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3 Tips to Accomplish Your Short and Long Term Goals

Use these strategies to turn your "want to do's" into "done's"
Accomplishing short and long term goals

I recently took a poll, because I wanted to know where people were struggling and how I could help. The results were overwhelmingly consistent:

People wanted to know how to overcome procrastination, transform "bad" habits, and move into action. So this article goes out to all of you who are struggling in this department.

I have some "life-hacking" tips that I’ll share at the end, but first, I want you to ask yourself a tough question, and I want you to be honest. Think about your goal for a moment – and hold it clearly in your mind. Center your attention on what it is that you’re aiming for, and then answer this question for yourself:

How badly do you want it?

Before we get into the tips and the tricks, I want to invite you to think about success through the following lens. Goals are most often accomplished when the following three conditions are met:

  • We want what we want REALLY badly
  • We feel like failure is not an option
  • We have a very clear sense of what our goals and values are – and we keep them in mind, daily, with focus and dedication.

So I’ll ask you again: How badly do you want it?

You will achieve your dreams once you decide that the alternative isn’t an option.

So, let’s assume you’re there. You have a clear vision in mind and you’ve set your course. What can you do to make things easier on yourself, or to increase the likelihood of regular follow-through?

Here are a few behavioral tips and tricks that can help you to overcome procrastination, and to transition into action*:

  1. We’re inherently motivated to do what feels rewarding.

    This fundamental truth of human behavior cannot be emphasized enough. I’ll use exercise as an example here because several of the people listed it as something that they’re struggling with. Exercise, believe it or not, eventually becomes intrinsically rewarding; once we get accustomed to it, the endorphins that are released when we work-out create an internal system of positive reinforcement. That said, until it becomes a habit, we have to create our own system of rewards. An example of this would be having a really delicious meal right after a work-out. Establish a system of rewards that will give you the motivation you need to succeed.

  2. Changing one habit tends to have an impact on others.

    Otherwise put, if you want to change one habit, focus on changing a different one that will set the stage for what you really want to achieve. For example: If you’re trying to get exercise in the morning, begin by putting your sneakers on as soon as you wake up. Just do it – no questions. Eventually, you’ll start to feel pretty silly wandering around your house in your sneaks without getting your butt on the trail [;)]

  3. Whether we like it or not, human behavior tends to exist along an "all or nothing" continuum.

    People who eat well and take good care of themselves nutritionally tend to also get more exercise, and vice versa. Research studies have similarly shown that people who make their bed in the morning tend to be more productive and to excel in other, seemingly non-related areas like balancing a budget. If your goal is to (again) get more exercise, consider starting by applying more attention to what you’re eating and – you bet – whether you do things like make your bed in the morning.

If you need more support reaching your goals, join our supportive community, talk to a free, trained Listener, or reach out to an online therapist today.

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*These tips have been adapted by Charles Duhigg’s book: The Power of Habit. It’s a worthwhile read if these concepts appeal to you and you want to go deeper.


Posted: 25 January 2019
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Leslie Carr, PsyD

Dr. Leslie Carr is a licensed clinical psychologist who works as both a therapist and a coach.

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