asher Former Roles Community Ambassador  Executive Editor, 7 Cups Newsletter Community Admin Support, Group Support in Community Engagement Community Mentor Leader of 7 Cups Leadership Quality Mentor, Safety Patrol Outreach Team  Project Lead of International Resource Database Chatroom Support/ Teen Chatroom Support Safety Patrol Outreach Team  Peer Support / Teen Peer Support Forum Supporter, Need Replies "Cause I'll be there when you can finally make it home"                                                                 - Missing Piece, Vance Joy "We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly"                                             - Up, Disney            "Go big, get loud, or go home. You gotta check that bucket list before going to the crypt"                                                                                        - Chaz Cardigom                                                 
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Mari228
L Specialist 505
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Hello I’m M (please refer me as M in chats and conversations). Please don’t request me regarding sex health related topics. I want to build my skills in listening, understanding and working together with others. I like plush animals, nature, anime, mysticism, journaling, and traveling (whether in real or virtual). **Currently Long-Term Listener, Peer Supporter, Adult-Teen Listener, Listener Discussion Host, Academy Mentor**
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Elise849
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**not taking casual chats** Hey there! I will do my best to provide support and/or insight, whichever is wanted or needed! Just drop me a message if you want to talk :)  ------------ policies: 1. due to reasons, i will only be accepting members who are open to helping themselves. if you don't want to help yourself, any external help is futile, and i will not waste my time or breath talking to people who are not open to any sort of development. this doesn't mean that you have to agree with me 100% of the time, only that you have to be open to thinking deeply about your situation. 2. i am not taking any new offline chats (aka if you leave me a text when i'm offline and we have no previous record of chatting.) 3. full respect, I do not accept requests to talk about: - politics - lgbtq+ - sexual health - alcohol and smoking issues - incest, friends with benefits and taboo relationships - infidelity, relationships involving infidelity or suspicions of infidelity ------------ ✨no the cat in my profile pic is not mine✨   ✨judgement free zone ;D✨  ✨if you try to be sexual i can and will block you immediately :D cheers!✨ You're very welcome to leave a review or simply let me know how you felt the chat went. Teamwork makes the dream work! ;)   pronouns: she/her --------   Quotes: (cuz i can, so i will :D)   "Everything you ever wanted is on the other side of fear." - George Addair   ---   "Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear." - Nelson Mandela   ---   "And ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation." - Khalil Gibran   ---   "How lucky we are to be loved, even for a moment." - Barbara Hamby   ---   "This is my last message to you: in sorrow, choose happiness." - Fyodor Dostoevsky, adapted   ---   "Facing it--always facing it-- that's the way to get through." - Jospeh Conrad, Typhoon   ---   "When you are on your way looking for a life, don't forget to live." - Mahmoud Darwish   ---   "People at war with themselves will always cause collateral damage to the lives of those around them." - John Green   ---   "In the struggle you end up learning." - Jean Luc Godard, Masculin-Feminin   ---   "For a star to be born, there is one thing that must happen: a gaseous nebula must collapse. So collapse. Crumble. This is not your destruction. This is your birth." - Zoe Skylar   ---   "Your now is not your forever." - John Green, Turtles All The Way Down   ---   "Mostly it is loss that teaches us the worth of things." - Arthur Schopenhauer, The Wisdom of Life   ---   "You are trying to close that door because you're scared. But you won't always be scared." - I Origins   ---   "We can't change the past. What we can do is choose how we move forward." - The Way Back   ✨Keep going guys! Cheering for you! Airdropping you lots of love and light! :D ✨
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dudewithaplan
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Hello to you, i believe that i can help with personal experience about whatever your journey is take you here... Merhabalar,  kişisel deneyimlerim ile de yardım edebileceğime ve seni buraya getiren deneyimde yanında olmak için buradayım... For frequent members: Offline request can be send between UTC+3 time 18.00-24.00 which may be return to you due to availability.  Üyeler için: Türkiye saatine göre 18.00-24.00 arasında çevrimdışı olduğum durumlarda da mesaj gönderebilirsiniz. Müsait olma durumunda geri dönüş yapılacaktır.    
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QuietMagic
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Hi, my name is Josh. 💜 If you'd like to chat with me in real-time, you can use my booking form HERE [https://quietmagic7cups.youcanbook.me/] to schedule a 60-minute chat. Alternatively, if you'd like to chat via offline messages, can send me a PM and I’ll try my best to respond within 24-48 hours; my responses may be slower over the weekend. I don't specialize in any particular topics and am willing to talk to anyone about anything.
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