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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

quietlistener2023
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If I am not online just leave a message and I will try to get back to you as soon as possible  تحياتي أتمنى أن تكون بخير. أنا مستمع مدرب عبر الإنترنت وقد أجريت دورات وحصلت على شهادة في الدعم النفسي وقمت بالتدريب كمعالج. لا تتردد في مناقشة كل ما يزعجك. أنا مؤهل أيضًا في الدراسات الإسلامية ، لذا لا تتردد في مناقشة الموضوعات ذات الصلة
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LilacLeopard
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⭐️Currently not accepting new member support chats, due to my roles on here. Thank you for understanding ⭐️ To my Long term members ~If you would like to book a chat with me that is still possible, just leave me a PM and we will find a time to chat🌸 Profile pic by the amazing @FrenchMarbles!  ------------------------- About me⭐️ Hi my name is Lilac or Leopard and I have been a listener here since 2014 however on an old account! I am currently a psychology and counselling student and I enjoy and find fulfilment in supporting others. I will do my very best to support you with whatever you are going through and I am open to taking on casual chats if that is what you need at the time! I have been through much in life and I am hoping through my experiences I able to help others! Topics I am well versed in⭐️ ~ Depression ~Anxiety ~Self-harm ~Ptsd/Cptsd ~ Student life struggles ~ Chronic pain ~Bullying ------------------------- Roles I have on here⭐️ ~Quality mentor ~Safety patrol ~Anonymous Evaluator ~ Adult-teen listener ~ Chatroom supporter in P&G ~ DoorKeeper ~Listener Chatroom Supporter ------------------------- Things I can help with as a  quality and academy mentor⭐️ ~ Provide mock chats and help improve and build your active listening skills ~ Verify mentees/listeners  ~Provide helpful links or links you are looking for from the forums ~ Answer questions you have about the platform  Thanks for reading 💜
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Yourstruly2000
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chats i dont take: self harm, loneliness Get in here!! Everything will be alright , we will figure this out together, Do not worry!! I am here for you.
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StarlitSky4762
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Personal update 04/19/2022 [forum link] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/BorderlinePersonalityDisorderSupportCommunity_81/General_2436/starlitskypersonalupdatelearningtobalancelearningtosayno_303441/] I am a community leader for the Personality Disorders community. (currently semi-active) Please note: all upcoming groups are listed on the Community calendar [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] - use CTRL+F to search "personality disorders" Topics: DBT/mindfulness, understanding schemas, healing shame & self-compassion >> Everyone is welcome!! No diagnosis is needed. <<    If you are new to 7cups and want to unlock the "Topic Rooms" like Personality disorder room, follow these steps  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/CommunityManagersOffice_2008/NewCriteriaUpdatesGroupChatsEasierToAccessNow_280544/]https://tinyurl.com/36h5cr6h For LISTENERS: How to support members with personality disorder - 7 Cups Forum [https://www.7cups.com/forum/BorderlinePersonalityDisorderSupportCommunity_81/ResourcesInformationonPersonalityDisorders_459/ResourceListenerguidestosupportingmemberswithpersonalitydisorder_233845/]  ( + more resources [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerSupportGuidesMockChatTranscripts_1850/PersonalityDisorderChats_233827/1/])  Click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/PersonalityDisorderSupportCommunityTeamEvents_432/NavigatingPersonalityDisordersCommunityandEventsMasterThread_254844/] for a masterpost about what the Personality Disorders community provides. I am not taking new 1-to-1 member chats, except for members who participate in Personality Disorders groups.  Apply to be a Room Supporter [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSetyJ7jp7W52-EIpqvFYLhfmpsgTW4BbzUwmi9r22OQ9AdH8w/viewform?fbzx=1067715697025948349] for the Personality Disorders team!! Both Members and Listeners are welcome to join!!  Resources: DBT Resources:  *  A guide to naming emotions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/ForumandGroupSupportDiscussions_1312/Howdoyoufeelacolorfulguidetonamingemotions_238928/] *  DBT Mindfulness skills (beginner's guide)     [the "WHAT" Skills: Observe, Describe, Participate [https://dbtselfhelp.com/dbt-skills-list/mindfulness/what-skills/]        & "HOW" Skills: One-Mindfully, Non-Judgmentally, Effectively [https://dbtselfhelp.com/dbt-skills-list/mindfulness/how-skills/]] * DBT videos [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjZkvz33S-5_i6Ri12X0SwQ/playlists] (free, high quality, created by a therapist) * https://dialecticalbehavioraltherapy.wordpress.com/wise-mind/  * 7cups - DBTuesday Masterpost [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/DBTuesday_2147/DBTuesdayMasterpost_274756/?post=2996298]with almost all skills! * https://dbtselfhelp.com/ - excellent, free Dialectical Behavioral Therapy Self-Help resource * Dialectical Behavior Therapy [https://dialecticalbehaviortherapy.com/] - lots of free worksheets --------------------------------------------------------------------- *  Treatment resources [https://tinyurl.com/ysunhxtv] (treatment types for personality disorders, provider database, low-cost options, & peer support) *  Out of the Fog [https://outofthefog.website/] - is a resource for people affected by personality disorders and their loved ones.           *  Coping Toolbox  [https://outofthefog.website/what-to-do-1]for individuals and loved ones          *  Collection of resource links [https://outofthefog.website/links]  General resources:  *  My favorite CBT skill: ACE technique [https://drive.google.com/file/d/1HVRlsYHeFBTRVjfqyPXwPU4D9YuHV-cq/view?usp=sharing] for balance in life [source [https://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/ace.htm]] *  free CBT worksheets [https://thinkcbt.com/think-cbt-worksheets]  *  general self-help [https://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/sitemap/#]  *  Resource kit - coping with anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupportCommunity_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/Resourcekitcopingwithanxiety_255863/] *  Developing your support system [https://www.7cups.com/forum/DepressionSupportCommunity_52/CopingWithLoneliness_599/Developingyoursupportsystemideasandresources_241138/] *  Crisis Resources [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines]
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MonicaQu
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Hola soy Monica una oyente aqui para apoyarle. Puede hablar sobre de lo que esta en su mente.  Hello, I'm MonicaQu a listener glad that you came across my profile and more than welcome to message me.  I am able to talk to teens as I teach 15 and 16 years old. Also I can talk about most topics with adults about  anxiety, relationship problems, school problems just to name a few. I am able to talk about sex related topics but with not too much information. All other topics I'm fine with such as chats on Bipolar, depression and issues to do with Weight Management and Eating Disorders as I have family members who deal with these. You can message me offline to make an appointment . I'm free most weekends during the day or night and sometimes around 5pm until 6pm on Monday to Thursday. Or else you can send me daily messages telling me about your days. In my chats, I usually can talk for 40 minutes then continue another day and talk to only one person at a time. Listening to you, means a lot as I know some things you can't go to a friend or family member that it is easier to do where you are anonymous.  In my chats, you can expect a non-judgemental place and feel like you are talking to a friend.  I can take chats in English or Spanish.   For listeners,  I am a teen/adult listener and have been a member since 2014 so you can come to me for any problems or if you want to refer a chat you can tell them my username.  You can find me in Listener Support Room, or High School Room for teens. I am also part of the Spanish Speaking group so if you come across a Spanish speaker or you are a Spanish speaker yourself, send me a message. :)   Some cool information about me : I'm an Anthropologist and study Spanish at university. I have been in Ecuador for 3 and a half years now. I'm originally from New Zealand.  I have been involved in a variety of projects like the : Red Cross, Refugee Service and I am a yellow ambassador where students at my school could come to me to talk a bit like 7cups but in real life.  I really like coffee and like to use Stumbleupon as it interests me to see what random page I come across. I also like to destress by going to rumba (dancing latin rhythms at the gym)  
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friendlytalk
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Hey My name is Mayank & I am a Verified Listner from Delhi . Would love to hear from you incase you need to share your story, I don't judge and I respect people from all walks of life. . All emotions are valid, what you are feeling is never wrong. Feel free to contact me. When I am online, i will try to respond you As soon as i can but if i am offline, just leave a message and will revert back to you. . The only advice i give is to Live the Life to the Fullest, it happens only once
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Here4good74
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*sorry, I don't take sexual-health chats or anything related to that* Hello,  This's Jane - she/her (or whatever I don't really mind). I'd love to welcome you here where you can vent and I'll listen, providing no judgment but only support and compassion. ~You've got this. I believe in you~ ------------------------- Roles: - Chatroom moderator (Newbie Hub, Depression Support). - Peer supporter. I can help provide emotional support for fellow listeners after a distressing chat, and help them improve their skills. Feel free to PM me. - check-in host for the appreciation team: I host an Appreciation Check-In session every Saturday 5pm (est), feel free to join me in the Teen Positivity Corner room!  Peer Appreciation Form [https://forms.gle/hfwDBA8dTaP6bhta9] Smile Spreader [https://forms.gle/rgPfNwytBgJRChp7A]  - Room supporter. - Listener verifier. - Sharing Circle host. ------------------------- "There is nothing more truly artistic than to love people." ~Vincent Van Gogh ------------------------- Please note (1) I only take chats on the topics which are mentioned on the categories, for other topics, please browse other listeners here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] Please note (2) if I'm busy, please give me 48 hours to reply. And when I'm offline, I don't respond to members, and if I did, I would probably refer them to other listeners. Please note (3) you can expect your 1-on-1 chat with me to last for an hour. You can also expect a follow-up in a range of 48 hours after the chat is over, to check in on you and see how things are going. You can expect me to be thorough with answers and resources (only 7Cups resources, no resources off site), and I'm always here for you. You can always ask to be one of my long-term members. it'll be ok.. want a cookie? 🍪  🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
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fromthewindow1
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I am a student that is passionate about helping others and wants everyone to achieve whatever they want in life.
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betty212
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Hi, I will try my best to listen to your thoughts and feelings and make you feel less alone in this world. I hope my words help you. Reaching out is a great thing, a strong thing. Sometimes just talking helps. 
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SophTheListener2022
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I'm a Sophomore in College I live in NYC, I listen to details, I respect any and all decisions made. I'm a person you can be honest with. I support the LGBT+ community. Overall, I'm a person who respects all.  Online: I'm free to talk.  Busy: I'm either working on different stuff or working on the site but on different things. Offline: I'm just sleeping lol. 99% of the time I'll be online. If not, just send me a message, and I will get back to you for sure. :) Some more fun facts about me: I like swimming. I do a lot of cooking. I like visiting new places. I love meeting new people every day. I love helping people in general. I'm 20 years old.  I'm addicted to the color blue. Self-roles on 7 Cups - Verified Listener- I've been verified by the 7 Cups Community. (Active)  
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Alwaysthereforyou28
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As a listener, I hope to create an environment where it is comfortable for you to share your feelings to make yourself feel better.  From the bottom of my heart, I really hope that by listening, I can create a better world for everyone and that all of you are happy, healthy and safe and are enjoying your lives to the fullest.  
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