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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

N0rlin22
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Peace and blessings among you all. I would like to send out a message to all of you. When so many people ask themselves on a daily “why me? Why was I the one to go through all the burdens in this life?”. They don’t understand that God gives tests to the strongest of soldiers, this is what we believe in the religion Islam. This life is a test, & God has given us that free will in this life and we will be judged accordingly after death. Islam teaches that in order for us to freely perform in the test of life, He has given us free will to lead our lives as we wish, but the outcome of each of our actions is governed by the will of God. Islam is the only monotheistic religion. We worship and obey one and only God.  PROOF ISLAM IS THE ONE AND ONLY TRUE RELIGION. All of this was written in the Quran 1400 years ago. HUMAN CREATION: “We made the sperm-drop into a clinging clot, and We made the clot into a lump [of flesh], and We made [from] the lump, bones, and We covered the bones with flesh; then We developed him into another creation. So blessed is Allah, the best of creators [23:14].” LIFE: We made every living thing from water. Will they not believe?" (Quran 21:30) Recently it has been discovered that the Pacific & Atlantic oceans do not mix. You can search up a picture. This was already written by the Creator himself.  “He Released the two seas, meeting [side by side]; * Between them is a barrier [so] neither of them transgresses. (55:19 [https://quran.com/55/19-20])  IRON: For the people of today, iron is a metal that is found on earth. However, according to scientists today, the original source of iron is not a metal of this earth rather it came from space. Quran mentions iron in the following way: "We sent down iron, in which is (material for) mighty war, as well as many benefits for mankind." (57:25) JUGULAR VEIN: “Indeed, ˹it is˺ We ˹Who˺ created humankind and ˹fully˺ know what their souls whisper to them, and We are closer to them than ˹their˺ jugular vein.” The Jugular is the CLOSEST vein in our body. God mentions he is closer to us then that vein, how in the world would anyone know this? 
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introspectiveCat1022
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Married, father of two. Educated, well-traveled, kind and empathetic listener. Love helping others solve problems. I have personally benefited from therapy and know the benefit of talking to someone who can help. I look fwd to giving back.
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soul922
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I’m here to help people and support them, sorry I'm not available for a casual chat from both listeners & members I can't help and support in:  - Sexual topics  -Relationships topics -LGBT topics -loneliness I'm interested in psychology, I have been reading and learning about healing from traumas and how to have good mental health. Facing hard times can't be easy, but it can be easier when you understand yourself and your feelings, and when you understand the message from each situation and use it to be a better version of yourself. It's one life, when you lose yourself, you lose everything, and when you have yourself, you have the world. 
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Rainboho
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I'm Missy, a verified listener and would be honored to listen and support you!  🏳️‍🌈 LGBTQIA+ 🧡 Porn/sex issues & their partners ❣️ Addiction accountability partnership 💚 Cannabis (medical & otherwise)  💜 Spiritual, trans-personal crisis  💖 Confidence in love & lust  💗 New relationships  💛 Alcohol issues  💙 Survivors of child abuse  ❤️‍🩹 Living with chronic disease ❤️ Self love acceptance  💕 Mixed orientation relationships 💔 Relationship breakdowns 🖤 Grief & accepting mortality 🐶 Grieving pet loss 🐰 Animal rights advocacy support (for activists and vegan/vegetarians) If I'm set to busy or away please know I'll reply as soon as I return.
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daydreammemories
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Hi ~Just a human being 🌿 (-Currently on a break from taking new personal chat requests, thanks for understanding ^^ . My current member buddies, feel free to message whenever you want 😄) ------------------------- I'll be there for you              When the rain starts to pour ; ) " There is still a joker roaming around the world. He will make sure that the world never rests. Whenever possible -and wherever possible - a little fool will jump out wearing long donkey ears and jingling bells. He will look deep into our eyes and ask, who are we? Where do we come from? " Jostein Gaarder, The Solitaire Mystery ♧ ------------------------- Dear fellow reader, how have you been? 😊 I’ve been meaning to write this for a while now, and I finally took the courage to do so. I appreciate your patience going through my profile. We are stuck in a world with tons of problems, each and every one of us carries their own. These problems can change, but from my own personal experience, there is never a time when we don’t have any. I can relate to that as well, I know you do too. BUT, the way we approach our problems matter. That’s what helps us grow. I know we might never recover from our pains, our bad memories are always going to be a part of us as well, although, the important part is that they get lost between the good ones. I’m not going to tell you what to do and what not to do, but to let you know that my main reason to be here is that I simply care. I want to be with you when making tough decisions, when dealing with something harsh which life threw at you. I’m not a saint or an agnel. I make mistakes and take some actions that I might end up regretting, I’m not going to judge you when you do as such. Pinky promise. ------------------------- Some things that I’ve come to learn during my life: (The list will be updated during time lol) ✨You can’t be the hero in everyone’s story. ✨You don’t need to keep everyone satisfied to feel happy. ✨Take your steps based on what feels right to you, not everyone else’s. ✨Space and time make some things better, if you’re not sure they apply to a situation, try them. ✨We all gain our initial deep motive to help us keep going in hard situations during time. Time certainly makes you a master. Take your time, and build that motive. This doesn’t mean that you will go through challenges happily, but to solely be able to get through them eventually. ✨I agree that even best friends can’t be hundred percent there for each other, I agree that us as listeners have our own issues going on as well. But I truly believe you might still find someone caring about you in silence. If you feel like troubles are there weighing on you, and it feels harsh to move on carrying those burdens, I’m here to help easing up that pain as much as I can. ------------------------- About me: 🕊️A fellow soul in my 20s, searching for the meaning of life and pursuing my passion in college. 🕊️I love learning new languages. 🕊️I’m passionate about reading, listening to music, and hiking. 🕊️I love reading mystery novels and watching movies in this genre.  🕊️Friends and Modern Family are my two comfort shows. 🕊️I'm a pretty good photographer 📷. 🕊️Green is my favorite color 💚.  🕊️I am here to at least make another fellow soul feel a bit better.  May all your days be blessed, Take care!😇 “Message in a bottle is all I can do Standing here hoping this gets to you” T.S. 😊 💕
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Endure777
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"I'm still standing better than I ever did, looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid. I'm still standing after all this time." - Elton John My name is Endure. I have both lived and caregiver experiences with many issues; mental health conditions, homelessness, cancer, family issues, addiction, and relationship issues to name a few. I am a recovering Alcohol and drug user as well as someone who struggles with Bipolar 1, Anxiety, and ADHD.  My Roles in 7 Cups:  GSP Trainee Listener Room Supporter Depression Room Supporter Safety Patrol  
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HigherFlyer
L Explorer 7 480
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I'm a young person hoping to help make changes in the lives of those who need it! A bit about me: I'm an 'Advocate' (INFJ-T). I'm Non-binary,Asexual and Pansexual. I also have anxiety and autism. (Work in progress!)
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audienta
L Guru 5 974
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Bio in German/auf Deutsch [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YWfxu7AqLNtqkRbzt_u5kePsWKYc6s4jVEkxXFrFdrk/edit] ------------------------- Due to my health, I might be offline for some days without a warning from time to time. But don't worry, eventually I'll come back. ------------------------- About me Hey, I am audienta (they/them). I have been here on 7 Cups since 2017, so I have had the chance to gather a lot of experiences I am very grateful for. Sometimes life just does not work like we would like it to, but the conversations showed me again and again how resilient we as human beings are. My own mental and physical health have been challenging me for a while now. I have had to learn how to set boundaries and listen to my own needs. There are days when I can do that and there are others where it does not work. And that is okay. We all give our best to accept and live our life. I had the honour to be interviewed for the Living with Leaders series [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/LivingwithLeaders_2290/InnerWisdomandLight_280987/], so if you want to know more about me, that might be an option. ------------------------- Offers and Boundaries My Offers: Trained, verified active Listener: I take 1-1 member chats which take between 30 and 60 minutes and listen to you. I am a patient and non-judgemental listener. I cannot give you advice, but I can ask questions and am open to offer peer support and share my experiences if you wish that. Adult Teen Listener: I can take chats from adults as well as from teens. Chat Topics that I have experience with and am okay to talk about: * Anxiety * Autism Spectrum Disorder * Bullying * Chronic Illness * Dissociative Disorders * LGBTQ+ * Self-Care * Student Life Languages: I can listen to you in English, German and Swissgerman. My Boundaries:  Only offline chats: I'll respond to your messages within 1-3 days, but I'm currently not able to do live chats. Chat Topics that I am not able to provide support for because of a lack of experience or trigger risk: * Family Stress * Financial Stress * Parenting * Relationship Stress/Breakups * Self Harm * Sexual Health * Weight Management ------------------------- Projects Trauma Support Community Mentor Leader: I support the trauma support sub-community as a community mentor leader. If you have feedback, questions or ideas regarding this community, please leave me a pm or use this form:  Trauma Sub-Community Feedback Form [https://forms.gle/tvajKJmLKhqfxwrH9] Anonymous Evaluations Outreach Team Quality Mentor Leader: I make sure that people who had three good evaluations get a chance to be verified and listeners who need help get connected to the Listener Coaching Team. Sub-Community Leadership Team (PA): I'm helping with recruiting and onboarding new forum supporters. Quality Mentor: As a mentor, I can take you as a mentee. I can help you improve your listening skills, do mock chats with you, give you resources, provide emotional support, and answer your questions. Chat Supporter: If you struggle with an ongoing chat, I can provide tips and resources to you. I can do that either in the Listener Support Room, or, if you need to describe the chat with more than 5 words, in the pms.  Adult Teen Listener with the Peter Pan, Teen Chat Support, and Teen Quality Mentor badge: I can provide support to adult and teen listeners. Doorkeeper: You can pm me if you want a room opened or closed. ------------------------- Most Important Resources Suicidal ideation, self harm: On 7 Cups we cannot offer crisis support.  7 Cups Crisis [/www.7cups.com/crisis] Chat Support: If you are a listener and need help with an ongoing chat, take a look at the linked document. Chat Support [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/edit] New Listener Links: If you are a new listener, the following document with a bunch of links might be helpful to you. New Listener Links [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1LTMvBFOgWICNHLlfNvzeQf2vkF3PPRn_jQUxJxjASOk/edit] ------------------------- Smile and take care everyone! :) audienta ------------------------- PS: A big thank you to my great peers who showed me so much love, acceptance, and appreciation during the last couple of years! You really made my life a little brighter. Tagging my twinnie @MelodyoftheOcean.
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winfleur
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    ┄┄ ︰ ┄୨୧┄ ︰ ┄┄    ᕬ­ᕬ­⠀⠀ ⊹⠀⠀ ִ ⠀ Hello! I am available 24/7 to listen to you and offer support. I only take chats with the topics that are in my profile, I would appreciate if you take a look 💜                ⠀ִ ⠀ ⠀ׂׂ    
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Smalltownpoet12
L Helper 9 44
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I really enjoy listening to individual's. Sometimes all a person needs is someone to listen, and not provide advice, just listen. Sometimes my phone doesn't notify me of when I get a new message. Please be aware of that.
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calmingUnicorns10
L Master 1 1271
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I want you to know that I'm here for you, truly and wholeheartedly. 🤗 While I may not have all the solutions to your problems, I promise to stand by your side until the very end. My purpose here is to guide you and illuminate the path ahead. ✨ If ever needed, I will provide gentle warnings to help you navigate with care. Consider me your unwavering source of support, ready to extend a helping hand whenever you need it. 🤝 You are free to express yourself openly, knowing that I will embrace your words without any judgment. 💙 As Helen Keller once said, 'I would rather walk with a friend in the dark than alone in the light.' 🌙 Life can be incredibly challenging, and during those trying times, all you truly desire is a compassionate listener. You don't have to face these hardships alone. Just reach out to me whenever I'm online or leave a message, and I'll respond to you as swiftly as possible. 📩 Remember, you are never alone on this journey. 🌟
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CallumCares421
L Expert 7 110
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I am not accepting any member chats at the moment Hi. I'm Callum or Cal. :D 🖐 If you are in crisis or suicidal, please reach out to your local emergency services, or refer to this guide https://www.7cups.com/crisis/. [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/] Best wishes to you to get the support you need 🧡 I have other nicknames too- Cal Cal, Callico, Calciumm Callie, Callito, Cal-culator and Ghost Cal👻 I am a doorkeeper if you need a room open/closed, let me know 🚪 RIP Met Gala Cockroach 2023🪳 Sometimes we go through hard things in life, and we need a shoulder to cry on.  I'd love to be that person for you. Teeny but important note: YOU MATTER, AND DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHERWISE <3 I have epilepsy and type one diabetes if anyone ever wants a listener that has been through that. Dogs are my favorite animal, having one of my own named Lena. I also have three terrible kittens named Cleo, Charlie, and Smokey 7cups roles!: ☕ Moderator in newbie hub (TCR) 🤗 Room supporter in depression support 🌞 LDP graduate 🚩 LSC Hoster 🕳 Listener Chatroom Supporter 🫶 Peer Supporter in Listener Chatroom 🫂 Teen Star Program! ⭐ Due to personal experience and lack of knowledge, I am not comfortable supporting you if you need support with:🚫 - Domestic Vi*lence - Men's issues - Relationship ab*se - Sexual wellness (this does not include sexual orientation) - Spirituality/Religion - Women's issues Yay! You read to the end! *gives berries🍓 🫐* Ghost Cal comes out at night :p Quotes:  "I wAnT dR. ChArLeS"- Ramona, Chicago Med "Oh, I'm just standing here awkwardly staring at you because I have issues!" -Callum "Find a new Wednesday friend" - The school social worker to my friend when she takes me because of our weekly meetings. 😮👻😜👽🙀🤯✨😎🤓🧡🌺🍄🌵☃🐕‍🦺🐣🦞🎻🎹🏳‍🌈👑🏳‍⚧😮👻😜👽🙀🤯✨😎🤓🧡🌺🍄🌵☃🐕‍🦺🐣🦞🎻🎹🏳‍🌈👑🏳‍⚧😮👻😜👽🙀🤯✨😎🤓🧡🌺🍄🌵☃
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