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A Letter to the Disappeared Listener.

User Profile: SoulwithGoals
SoulwithGoals July 13th, 2025

Context:- I had a listener, who helped me a lot. Let me call her AV, coz that was the starting letters of her username. She once wanted to take a break and then informed me.. her account disappeared. Later she again came back.

But later, her account disappeared again. This time she didn't say anything and she is probably not the type to do this. So I believe there was some issue either in her account getting banned(which I don't think so) or something.

About the Listener: She is a great person. She kept things formal, but always turned up. She genuinely helped me. She probably was an aspiring therapist. Not many therapists are good, and she wanted to change that. Despite her own struggles she chose to help people and even me. She is a beautiful angel.

A Letter to AV:

Hi AV Ma'am,

I hope you are doing good. I am grateful for everything you've done even now. You were the first listener who was ready to help me with my specific issue, and also helped me in all the strategies. You tryly are one of the best listeners out here, and I do miss you.

I hope you are doing good now, both physically and mentally. You were facing few issues, but I hope you are doing better now. May God always guide you and bless you. Thank you for everything you've done. I will always be grateful for the support you gave me in my dark times.

Idk if you will ever return. I waited for a while before writing this letter. I am not sure if you'll return. But whether you return or not, I pray that may God guide you and be with you.

Once again I am very Thankful to you.❤️

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User Profile: CalmRosebud
CalmRosebud July 13th, 2025

@SoulwithGoals

Hi, Soul,

I truly hope AV sees your heartfelt and sincere letter.

I’ve had similar experiences myself on my member account of missing some people who became particularly special to me. Since I understand they are listening from the kindness of their heart, I have let any expectations go.

As a listener, I’ve also had to limit some conversations because living in the real world, with all its duties and expectations, has got in the way of volunteering to listen.

Maybe AV will see your letter, maybe not.

At least you tried to reach out, and it’s obvious you have nothing but the kindest wishes for them.

Take care.

I hope you are well.

Love and Courage,

Bud

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User Profile: SoulwithGoals
SoulwithGoals OP July 13th, 2025

Thank you very much for your words.

Yes, it is necessary that we let our expectations go. Only then can it be actually healthy. Life has different events so we can't have unrealistic expectations. We must be content and grateful for what each has to offer at the moment.

Btw, your username is quite unique and good.

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