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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

TogetherForeverAlways
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izzyy528
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Hey there I'm Izzy, welcome to my profile!Ā  Sometimes talking and opening up can be difficult to do, and that's okay! I can't promise to fix your problems, but I can promise to be here and offer a friendly listening ear for you to talk to and share your story!Ā  I have a genuine passion for supporting others, and I am committed to establishing a secure, inviting, and non-judgmental space for our conversations. Whether it's something troubling you or simply what's on your mind, feel free to reach out at any time. Your messages are always welcome, and I'll respond as soon as possible.Ā  If you'd like to discuss a topic that necessitates a bit of research or if you prefer a specific scheduled time, feel free to book meĀ HERE [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/14OfE8l_C4SGjmjAxWyfW27hITjBQsCxqjEUtBOQInLA/viewform?edit_requested=true]Ā  Please feel free to message me anytime and I will get back to you as soon as possible šŸ’™ ------------------------- Colours of Availability:Ā  šŸ’šĀ Green:Ā I'm online and currently taking new chats. Feel free to message me and I will respond shortlyĀ šŸ’š šŸ§”Ā Orange:Ā I'm online, but I may be busy with other members or listeners right now. Feel free to leave me a message, and I will respond when I am freeĀ šŸ§” ā¤ļøĀ Red:Ā I'm currently offline or unable to take chats right now. Feel free to leave me a message, and I will reply the next time I am onlineĀ ā¤ļø ------------------------- When it comes to theseĀ specific chats: Sexual health:Ā PleaseĀ do notĀ message me if you have anyĀ inappropriate intentions or want toĀ ask meĀ inappropriate personal questions, alsoĀ don'tĀ message me asking me how to help youĀ control your urges.Ā In addition, don'tĀ message me about yourĀ sexualĀ insecurities with such body parts, or go into detail about sexual interactions you've had on an intimate level as they make me feelĀ uncomfortable.Ā  Cancer/chronic pain/diabetes/disabilities:Ā I don'tĀ mind discussing these topics, but I want all members to get the best possible support and I believe that I am not experienced enough to support someone with these specific issues as I have not personally experienced them or know anyone who has experienced them.Ā  ------------------------- My roles on 7 Cups: - Listener verifier - Peer supporter - Safety patrol - Kahoot sessions hoster ------------------------- Please do not message me asking for advice or for a diagnosis...I am a trained listener, not a therapist, I'm here to listen and support you, not to give advice or a diagnosis. Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā Ā Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā Ā Ā  Ā Any inappropriate chats will be blocked and reported. Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā Thank you for reading my bio! ------------------------- ------------------------- ------------------------- Salut, bine ai venit pe profilul meu! Sunt Izzy, un ascultător dedicat și plin de compasiune aici pe 7 Cups. Ǝn prezent, urmĆ¢nd nivelurile A-level Ć®n psihologie, sociologie și limba engleză, aduc conversațiilor noastre un amestec unic de Ć®nțelegere și empatie. Pasiunea mea pentru aceste subiecte alimentează angajamentul meu de a oferi răspunsuri gĆ¢nditoare și de susținere. Cred Ć®n puterea comunicării deschise și a ascultării active, fără judecată. Ǝmpreună, putem face față provocărilor, explora emoțiile și promovăm un spațiu pozitiv pentru bunăstarea ta. Sunt aici pentru a vă oferi o ureche atentă ori de cĆ¢te ori aveți nevoie. Am o pasiune reală pentru a-i susține pe ceilalți și sunt dedicata să stabilesc un spațiu sigur, primitor și fără judecăți pentru conversațiile noastre. Poate fii ceva care va deranjează sau pur și simplu de ceea ce vă gĆ¢ndiți, nu ezitați să ma contactați oricĆ¢nd. Mesajele dumneavoastră sunt Ć®ntotdeauna binevenite și vă voi răspunde cĆ¢t mai curĆ¢nd posibil. Ǝmpreună, putem explora și discuta cu ce aveți nevoie de sprijin. Dacă doriți să discutați despre un subiect care Ć®mi cere să fac o mică cercetare sau doriți o anumită oră și dată vă rog să rezervațiĀ AICI [https://izzyyy295.youcanbook.me/] Vă rog să Ć®nțelegeți că s-ar putea să nu fiu Ć®ntotdeauna disponibilă și, alături de 7 Cups, am și un program foarte Ć®ncărcat, cu multe angajamente și activități, dar fac tot posibilul să fiu cĆ¢t mai activă. Mulțumesc pentru intelegeore. ------------------------- Culori de disponibilitate: šŸ’š Verde: sunt online și Ć®n prezent fac chaturi noi. Simțiți-vă liberi să-mi trimiteți un mesaj și voi răspunde Ć®n scurt timp šŸ’š šŸ§” Portocaliu: sunt online, dar pot fi ocupat cu alți membri sau ascultători. Simțiți-vă liberi să-mi lăsați un mesaj și voi răspunde cĆ¢t de repede potšŸ§” ā¤ļø Roșu: momentan sunt offline sau nu pot să conversez. Simțiți-vă liberi să-mi lăsați un mesaj și vă voi răspunde data viitoare cĆ¢nd voi fi online ā¤ļø ------------------------- CĆ¢nd vine vorba de aceste topice specifice: Sănătate sexuală:Ā Vă rugăm să nu-mi trimiteți mesaje dacă aveți intenții nepotrivite sau doriți să-mi puneți Ć®ntrebări personale nepotrivite, de asemenea, nu-mi trimiteți mesaje Ć®ntrebĆ¢ndu-mi cum să vă ajut să vă controlați Ć®ndemnurile. Ǝn plus, nu-mi trimite mesaje despre insecuritățile tale sexuale cu astfel de părți ale corpului și nu intra Ć®n detalii despre interacțiunile sexuale pe care le-ai avut la nivel intim, deoarece mă fac să mă simt inconfortabil. Cancer/durere cronică/diabet/dizabilități: nu mă deranjează să discut aceste subiecte, dar vreau ca toți membrii să primească cel mai bun sprijin posibil și cred că nu am suficientă experiență pentru a sprijini pe cineva cu aceste probleme specifice. Vă rog să nu-mi trimiteți un mesaj cerĆ¢ndu-mi sfaturi sau un diagnostic ... Sunt un ascultător instruit, nu un terapeut, sunt aici să vă ascult și să vă susțin, nuĀ săĀ vă dau sfaturi sau un diagnostic. Orice chat inadecvat va fi blocat și raportat. Vă mulțumesc mult pentru că mi-ați citit biografia!
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PM1965
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Hi! My name is PM, Iā€™m a verified Listener on Cups and looking forward to listening to you.Ā  A little more about me Iā€™m a husband of 33 years, father, brother and veteran! In my free time, I enjoy playing video games, listening to classic rock music and creative writing!Ā  I have lived experience with the following topics:ā—¾Alcohol AbuseĀ ā—¾Drug AbuseĀ ā—¾Bipolar DisorderĀ ā—¾Childhood Sexual AbuseĀ ā—¾DepressionĀ ā—¾LGBTQ+
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gracefulBelle
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ļ»æHi, there! I am gracefulBelle and it is my absolute pleasure to listen and support you!Ā Ā  So, congratulations for choosing to be here with us! Looking forward to chatting with you soon :)Ā  (AVAILABLE WEEKDAYS: 14:00 - 16:00 (sast) / 16:00 - 18:00 (sast) / WEEKENDS AVAILABLE UPON APPOINTMENT)Ā 
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friendlyPillow980
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(she/her) Hello! Iā€™m 16 years old from the United States (Eastern Time, UTC-05:00). Iā€™m passionate about mental health care and I want to be a therapist when Iā€™m older, but for now, Iā€™d love to offer any support I can :)
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WeEarth
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I AM NOT TAKING NEW MEMBER CHATS. If I am not responding, please understand that I am not here!Ā WILL BE BACK SOON. THANKS FOR UNDERSTANDING. TAKE CARE! Greetings my friend, I am Earth. You can call me Earth, Sis, Earthling, WeE or any new nickname you can come up with - I am always open to embracing new ones.Ā  I am a researcher, innovator, historianĀ & archaeologistĀ by heart. My hobbies are coding,Ā writing, reading books, volunteering,Ā planting trees, etc.Ā Ā šŸ’—Ā Knowledge is my playground, and books are my loyal companions.Ā šŸ“– Fun facts about me at the end of this bio šŸ˜œ My birthday is onĀ 25 August.Ā šŸ˜ŽšŸ˜ƒ ------------------------- ROLES & RESPONSIBILITIES ON 7 CUPS AcademyĀ MentorĀ - CDM (Extensions & Drop out),Ā LDP (Course 1 - Processing) Quality Mentor Anonymous Evaluation Team Safety Patrol Team Gratitude Rain Project - Leading the team along with @Fristo & @CompassionateArrow Smile SpreaderĀ -Ā Peer Appreciation Team Forum SupporterĀ  Chat Supporter Kindness Crusaders Project Team FORMER ROLES Project Agent- 7 Cups Crisis Resource Team Room Supporter - General Support Community ACADEMY PROGRAMS & COURSES Leadership Development Program (LDP) with Honors Internship Program - Student Track (with Honors) Content Development and Marketing Program (CDM) Quality Listening ProgramĀ (QLP)Ā with Honors Completed IDC, Time Management Course, Community building course, Peer training, etc. ------------------------- PIECE OF WISDOM FROMĀ šŸŒ Remember, every challenge is an opportunity to grow, and I'm here to support you on your unique path. šŸŒŸ Always remember that real success is based on our efforts and not just on worldly achievements. ------------------------- Inspirational Quotes That Fuel My Ambition and Drive * Take risks in your life. If you win you can lead! If you lose, you can guide!Ā  Ā  Ā  * Dreams are not seen when you sleep, dreams are those that don't let you sleep.Ā Ā  * One individual may die for an idea, but that idea will, after his death incarnate itself in a thousand lives.Ā Ā  * No need to learn from our own fault. We can learn a lot from others' mistakes.Ā  Ā  * Self-confidence provides strength & power imparts knowledge. Knowledge provides stability & stability leads to victory.Ā  Ā Ā  * Once we decide, we have to do something, We can go miles ahead.Ā  Ā Ā  * Everything can be sacrificed for truth. but truth cannot be sacrificed for anything.Ā  Ā  * Apart from himself/herself & her/his family, one who thinks about her/his nation is a true citizen.Ā  Ā  * Truth can be stated in a thousand different ways, yet each one can be true.Ā  Ā Ā  Time for Fun facts * I belong to a large family whether it's biological, 7 cups or anywhere. * I adhere to my own set of rules and values, while I respect others'. * My interests are diverse and I want to pursue a multidisciplinary path rather than a conventional one. * I love animations whether it's movies or series. * I love horse riding, archery, Indian martial arts, fencing, etc.Ā  * I always wonder about the past and future and I love to explore! * I am not a regular drinker of tea or coffee, just a cup of water will be more than sufficient. But I do enjoy a cup of coffee from my sister. * I am not a foodie person butĀ I love cooking and sometimes I create new recipes as part of my self-care plan.Ā  * I am not an artistic person, but I love using colours.Ā  * I love exploring but I don't like travelling.Ā  * I love to solve problems, but I don't like to memorize math formulas. * I love hearing songs from my playlists (specific genres) Thank you my bestie for coming here!šŸ’“ Have some chocolates (with & without sugar) šŸ«šŸ«šŸ«
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ChromaticFinss
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On a break now "Just keep swimming, just keep swimming, just keep swimming, swimming, swimming."šŸŸ Feel free to PM me if my status is green šŸ’š How about spreading smile on someone today? Ready? Check here šŸ‘‡ https://forms.gle/QEni2At39ZMApELr6 A big thanks and keep Swimming!
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tuffattack
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Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā I am currently on break for personal reasons (3/4/24). I am unsure when I will be 100% back on cups Hi, I'm Tuff! I am here for you to listen to what you need to talk about, whatever that might be :) Big or small, or just a fun chat. I am proud of you for reaching out for help.Ā  My Amazing listener twin is @VioletnotesĀ  My Previous Roles āœ”ļøĀ Listener Chatroom SupporterĀ  āœ”ļø Anonymous Evaluations Team āœ”ļø Listener Verifier āœ”ļø Verified Listener āœ”ļø Peer Support My Status Meaning Ā šŸ’š Green - I am online, and you can message me! šŸ’š šŸ§” Orange - I am currently busy, and I am not accepting any new requests šŸ§” ā¤ļø Red - I am offline, however you can message me! I will respond within 24 hours ā¤ļø Experience I have struggled with my own mental health problems through out my life. This include depression, anxiety, personality disorders, substance issues, eating disorders, etc. For most of the chats I accept, I may know a little bit more than you might think (: In my life time, I have also been in mental health treatment, which includes a residential treatment center for 9 1/2 months. I am pretty open about my time in treatment, so feel free to ask any questions you might have. ļ»æChats I do not take For personal reasons, I do not take LGBTQ+, dating/relationship issues, and sexual health related chats. Thank you for understanding About Me Iā€™m a pole vaulter and Iā€™m currently vaulting 12 feet! Iā€™m obsessed with the pbs kids show, Arthur. Itā€™s been my biggest interest since I was a little kid My dream job is forensic psychology.Ā  I really enjoy art and poetry. Currently I mainly do water color and free verse poetry.Ā  My personality typing is INFJ IN(F) IEI 5w4 469 so/sp EVLF /R/[L]oai melancholic [dominant] Quotesļ»æ "Destiny is a gift. Some go their entire lives, living existences of quiet desperation, never learningĀ  the truth that what feels as though a burden pushing down upon their shoulders is really a sense of purpose that lifts us the greater heights. Never forget that fear is but the precursor to valor, that to strive and triumph in the face of fear is what it means to be a hero. Don't think. Become." ā€œWhat which we manifest is before us: we are the creators of our own destiny. Be it through intention or ignorance, our success and our failures have been used brought upon us by none other than ourselvesā€ You deserve to be listened to and heardĀ  -Tuff #HopeForHappyfeet Thank you for being in my lifeĀ 
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Harsvin
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Hi, my name is Harsvin. Thank you for stumbling upon my profile. Iā€™m a listener since 2015, and itā€™s been a long journey on this site that has helped to shape me into a compassionate and caring individual who truly understands the importance of being there for someone. Iā€™m currently a Quality Ambassador for the AL Team Click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ActiveListeningTestsListenerQuizzes_2102/ActiveListeningTrainingsTestsWhatYouShouldKnow_56907/] to learn more about Active Listening Tests You can check the updates threads of each test here AL 1 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ActiveListeningTestsListenerQuizzes_2102/ActiveListening1Updates_294348/?post=3237880], AL2 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest2GradingUpdates_300791/], AL3 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest3GradingUpdates_300792/], and AL4 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest4GradingUpdates_300794/] to know when badges have been last updated. Feel free to send me a message if you have any questions to ask regarding Active Listening Tests, or need guidance on your ongoing chats. It's my pleasure to help.
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ThoughtsBubbleExpress
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Now, Back to 7 Cups! āœØļøšŸŒŸ Warm Welcome to my Space šŸŒŸāœØļø Hello there! Thank you so much for reaching out and taking a step towards better mental health! You're a Star! šŸ’« āœØ I'm ThoughtsBubbleExpress, Iā€™m here to listen to you. I'm undergoing the Quality Listening Course and have Mastered Listener Training, Active Listening, and Peer Pro Training to help understand the depths and gravity of my members' problems and received positive reviews from other members. I'm also pursuing a BSc. Psychology Honors and I know how hard it can be to deal with lifeā€™s challenges, and I want to help you find your way. If you need a healing, soothing, and comforting listener, Iā€™m here for you. Feel free to send me a message anytime. This is a space that is free of all kinds of prejudice, judgments, and biases. For you to talk about whatever you want. Whether it's about something that is bothering you, something that you want to vent, or you want to share your thoughts, we can talk about anything you want. I'm here to listen to you with empathy and compassion and I would never provide you with advice, suggestions, or solutions.Ā  ļ»æIf you're looking for a companion in your journey to root for you, a supporting friend, or an empathetic listener to share your deepest troubles, or just someone to vibe with and have fun and lightweight conversations, I'm here for you always. šŸ˜ŠšŸŒŸ šŸ’š If my icon is green, I'm online and open to chats and will respond quickly. šŸ§” If my icon is orange, then I'm online but busy with something, will get back to you soon. ā¤ If my icon is red then I'm offline at the moment but please feel free to PM me, I'll respond as soon as I'm back online. Till then you may try checking out these self-help guides here on 7cups if you please: https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php Or you may browse and talk to the listeners you like through this link:Ā  https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/
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Countrygirl095
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I'm Tylia Ā a verified listener on 7cups. I'm here to provide you with confidential support without any judgment. No matter what topic you bring, I'll do my best to make you feel welcome, safe, and understood. Please note that 7cups is not equipped to support crisis situations.Ā  SĆ­, hablo espaƱolĀ Mi nombre es Thalia y soy una oyente verificada en 7cups. Estoy aquĆ­ para brindarle apoyo confidencial sin ningĆŗn juicio. No importa el tema que traigas, harĆ© todo lo posible para que te sientas bienvenido, seguro y comprendido. 1. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (U.S.): 1-800-273-8255 2. The Crisis Text Line: Text "HOME" to 741741 3. The Samaritans: 1-800-273-TALK (8255) 4. The Canadian Mental Health Association: 1-833-456-4566 Remember, it's okay to ask for help. Your well-being is important, and there are people and resources available to support you. Don't hesitate to reach out if you need someone to talk to. Despite her condition that affects her mobility, she does not allow it to affect her will and determination to make a difference in the world. Through her many life challenges and obstacles, she discovered her passion for writing.
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Rachit2015
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Hi! I have been an active verified listener here for 8 years. In my experience here, I have learnt that we all get thoughts which make us feel we are not good enough, make us blame ourselves for things which are not actually our fault, and isolate. The stronger our trauma, the stronger these thoughts are. These thoughts keep us engulfed in our own pain and on how others hurt us, and often make us oblivious to how our actions affected others. I will help you in dealing with these thoughts, so that these thoughts dont affect your beliefs and your actions.
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