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Aging Up Support Thread
by Hope
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November 7th
November 7th
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Hi everyone! In the past few weeks, the Teen Leadership Team has been brainstorming ways to better support our transitioning teens. In an attempt to provide you with a space where you can get support on transitioning into the adult side we are launching this Teen Transitioning Support Thread. Here is it how it will go:
â This is a safe space for all teens who are soon aging up or have recently aged up to share anything that concerns them about the transitioning process, ask questions and get support.
â The thread will be monitored by our Teen Transitioning Mentors. Most of our Teen Transitioning Mentors have gone through the aging up process themself and are passionate about supporting our transitioning teens. They will respond to the members posting in this thread.
Important!
â This is not a place to get support on matters other than aging up as a teen. This is so we can focus our resources on supporting the teens who are going through the transitioning process. If you are looking for support on a personal matter/in need of a listener, please check our browse listener page. [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]
*Aging Up: A period when a member/listener who joined 7 Cups as a teenager turns 18 and is moved to the adult side. It is also referred to as the transitioning period.
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This post is brought to you by the Teen Transitioning Program. Please read about it here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/AgingUpSupportRequestWearehereforyou_216566/].
Teen Transition FAQs
by ASilentObserver
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October 22nd
October 22nd
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Hello, teen community!
We understand that aging up can be overwhelming. That’s why we’ve compiled a list of the top 10 frequently asked questions to help you navigate the transition process smoothly.
1. What changes will occur when I turn 18? Will I still be able to talk to teens?
As you turn 18, you will be transitioned to the adult side of the community. The teen side will no longer be accessible to you.
* You will get the following access:
* Access to adult side group chats
* If you are a listener, you will be taking 1-1 adult chats to listen and support them.
* If you are a member, adult listeners will take your 1-1 chat request to offer personal support.
* To reconnect with teens to support them, as a listener you can apply to become an Adult-Teen Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/].
2. ATL Application and Roles: How do I apply for ATL? What are the roles and responsibilities?
You can read more about the ATL application process here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/].
3. How do I handle transitioning from teen to adult listener?
Aging up can be overwhelming. So, transitioning from teen to adult listener can be an additional aspect. Here are a few tips to navigate the aging up process:
* Focus on your priorities and take your time.
* Practice self-care
* Participate in the Listener Support Room to get to know the adult side community. Ask your questions related to listening and mentors & fellow listeners will help you with the best resources and information.
* Request a Transition Mentor to get all support related to your transition on the adult side.
* Focus on taking one chat at a time instead of a bunch of 1-1 chats. Take your time to listen and support them.
* Explore Member group chats. It will help you get a basic understanding of adults' challenges and how they support each other.
4. How do I support adults when I have limited life experience?
Very good question! It can be a challenge supporting adults when you have limited life experience. But two things:
* As listeners, our primary role is to provide a safe and supportive space. We avoid giving unsolicited advice, instead focusing on active listening. By listening attentively, showing empathy, and asking open-ended questions, we can help others feel heard and understood.
* Suppose you feel you are unable to listen to a specific topic and don’t have enough understanding to support them. In that case, you can let the member know and encourage them to connect with other listeners through the Browse Listeners page.
* Also, you can go to the Listener Support Room to seek ongoing chat support from trained chat supporters. The chat supporters will guide you through listening to the member.
5. Can I still chat with teens after aging up? What are the differences in talking to adults?
* As you age up, depending upon the account you have, you may or may not be able to chat with teens.
* If you have a member account, you will not be able to chat with teens.
* If you have a listener account, you will need to become an Adult-Teen Listener to go through the required training to support teens.
* The key difference in talking to adults and teens is their struggles and challenges. The challenges and their thought process tend to vary.
6. How do I handle relationships with existing teen members after aging up?
* That's a great question! As you transition to adulthood, you'll gain access to the adult section of the 7Cups community. However, you won't be able to directly support teen members until you complete the training to become an Adult-Teen Listener. In the meantime, you can continue to contribute to the teen forums and offer support to other adult members.
* Before you age up, you can let the members know you are about to age up and won’t be available 1-1 to support or listen to them. But they can do two things:
* Connect with other Teen or Adult-Teen Listeners through the Browse Listeners page to get support.
* Participate in forums and tag your username in the format of (@username), so you get notified of the specific thread and you can respond to their posts to support them.
* Create a Check-in thread and tag your members in the Forums to stay connected and check in with them on a monthly, weekly, or daily basis as per your and their availability.
7. How do I deal with anxiety, stress, and other emotional challenges?
* Aging up can be daunting and it can cause anxiety, stress, and other emotional challenges along with ongoing challenges and struggles. Before we learn how to tackle it, please remember two points:
* Your challenges and struggles are valid and they matter.
* The progress path won’t be linear but your steps will count and accumulate.
* A few approaches that can help you navigate and take care of your emotional well-being are:
* Self-care techniques: Taking steps to practice self-care helps to manage your emotions well. These techniques include mindfulness, healthy eating, sufficient sleep, exercise, hobbies, and relaxation activities but are not limited to them. It can vary from individual and can be more than one or two activities.
* Practicing coping mechanisms like deep breathing exercises, positive affirmations, gratitude journaling, limiting stressors, and problem-solving approaches can help manage stress and care for your emotional well-being.
* Seeking support is a huge one and connecting with support groups, a space to share or vent can be beneficial as you navigate the emotions of aging up.
* Read the self-help guide on Managing Emotions here! [https://www.7cups.com/help-managing-emotions/]
8. What basic life skills should I know, such as cooking, hygiene, and finances?
As you transition into adulthood, it is essential to have a solid foundation of life skills. Here are some basic skills to start with:
* Cooking: Learn simple recipes like pasta, stir-fries, and sandwiches. This will help you eat healthier and save money.
* Finances: Understand basic budgeting, saving, and spending habits. Create a budget to track your income and expenses.
* Laundry: Learn how to sort laundry, read care labels, and use a washing machine and dryer.
* Cleaning: Know how to clean your living space, including dishes, floors, and bathrooms.
Please know these skills take time to develop. Take your time and start with the basics and gradually add more as you feel comfortable.
9. How do I balance college, work, and other responsibilities?
Balancing college, work, and other responsibilities can be a challenge, but doable. A few tips to help you manage your time effectively:
* Prioritize tasks: Identify what's most important and focus on those first. Use a planner or app to keep track of your assignments, work shifts, and other commitments.
* Create a schedule: Allocate specific time slots for each activity. Be realistic in setting your schedule and ensure you are getting enough rest.
* Time management techniques: Experiment with techniques like the Pomodoro technique to improve focus and productivity.
* Delegate when possible: Please do not be afraid to ask for help or delegate tasks to others if you can. It is okay to ask for help.
* Communicate openly: Talk to your professors, coworkers, and loved ones about your commitments to avoid misunderstandings and find support.
Please know it is okay to adjust your schedule as needed. The key is to find a balance that works for you and helps you achieve your goals.
10. How do I become more responsible, mature, and confident?
Becoming more responsible, mature, and confident is a journey, not a destination. A few tips to help you on your way:
* Take responsibility for your actions, both good and bad. Identify and learn from your mistakes and strive to do better.
* Having clear goals gives you a sense of direction and purpose. Work towards achieving them, no matter how small the steps. Your every step is counting.
* Practice self-care by prioritizing your physical and mental health.
* Step outside of your comfort zone and try new things. As you challenge yourself, it can help you build confidence and resilience.
* Please do not be afraid to ask for help when you need it. Talking to a trusted friend, family member, or mentor can provide much-needed guidance and support.
Please know growth takes time, so be patient with yourself and celebrate your progress, no matter how small.
Have a question that isn't answered in the FAQs? Let us know in the comments
Or, connect with a Transition Mentor to get the transitioning support. Click here to request! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform]
Become An Adult - Teen Listener (ATL) | Support The Teen Community
by ASilentObserver
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August 29th
August 29th
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Hi everyone!
This post talks about a very important step in a listener’s journey, becoming an adult-teen listener. We were teens once and we know how confusing and challenging teenage life can be. A lot of questions and thoughts in mind, but no idea who to reach out to. But you can be that person to whom they can reach out and feel heard and comforted. You can find all the information you need on the role, requirements, process, benefits, and expectations here.
➡️ What is an Adult -Teen Listener?
An Adult- Teen Listener is a trained listener who listens and supports both adult and teen members. Becoming ATL allows one to join the teen side of the 7Cups community and listen to teen members 1-1, participate in teen member group chats to support members there, and participate in teen listener group chats to share experiences, learning, and resources to support teen community better. Commonly known as ATL in the community.
➡️How is it helpful to become an adult-teen listener?
* Allows one to support teen members i.e. helping them feel heard, and less stressed and your support efforts contribute to a better support system while they transition to a new phase of life (Adulthood)
* Allows an aged-up Teen Listener to reconnect with their teen members to continue listening and supporting them
* If interested in leadership opportunities, it allows one to participate and help scale up teen community projects.
Important Note: For all of the 18+ listeners who are interested in listening to teens, to work with teens, you must have experience as a listener and meet some general criteria, as outlined below. Additionally, the application process involves a background check and a video call interview on either Skype or Google Hangouts.
➡️ How to apply to become an Adult-Teen Listener?
Basic Requirements
* Be a Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/GetVerifiedon7Cups_290064/]
* Be a listener for at least 3 months
* Have at least 100 1-1 Chats
* 4+ Star Rating
* 6000+ cheers
* Completed 20+ training guides [https://www.7cups.com/listener/training.php#training] including AL 1 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1wG5popRr-lrfhUc8AoZh-QTMR5QM0Flp3bJlkVROZr8/viewform] & AL-2 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe2hbLMIdBr16LQ48keucm10K5qjjh9EcgC0PUbn6wnqHiuqg/viewform]
* Zero Behavioral Reports
In addition to that, a few more criteria
* Full legal name
* To verify identity, you would need to submit a photo of 1 government ID. (Please send the ID via email to bookworm4@7cups.com)
* Successfully complete a video call interview with a community leader
* If you reside in the USA, you will need to provide a phone number for safety check purposes. If you do not live in the USA, this is NOT required.
▶️ Click this link to submit the application [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe1KvaFVN_eab9iF6jfAUJN6Nz3tuq9-umbQrtxAsmLl-vXLQ/viewform]
➡️ A few resources that you may find helpful:
* FAQs related to Adult-Teen Listener Program [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/FAQsAdultTeenListenerProgram_292998/]
* Click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/TeenListenersOnlyClub_98/ATLHowcanyouensurethatyourapplicationgetsprocessedasap_215465/] to see tips for fast application processing!
* We understand that the Adult-Teen Role process can be scary for some, but we assure you all of your data is safe with us and it is truly worth it. You can hear from the teens themself here! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerCommunityCenter_38/FriendshipCornerforTeensATL_1809/YoushouldbecomeanAdultTeenListenerbecause_231025/1/#2484138]
* If you are already an ATL and feeling confused? Check out this guide. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingupSupport_1766/PresentingAdultTeenStartersGuide_249084/]
If you have any questions or concerns, please reach out to @Bookworm4, @Jenna, @Heather225, and @ASilentObserver.
We look forward to working with you to bring more support to the teen community.
*Post edited by Erica on 04/15/23 for clarity purposes*
*Post edited by Jenna on May 20, 2023 to update interview information*
*Post edited By Jenna on May 23, 2023 to clarify ID submission*
Introducing New Role: Teen Transition Supporter
by ASilentObserver
Last post
March 7th
March 7th
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Are you passionate about supporting teens through life's transitions? Do you have a knack for making connections and fostering a sense of belonging? If so, we have the perfect opportunity for you!
We invite you to join our team as Teen Transition Supporters. In this rewarding role, you'll play a crucial part in welcoming and guiding newly transitioned users within our community.
Here's what you'll do:
* Warmly welcome newly transitioned users with personalized messages and forum introductions.
* Actively listen to their thoughts, feelings, and experiences through private messages and group interactions.
* Facilitate their integration into the adult group chats by introducing them during designated sessions and encouraging participation.
* Lead engaging activities to foster interaction, build trust, and address common concerns.
* Share existing resources relevant to young adults and identify gaps where new resources could be created.
* Promote self-care and healthy boundaries to empower their transition.
* Serve as a dedicated check-in buddy for the first four weeks, offering ongoing support and addressing any questions.
Why join us?
* Experience the joy of helping transitioning teens have a good transition.
* Develop your abilities and communication and leadership skills.
* Make a meaningful and supportive contribution to the 7 Cups community.
* Gain valuable experience and personal growth that will help you in your own life and career.
Requirements to be a Transition Supporter
* Be an Adult Listener
* No behavior reports in the last 3 months
* Listener Level: Helper or above (3800+ cheers)
Ready to make a difference? Apply today by filling out our application form: Transition Supporter Application [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeGnIiJmiNHnuZmR0H3vXbQb-Cz3CmDq4LnrtGdPYO1vCJ6XQ/viewform]
Please share this post with anyone who might be interested in becoming a Teen Transition Supporter.
We look forward to hearing from you! If you have any questions? Feel free to comment below or send us a message.
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* If you are an adult-teen listener, you can apply to be a teen transition mentor [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/TeenTransitioningMentoringProgram_2492/ApplytobecomeaTeenTransitioningMentorhere_271407/]
* If you are a teen, share & celebrate your birthday with us [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/General_2532/NewBirthdayform_324428/]
* If you are about to transition or transitioned, submit a transition support request here! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform]or share in this aging-up support thread [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AgingUpSupport_1766/AgingUpSupportThread_216653/]
@Heather225 @Amy @SirenofSerenity @Soulsings @Dystopiatae95 @wishfulWillow6962
Teen Transitioning Mentors Reviews: 2022
by FrenchToast
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August 30th, 2022
August 30th, 2022
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Hi everyone!! We will be using this forum thread to celebrate the reviews for our hard-working and lovely Teen Transitioning mentors for the year of 2022! Please do join in me in celebrating and congratulating them ❤️
If you wish to review your TTM mentor, click here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfpc3h95OsmaEaSahLka_5f5BvvWSYbbH3Ofy804l0LsGb4iA/viewform]!
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This post is brought to you by the Teen Transitioning Program. Please read about it here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/AgingUpSupportRequestWearehereforyou_216566/].
Apply to become a Teen Transitioning Mentor here!
by FrenchToast
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August 26th, 2022
August 26th, 2022
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Hi everyone! As you all know, we recently ramping up the Teen Transitioning Mentor team using our Welcome to Uptown [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/WelcometoUptown_254225/] project to help those teens that are aging up to the adult side of 7 Cups soon. The process of aging up can be overwhelming with all the changes that happen on the site. The team's goal is to ensure that the teens are aware that support is available to them during this transition period.
To best assist teens in their transition period, you should be aware of the following:
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How the aging up process is on 7 Cups
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Logistics around the process and the changes that come with switching sides
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Why aging up can be hard
What are the requirements:
- Verified Listener Badge [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/NewAdditionalCriteriaToBecomeVerifiedListenerGoingLive_230276/]
- Be an adult (18+)
- No serious behavior reports in the past 3 months
- Must be an Adult-Teen Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/ApplytobeanAdultTeenListenerHereUpdated_214321/1/] (ATL) for at least a month
- Those in a leadership role already will be given preference!
- Have aged up on the website before (Have the Evolution badge) - This is optional!
Some notes to keep in mind:
- This role is available to only ATLs as they are the only ones that can interact with teens.
- The team reserves the right to remove any mentor on any basis, well within reason. It can be based on inactivity, unprofessionalism, etc.
- Each role entails a month-long trial that follows the training. You will be trained initially and then put on a trial so both you and the team can create an understanding of each others' work style.
- Please be mindful of how much time you can dedicate to the role. We have requirements for this role that need to be fulfilled and will only be possible if you are active.
General expectations from all the roles:
- Always be open to feedback, be it positive or constructive. We strive on the feedback we are given and will take every opportunity we can to become better.
- The roles will require consistent involvement
- Quick learner and a team player
- Must be comfortable leading group discussions for the team
- Be a proactive guide to all our teens so they can transition smoothly
- Be flexible and ready to adapt to different needs that you might come around to face
- Deliver a good response time to teen mentees. It is recommended that you reply to mentees within 3 days/72 hours.
- Please review our leadership position guidelines: https://tinyurl.com/ybeze92s [https://tinyurl.com/ybeze92s]
(Note: For all the applicants selected for the role of Teen Transitioning Mentor, the Chat Support training is a must to take as the Chat Support training is now Compulsory for all mentors)
If you would like to join the team, please fill out this application form ⇨ HERE [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfoPnC0iqqydNkRnRH3efPj0I-_QNBpyyetBdn6SumrPkabfw/viewform]. If you meet the necessary requirements, we will reach out to you with more information regarding training.
(Updated by @amazingNutella24 on 26/03/22 to add in the CS training compulsory requirement)
(Updated by @FrenchToastClub on 11/21/22 to remove listener 3 month requirement)
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This post is brought to you by the Teen Transitioning Program. Please read about it here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/AgingUpSupportRequestWearehereforyou_216566/].
Teen Transitioning Program Testimonials
by FrenchToast
Last post
August 20th, 2022
August 20th, 2022
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Hi everyone! This is a place where I will post testimonials submitted by our mentees. If you would like your testimonial to be featured here, please fill this form! [https://forms.gle/6dFcpWLwhcm9s3y4A]
Interested in reaching out to a teen transitioning mentor? Request one here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform].
Please do not post in this thread!
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This post is brought to you by the Teen Transitioning Program. Please read about it here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/AgingUpSupportRequestWearehereforyou_216566/].
Teen Transitioning Mentors FAQs
by FrenchToast
Last post
October 7th, 2021
October 7th, 2021
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Hi everyone! I wanted to post all bout the teen transitioning mentors we have here on 7 Cups. Aging up can be hard but we are here for you. We now have specialized mentors to support those that are going to age up soon. They are here to be a guide into the adult side as things change and new rules get implemented.
How does it work?
It's quite simple. Fill out a form to request a mentor and they will reach out to you in 2-3 days to help you with the process.
What can teen transition mentors do?
They can help you understand what's different on the adult side. They can answer any questions you may have about what's on the adult side. They can also assist you with navigating the site once you age up as well as with ATL applications and expectations. So, basically, they're your buddy through the whole process.
Who can seek support?
Anyone who is about to age up within a year or less. But we really support everyone with aging up!
What are my other options?
We will continue to host discussions, events, icebreakers so that you get the chance to be familiar with our mentors and expectations. We also have the aging up process which will provide you information. This forum area [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/] is where all the gold is!
How can I request a mentor?
By filling this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfed4W09cnD4vPH09z7GRdrs64Jlu_qzavj6DHRF9oWGEFT5Q/viewform] out, please only fill it out if you are requiring assistance with aging up. Only those requests will be taken!
If you have any questions, concerns, queries about our project, please PM me and I will be happy to iron it out ❤️
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This post is brought to you by the Teen Transitioning Program. Please read about it here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/AdultTeenListenersAgingUpSupport_1766/AgingUpSupportRequestWearehereforyou_216566/].