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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

wintertale3112
L Beginner 9 43
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Hi, I love to help other people. If you wanna talk, you can message me and I am going to respond to you as quickly as I can. I won't judge you.
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VerseArt
L Veteran 3 1922
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Hello, I am here just to listen and help. I hope my words bring you some comfort and motivation to move ahead. Just know that I'm all ears when I'm with you. I will try my best to create a "happy place" for you where you feel safe. 7 cups is a safe place, a no-judge area. It's on you how much you want to or doesn't want to share. I understand how difficult it can be to trust someone online and I'll make sure that we work together towards building the trust and hence listen to and support you in whatever way I can.  Stay Motivated! Stay Strong! Stay Safe! P.S. I do not take any Sexual or inappropriate chats. I personally never use any offensive or abusive language and will expect the same from you as well. If I feel uncomfortable, I will have to block you after 3 warnings.  Thank you for reading! Have a great day ahead! 
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Mya000
L Sage 10 1865
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🌷 Hi there! I'm Mya, a 23-year-old verified volunteer listener for adults. I am fluent in both English and French, and I'm here to lend an empathetic ear and provide support. I serve in various roles: * Chat Supporter for Listeners * Community Mentor for the Women's Issues Community * Forum Supporter for the Positivity & Gratitude Community * Doorkeeper 🐌 I usually don't respond quickly due to the high volume of messages I receive, but rest assured that I make it a point to reply to every message within 2–3 days at most. Your patience is greatly appreciated, as I am doing my best to be there for each of you. 🪻 If you prefer a real-time conversation, we can schedule a live chat lasting up to one hour. I am typically available between 8 AM to 12 AM EDT on Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Saturdays. Please let me know your availability so that we can find a suitable time that works for both of us. 🐦 Mutual respect is essential for meaningful conversations. I won't tolerate any form of disrespect or discrimination towards myself or anyone else. This space is safe, and everyone deserves to be treated with kindness and understanding. 🌼 Please don't hesitate to reach out whenever you need someone to talk to. I'm here for you, ready to listen and support. Take care of yourself! ------------------------- 🚫 Please note that I don't engage in chats about sexual issues. If you're seeking support about this topic, I recommend finding another listener: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/
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RoshanaShabanii
L Master 5 1015
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Breathing creature.
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Hope01257
L Proficient 10 1793
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Hey! I just want you to know that life is not always hard, it's beautiful actually. Even if sometimes it sucks. Go for a walk. Breathe fresh air. Admire the nature. And have hope. Smile...A lot! Don't give up! I am here if you need me😊
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ladylazarus0
L Intermediate 7 341
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jovialSunshine5049
L Discoverer 281
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I'm currently with 7days offline response time. If you want to have a talk at once, please click here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] to browse more awesome listeners About talking languages: Hi!Here to support people who use english and chinese.我会中文😃 Subjects i dont take: I don't take Family stress, Financial Stress, Men's& Women's Issues, Schizophrenia and Sexual Health.Being so sorry... My statues: online/green means i am avaliable to take new requests, feel free to contact me please busy/orange means i'm taking scheduled chats or busy in other roles in 7cups, it may take about 3mins for me to reply offline/red means i'm unable to take chats. But please do not hesitate to leave a message anytime! About me: My pronouns are she/her and I love exploring new languages and knowledges. I'm a super K-HIPHOP lover, also being a fan of Stray Kids, Day6, and Twice.Feel free to message me, I'll reply asap💙 ​​​​My roles on 7cups: --verified listener&verifier team member It means i'm verified by a verifier on listening skills/ is able to do mock chats for listeners who wanna be verified. However, i may not suitable for you too, click here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] to browse more wonderful listeners💙 --safety patrol member I'm a member of the 7cups safety patrol to help flagging the inappropriate accounts --peer supporter I'm a peer supporter, who is here to help listeners after their tough member chats. Dont hesitate to PM please ​​​​--translation team i'm the leader of chinese translation project, feel free to contact me if you want to join🧡 My mentor(link clickable): @ [https://www.7cups.com/@Azalea98]Azalea98 [https://www.7cups.com/@Azalea98] lovely queen helps me a lot thank you so much!!! My listener friends(links clickable): @shiningSky3745 [https://www.7cups.com/@shiningSky3745]  the frist ps i've talked. amazing shawesome and great listener yeahhhhh ​​@Greenchoice1 [https://www.7cups.com/@Greenchoice1] everyone here in 7cups is smart and makes a green choice, so dont miss green!!! @starmelon7 [https://www.7cups.com/@starmelon7] my night friend for our chat always be good night since the time difference. and i love her shawesome emjoys!! Listeners i love to talk and wanna be friends(links clickable): @Mmishi [https://www.7cups.com/@Mmishi] mishi was my first listener when i was a member lol. she's quite amazing awesome tysm!!!
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MagicSky28202
L Explorer 323
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Hello, I'm eager to help anyone who is going through a tough time :)  Have hope and you'll get by!
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Rui00
L Intermediate 3 140
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Unfortunately due to school, long term members and other roles I'm not able to take new 1-1 chats. If I talked to you before, If I accepted your request or if you were refered to me this does not apply. Sorry for the bother 💙. ------------------------- ~Back From Break~ Hi my name is Rui and I'm here to listen and support you through whatever you are going through 💛. Topics  I take all topics but the ones I have most experience in are: * * -Anxiety; * -Panic Attacks; * -Relationship stress; * -Breakups; * -Cancer; * -OCD; My roles ✅ Verified Listener ✅ ✨ QLP Academy Mentor ✨ 🌿 Room Supporter 🌿 ☄️ Anonymous Evaluations ☄️ 🚩Safety Patrol and SPOT 🚩 ❤️ Chat Support ❤️ 💙 Peer Support 💙 🌺 AL Project Agent 🌺 🌍 Member of the Translation Project Team 🌍 ☀️ Chatroom Moderator ☀️ 🚪Doorkeeper 🚪 (If you need to open or close a room I'm just a message away) My hostings --- Want to make someones day 💙☀️? Find out how here: Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] Status: 🟢 I'm online and free (Response time usually 2-5 min). 🟡 I'm online but I'm busy. Feel free to text me and I'll get back to you as soon as I can. 🔴 I'm offline but fell free to text me and I'll get back to you as soon as I can (Usually in 24 hours).
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bluelotus99
L Epitome 19 20272
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Rebekah
L Paragon 5 1703
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 🌞 Introduction 🌞  Life is hard; we all know it. It's full of positive and negative moments, very few of which we have complete control over. You don't predict the future, the future predicts you. It's great to see that you're reaching out for support today. It may feel incredibly difficult to ask for guidance, be it for a current or a past situation - you are not alone in how you feel. Members: I'm currently... available for chats! Please feel free to send me a message, though do make sure that your situation matches with one of the topics listed in my profile. Listeners: I'm currently unavailable for all types of mentoring chats. Please refer to another mentor here [https://www.7cups.com/listener/listenerMentors.php?_gl=1*21f6t5*_ga*OTc5NTI0OTE2LjE2NzQ4NDk4Mjc.*_ga_B4EP65N395*MTY5MjEwMDY4OS4xNTguMS4xNjkyMTAyNDYwLjAuMC4w]. How I Listen: 🌞 I will ensure that you, as a person, are validated. How you feel is perfectly okay. 🌞 Please be aware that I will not be offering advice, as it could be very harmful to both you and your situation, and could cause offence. 🌞 You will suffer no judgement from me. 🌞 Our chat will be as supportive and comforting as possible. 🌞 Finally, I will make sure that you are heard. Your voice deserves to be listened to. -------------------------  🌻 My Involvements 🌻   🌻 Quality 🌻  o Verified Adult-Teen Listener: I completed an interview and a mock chat with a highly experienced listener to show that I'm suitable to chat with teens, and a listener of high quality.  🌻 o Listener Verifier Team: I verify listeners through the Verified Listener project! Would you like to become Verified? Learn more here [https://bit.ly/3fwev9Y]!  🌻 o [Teen] Quality Mentoring: I mentor adult and teen listener quality!  🌻 o Quality Mentor Leading: I lead the Safety Patrol Outreach Team. Find out more about this team by sending me a message, or by going here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/SafetyPatrolTeam_1685/SafetyPatrolSPandtheSafetyPatrolOutreachTeamSPOT_265908/]!  🌻 o Quality Ambassador: I am so privileged to be an ambassador for 7 Cups!   🌻 Safety 🌻  o Safety Patrolling: I flag profiles that have violations.  🌻 o Safety Patrol Outreach Team [SPOT] Leader: I co-lead SPOT! On this team, we reach out to those who have fixable profile violations, as well as grade Safety Patrol applications.   🌻 Chat Rooms 🌻  o Doorkeeping: I'm able to open & close chat rooms.  🌻 o Peer Supporting: I offer support to listeners after a difficult chat (*not* for personal issues. That is what member accounts are for).  🌻 o Chat Supporting: I offer support to listeners during a tricky chat.  🌻 o Global Chatroom Moderation: I help to create a positive and inclusive environment in all member chat rooms!  🌻 o [Teen] Chatroom Mentor: I moderate in the listener chat rooms to ensure they stay safe and inclusive!  -------------------------  🧁 About Me 🧁   🧁 I love video gaming, specifically The Sims 4 and Resident Evil.   🧁 I love Doctor Who (10th Doctor is my favourite)!   🧁 I am once again questioning my sexuality, and I don't mind what pronouns you use! 🌈💙  🧁 My favourite music genres are classic rock, heavy metal, 70s/80s pop/rock, punk rock, and indie/alternative.   🧁 I am currently dealing with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and complex-post traumatic stress disorder (c-PTSD).   🧁 My favourite artists are; My Chemical Romance // Lady Gaga // Green Day // Joji // Studio Killers // Melanie Martinez -------------------------  ✨ VIPs ✨ @bouncySalamander26 [https://www.7cups.com/@bouncysalamander26]; Sal is a joy. He's funny, kind, a fantastic friend. Thank you, for always being awesome!  P.S. "snoozy sponge!" @Gracey [https://www.7cups.com/@Gracey]; I will never be able to thank Grace enough for her kindness and support over the years. She is sweet, understanding, patient, and always knows how to help out. Thank you, for always being a good friend 💙 @Tazzie [https://www.7cups.com/@Tazzie]; I miss you. You were an amazing listener, a dedicated leader, and an outstanding person. Thank you, for always believing in me. Rest eternally in peace 🕯️ #Sun4Lyf 💙
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Textingpals
L Proficient 5 842
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When you can't look on the bright side, I will sit with you in the dark.  - Hatter; Alice in Wonderland. ✨✨✨✨✨ Hello, this is Pals aka Tex, Rabbelion, Bun-bun, deformed Chihuahua, Paul, etc (feel free to give me a name, if you wish). Firstly, for the uninitiated, I am the "bunny" of 7 cups (on public demand) xD I am pretty chill and relaxed so, by all means, approach me regarding anything, a member 1-to-1 chat, a listener 1-to-1 chat, some queries you might have, etc. I love hanging out in rooms and meeting/talking to different people, so just drop me a PM (private message) anytime you want to have a non-serious, fun discussion, I won't mind.  My roles include: this para is kinda tedious, full of roles and monotonous stuff, hence skip it if you want to. 1. Verified Listener: you can find a 'Purple' tick mark beside my username and a 'Verified Listener' badge in my profile confirming it.   2. Safety Patrol member: you can check the same by the 'Safety Patrol' badge in my profile which lets me flag any inappropriate profiles. Please, do let me know if you spot anyone who you feel might hamper the safety and security of the site with an inappropriate profile/username or bio.  3. Sharing Circle buddy: as a former Sharing Circle host, I help new Sharing Circle hosts in conducting a smooth session as a 'Sharing Circle buddy'.  4. Listener Verifier: please confirm the same by finding a 'Listener Verifier Team' badge on my profile.  5. Safety Patrol Outreach Team member: I am part of this wonderfully constructed team of SPOT which allows me to conduct Safety Patrol training sessions.  6. Translator: 'Translator' badge on profile confirms the same.  7. Sharing Circle host: I am a Sharing Circle host as well; confirmed by the 'Sharing Circle' badge on my profile. However, currently, not hosting any Sharing Circle.  8. Safety Awareness team member: confirmed by the 'Safety Support' badge on my profile.  9. Adult Teen Listener Team: confirmed by the 'ATL' badge on my profile. 10. Team Lightship Member: also called Social Soldiers. My Achievements include: 1. 7 Cups Intern Graduate: I am proudly a 7 cups intern graduate with Honors.  2. Training guides completion: I have completed all the self-training guides, some of which are 'depression', 'Bipolar', 'Anxiety' etc, with sheer dedication.  3. Completion of Peer training guides: along with completing self-training guides, I am elevated to inform you that I have completed all the peer training guides, from one to twelve.  (Note: this doesn't make me a Peer Supporter) 4. Tulip badge: I am a 'Tulip badge' holder, if the one who recommended me for the same is reading this, then please know that I can never thank you enough.  5. Completion of AL tests: I am delighted to announce that I have all four AL completion badges, 'Graduate', 'Master', 'Scholar' and 'Rocket listener', which confirms that I have successfully completed all four Active Listening Tests, one, two, three, four, respectively.  6. Multiple Academy trainee: Currently, I am a trainee/soon-to-be-a-graduate for the following programs: (i) LDP (ii)GLDP (iii)CDM (iv)QL Before I proceed, let me tell you that I did not list the roles and achievements because I wanted to flaunt them or make myself feel important. That's not why they exist, at least not the roles. I am not a fan of listing them as well.  I did this simply because I have a poor memory so listing these in my bio will help me keep a track of it. Additionally, by listing them I wanted to let you know that anyone in search of information regarding any of the above-mentioned roles/achievements can PM me, I would be glad to help you solve your queries on the same or provide you with any information I have.  Which reminds me, I want to address a topic I have been meaning to speak about (I will try to keep it short, I promise): Your roles/achievements don't define your 'status', 'respect', or 'position' in this community. I request you to never ever sign up for a role if you aren't interested or just want to feel 'important' in this community. You are important. Every single person in this community matters and is equally significant. You don't need to sign up for roles to prove it to yourself or to someone else. We all, together, make this community a better place, and your roles/achievements/chats/cheers don't matter.          If you are really passionate about a team or want to join it because you are genuinely interested in it, then unquestionably join it. But please, please don't ever expose yourself to burnout/compromise your mental health or sign up for a larger number of roles than you can handle just to list it down in your profile or to seem more important.         I don't mean offense to anyone. I respect people who work passionately on different levels just to keep this site working, I really do respect and appreciate their efforts.  Again: you matter, you are a salient part of this site. Every single one of you.  Few lines I read somewhere which I absolutely love: "Even if you are not noticed, you are still valid.  Even if there is no one to read it, you should still write it.   Even if there is no one to hear it, you should still say it.   Even if there is no one to see it, you should still do it.   You are not measured by how people react to you." Lastly, a special mention of someone who has tagged me in their profile: @leafycup: thank you for mentioning me in your cute little bio, Leafyyy :p (P.S: for those who remember it, yes, my self-care has come to an end and I am back, to attack you guys with cookies and my nomming sessions xD)  
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