New job at work has me traveling more, plus life events mean that I'll be away a bit more over time. I'll still try to respond to messages if possible, but will be unavailable for live chats and more delayed in responses from:
- Jan 21-Jan 24
- Feb 11-Feb 19
- Feb 21-Feb 22
Otherwise, my normal availability will stand - I can schedule one hour live chat appointments Monday-Thursday during the day (10am-6pm Eastern) and will try to respond to messages within 24-48 hours, with slightly slower times on weekends as I do not typically log in here Friday-Sunday much.
Hi all, I'm glad you've found my profile here! I truly love to listen and help others, and am particularly versed in eating disorders, work stress, and sexual assault, though happy to discuss anything, including sexual issues / sexuality. If you feel like you could use some extra support or help working through a problem, please reach out!
You can start a chat with me if I'm online or to message me if I'm not and we can set up a time. I'm in the US in Central Time and somewhat flexible during the day Monday-Thursday. I'm hard to catch sometimes, so plan to set up an appointment with me. I'm also open to messaging back and forth not live, but more frequently, if that's preferable for you.
If you see me in the forums, you'll know I have a few favorite quotes around recovery and strength that I throw around all the time, so I'll share them here, too.
"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think"
"Never forget you are worth more than the value you place on yourself."
"Every day might not be a good day but there is good in every day."
Much love to all,
💙About Me💙Hey there everyone! I am LavenderFlower, but you can call me Lavender or Lav I like video games, writing, acting, music, and art. I’m super interested in Psychology and Forensics as well. I listen to those with Personality Disorders and Dissociative Disorders on top of the categories I have listed. I also take chats about attention seeking and lying. I am an empathetic listener who will do their best to support you. If you want to schedule a chat with me personally, you will have to do so using my Booking Button, which can be found at the bottom of my page. Please only take 1 slot.
Support Session Leader
Verified Listener + Verified Listener Team
Intern Mentor + Intern Graduate with Honours
Please read the whole profile before contacting me! (except quotes section you dont have to read that unless you're interested) My availability is: Monday-Thursday, 1 pm- 1 am EST, I do not schedule chats unless they are the day of, as i have a very bad memory and am likely to forget about themI usually keep my status set to busy or offline mode, but dont be afraid to send me a message anyway. Please include what you would like to chat about when you leave me a message, it would be really helpful to me so I know what you're going through.I normally do not do sexual chats, however depending on the situation I may still chat with you about the topic, but I do request that explicit details not be shared if I do agree to chat with you about it.~Quote the Raven, Nevermore~
About MeMy name is Jayson and I'm a transgender guy! I'm always here if you need to talk. I can especially help if you have ADHD, PTSD, trauma, anxiety, and LGBT+ issues.I DONT take chats on suicide, self-harm, drugs or alcohol or anything involving any of those, as those types of things or even mentioining those things can be triggering to me. Please also remember that if you are in CRISIS we at 7 cups cannot support you, as we're not trained to help in crisis situations so i highly encourage you to log out and contact suicide.org for helpListener Twins!!@ItsDev@KarenMarie@Pamharley003@TenderTruth@SpaceStation2Things I do here!Peer Support- I offer support to listeners after they have been through a difficult or stressful chat
Quality MentorChatroom MentorGlobal ModSafety PatrolVerifier TeamChat Support - i offer support to listeners during a difficult/hard chat
"Sometimes there is no darker place than our thoughts, the moonless midnight of our mind" -Dean Koontz"We're all needed, even those who sometimes think we're worthless, plain and dull. If we love and allow ourselves to be loved...Well a person who loves is the most precious thing in the world, worth all the fortunes that ever were." -Dean Koontz"Being polite is not only the right way to respond to people, but also the easiest. Life is so filled with unavoidable conflict that I see no reason to promote more confrontations." -Dean Koontz"There's no such thing as being cowardly in a fight" -Edward Elric"Sometimes its good to be scared, it means you have something to lose" -Richard Webber"Just put one foot in front of the other, just get through the day." - Meredith Grey "I'm a human being, I make mistakes. I'm flawed, we all are." - Derek Shepherd"The future is the home of our deepest fears and our wildest hopes." -Owen Hunt
UNFORTUNATELY I AM CURRENTLY NO LONGER ABLE TO ACCEPT NEW MEMBERS.
Hi, you! :)
Yes, you! Welcome to 7cups of tea and my profile! I am very glad that you are here! :) That's awesome!
In case you're wondering whether the two of us would be a good match, I want to share a few things about me.
I love helping others, I am a dog person, I love reading and art and long walks, and big cities, and getting immersed in a good movie or tv show. I have been through my fair share of things, and supported people around me with the issues they were facing.
I believe that every issue you are dealing with, no matter how big or small you may perceive it, is worth talking about and that's why it's so awesome that you're here right now. I also believe in the power of humor, at the same time I know it's not everyone's cup of tea ;) and that some topics are not funny whatsoever. I am not a professional psychologist, but over time on here I have learned my bits and pieces about active listening and offering emotional support, which I believe if done well, can go a long way. And offering emotional support through active listening is what I will try my best to do during our chats. It may not solve any issues you are facing, but maybe it will take the weight off your shoulders and make you feel less alone with it.
I am happy to listen about pretty much anything and everything! :) Naturally though, I am stronger/more experienced with some topics than others. My listening strengths lie in LGBTQ+, relationships (including yourself, your partner, friendships and families!), grief, work, struggling with beliefs and belonging, being a TCK, TCI, CCK, support in situations of being discriminated, and PMS/PMDD.
Currently my schedule is busy, so I currently take chats one person at a time, an hour each, and regulars weekly.
I am looking forward to meeting you and listening to you! :)Make sure to meet my awesome listener twins
Hello! My name is Tazzie. You can also call me Taz. I am a Sub-Community & CML Ambassador.I'm also involved in the following leadership roles:❑ Community Mentor Leader❑ Adult & Teen Quality Mentor❑ Adult & Teen Chatroom Mentor❑ Forum Mentor ❑Teen Transition Mentor
Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea.I like to help people as I know how it feels to be in that position. I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, send me message and I'll answer it later. Glad you are here! :)
-Verified Listener-A little bit about me!
Hey lovelies my name is Joel (Many of you originally knew me as Renaenae)! I have been through a lot in my life so I would love to be able to help you through anything! I am here to talk even if you just need a friend to come too. My passion in life is playing music and getting involved in the community! Even if it seems like your problems can't be fixed, I am sure it would help you out to just have an ear to talk to, and I would be more than happy to be that ear - even if you can't fix it, I assure you that you will at least feel somewhat better by just letting it all out. You can never be a burden or a bother to me!
I may not appear online but I am on at least once a day so feel free to message me! I will reply as soon as I am free!
Always remember, you are worth so much! You may not feel it but I promise you, you are worth so much more than you can ever think possible!-Projects-
✓ Group Support Moderator✓ Social Soldiers (Twitter)
✓Depression Support Discussion Leader
✓Resource Project Agent for Australia, Germany, Russia✓Peer Support- If you ever need support after a chat feel free to message me!
✓ Appreciation Team- I am here to show you how much you mean to us and how proud we are of you!✓ Verification Team- If you need verified and meet the requirements feel free to send me a message!
✓Discussion Trainer- If you are a new discussion leader and need some help shoot me a message!
Welcome to 7 Cups!!!
I am a verified listener who listens to both Adults (18+) and Teens (13-17)
I'm glad you have taken the step to reach out for support and Cups is a great place to receive it, with so many amazing people here ready to offer you a listening ear.
Although i have more experience and knowledge of these topics:....
- Self Harm
....I am happy to take chats about any topic.
Adult - Teen Listener
Project Agent for Disability Support
Project Agent for Adult Listener Events Team
Social Soldier on Twitter
Moderator for Disability and Self Harm Recovery
Please do not send me cupsiversary or Birthday forms, thank youClick me!Members & Guests
I’m not currently taking new members. If we have talked before feel free to leave a message and I’ll get back to you as soon as possible.Listener Twins
@Joe2017 ~ Anna
@Nada ~ Greta Cake
@Diandra ~ God
@Frankie ~ Frankiebob
@River ~ Lime Projects I’m involved in:Project Agent Project Leader - Find out more about this role here
Doorkeeper - PM me if you need a room opened/closed
Teen and Adult Quality Mentor
Group Support Mentor Leader
Global Forum Mentor - Needs reply
Adult & Teen Chatroom Mentor
Teen Transitioning Mentor