***As I want to make it equal for everyone who contacts me, I have decided to make rules and also if you dare to be mean about what I'm saying
DO NOT TALK TO ME OTHERWISE YOU WILL BE BLOCKED***Conversations I will take:-1. Sexual abuse
3. Relationship breakdowns
4. Listeners who find things hard on their listening roles
7. College issues
8. AnxietyConversations I am not able to take due to bad experiences:-
2. Medical conditions in any shape or form, please go see a doctor about them as I am not a medical pro
3. If it relates to sex
4. Listeners telling me their own personal problems, please use your member account as it's better that way, feedback and privacy wise.5. Name calling
6. Relationship proposals
7. If you are not willing to give me feedback either good or bad and this goes for all listeners as we are not getting a dime in this platform.
8. If it relates to suicidal thoughts, please contact a suicidal helpline if you're in distress. Unfortunately I'm not the best person to discuss that certain topic.
9. Self Harm
10. If it relates to porn addiction
My internet is not always the best, this is not an excuse or the fact that I'm ignoring you. It's just how technology is and I unfortunately have no control over but I will talk to you as much as I can. I always try to be there for everyone when we speak.Thanks to those who made the effort to read the rules and tough on those who don't agree with them. I'm not here to impress, I'm here to help as best I can by giving suggestions. That is all. The rest is up to yourself if you want to take what I say or just leave it.
Hi there! I'm Luke, and I'm 32 and from Georgia in the US. Happy to be here and to lend a listening ear to those in need. I have experience with parenting, family-related stress, and relationship stress and am a member of the LGBTQ+ community, but please feel free to reach out with anything on your mind and we can try to talk it out.
Please don't hesitate to reach out whenever. I'm on the east coast in the US, so be mindful of possible timezone differences. I also have a family and a job, so bear with me if I don't get back to you immediately. Fridays, Saturdays, and Sundays are particularly busy for me personally, so I may be extra slow to respond, if at all, on those days. Regardless, I will try to get back to you as soon as I can, even if it says I'm offline.
Listener Twins: @ambercares @jrod1986 @PeaceLoveandPaws
My name is Wendin. I love movies, philosophy, languages, culture, humour and storytelling.All my life I feel I was born on the wrong planet. Thoughout my life numerous people have told me that I seem so different from others. I don't care to ask a follow-up question to seek any explanations. All I know is I am an introvert and I don't have a strong tendency to judge others. As a 7 Cups volunteer, I enjoy chatting with folks in this community and prompt others to look at personal issues from a third party's perspective. (Disclaimer: I come to 7 Cups to learn how to better communicate with people, especially strangers, non-confrontationally. I would kindly remind you that I am just another stranger on this site. Hopefully you are aware of it before starting a chat with me. Soliciting advice is strongly discouraged. The reason is you are the person who is really in your situation. Everybody else is going to miss a lot of details of your context. Please take ownershop of your situation. I wish you the best luck. May the force be with you to grant you the power and strength to solve the puzzle called Life.)
I don't accept new chats at this time
The universe turns differently when fire loves water
Just a danish guy trying his best to make the world a better place
Please note I am not currently taking member chats
Hey I’m Karrot, I am an adult-teen-listener here on the site meaning I listen to teens and adults! I love to hang out with friends and volunteer in my free time! I use they/them. One thing you should know is that I do NOT take any chats on sexual abuse. The topics that I am good at are Anxiety, Depression, and PTSD and what is listed under my name. But I am open to listening to anything. I am always open to lending an ear. You can vent if you want to or just have a talk about anything really I’m open to it. Please note I do try to reply as soon as I can; when I am online I will respond quickly; busy I might be slow at answering and if I am offline I could be online but not. Just feel free to message me anytime I’ll get back to you as soon as I can.
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@Mayarosebird5656 My tea loving twin
@Gracey my silly wanna be teenie penguin loving twinno
@PhoenixAsh My loving totally not oldie twinno with all their magical ideas and jokes (and bio creating skills :D)
Hi! My alias here is Mercy but my real name isn't. This is my passion; being a listener is truly what I love to do. I want to assume the role of a good friend as a listener. I try to make my chatstyle fairly casual and focused on encouraging you and helping you to feel proud of yourself. I have struggled with a broken pride due to symptoms of anxiety and depression, and I know how it feels. This is why I will always let you lead the chat, and I will simply be like a supporter of you as you reach your goals like a boss. I Am Here For You ♥.
As of Feb 24, 2020, my indefinite self care break is paused and you are welcome to talk with me! However, I may resume my break if I need it. Coping strategies:
doing something active / reassuring yourself such as hugging yourself or saying kind things to yourself / doing something you love / volunteering or helping someone / talking to someone / doing things that keep you in good health (e.g. drinking enough water, eating well, sleeping well, etc.)Places you can find support:-suicide.org (there is a list of hotlines for each country)-Crisis Text Line for Canada, US, and UK. (I will add more if I find)-Consider seeing a therapist if you are unable to resolve a problem on your own or if your problems are persisting for 2 weeks or more and you don't know what to do to solve the problem. Note: 7 Cups says I need to refer anyone who is mentioning thoughts of suicide to suicide.org
Hello, my name is Crys. Issues I discuss:Managing EmotionsWork StressParentingBreakupsGetting UnstuckStudent LifeMen's & Women's IssuesRemember the invisible staircase in front of you. (Courtesy of T). As a listener, we are trained in Active Listening, which is listening in a way that shows compassion and empathy. Listeners will ask you open ended questions to help guide the conversation. It is meant to be a supportive environment for you to grow and learn more about yourself. We are here to listen and support you in your time of need, thus advice will not be given. Advice is really easy to give, but it can sometimes be wrong or even harmful. I don't have a full understanding of your life or world. Any advice I'd give you would be limited and potentially wrong. You are the expert on you. The best thing I can do for you is to help you figure out the path that makes the most sense to you.
Thank you for your understanding. I do not tolerate any form of inappropriate chats. You will be blocked immediately.
If you are suicidal please go to crisischat.org or imalive.org to speak with a trained professional.If you are depressed please seek a professional therapist.
"Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid." - Albert Einstein Feel free to share, whatever you want to. Because it will do you no harm, but it might help. So maybe it's worth getting a chance. P.S. Links to the profiles of my twin listeners: https://www.7cups.com/@MerryMouse https://www.7cups.com/@PeaceLoveandPaws https://www.7cups.com/@StephanieKatie https://www.7cups.com/@AddictedTealover98
Chats by appointment only, please. https://peaceloveandpaws.youcanbook.me/
Hello and Welcome!! I'm Paws (she/her pronouns, please). I'm a wife, mom, and a self proclaimed 'Crazy Cat Lady'.
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I have a degree in English Lit but spent my career in Human Services. I enjoy reading, watching horror movies and television series, photography, and collecting vintage handbags. My greatest passion is orphaned/abandoned infant kittens rescue. My favorite movie of all time is 'City of Angels'. The songs I feel inspired by are 'Bold as Love' by Jimi Hendrix; 'Sara' by Fleetwood Mac; 'I'm Still Standing' by Sir Elton John; 'Kyrie' by Mr. Mister; and 'Thank U' by Alanis Morissette.
My listener twin www.7cups.com/@lulurings and @helloworld29Please Note: I am not comfortable with relationship chats or chats about your sex life. Please browse listeners by topic if you wish to discuss those matters.