My husband just walked out
My husband and I had a huge fight about putting my 10 yo son to bed on time. He started calling me really horrible names so I tried to turn over and ignore him then he grabbed me and started screaming at me. Then he just packed his things and calmly left. Before he walked out he said to tell our son he said goodbye. I am at a loss, he has always threatened to leave during some of worst fights but this time he did. I didn't try to stop, I figure he needs space. But what if that's it? He just left us for good....
@indigoTalker6349
I am sorry you are dealing with this. How are you doing? Are you ready to face new things?
It could be he is serious and this is it or just a trial run to see how you react. Either way if he is gone or if he wants to repair it is going to be a lot of work for both of you. It is clear if a pattern of unresolved or circle disagreements or fights you really may need to examine what you want and how you communicate with each other and if you both see a future. Love or amount of time spent in a relationship, even kids do not repair anything broken.
We Cannot change others, only ourselves. We can examine how we interact with others and if we are able to finally address all that we have ignored or just hoped would resolve on its own.
